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sorceryofthetesticle/r/askTRP11/03/16 09:51 AM
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For the purposes of this sub, it applies to personal relationships a lot more clearly. Chaotic, ineffective people latch on to disciplined, rigid, effective people. Of course male strength and rigidity is the draw for women. It's the same for weak men; they crave leadership, either by overbearing women or strict male bosses/friends. Men here ought to meditate on this.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 10:21 PM
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Oh man. It is so hard to climb out of a nihilistic or relativist worldview. You're so easily exploited and bossed around by people who see things in black and white, who are unwilling to consider alternatives etc. Good luck to everyone who sees this in themselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 10:13 PM
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Every relationship is a business relationship. Thanks OP
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:24 PM
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'Because a domestic woman can improve your life so much your Frame will be shattered.' The sad truth. They become mommy and you their little baby.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:00 AM
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"I'm too smart for ____." = "I'm too stupid to realize that smarts aren't the problem."
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 09:15 PM
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What if you're in your early 30s and useful to everyone but yourself?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:41 AM
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In an attraction context, behave as others hurts you. In a context where expressing your real opinions about things unrelated to the task at hand is of no benefit to you (like talking about politics at work), then behaving like others lets you get your shit done with minimal conflict.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 06:25 PM
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Advice lists are the preferred do-nothing, feel-good pastime for drug addicts who are distraught about their shitty life at 3AM in the morning. When I stopped writing self-help lists to other turds on the internet, my life got way better.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 01:34 AM
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Wrong again! The real academics work for Tampon Corp and have convinced the beta labrat underling workforce to wear testosterone shredding nitrile gloves. Might as well change your name to InvoluntarySickCuck bro, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 07:01 AM
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If all you want is a milkshake and you find yourself answering seemingly irrelevant questions on paternal employment. Things aren't strange funny or silly. You just haven't made the correct deductions. I hope the next Red Pill you find is an editor. Nice content, though.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:10 PM
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If your bank has online banking, you can probably pay your bill online. You might also be able to set a limit for how much you can spend every month with your credit card. They aren't bad if you limit your spending. Starting out, I used mine exclusively for grocery shopping and paid the balance off in full every month with the cash I would have used for groceries anyway. It's real hard to fuck up if you use it like that. It's all really not that big of a deal. Don't sweat it, just pay close atte…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 05:20 AM
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You're spot on. Now that you understand that, I think it's important to be aware of the most insidious opportunity AND sunk cost, inflation. using this calculator: https://www.bls.gov/data/inflation_calculator.htm You can see how much the value of your dollar declines due to the inflation of currency supply. eg, In the past 10 years, the dollar has effectively lost 20% of its purchasing power. Let's tie that back in to your scenario, where you want to save for a house.While you save, you can exp…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:20 PM
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There is an opportunity cost to using cash for everything and holding cash long term. You have to use debt to stay on top of inflation and pricing that has credit card fees baked into it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:33 AM
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Read up on opportunity cost and sunk cost.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:27 AM
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The tard upvotes are just there to remind you not to be a credulous fool.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:58 AM
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Thank you for the advice, it really helped. I gave them 3 weeks, said I was leaving for personal/health reasons (not a lie) and then found some freelance work to fill in while I look for a new job. They were sad to see me go and have already contacted me to ask if I'd be willing to come back in the future or to work for their sister company. I said "not right now, but let's keep in contact."
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 05:59 AM
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I quit, now doing freelance stuff and pinching pennies while I look for more jobs.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 05:54 AM
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It's basically the same change in attitude as before/after a girl gets boned out by her first Chad.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 05:50 AM
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Lol. "They all fuck the same," does not mean "you want to fuck them the same."
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:26 PM
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That is me. I am the doormat at my job and I get paid like shit (<30k) to carry the team. I literally put in twice the work and have four times the experience as people who get paid a dollar less than me. It's taken me away from the gym because I'm exhausted and sick all the time. My weekends and nights are 100% recovery from abusing my body for somebody else, and nobody in the company gives a shit or asks how my life is going. Fuck this, I have to quit.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:05 AM
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What if you are pathologically un-selfish? inject tren and lift 2x harder?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:02 AM
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You need another edge besides persistence, trust me. Me and my good friend would shamelessly approach and talk to most eligible-looking women, but had no personality or social awareness to speak of. I don't know how many times I personally saw him get rejected, upwards of 50. I'd tell him basic game ideas, but he never got beyond the "I want to fuck you but don't know how to escalate" lingering bullshit. Eventually he had to whore his provider status out on OKC just to get dates with women. Now …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:44 PM
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Got sources for any o that?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:03 PM
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Improve yourself and become virtuous, bone a nice lady to make kids (3 or more), make sure the kids don't get brainwashed, work in your community to espouse your values and provide support for the children of less fortunate or virtuous parents. It is exhausting, that is why nobkdy wants to do it. But really, it's all about kids. Adults are mostly already fucked, but kids are programmable and resilient. They are the future.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 06:35 PM
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Women are like children Still this amazes me. I have babysat friend's toddlers a few times. The stupid games they play to outwit you are the SAME ones that women play. They even react the same when you call them out for it - shit eating grin > cute-sounding excuse > blame you > change the subject. It's funny once or twice, but some women abuse the fuck out of it worse than toddlers.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:17 PM
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A man who can reason over trifles... The people you listed were/are not triflers. They figured out how to work their asses off to achieve goals against unimaginable odds. Ranting about your 6 pack on TRP is most definitely trifling.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:44 AM
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her ""Testing" his mettle is a sign of a woman who is brainwashed and who is corrupted in the worst way. And such behavior ultimately has to be bred out for the good of mankind Ahhhh yes. It's not genetically rooted behavior, but we should breed it out. It all makes sense now.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:24 AM
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Be that high quality man who doesn't let a wee little girl get under her skin. heh
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 12:57 AM
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Consider yourself fortunate. It's a lot of fucking work to force surface level social interactions and seem genuinely interested and engaged. It's the most frustrating part of the pill for us autists, by a long margin. It's like, if this is about business, then let's talk business and be done with it. I hate the annoying push-pull 'jerk you off so you can jerk me off and then maybe we'll get something worthwhile done' dance. At least with women, your body says 'hey, it feels good to hit on this …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 10:59 AM
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If it's not helping, then why are you here? You have to go do shit because just reading isn't going to do anything for you. I reiterate, go lift or work for money OR practice talking to people. There, 3 things you can do right now that will help you. If you don't do them, you're a faggot.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:13 AM
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Lol. Quit whining and either go lift or work for money. You sure as fuck won't find/earn a mentor complaining on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 04:56 AM
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Further reading: 'Tense Present' by David Foster Wallace.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 07:53 PM
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Valentine's day is great. You get to work, lift, cold approach and then do whatever else you want, just like every other day.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 07:49 PM
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Mind sharing your experience? I'm in the process of getting my plane off the ground and it all seems so insurmountable and pointless.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:08 PM
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She uses symbols of SMV and social status to evaluate you, not the real thing. The fundament of marketing and manipulation in general. It's worth explaining that EVERYONE (including you, dear TRP reader) relies on limited symbols to evaluate arbitrary scales of value like SMV. People who understand these symbols and can employ them creatively are the people who best affect the people around them. Thanks for the post, quality content here.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:44 PM
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I doubt Strauss even gives a shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 01:37 AM
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You should go lift instead. Ashley Judd is nobody. If you waste your time thinking about her bullshit, then so are you.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:05 PM
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Lakoff's a goofy prick, but his method to map source and target domains in metaphor is an indispensible exercise for close reading. I never thought to apply it to relationship dynamics, but it's exactly what you have to be able to do in order to maintain your frame. Great post wankalot.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:27 AM
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There ain't much else. Paying attention covers basically everything. If you can manage to stay present and aware of what's happening around and in you, then everything else - relationships, principles, goals, motivations, spirituality, 'true desires,' etc - takes shape. "There must be more" is a tempting curse. I don't care if it sounds stupid and simple, it's the truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 10:35 AM
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Welcome to erf niggah. Work your ass off, pay attention, nut on bitches, then die
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:28 AM
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Hey, thanks for reading. I'm more of a solitary guy so I've tended toward a tight social circle... a handful of close friends with whom my "unfiltered self" jives for whatever reason; we can tell good stories to each other, check in often and make dinner or go on a hike, share our struggles and help each other out, etc. Everyone else I talk to regularly is either a work or hobby friend, or family, with varying degrees of intimacy. Toward the end of monk mode I had a bunch of contacts from new ac…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:19 AM
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A year long monk mode was the best thing I ever did for myself. It started out as a frustrated 'I have no idea how to get laid and when I do things go sour FAST so I may as well stop trying' kind of deal. So, I focused almost completely on improvement. I quit video games, cut back on porn, learned a trade, started and sustained my lifting habit, read a fuckton of books (and RP almost every day), picked back up a couple hobbies that are important to me. I lived with a BP couple and got to witness…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:48 PM
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Happened to me recently, chick "didn't know" and even tried to tell me with a cute lilt in her voice, 'maybe you already had it, so it's not really my fault exactly!" I got a hatefuck in and then ghosted her, god damn sluts IME, chicks aren't too skeezed out if you tell them straight up and that you're on meds. A couple have have said no thanks, but oh well. Then again, you're not obligated to tell them in the first place, so it's not really a big deal unless you want an LTR or something.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:50 PM
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There are few consequences for doing it and it's very easy to meet new people. It is a sign of abundance.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:17 PM
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An overlooked habit for good sleep hygiene is to wake up and get out of bed at the same time every day, even if you have a late night. Your body adjusts and you eventually get tired around the same time every night (assuming you have other good habits like no stimulants late in the day, minimal artificial light at night, adequate exercise etc.)
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:58 PM
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You just say it matter of fact, maybe with a smirk, and calmly leave like you're gonna go do shit that interests you more than she does.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:12 AM
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Post of the year material, mods please sticky.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 09:32 AM
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Forget half-baked philosophy, you need to learn how to proofread and edit.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 10:54 AM
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*#DudeBroReadingComprehension
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:28 PM
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Relax. Trp is propaganda that is carefully designed to balance the impotent, uncertain, obsequious attitude that a lot of its readers have wrt women. The best way to do that is to overshoot a more reasonable and nuanced approach with jarring, absolute concepts that a. Get results b. Give the reader an easy conceptual system to make decisions from c. Keep the reader from making decisions that are bad for him wrt women. Over time, the reader's conceptual system gets fleshed out through experience,…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 07:19 PM
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Treat praise like a shit test: (graciously) see it for the empty thing it is and take it as encouragement to keep hustling. Thanks op
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 11:09 AM
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Just try it. You're a bigass buck with beautiful, imposing antlers and you're surrounded by timid, nonthreatening does.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 08:35 PM
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That's the spirit. "It's not hard, you're just a pussy."
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 10:54 PM
