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The reason I say it's not impossible is because I've f-closed like this in the past. 60 minutes is horseshit, but ending a first date like this is nowhere near outside the realm of possibility. Just because it's not happening to you doesn't mean it's not happening.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:54 PM
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Says another 3 week old account.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:37 PM
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I'll put it this way before I stop debating a 3 week old account: I don't need to be able to lift 600 pounds if I have three guys on speed-dial eager to lift 1,000 pounds each for me. I should obviously hone my own physical abilities to the extent that I am able but I hold more power in my one thumb (3,000 pounds) than I can muster from my entire body due to the relationships I have with my three heavy hitters, either collectively or singularly. The same applies to money- what's more lucrative? …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 02:36 AM
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I've never said women are equal to men I said you need to be able to have relationships, sexual and non-sexual, with both. You do not have power if you do not have influence. You do not have influence if you do not have relationships.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 08:01 PM
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Now I know you haven't read the sidebar. Power, actual power, is derived from influence. What is influence? Relationships. Powerful people don't walk into a room, pick a corner and brood. They strut into a room, shaking hands, capturing attention, making connections (with both men and women) with other people of power and authority. Powerful people aren't powerful because of their physical stature or money, they are powerful because of the things they can achieve with a phone call. Relationships…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 07:42 PM
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Exaggeration for sure, but not impossible. Some girls like anal enough to request it. I'd say the exaggeration is the timeline. "60 minutes" is probably "4 hours, 2 locations and 6 drinks later."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 07:33 PM
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It honestly sounds like it's you who needs to do the learning. The real secret of TRP isn't to become this billionaire, brickhouse, stoic. It's to learn how to leverage relationships with people to get what you want. There's nothing wrong with partaking in an LTR (I wouldn't) and nothing wrong with having comfortable, open relationships with women. His self-awareness is the key feature here and his recognizing and analyzing events as they transpire is exactly the kind of field experience most me…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 07:24 PM
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I can attest to this kind of shit, though. Women try to be on their best behavior when they have you in the "boyfriend" ("potential husband/beta bux") box. The instant you make it clear you're not in that box all bets are off. Every first night lay I've ever had has evolved this way.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 07:11 PM
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It waa a recent and deliberate twist. Watch "Alfie" sometime. All TRP has been common knowledge for millennia. It's been actively suppressed since the New Deal.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:49 AM
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Shooting. You have to instruct, demonstrate, physically adjust, poke fun at ineptitude and then display serious value through proficiency with a weapon. Find a bar between the range and your place (location change) and escalate from there. Respect the sport. Don't just buy a hi-point and bring a girl to a range if you don't know what you're doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:41 AM
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If you're financially secure enough to be taking 6+ months off a year (assume that means travel and leisure time with plenty of hobbies) then you could contact them via carrier pigeon and they would tell you how much they love the quaintness of it. You're assigning a single communication platform way more credit than it should be given and selling yourself short in the process. Your women don't give a fuck how you contact them, they care that you're contacting them and your success would have be…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:49 AM
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I'm at ground zero right now, I'm in the 60-75 minute range all told and I'm not beasting anything anymore, unfortunately. I was definitely overtraining and it impacted my overall gains, but strength and size wasn't all I was there for (still maintained 190ish at ~10% at 69 inches). I ran HIIT 15 minutes (3 minute sprint cycles) One heavy compound per day and then superset opposing groups, end with bodyweight and core work. It wasn't supposed to be efficient so much as get me accustomed to perfo…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:32 AM
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This is all fantastic advice. Like everything else, however, moderation (or really, discernment) is called for here as well. It's okay to have activities you enjoy. It's not okay to let them become vices. It's also not healthy to shut yourself out of the human experience in your quest to avoid vices. It's really hard to make connections to people if you're never on social media, never watch television, don't listen to current music trends, don't drink etc. Not impossible, but incredibly difficul…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:28 PM
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Check out the stats on consumption of porn among young women and the nature of porn they consume amd watch all the pieces of TRP snap firmly into place and cemented together. We created the supersluts we have today and we did it in an extreme and thorough manner. Your princess wants to be tied down and throat fucked while getting fisted and beat with a riding crop by total strangers while a circus midget shits on her back. You simply cannot go too far in the bedroom, and at the point you feel un…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:02 PM
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Guys take their women to the gym? Why?! The gym is church. It's you time. There is 100% no fucking way you are bringing your woman to the gym and achieving the focus you need on your workout- she's not going to fucking let you. My workouts at prime were 90-120 minutes. You think she's going to sit around quietly after her 55 minute cardio and "toning" circuit is over?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:05 PM
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This is where agree and amplify comes into play. This is also why "fights" precipitate some of the most energetic sex. She wants you to put her in her place. She needs to get fucked and she's requalifying your fitness as the ideal mate to do it. If you enter her frame, you're not the one she wants pinning her down and throwing dick in her.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:00 PM
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But they do have it. Wasting time on social media is a fruitless activity but social media isn't "for beta boys and women." You know how much money people make leveraging social media? You know how much social proof is derived from social media? You know how much more potent "text game" becomes via social media? Social media makes women far more desperate for validation from you. You are a click or a tap away at any given moment and she still isn't getting your attention and it will drive her fu…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 05:00 PM
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You can get a number nowadays (I got a couple just the other week, but only because I specifically asked for the number), but the vast majority of times I hit it off with random girls they say one of two things- "add me on snapchat" or "add me on facebook." If you want to go on a long diatribe to explain why you have neither and kill a perfectly good opportunity, knock yourself out. I'm sure self-righteousness gives great blowjobs. It's vapid, it's pointless and it's childish but so is everythin…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 04:50 PM
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Tell her her roots are showing and ignore her texts.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 10:48 AM
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"Born-again virgins." Want to know if a woman is a batshitted cunt of a slut? She'll call herself a "born-again virgin." She won't be any less of a slut than she was, she'll just make a very public display of her "virtue" and work harder to keep her sexual escapades under wraps.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:34 PM
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So, infidelity, lust, sodomy, suicide- these are all cool, but woe to her that her faith won't let her remarry. This is why organized religion is such a fucking joke.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 07:31 PM
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Don't give her more of your time than you are now. Nobody is forcing her to stay and she isn't entitled to your free time. You clearly hold the cards. Do as you please.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 05:18 PM
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Anybody see the Marine United scandal fully unfold? Because this is exactly what happened. There is actually a new MARADMIN out that calls for mandatory discharge for first offense for sharing nude photos of servicewomen- women, not members. There is no punishment for the creators and initial distributors of those photos and videos (the women) despite them being in clear violation of Article 134. We had to create an entirely new order and ignore those already on the books to protect the women in…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:58 PM
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There was a pretty good one a couple days ago where the OP opened with "your earrings don't match your outfit" while the girl wasn't wearing earrings. It's only negging when undesirables do it. When attractive guys do it they call it "banter."
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:27 PM
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Step one is to eat meet. From there it will manage itself.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:12 PM
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She would not extend you the same courtesy. If you're bored with her, next her. If you truly examine TRP, you'll find that a lot of the strategy is treating women how women treat men and it drives them insane. No, don't spend a second more on a woman you have lost interest in. Next.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:01 PM
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Girls who already have beta bux at home are qualifying you for sex or a branch swing. IME they are easier to close, especially if they are open about the other guy as it sets the stage for the nature of your relationship early. They can get everything they want from BB back home- they need pussy tingles from you. Girls who are happy with their current situation don't go out dressing like sluts and drinking with strangers without their men.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:41 PM
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A vasectomy runs about $500-$600. Storing your semen runs roughly $1000 a year. Get the vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:31 PM
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We're not disagreeing at all, though.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:53 AM
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Well, go balls deep in your job and make yourself stand out (in a good way). Don't kid yourselves that your fuck buddies were your fuckups. Women love to create a scenario where it's your fault A) to avoid responsibility and B) because they want you to chase. I ended one over an argument about a damn turn indicator. Then she bitched that I wasn't taking her absence hard enough. When they're gone, just let 'em go. Plenty out there. As for closing, all progress is progress. Are you trying to push …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:31 AM
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Oh, no doubt. But we most certainly have a single and childless tax.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:22 AM
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Shit, brother, I should be taking notes from you. If you've got all of those ducks in a row, you're probably not hurting anything by firing one off every now and again. It's helped me make major moves of late, but I also have much farther to go than you. If you've got all this shit going for you, why are you not approaching? You should be approaching. If you approach, you'll get yourself laid. And thanks for the link, I'll check it out. I've made a bad habit of letting cash sit in my checking (y…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 09:52 PM
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Fuck, you're off to a much better start than I was (or am, honestly, had some major setbacks). Your financial aspects in life are going to pan out well if you make smart moves with your career. Areas that you probably need to focus on are the social and physical areas (lifting, hobbies etc) that may be harder to manage with your work hours. Do you go out with the guys you live with? Are you social in general? Do you love them or do you "love them" in the same way women say guys are "nice?" Priva…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:37 PM