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Elaboration for the stimulant section: Caffeine acutely raises dopamine release and lowers dopamine reuptake (in different areas of the brain). If you have motivation/perseverance problems and you also take caffeine, QUIT THAT SHIT. Coffee is for closers (people who can put in the effort to get shit done without chemical assistance).
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:57 AM
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Thanks NRS. Way to use your own language to describe what amounts to 'mindfulness.' Terms like that are loaded; people have heard the term, and while they probably don't understand on an experience level what it refers to, they still think they know what it means and avoid doing it, opting instead for the satisfaction of recognition. "Oh yeah, I've heard of that, it's just..." Nice rhetoric, man; making people slow down.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 03:33 AM
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One thing I hate about sales is that you have to tell the same story over and over and over and over, with minor edits depending on the audience. Even you've done it in this post... You restate almost every point three to four times. I get that this is how sales work and it's an effective way to leave an impression on people, but I cannot get past the reality of the experience. Isn't it uninteresting? Do you actually enjoy telling the story, or enjoy re-selling to yourself the reality of sales?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 08:26 AM
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Yep. Bluest collar imaginable, grew up poor as dirt. Upper class shittests are pretending to believe libtard nonsense. Reminds me of the "world problems" scene in American Psycho. Thanks for the distinction, never thought about it that way.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 09:18 PM
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The ole one upmanship and advice-that-is-actually-bragging game. It's just a big shit test. I had a mentor who would give me all kinds of shit for doing minor things differently than he, because he learned "the right way." I thought he was serious until I finally told him to fuck off, and he just gave me a big grin and, "atta boy." The old motherfucker was just testing me. I try to keep that in mind whenever somebody else starts pulling that advice-turned-self-congratulation nonsense. Sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 07:58 AM
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do you feel like dark triad is something a man should develop? If you read enough TRP literature, you will automatically find yourself on the precipice of becoming dark triad. It's not something you develop in yourself, so much as something you learn to embrace. In response to the "amorality" of sexual strategy, it is a short step to think about all moral prescriptions as existing on a descriptive, amoral continuum. Along with this, you begin to see the transactional nature of all relationships,…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 09:21 PM
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Everybody I know who is an entrepeneur complains like all hell. I still can't figure out what the fuck the point is when all these people do is work and get sideways about the minutia of whatever the hell it is they do.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 08:52 AM
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Because some of these people are hoes; ain't worth more than to shove their face in the dirt and till the land with their jaw. You know, for sowing your seed. HOES
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 11:41 PM
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Accurate like this: are you sure that what you value as intelligent (maybe verbal fluency in specific subjects, ability to make highly abstract connections, ability to articulate logical thinking... Whatever) is an accurate gauge of "intelligence?" I know a handful of girls who don't meet my personal criteria for intelligence (and who act ditzy at times) but I would consider them undoubtedly intelligent, perceptive and interesting. Think artistic women or athletic women or foreign women who don'…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 12:49 AM
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You've got a very limited way of seeing things that suggests you're either inexperienced or deliberately ignorant. By all means go for whoever gets you excited, but maybe also ask yourself if your expectations for intelligence or enjoyability are even 'accurate' or 'useful.'
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 11:26 PM
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Use your autism on something more productive, guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 12:44 PM
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I'm glad it spoke to you, man. Moments of effortless enjoyment (whatever that may be for you) are what it's all about, imo. Good luck on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:53 AM
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Good observation OP, it highlights the importance of inner game, or better put, doing whatever suits you at the moment. Let me illustrate: I imagine a lot of recovering guys on trp will remember times when they were hanging out with their oneitis girlfriend wondering "She's not doing or saying anything, she has this blank look on her face... Did I fuck up somehow? Maybe I should ask if she's okay..." In reality, she was probably just spacing out and passively enjoying the moment which is what mo…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 01:58 AM
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Dude, conspiracy theory is mythology, nothing more. There are gaps and inconsistencies in how we understand the information that we're provided. Some people take it upon themselves to "figure out" reductive narratives that make those gaps and inconsistencies "make sense." Think Zeus throwing lightning bolts, or God flooding a wicked earth, or all women being like that. 'Decades-long, focused orchestration of global tyranny' is a very compelling story to convey the idea that the world is imbalanc…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 09:54 AM
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Nice quote. Valuing reality is a curse.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:24 AM
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Showing up and doing the thing regularly is 99% of the process. Extra theorizing, planning, goal setting etc. contribute very little that can't be plainly understood as a result of just working on it or asking teachers. In fact these often become procrastination or avoidance mechanisms for me. This applies everywhere; lifting, game, work, hobbies, you name it. All you really have to do is show up, put in focused work, find good teachers and then wait.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:21 AM
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"Make your own life decisions and learn to quiet all of the outside pressure in your life." But how? When you never learned to decide for yourself, there is no reference for knowing and getting "what you want." Instead you occupy this non-commital, descriptive, self-conscious space where everything is the same to you. It doesn't matter and your decisions don't matter because all resulting consequences are the same, impact wise, on your experience (ie, you still hate yourself no matter what). Wha…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:10 AM
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Let's all keep in mind, ineffective men share these same characteristics. If you notice them in yourself, you know what to do. Thanks for the post.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 02:51 AM
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Thanks man, I'm going to meditate about what you've told me and make that a habit.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 05:53 AM
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This is my struggle and I keep fucking it up. What kind of thoughts do you use to fight it man? I get into these situations all the time and it seems random if I'm able to handle it, even if I try to tell myself something that worked before.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 10:39 AM
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Solid, man. In my experience, your awareness of 3,4,5 come about through the struggle to attain 1 and 2. Put differently, the ways you solve the problems of food, shelter, sex, protection, etc. define the kind of relationships you're likely to make, the respect you earn, the mastery you want to achieve. 'Self actualization' is really just intimate awareness of yourself as a result of figuring out solutions to 1, 2, then 3,4,5. Like you said, our misguided attempts to focus on 3,4,5 will always f…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:52 PM
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Divorce and child support laws aside: Children are highly underrated. If you don't make your own, then spend time with your friends' kids, because they are awesome. Kids are the ultimate frame builder. They test you on the same shit over and over and over until you figure out how to acknowledge their behavior and deflect it with supreme dgaf (the same method works on women). If you're shitty or act passive-aggressive to get your way with kids, then it shows and they act out (just like with women…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:55 AM
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All the myths about the power of orgasm (eg. Succubuses killing men by drawing their energy out through sex/orgasm) weren't mere superstition. Orgasm is a powerful, powerful thing. Thanks for your perspective, I've experienced similar things when I don't ejaculate.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 07:30 PM
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That last one is the best. "What about Chad, the guy who you say you hate all the time?" With a huge grin and faux squinty eyes, "Ew no he's like such a jerrrrk!" Fuckin lol. Thanks Op, nice method to remind yourself of the truths.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 08:33 PM
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If you deadlift a lot, you're probably jacked. If you aren't jacked, at least you're strong as fuck. You just can't lose, really.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:47 AM
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A lot of this sounds like thirsty mate guarding that somehow isn't 'thirsty mate guarding.' How do you make that one happen?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 07:38 PM
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Will do. Does this help ankle flexibility or work around the issue, though?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:04 PM
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GLO, I'm on Stronglifts. Everything is great except I have squat form problems. My ankles are so inflexible that I have to stand my heels on a 45# plate to APPROACH parallel without hinging forward like I'm doing a deadlift. How do I fix my fucking ankles?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 08:23 PM
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Ahhh yes, TRP is finally reaching the stage where we will have discussions about the succesful practice of amoral worldviews. Imo a succesful (for the user) implementation of 'amorality' mostly hinges on accurate expected value analysis. Consequences are all that matter, if anything matters al all. To whit, it's a BIG problem if everyone behaves with only short term, egocentric consequences in mind. Pretty soon trp is going to consciously discover the real importance of religion/social construct…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:19 AM
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100% agree. The battle is about symbols and it always has been. There is a reason one of the 10 commandments is "don't have any graven images before me:" when you spend a lot of time with (worship) other people's symbols and modes of relating to said symbols, you are subject to all the subtle, hidden psychological shit that accompanies them. These days, secularism is the best, most convenient way to decouple people from the symbols they were raised with so that new ones can be implanted and expl…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 11:30 PM
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Turkey holds those 2.1 million back partly as leverage to get accepted into the eu/get visa free travel for its citizens. It's not like they just took them in out of the goodness of their hearts. Also, no saudi arabia? Qatar? UAE? Hmmm
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 11:32 PM
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It doesn't. It's like 95% inefficient to spend the time reading it, and if productive ends are your goal, it's best to gloss over and recognize as junkfood. Honestly it's not that much worse than trp as aggregate, but the mystical aspect can really trip you up if you're into stories. The point was, that shit can happen to anyone. Just because you are incredulous and busy now, doesn't mean you're immune from getting so far up your own ass that you begin to think like NRS when isolation and inacti…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:00 PM
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He's old (50'+), intelligent, unemployed or retired, has a lot of time, probably has a broken body and reads a fuckton of esoteric/mystical/alternative narratives. The dude has no reason to be ship shape to 'work' in the real world (or with women) and I doubt he even tries, because he doesn't have to. I know many an old man just like NRS (my father included) who used to have careers, families, hobbies and beliefs that focused their incessant drive to analyze and problem solve. Once they retired,…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:42 PM
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If you have any sort of attention to detail, all women are nothing special. There are always details that, when noticed together, paint a disappointing picture. Learn to spot them and every woman is a 5. On this note, spend time looking at art/design in museums and retail stores. Even the most sleek, 'beautiful' designs (let's say stuff like apple products) have features that underwhelm. Tune into this and the skill will translate into everything... Women, career, things you buy, your self impro…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:06 PM
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Don't call your mother a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:43 AM
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Yeah, demands don't work when you have no leverage and have no idea who you're making demands to. You can't demand shit from women because they aren't the cause of the problem. The reason they don't commit is a few fold: the state has promised to bail women out when their marriages fail, and the state has been compelled to streamline this process/lower the failure criteria. There is an institutionalized ideology that trains women's inclination to anxiety onto men as the source of said anxiety. A…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 06:35 AM
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You have to earn pride through the actions you take to express sexuality. That's why any populist sexual pride movement is stupid, because people just show up uncontested, welcomed even, and declare 'victory.' Retarded. There is no pride in showing up to an overblown picnic to declare something about your sex drive to imagined aggressors.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 10:39 PM
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Yes, because that's the typical range when girls reached sexual maturity. The range is slowly being shifted younger; an ever increasing percentage ( iirc in some regions it's roughly 15% as opposed to <5% historically) of girls begin menstruation (and breast development, adult fat deposition...) by the time they're 10.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:00 AM
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Interesting, my experience is similar. One ex is now a full on dyke. Most of the women I've been with are athletic and not classically feminine, half are 'bi.' I've approached so many girls who turned out to be lesbian/bi that I almost expect it now.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 09:26 AM
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Thanks for the list. Imo, you've got to add the Bible in there. A surprising amount of western literary symbolism relates to it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:00 AM
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You're already beneath her. Read the sidebar, lift, get your shit together and disregard. That's the only way to win.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 06:31 PM
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"Woe is me, I'm too good for the women around me so they don't appreciate me and my interests and just bail on me." Along comes ambiguously gay dude who shares x passion with op, they hang out and it is uniquely fun and intimate because gay dude not only vibes with op on an interest level (and probably intellectual level) but is also seducing op with kino and flirtation and other escalations. "Hmm this bro I'm hanging out with is pretty cool, we nerd out about everything. It's kind of weird that…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:09 AM
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This is it. For a while I had terrible sucess with women even though I'm doing well for myself and have a good looking body/face. As soon as I stopped being so polite, accomodating, attentive, supplicating.... women started to stick around longer. It was a bummer for a while, but I guess that's life.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:46 AM
2