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I wouldn't suggest a physical escalation for a girl who just rejected an advance, but I like the "good girl" approach. It's an underhanded shot at her and she's likely to respond by trying to prove you wrong.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:15 PM
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So, I hadn't really though about your point about asking up front if a girl is single (because I honestly don't care and no girl who wants to fuck you is going to let a silly thing like a boyfriend get in the way) but you make a very salient point about turning the tables on her by making HER pre-qualify herself for YOUR attention. It also robs her of that common out that girls who don't even have boyfriends use when they get bored with the conversation so she has to find a real reason to break …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:13 PM
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This was not hours and hours of strategizing, this was years of trial and error and observation and revision. This is coming from someone who is further down the path and has reached a point where the other things are in line so he has the ability to fine-tune his game and then share his findings with others. The advice you are talking about is for people just unplugging because, in general, there are major aspects of their lives that have not been nailed down that have to be dealt with first. G…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:06 PM
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Well, the point of NoFap isn't avoiding masturbation for the sake of avoiding masturbation. All that pent up drive has to go somewhere. The point of NoFap is to harness that drive and to focus it into gainful pursuits, like lifting, or pursuing a hobby or education, or reading, or literally anything other than watching TV, playing video games or jerking off. Masturbation isn't evil, it just has no ROI and it weakens your resolve to improve yourself because you're getting "good enough" reward for…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 07:29 PM
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"She got a job as a bartender and is feeling better" She found a steady stream of strange dick and cash-based income and her inner-whore is beaming.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 06:20 PM
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Don't get married and don't have kids and you don't run into those problems. Flexibility to move around is true- some guys make so much money and/or do work that let's manage it remotely that they can travel around. You won't get that working for someone else
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 06:09 PM
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Try NoFap. Try it for longer. Masturbation is not the same as sex on any level, really. Abundant sex is the game changer, over-masturbation keeps the game from even starting. You will crave actual sex but your mind and your drive will focus on what's in front of you. It's surreal. It will improve your focus on your work, your training, your lifting, your game- everything. Last week I tried something new- "no t-shirts." I live in Florida. T-shirts and polos are basically dress code down here 350 …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 06:04 PM
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You can make a perfectly good lifestyle for yourself as a "W2 schmuck." This is like the "everyone has to go to college" lie. There is no shame in working for your money, even if you make it under someone else. The shame is in settling.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 05:37 PM
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In that I agree. I said further up that it's a major reason I oppose foreign aid.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 04:12 PM
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Anywhere prostitution is legal and regulated, actually. The US has yet to catch onto that.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 05:05 AM
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There is no way to outpace birth rates of under-developed nations.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:29 AM
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I disagree about the male sex bots. Women aren't getting validation, resources or commitment from robots and they don't need a $15k vibrator.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:27 AM
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It's because the sluts that dominate the western population aren't especially interesting, unique or challenging. If you've fucked 5 you've basically fucked 'em all at this point. They are all driven by the same thing and once the mystery is gone the fulfilling aspect is gone as well. So, you get what you need (off) and then you focus on shit that matters. You know why they say "behind every great man is a great woman?" Because his balls were kept empty enough that he could spend his time and ef…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:22 AM
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Oh, we lost that battle long ago, buddy. Replacement rate is 1.70 vice 2.25 just domestically. Non-industrial nations? This is a big part of why I'm anti-foreign aid.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:15 AM
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We already have it. Being married with children carries deductions being single and childless does not.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:10 AM
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We already have hookers. And prom queens.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:09 AM
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I legitimately had to get a TRO over this. Plate wasn't taking no for an answer and I know better than to call the cops on an unstable woman, so I fucked her so she would leave. Got the TRO so she couldn't come around making claims and have cut all contact since. Women come unglued when you shut them down.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:06 AM
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Of course I fucking did. Liberals can't deviate from the script because they're incapable of original (critical) thought. Anyone who has had this conversation in the last 25 years knew what the next talking point was. Capitalism has saved every nation on either side of the Iron Curtain since the Berlin Wall came down (you know, the wall with the No Man's Land with barbed wire and armed guards designed to keep people from fleeing the awesomeness of state-controlled production en masse).