Still can't get on board with that even though the taper isn't so dramatic. The rolled up hem is goofy. Plus you couldn't do shit in those things, they'd bunch up in the crotch and stick to your legs if you did anything more than walk at a leisurely pace, which is supremely annoying. Why restrict your ability to move? There are simply better short pant options. And lol, homedog needs a new belt. It has nothing to do with the rest of the outfit, it looks flimsy and it's way too long. What the fuc…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 09:38 PM
10

Tapered thigh shorts are fucking ugly. They are just as bad as capris in that they offer no discernible shape. Ugly near skin-tight abominations of fashion that belong on women. I don't care if they are trendy or help you get laid, they are straight up faggy. Even baggy 90s style shorts are more interesting. At least those are useful and offer better airflow. For style, slightly short Bermudas are where it's at though. Get to show off your quads and everything, they aren't so goddamn hot, and yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:23 AM
2

It's mostly used to mock people who compromise their beliefs or view of themselves for the benefit of their enemies. eg. 'cuckservatives,' 'carl the cuck.' I've never seen women talking about it like it's a good thing outside of fetish contexts.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:03 AM
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It's a neologism derived from the term 'cuckold.' Basically apply the non-fetish concept of a cuckold as a metaphor for betas/orbiters, or, more generally, for easily manipulated schmucks who give up their worth for nothing and don't effectively defend themselves from people who would take from them. Great word, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 06:10 AM
75

All I have is laughter for the moms and tears for their poor children. Maybe you should have listened to your elders, you prideful idiots. Also, lol at "We share daily aspirations of power." The poor kid is going to get dragged into every embarassing, delusional, pointless power trip this woman takes him on. Really sad
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 12:46 AM
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Libido is the secret to power over you. That this sub exists, that women automatically know how to leverage sex for commitment, that porn (visual sexuality in general ie. sexualized advertisements and tv shows) is so huge... These should all be signals about the power of libido. Think about the act of watching porn in red pill terms: you sit comfortably, load up some videos or whatever, and then drop your own frame. For however long it takes to crank one out, you then put yourself in other peopl…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 05:26 PM
6

Not so fast. If we can observe that certain behaviors and beliefs beget certain consequences, and we prefer those consequences, what is fallacious about developing approaches to get them? You can observe if your approach achieves the end you want and adjust from there. Maybe his post was inelegantly worded (his labeling triggers anti-essentialist/anti objective thoughts), but it's pretty clear he's arguing for an empirical teleological understanding of ethics. Contrast this with something like m…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:48 AM
6

It all makes sense, but this ought to be stressed: the type of woman who will 'work' for the relationship that you've described is RARE. You're asking for us to find women who are intelligent and strong willed enough to understand (and act on, against biology and immense cultural pressure) the value of long term thinking. That in itself is uncommon, but keep in mind: that mindset is not taught anymore, it is virtually obsolete even to people who understand it. There is no apparent need to practi…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 08:28 AM
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For fuck's sake what a bunch of fags.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:51 AM
3

Oh man that's tough, all those things go so well with a sixpack. Lifting and sports are good for hanging out without drinking. Tinkering on your toys can be, but you have to make the focus about tinkering instead of socializing, booze and some tinkering. The fact that he wont come out unless there's booze (and that you're thinking about nexting him anyway) makes it hard/almost pointless though. Have you tried straight talking him while hanging out? Something like, "hey bro, tell me about your da…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:38 AM
4

Invite him to do things at night that don't involve drinking.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:45 AM
3

Complain abouy how nobody gives a shit about me to anybody who will listen. Obvious.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 07:18 PM
1

Absolutely, thanks for the links. I'm a big fan of Mencius Moldbug's concept of 'the cathedral,' have you read any of his work?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 08:44 PM
5

'There is less and less room for woo-woo stuff that most religions promote.' Then why is the blue pill so popular? It is all woo and it replaced christianity! The woowoo stuff fills an inherent need, there will always be a considerable amount in any generalized narrative, including science (scientism at the expense of spirituality is woo in the other direction).
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 10:46 AM
9

He got loaded on bath salts and masturbated with a brillo pad.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:57 PM
1

I've got insulin insensitivity. I was on a normal weightlifting diet, appropriate macros, lots of veggies amd fiber, and became prediabetic/pre-metabolic syndrome. Since starting keto, blood sugar, inflammation and lipids are back in healthy ranges now so maybe I'll slowly ramp up carb intake to see what happens. Micros are all normal, got a blood test last month. I live a pretty austere lifestyle, there's not much to add. One of my nuts is underdeveloped so I've got that going for me too (the d…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:01 PM
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I do all these things (except for a strict keto diet) and my test is 300. Been depressed ever since puberty, even though my life is 'great' and I work hard. Sometimes you just have shitty genes.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 07:51 PM
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Oh man. You definitely know something is off. The sex is awful, she has vaginismus. She shudders when you touch her sexually but when you ask what's up, 'nothing's wrong (and with a smile!), maybe it's your fault you feel that way! It's your depression!' or 'I'm just tired.' She's so friendly to other men, she laughs at their jokes and gives them a special, charming smile that you never get to see. It goes on and on, the details are all miniscule but there are thousands. If you can't connect the…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:02 AM
5

Lines up with reproductive strategy. They seek quality, and how else do you discern quality but through lengthy study?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:45 AM
3

I see what you mean... Too deliberate is unnatural. Maybe deliberate was too ambiguous. I mean something more like discerning; you want to be able to decide what warrants your 'ownership.' That ability is what sets you apart from busybodies like in op's example.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:14 AM
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Too much ownership presence is beta. Be careful and deliberate with that one.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 03:58 AM
8

When women have the vote, yes.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:10 AM
1

Yeah, if I had standards, a lot would have been different. Alas. Good call on the gender traitor perspective, that's the second most regrettable part of being bluepill, a real hard habit to break too when you never had strong friendships growing up. Incidentally, one of the boyfriends who had been cheated on (and knew I was getting cucked) sidled up to me right when I pieced it all together after seeing her flirt/kino with a random bar dude one night. He put his hand on my shoulder and soothingl…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 04:43 AM
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The issue was how everyone focused on the end result of self esteem. The logic was, "if self esteem is so important, then why don't we make all children feel good about themselves. Kids feel good about themselves when we praise them, therefore if we always praise kids, they will have lots of self esteem!" Self esteem is actually developed through hard work, failure, and overcoming failure, so the "always reward no matter what" mentality missed the mark entirely. It's functionally the same as the…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 05:08 PM
1

If they have no active sores, there is no way to know until you end up with a surprise on your dick and/or mouth. My surprise happened a year into the relationship, but I hamstered it away... "Maybe she already had it and didn't know..." I wish I could throw the redpill book at myself and slap myself around for considering anything more than a pump and dump with her; she had all the red flags except for overt craziness, and freely admitted them at the start... But I was stubborn and as blue as t…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:27 PM
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Can confirm. An ex used to tell me about her 'friends' and their cheating schemes. We'd laugh and I'd thank my stars I had such a virtuous girl (for fuck's sake). Eventually, we break up and the grapevine reveals to me that these stories were mostly autobiographical. And she gave me herpes. God damnit.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:51 AM
2

'Over 99% of climate scientists agree with the research about anthropogenic climate change, therefore xyz ought to happen.' What does the research say? 'I dunno, but the IUPAC says anthropogenic climate change is a big deal so...'
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 02:44 AM
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California is no fault. Dude is done for.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 04:50 AM
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Evolution, and basically the premise of TRP itself disproves the existence of god as religion knows it...if god really existed or if the supposed god was a benevolent god, he wouldn't have created such a miserable despicable creature as the human female. Why project your idea of what a god should do onto the god? That's such a weak argument. Also, the bible is chock full of the 'miserable, despicable' behaviors of women (and men) alike. It does nothing to pull the wool over your eyes. Think abou…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 06:45 PM
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That one's a shit test that, no matter how you handle it, you lose.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 12:13 AM
1

Great writeup. Way to use non-memetic verbiage to get the point across.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 11:38 PM
1

I've been hearing that voice lately. It is definitely a curse and a blessing. But, now I've gained immense respect for my father and grandfathers. Before, I thought they were crotchety busybody assholes, but now, I know they had the fucking voice.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 03:23 AM
2

Honestly, if you understand the narrative and know the terms, the only thing left is to go outside and do your life, and then come back and review every once in a while. You will start to see bits and pieces from what you've read.in daily life, and that will build as you keep observing how people relate (including how you relate to others). There is a folk idea on trp that you have to be 100% effortful and aware of theory at all times to grow and it's bogus. Think about anything you've learned. …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 08:55 AM
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Right, but op still has trouble differentiating between the two. To the op, you have to be patient and put yourself in situations where you might repeat your nice guy behaviors (that is, go talk to women you want to fuck). That is the critical time where learning happens. If you've read the sidebar, you will eventually be aware of where you fucked up or if you did the right thing. You've got to find your own solution there.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 01:33 AM
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That whole spiel hinges on what you understand to be a 'rational expectation.' Nice guy 'rational expectations' include logic like,"I buy this girl dinner, she sucks my dick later!" not gonna work
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 11:31 PM
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Nothing to add except thanks for the awesome post.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:04 AM
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So how did you communicate to her that you actually won't put up with her shit? How did you navigate the inevitable, "but you said you wouldn't leave me if...?" You don't just suddenly change the expectations of a relationship, and I seriously doubt you sat her down and explained this all to her clearly and rationally. So what did you do man? Great that you feel like you're doing better, but you basically just made a, "hey thanks trp, ur the best and now my life is perfect" type of post.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:15 AM
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Your mom and dad were swinging with mister 6'7 norsecock and his bimbo of a wife, weren't they?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:06 AM
2

I can second the import of timing. I took it with some friends back in my university days and it was a VERY bad idea. I was already very confused, completely unsure of myself and slowly becoming more of a self-conscious pussy (aka beta). The introspective comedown from the trip just crushed me with revelations about "how bad a person I am." Acid didn't cause that mindset, but it amplified an already unhealthy pattern of thinking, one that became the cornerstone of my depressive life for years. N…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:43 AM
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Holy fuck man. I don't know your situation, but an old roommate of mine had gnarly ulcerative colitis. He didn't like the corticosteroids so he tried out a strict whole food vegan, no processed sugars, no wheat, no gluten etc diet. It took a few months but his symptoms got better to the point that he didn't need the steroids. After a while he slowly added in things that he took out of his diet, like eggs, fish, some wheat. Some of them made the colitis flare up, so he would stop eating them, oth…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 11:25 PM
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I rewrote the above post for clarity. And I'm not arguing with you here, I'm mostly fleshing things out for myself... We probably agree on most of this. Yeah, eternal comfort is a motivation used to offset a Christian's suffering, but I think it's beside the point. Christianity doesn't make people crave perpetual comfort and happiness; that motivation is fundamental to human experience. Christianity is just a system that convinces people to delay their natural urge for comfort/happiness for a (h…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 10:16 PM
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Christianity creates a comfort and happiness focused society No. Christianity produces a highly productive, naive, fear/shame focused society. It always has. Comfort is now the focus because Christianity lost its grip and cold realists (women, psychopathic men) took maximum advantage. In a way, comfort and happiness is an intermediate religion to take Christianity's place; we worship at the altar of television, we take sacrament of oreos.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:07 PM
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Thinking way too fucking much and missing the point, man. If you're a suggestible person, but rp aware, you should go to the mall to practice your frame, figure out how stupid consumer culture is, and talk to random people. If you aren't suggestible, then who cares.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:28 PM
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They're not as clever as you think. A huge sticking point. We only think they "understand what they're doing" because we, as men, can see the system of a girl's behavior. Seeing this, we assume that women must also see and understand the system, because how/why the fuck else could somebody behave in such a (seemingly) systematic way if they weren't aware of it? Thus the thinking man games himself, classic male solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 11:44 AM
2

Yeah, the concept makes sense. It is still a surprising experience when a girl's eyes bug out as if she made a huge mistake when I admit it's been a while. Of course I no longer do this, but there you have it. If you're keen on a joke, try it on a girl, it is hilarious and very offputting to see her reaction.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:07 AM
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It's amazing how your seeming lack of success with other women is such a turn off for chicks. A lot of us were raised to believe that women don't want a scandalous manwhore. What a joke. Your experience with younger women expecting to get propositioned quick lines up with mine. Something I've noticed though is that a lot of chicks are fucking stupid at showng interest (probably because so many thirsty dudes try to get with them, so their 'fuck off'demeanor just sticks). They just expect you to b…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 05:57 AM
2

I have a mild block stutter. Still have no solution to assholes who jump at every pause to start talking about their own bullshit. Have you tried just interrupting them back aggressively once you've caught yourself? That is the next item on my list to try, because nothing else I've tried really works. Patience is not a virtue here. Speaking slowly and deliberately does help a lot though, people who are actually interested in what you have to say definitely pay better attention when you can pace …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 02:33 AM
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Nope, power dynamics and uncontrolled life events will take over and one will clearly be 'the plate.'
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 10:43 PM
1

That's a bingo. Every person I know who is oh so friendly with everyone has turned out to be a creepy narcissistic user. Fuck these people.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:35 AM
1

Thanks. I'm becoming impatient because I've started recognize people doing it, but don't really know what to do in response. I suppose it doesn't really matter, I just hate to lose. I'll just wait it out, thanks.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:19 PM
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People use powertalk to subconciously enforce their frame upon others. Learning to recognize it is the first step So this is something I get hung up on. There are a couple people I know who use powertalk almost constantly. Inserting doubt into conversations, erroneously pointing out 'mistakes' just so they can correct you/announce it to everyone for status points. Do they realize consciously that they do this? Or is it, as you said, a subconscious automatic behavior? Functionally I guess it does…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:16 PM
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DGAF, the ultimate power play? The idea is good, I'm just compelled to 'understand' power talk... Is that a mistake?
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:48 AM
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Damn bro. Virtually the same story for me. Lessons 1-4 really are crucial. Thanks for sharing your insights.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:46 PM
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I rarely orgasm the first time with a new girl, and it's not whisky dick. I have low T though, so maybe that's it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 11:32 AM
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Hard physical activity, often. Never doubt yourself, make your circumstances or people around you prove you wrong (and then learn from it). Women are among your LOWEST priorities. Money, diet, lifting, family, friends, hobbies, your general affairs, entertainment etc. Are all more important than women (if they aren't included in those things). This isn't to say they (and this really means sex) ain't important, but if you shirk on the other stuff to spend time with chicks who you want to have sex…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 03:17 AM
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At least learn to convert on your consumption- spend time learning (consuming), then use it to create value.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:49 PM
5

Holy shit, frame and game combine to form masculine elecromagnetism waves.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 12:25 AM
2

Holy shit I didn't realize the narcissist's ability to set themselves up as the winner/good guy no matter how you relate to them is pure Hegelian dialectic. Thanks for the connection man.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 01:05 AM
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There must be something in the air, I've lately been picking up on narcissism as a sort of offense-only will to power. Something that's been bugging me as I get to know more young women (age 18-25), I realize that they are almost all extremely narcissistic. Some actually are talented or succesful, but none deserve the attitude that they have. We all know why this is expected, but when you're aware of narcissism and its traits, it's still astonishing how common it is. I very much appreciate your …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 06:56 PM
2

Thanks for the post op, I've been asking myself if I'm paranoid very often lately. My instincts are dead on a lot of the time but I actively ignore them... It's such a bad, self-hating habit. It is painful; Holy fuck does it hurt to ignore your gut... It's even worse than the the reality of what it has to tell you. All the frustration and anger I had as Mr. Bux was all caused by me ignoring my fucking instincts and screwing myself over. Every time a girl gets to me now? Sure enough, my gut tried…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:14 PM
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If his wife is the breadwinner, he might get to do the raping.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:42 AM
2

And they (narcissists) compensate by lashing out/controlling people, or molding their personality and behaviors so that other people won't want to notice how shitty they really are. I've been noticing this kind of behavior in a lot of younger women (and some men) lately and it is revolting how well it works. But, once you figure out their insecurity and start pointing it out, you can REALLY get their hamster spinning. The trick is to not get sucked into their inflated image and see them for what…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:50 AM
2

All the time up to the relationship, she was fighting to secure your commitment. Now that she has your cock and balls in a knot, she no longer has to fight. For some reason this is the hardest thing to drill into your fuckin head about ANYTHING. At the start, every step of the way a chick ought to be proving herself to you. When she thinks she doesn't have to earn what you're giving her, that's when the aggressive shit tests really start; she's literally bargaining down the price of her involvem…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:37 PM
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No sources here but he's very mistaken. Afaact, minox has nothing to do with T or estrogen. Finasteride (propecia) does prevent the conversion of free T to dihydrotestosterone (a byproduct that, among other things, contributes to male pattern baldness). It has NOTHING to do with lowering T-levels per se. Some people claim that finasteride lowers their libido, although 2 of my buddies who use topical application notice little difference. Look it up, the science is out there.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:02 AM
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The naive wish that you might make a "real" connection if you're totally open with chicks. That's why. Gotta kill that hope because it will NEVER happen.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 11:44 AM
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It's been working for me lately, especially my frame at work. I'll do a writeup with results in a few months. Preliminary results, it makes focus and decision making easier when you can treat all distractions the same eg. With amused detachment.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:18 AM
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If you're the kind of person who is self conscious, who often takes unsolicited criticism from other people seriously, self doubting, etc. You will do very well for yourself to think of EVERYTHING as a shit test. Subtle hints that you ought to slow down? Shit tests. Praise from someone who doesn't understand your struggle? HUGE shit test. You got to put on blinders and relentlessly pursue your interests to the detriment of giving a shit what other people have to say.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:05 AM
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The last drops are slowly squeezing out right about now. Feels good, man? I really feel like I'm not losing much. It's a lot better for focus when you don't give a shit. And I finally realize that a lot of the praise and thankfulness I'd get for being nice was just thinly veiled condescension. Fuck kindness. Cool indifference is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 05:46 PM
2

I've worried the about the same thing before. Watching people who naturally enjoy being social, they don't have to think in order for it to work. It's easy to imagine how having a teleological approach to socializing is sociopathic... "How can I get things to turn out in my favor, what can I do to manage the situation?" is NOT a question that most people consciously seek to answer when they're fucking around at a club, and it's very easy to see an antisocial user think that way. On one hand, it …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:30 AM
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Man, I'm finally starting to realize that I don't care that much about getting women. When I started trp, I thought (hoped?) that maybe if I went out and gamed chicks that it'd reawaken some primal male urge to fuck everything, maybe to give me purpose. And... It hasn't. I don't know why I expected it to: I always spent my teens and early 20s fucking around with hobbies, uninterested in most women. Yeah I had the typical bp gf for a couple years, but on reflection, I wanted to want her to be a c…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 11:11 PM
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Not sure if you're joking ecause the op is apropos your complaint.. If not, Tl;dr read it again and slowly parse the sentences. It's not that bad. He's literally talking about how the average man lives out the option to give up (hint, it's not actually giving up.. It's just as effortful as persevering) vs. the option to put in hard work.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 11:39 PM
1

You laugh but it fucking works. You get not trouble at all, she'll be so bored of you that she won't even bother to contact you after the breakup. One of the best learning experiences I've had was to intentionally act like a pussy in a relationship that was on its way out. When you consistently behave like a pussy, your 'sweet,' caring woman slowly becomes a raging narcissist cunt, bent on emasculating and using you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 03:19 AM
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It's all very simple, the statemet is no-lose. She still has the option for chad open, AND she sets a trap for the nice guy who's dumb enough to step in it. All of her bases are covered at literally no risk.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 03:00 AM
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I recently felt that snap too, and I'm very grateful for it. I attract these kinds of narcissistic women for some reason, they always first pursue me and charm the fuck out of me. It's great for a couple weeks, then the weird shit starts. Very subtle bossiness eases in. Flakiness. No regard for my frame etc. To be honest, I'm kind of a pussy and my mistakes compound when things turn south, but this time she was pulling the usual routine and I finally listened to my gut (I was PISSED) and said, y…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:23 AM
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I see what you mean, it misses the point though. Inexperience and/or stupidity have a lot to do with it, fundamentally. Yeah we can run in linguistic circles all day, "the inexperienced are naturally desperate" etc. But: the fact is, everybodyhere has been conned by these kinds of people at some point, possibly multiple times. That's part of the growth process. Your neat-sounding truism sounds like something a wannabe guru would say to impress upon people that he's invulnerable to these kinds of…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:36 AM
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I will say, intelligent women who embrace their agency are terrifying manipulative masterminds, they choose who gets to use them as an object, and they know it. I've been drawn in by these people and they are so good at entrancing and making you feel up and down, mystified and addicted. But there is no quicker way to find out the holes in your game than to get involved and used by one of these people, so they aren't all bad.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:40 PM
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Fuck it. Go run as hard as you can until you puke, and then keep running. Those dumb cunts are nothing compared to that.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 06:59 AM
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Excellent post OP, a realistic, simple solution to all of our problems. My own spin: THIS is the plight of modern society: Men don't have to fucking work. Think of all the soft-palmed, weak-willed pussies you knew in college (hint: most guys, I was one myself). None of them have had to struggle physically, they don't know what it's like to work more than their body thinks it wants to. The ability to do that is honestly the source of everything we look for at trp.. Think about blue collar men who…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 05:11 AM
1

Thanks. I'll try again, but at this point my thoughts are negative on the making a move deal (expecting negative result etc), and I'm not great at breaking out of it. It's like oneitis, I don't want to "fuck it up," and my body takes a while to tell me wtf to do so I end up bitching out. Question for you, when you escalate with a girl, what is your experience? Are you already excited to escalate, like you're feeling horny, which is why you do it? Or do you do it when you're feeling normal, confi…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:02 PM
5

Huh. So that's what's going on. There is a girl who has been giving me constant attention, inviting me to her place, giving me gifts and making me dinner, but she is VERY careful not to respond to my half-hearted sexual advances(Low T, very low libido). It fucks with me a lot, and completely kills my vibe when I finally get excited. Now that I know what the deal is, I'll just ignore her and go back to my hobbies for which I actually have passion. Thanks, great FR man.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 11:14 AM
1

A more fitting analogy: a buzz from drinking a couple beers ends, does that mean that you'll never drink again? Well, why not, esepcially when a headache and feeling ill often follow the buzz? It's not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 01:37 AM
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It's amazing. Girls will even approach me, lots of ioi's and ask for my number or want to "hang out." I'll set up plans in a short text or two, and then they play this weird push-pull game where they act excited to hang out but then in person are completely stone faced, unreactive and uninterested in whatever I'm about, and they shit test CONSTANTLY, especially if one of their friends is near by. "Will you hold this for me pleeease?! :)))" (when she could just as easily set it on the table). Or,…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 04:19 AM
1

As one of these types of losers, the answer to the question is "hardly ever." It's the most pathetically selfish way to be, buried in your thoughts and ignorant of the people around you. But, it's also comfortable: low risk,low reward that is easy to supplement with distractions.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:51 PM
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I can chime in on the sexual urges bit. NRS doesn't mean control of urges in a masturbation sense. He means it in the "aware of and able to act on re:actual women" sense. I was as blue as they come, and so badly whipped by my first girlfriend that she basically controlled my sexuality. I let her choose when we'd have sex: if I got horny and made a move, she'd shut me down 95% of the time. After a year or so of this business, I basically came to ignore my sexuality. Eg. She would rub her ass or t…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 09:34 AM
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An honest question: how do you know you want something?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:33 AM
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Yep. Attraction is irrational. Ie. it has nothing to do with thinking. It evolved before reason existed. Because most women (people in general) are not rationally aware of their irrational experience, their attempts to describe them are pointless. There's also the pride motivation... anti-slut defense for her reputation with other women, anti-loser defense for succesful selection of dudes to bone. Tl;dr watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:46 AM
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Yeah, we can rationalize (that is, think) about why we have particular experiences, but I meant that the experiences themselves are irrational; you don't have to think to have them. In fact, the more you think about them (with language), the less you will experience them. Giving less fucks, for me, is giving less mind to rationality when it comes to interacting with women. Leaving the thoughts behind, acting a fool and seeing what happens will teach you more in a day than 3 weeks of intense thin…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 08:23 PM
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Hey man, I was in the same boat as you. Hard science, looking at a doctorate, highly rational, a solid lay on paper but a fucking clod with women... You have to drop all of that and embrace the irrational and unpredictable. We think about rp theory in rational terms, but the experience doesn't actually work in those terms. Tingles are irrational, your job is to only notice them. You getting a surge of excitement when you look deep in a girl's eyes? That is irrational, no matter how well you "exp…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 09:12 AM
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I'm a lot like Buckets, but I don't have a bro to help keep me on track. Reading about his struggles and slow development is encouraging, because over time it's been really hard to trust that I'm improving. 8 months into trp and I'm finally beginning to straddle the divide between the past and my goals. I'm getting strong, and my inner game is slowly getting there. Eg. I still have shaky frame, but I am way more confident striking up conversations. Thanks for sharing Bucket's story, man.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:19 AM
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Good observstions. Imo, 'chameleonism' ultimately comes from two things: fear/uncertainty and the misunderstanding that social interactions ONLY work according to laws. On top of being cowardly/no frame, the chameleon is uncreative. His only creative act in the group is to cash in on inside jokes or the topic at hand. Booooring. But also very sad. The Chameleon doesn't know how to trust his instincts, he censors himself and ignores his own creativity. All this to the point that his creative thou…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:00 PM
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Quiet or shy game is trippy when you're getting over being an incel/recluse. You think to yourself, "there's no fucking way this chick is into me, I haven't said shit for the past 10 minutes." But sure enough, the IOI's are there, you get the digits, a date is easy to set up. Sometimes girls even offer their number unsolicited, or try to set the date themselves. Took me quite a while to realize that I was better off just acting like a stone instead of trying to force conversation.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:25 PM
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I've finally begun to experience this. None of the concepts matter if that's all you think about. Kino and escalation, picking uo on IOI's, detecting shit tests, etc. feel a certain way. You don't touch a girl's hand or elbow thinking, "oh boy, I hope this is the right move, if she is receptive I can keep it up!" You do it because it fucking feels good (or if it doesn't then you're not attracted to her or are way too fucking in your own head, no big deal), and you get a nice little boost of enco…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 10:03 PM
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Man thanks for sharing your story and those omlalala posts. I think I'll try nofap for longer to see what happens... couldn't hurt my sex life, hahahaha.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 05:58 AM
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More realistic explanations for your decreasing libido, your all-round laziness, your lack of get up and go, can be found in your sedentary lifestyle, because, plain and simply, men have always masturbated. It really depends, man. I have an active life, eat a strict diet, have a couple hobbies that keep me busy, and cool friends. But I still have shit for libido, especially when I porn/masturbate often. Before nofap, if I masturbated to porn often (3+ times a week), I couldn't get hard for women…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 01:08 AM
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One thing I've noticed, if the person asking those kinds of questions does not respect you, insincere answers do not work as well. Back before TRP, I would only sometimes give my ex-gf snarky answers to shit test-questions. At the beginning, it would usually shut her up, but as our relationship degraded (ie. i became more pussywhipped), she would just roll her eyes and keep testing until I'd relent. Worded differently, it's worth considering that insincere answers are the right choice only if yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 11:30 PM
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My buddies and I adopted a binary scale. 1 for yes, 0 for no. No fussing required, no rationalization. Bonus is, this way, even hot chicks are the same as other girls you'd fuck. How's that for equality?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:28 AM
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I still have this. When people say things or do things that are obviously wrong or contradictory, I automatically assume it's a joke or something. A lot of time they don't even realize the connection, and it is so frustrating.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 05:32 PM
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Become okay with yourself, (as in: accept what you cannot change and change what you'd like to FOR YOU, no one else. Don't change yourself for anyone.) and turned on by your own actions, not their reactions to your actions. Have what you say and do be what gets you hard. This is the thing that kills me. I have no idea how to turn myself on, so I look for confirmation from the girl. If she's excited, then I get excited. If she's not, then I'm done, confused as fuck. It makes a lot of the sidebar …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:26 PM
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Hey Milo, thanks for being awesome. I recently read an article from an alt-right publication about women on the front lines. The author observed that when women are more and more accepted into previously male-exclusive arenas (politics, clergy, war) it usually means the roles they take are less crucial for success in the arena. eg. In the case of women on the front lines, the author's idea is that ground infantry is becoming less important to our overall military strategy, so now women are allow…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:03 PM
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As long as you don't look like a shifty-eyed creep and you've got a good vibe, nobody gives a shit if you talk to their kid. Hell, a lot of people like it because then you're distracting the little shit for them. Get that fear out of your head, man.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:50 PM
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Aren't they all harridans. What a great word, thanks. This makes me want to compile a list of "woman" terms have gone out of usage. eg. 'shrew,' 'termagant', 'harridan', 'biddy', 'slattern.' etc
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:45 AM
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You can generalize this advice. Don't take feedback on your efforts too seriously from anyone except the people you trust to know what the fuck they're talking about. That means your mentors, proven loyal friends, and people whose work you respect. In work, in art, in lifting, in relationships. People who would see you stagnate (like in your example) tell you that you're great, that you're already good enough, that you don't need to improve. Or, they might say that you just need to slightly adju…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 07:18 AM
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A dinged up, middle-of-the-road handgun is still loaded no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 06:39 AM
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Can't live with them, CAN live without them. The MGTOW motto.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:25 AM
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It is rational to be skeptical of outsiders. Do they share the values that your group does? What are their intentions? Can you trust them to behave consistently? Outsiders, just like youth from the in-group have to pass the tests. The term you used, xenophobia, is applied to natural skepticism to make it seem unreasonable. That's bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:46 AM
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Sounds worth a watch, what's the name of the documentary?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 07:19 AM
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I've begun noticing this in my life, but in a different way. I have a "pretty" face and used to have long hair. I've always been pretty fit, and girls loved the combo; some would even approach me. I could be a regular old nice guy and they'd still defer to me as the hot surfer looking dude, at least until they realized I was a pushover after we'd had sex a few times. But men, especially older blue collar dudes, doctors and the like, would treat my frame like I was a weak, artsy-fartsy pussy (to …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:50 AM
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Because if you say they're right, then it means they're "smarter" than you, they "win?" Annoying as fuck. Thanks for the heads up.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 11:53 PM
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Alright, makes sense. My default is to be as quiet and non-confrontational as possible (beta to the core). It never occurred to me to just say shit to see how people reacted. I'll try the idea to get people to correct me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 10:35 PM
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Dudes in the military get raped by "dependapotamuses," women who use them for free healthcare, free pad to fuck in and a paycheck for her and the kids while dude's deployed. These women think they're entitled to the guy's finances, and often divorce rape etc. Even though he worded it strangely (i'm a strong, independent man!), the point he's communicating is that he won't fall for that trap.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 06:58 PM
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I'm unpracticed at power talk. I've read the Gervais Principle and I understand it conceptually, but when it comes to using power talk in real life, half the time I think I'm crazy for thinking there is a subtext, and the other half I'm completely ignorant of it. It is disconcerting. How do you practice this kind of thing and know you're "doing it right?"
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 08:25 PM
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So. How to break free of the MIB mentality?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 12:41 AM
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There are studies that show younger siblings of homosexuals have a higher chance of being homosexual themselves, suggesting a possible genetic cause. There is another study that shows the younger males of a family with multiple male children have a higher chance of being homosexual. The hypothesized mechanism here is sort of like a built-up immune response from the mother that prevents male sex hormones from operating properly in utero. Not exactly genetic. I wouldn't doubt if there are studies …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 12:33 AM
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Some background: I'm a ~30 year old who's had an extremely privileged life. Middle class upbringing, never been hungry, prestigious education mostly paid for by my generous/loving family. I'm intelligent (mild aspy, but raised well), charming, and good looking. My woes are unrelated to struggle or want. I've also discreetly self harmed (mostly beating myself on the head with tools, utensils, rulers...) since I was 6 and have contemplated suicide probably 1/10th of my waking life starting at age …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 08:49 AM
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It's even more personal than that: If you aren't working, then you get depressed and feel like shit about yourself. Capacity to work, to create, to share is a man's source of value for himself, period. I grew up working construction. Without fail, every time somebody my family knew was out of work or got injured, they got depressed just fucking around waiting till they could work again. The only guys who could weather recessions without getting shitty had some side habit of building shit and doi…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 02:23 AM
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You've probably planned and saved money/have a house with low debt. You also probably have everything you need to create, whether it be a woodshop, art studio, garage with tools, whatever. Hopefully you've built a network of old fart friends who take care of eachother and shoot the shit. It's not like you can't be a mentor to other men, an educator, a community figure, a fishing buddy... Regardless, when you're too old or broken to take care of yourself, then you choose to go out on your own ter…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:46 AM
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Yeah I see that. I'm not at the stage where I'm vetting for an ltr (much less a marriage). The work I need to put in to get to that point is discouraging. And fuck cake, it makes you fat and rots your teeth.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:51 PM
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without putting too much thought into it Sounds like most feminists.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:32 PM
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This makes me want to give up.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:43 AM
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Thanks for the effort, great content as usual. A suggestion though: for posts in a multi-part series, it'd be cool if you included an archive link to the previous entry in the series. I don't think there's a perfect solution for the indexing problem, but that would be a good start.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:21 PM
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My mentor always used to tell me this: I wish I had spent more time with my dad instead of those whores I married.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 10:54 AM
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'The worst thing you can do is make a woman feel nothing [edit: or disgust, thanks doc warlock] because of you.' She loves her precious feefees (even if they are negative) and not you per se. So, if she 'hates' you, then you're giving her the feelz, which means you're giving her something she loves (emotion). She behaves ('loves you') accordingly. Ever wonder why abusive men can get women chasing them forever? It's because chicks dig (even seek out via their own behavior) the intense feefees tha…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 08:47 PM
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That is a great principle, you're so smart. Hah, but really, that's been a hard lesson for me to learn. When you start to believe the praise, you stop improving. It always a shit test, a dare to start sucking. Thanks for the reminder. Taking criticism is a double edged sword though. A lot of men end up on TRP because they take (shit testing) criticism seriously. You have to be selective with the criticism you pay attention to.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 08:26 PM
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I kept hoping the poor guy would say something like," is that what happened to you?' Or "Looks like you know a lot about nutrition, tell me more." Anything to reclaim some territory from that hateful bitch. Yeah, he'd get assfisted in court over it, but it doesn't look like he's getting anywhere with that anyway.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:34 PM
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A few points: Sharing photos on instagram isn't exclusively about validation (maybe it is for you). Your premise is shit. Aspies aren't wholly incapable of processing emotions, nor do they not 'get' external validation. Yours is a gross misunderstanding. Furthermore, I was using the term colloquially to refer to a person who hyperfocuses on a singular, highly literal line of thought wihout regard for alternatives (like you were doing). It was not hateful usage. You basically pulled the whiny 'bu…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:19 PM
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Don't think too hard, you're engaging your inner aspy. Here's what he's saying in a nasally whinge: "Gaise, I don't like to take photos so taking photos and sharing them is totally inauthentic and not TRP." Which is fine, you don't have to have an instagram if you don't want to. However, the inner aspy in other dudes enjoys taking photos and sharing them (especially if it gets them laid). This guide is for them, to help them improve on all that. For them, you know? But realize something: Everyth…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:23 PM
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That's my goal. Every few days I go out to a bar and talk to random people, or go to a driving range and strike up a conversation about golf over a couple beers or something. Sometimes it sucks and I'm completely out of it, but I'm learning.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 12:44 AM
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~8 months into trp and I'm fairly jacked/tan with a pretty boy face. It's great, strange girls even approach me sometimes. The only problem is I'm still a sperg, so doing 'me' involves avoiding social situations and relationships in favor of my comforting hobbies. Hahaha, sometimes 'you' is a tard, and you definitely shouldn't do it.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 10:58 PM
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Your post reminds me of a quote from the great Sri K. Patthabi Jois," Yoga is 99% practice, 1% theory." It's true for everything. Endless theorizing doesn't mean shit. Thanks for the post.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:43 AM
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Absolutely. They only think about what they'd do in that situation, not what a reasonable person would do. Once I stopped by an ex's house to grab my stuff after she broke up with me to bone someone else. We agreed on a time to meet and everything, but after it happened, she still managed to accuse me of coming over unannounced, intending to hurt or rape her (thank FUCK her roommates, mutual friends, were there). I asked her how the fuck she could even think that (at the time I was a gentle, ski…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 07:25 AM
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Thanks for this post, it really highlights a lot of the communication issues I have with other men. I was raised to be a supplicating chump by/for women so I have their social communcation style down pat (unfortunately). A question about the final paragraphs of your post: Problems arise between the sexes when people seek bonding across the gender divide. When a man asks a woman for advice, she tries to empathize (that sucks...) and begins to see him as weak when he becomes more frustrated (why i…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:58 AM
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There we go, it is all distilled now. A strong understanding to have, thanks for the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 10:10 AM
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Most societies eventually get into the stage where the government moves in to destroy family. This is something I've never heard before. I don't see how that has been the case in the West until very recently. Got any examples?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 10:07 AM
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Yeah, the logic makes sense, I've read the sidebar a couple times and been Mr. Bux for a floozy. I got tripped up where he was comparing women's LTR goals (acquire BB) to men's "get laid" goals to make the point that commitment isn't attractive to men like it is for women.That's not the best way to paint the picture. Why not compare the LTR goals of men and women? You see that they're based on the negotiation of commitment (albeit different types) from BOTH parties, and you still get to show how…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 09:47 AM
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Ok, I see the distinction, thanks. /u/needless_pickup_line said that a woman's sex is not valuable if she is slutty. Why would a man care about the "value" of any girl's sex beyond low risk fun unless considering an LTR with her? I was responding to that. To a man considering an LTR, a slut's sex isn't valuable because her promiscuity is a sign that she is unable to "commit." Is that wrong? I'm not being obtuse, I'm just trying to figure out, "why vet for an LTR if you're not looking for some so…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:34 AM
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They don't understand that a man couldn't care less about a woman's commitment. They want her sex, and how valuable is that sex if she hands it out to every Chad she meets? They want her to be sexually faithful (in an ltr). What is sexual fidelity if not commitment?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:09 AM
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Stop thinking of people (including yourself) in such rigid terms and talk to them. See some dudes playing pickup bball? Ask to play and make a fool of yourself but keep playing, people will try to gwt to know you unless you're an asshole. Are there regulars at the gym who crush their lifts? Talk to them about lifting and don't be an autistic turd, maybe you'll strike up a friendship. You will find that most people aren't gonna pull your pants down and trashcan you. If you hang out with the same …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 07:11 AM
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Not op, but if you're naturally down on yourself, it is really hard to get cocky on your own. Besides lifting and getting huge: you need male friends who shit talk/act arrogant and inspire the same from you. So, find people who are like that and hang out. Talk to "jocks" at the gym, join an MMA studio, get a blue collar job, whatever. Emulate the people who have irrational self confidence, but who also still have their shit together. Eventually you can act that way around anyone.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:33 AM
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That is the autistic way to see AWALT. I used to think the same way but, that's for chumps. AWALT is just a heuristic that reminds you to be ready for common bullshit and to still the male hamster when bullshit strikes. It doesn't have to be literal or complicated.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:12 AM
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Thanks, I'll be doing that. Is that how you get in the vibe? There's a gap in my experience where the flirting is just going through the motions, no excitement in my gut. I really hope that watching body language more closely will help with that. Can I ask what your experience is like? When you're flirting with a girl, do you feel good and follow whatever gives you that feeling? Or is it more of a bland mechanical activity that you know will result in sex?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:30 PM
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Good to see another good looking sperg with idiot parents on here. I also ask to kiss and it hasn't failed yet (probably because the girls I get usually approach me first anyway). What you said about 'consent' getting you in the mood really reaonated with my experience. The way most dudes talk about it, they're ready to go the minute they meet eyes, and seem to have man-tingles guiding their every action.That's not my experience. I can look a girl in the eyes and tease/kino her all night, and I …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:49 AM
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The delta perspective talks about a lot of the difficulties I have in relationships and setting boundaries, looks like it'll be really helpful. Thanks again. My experience is weird. I'm very fit, have a handsome face, am pleasant/reserved socially, but have gamma frame/internal environment and low ambition (also, clinically Low T, even though I work out, eat well and sleep well.) It's like I'm a sprinter. Girls give it up easy, I get a lot of respect off the bat with men, but my flaws come out s…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:14 PM
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TIL I am gamma. Thanks for that link.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 11:16 PM
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Homeboy should get with his cousin, she knows her shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:21 AM
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