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:21 PM
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What does any of this have to do with sexual strategy?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:02 AM
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Stockpiling is a waste of time for when "shit hits the fan." You know why? People like me are going to take it from you. People like me who know their way around the outdoors and around a rifle, and not just shooting it but camouflage, cover, concealment, tracking, ambush etc. People who have been trained to look for things that are out of place. People who have no problem sitting in one spot for 24 hours until you pop your head out of your hiding spot and then following you as you travel from y…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:41 PM
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Inb4 a list of capitalist economies with a smattering of social programs.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:15 PM
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150/95 isn't good at all, but automated machines are notoriously inaccurate. If you're good you can palp approximate results with them, but getting someone to take a manual is always the best way. You don't strap your wrist, you strap your upper arm and it has to be done right to be accurate. Edit: I'll be damned they have wrist monitors. I would consider that medical facilities don't use them, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:28 AM
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It's more of a "good enough" kind of deal. "Why work to get laid when I can settle for getting myself off" level thinking. I don't know why it works, just that my productivity and drive have found significant improvement since I stopped jerking off. It hasn't been long at all either. Do it for a week. I guarantee if you do it everday you'll see what I mean by day 7 (if you can go 7 days).
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:26 AM
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120/80 for best erection. I'm at 140/90 so I've got room for improvement and I'm pushing a pretty full wood on the BP meds.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:54 PM
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Fuck yeah it does. Meds jacked up my BP so doc put me on the lowest dose of HTCZ available and it was night and fucking day. Blood pressure is absolutely tied to erection quality. I like the girls whose fathers beat them when they were young. They're the ones who'll get wet when you face fuck them like they stole from you.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:12 PM
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I used to think so too. I recently started. It's a chemical thing about how and how often you derive pleasure and how it impacts your daily life. If you're jerking off every day, you don't have a real incentive to get out and make strides because you are fulfilling (to an extent) your sexual needs. Don't jerk off for two weeks and try to tell me your attitude and drive don't improve. Sex is different. The chemicals involved are different and they come from a different stimulus (an actual human w…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:06 PM
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If you are at all squeezing or pushing your asshole you are not doing a proper kegel. The muscle for the kegel is forward of that muscle and you won't be able to stop your flow with it until you develop it. While standing up right, lift your scrotum straight up without using your hands. That is the muscle to use. the reverse kegel is pushing out against thatvsame area. If you feel it in your rectum you are working the wrong muscle. It will get sore if you are using the right one. Edit: You're al…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:55 PM
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So out of ~7 billion people, less than a quarter million are truly top-tier elite. There's some perspective for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:21 PM
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There's a distinct difference between "being friends" and "maintaining a social network." I was taught to be kind toward everyone and it resulted in my being a shitty judge of character who struggled to say "no." This is unacceptable. What is acceptable is maintaining a network of acquaintances, even acquaintances you don't particularly like, because it affords you certain opportunities. You know who doesn't get those opportunities? The dick who thinks he's better than everyone and acts like it.…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:12 PM
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Actually, you let her get under your skin and you broke frame. Her actions got exactly the reaction she was looking for and you gave it to her in spades. When a girl ghosts you, you get back at her by going to the next girl and forgetting she exists. Except you're not getting back at her because she doesn't exist. You want to be in charge of something? Be in charge of yourself first. Emotional outbursts run counter to that. She doesn't owe you anything, least of all an explanation and you don't …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 02:40 PM
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Being injured =/= being disabled. I can't drive, I haven't been able to find work in my field due to my disability (yet) and live with my parents (for now). Girls want me enough to drive to me and drive me around. Girls comment that climbing in my window and trying to fuck quietly "reminds them of being in high school." Nothing makes a girl happier than getting her face shoved in a pillow to mute her orgasm because shame and judgement are sleeping in the next room. I promise. I had to stop lifti…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 02:17 PM
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Parents account for a lot. My father was raised by a very smart and worldly man who was wealthy and successful with women. He taught my dad a lot about the world and my dad got married at 18, was a Marxist by 19, a Christian by 21 and a conservative by 25. Christian values resulted in a home where we weren't taught how to be selfish, how to be social, how to leverage girls and where most of our excess money ended up with the church. My dad was raised an alpha and then essentially became a beta t…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 01:29 PM
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There waa actually a really big movement here awhile back about how questions force you into another person's frame and that they should be avoided when possible, especially with women. Statements drive the ship and you're the motherfucking captain.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 05:07 PM
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Pro's: Still making progress in the gym and have had extensive discussion regarding making my time and program more efficient with people on the sub, with one even going as far as to develop an individualized program based on my needs and challenges. Got a job lead from a friend in my field that I can do despite medical issues and am pursuing it. Helped a friend think his way through a 4 year stagnant relationship. He moved out of his shared place last night and either we're going to look for a …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 04:55 PM
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Don't fuck with a female Marine. She has trouble with the male/female dynamic and she's trying to prove to everyone that she can eat at the big boys' table (she can't). Besides, Air Force gets all the hot chicks. Pass on the wook and find yourself a girl that isn't trying to pretend she has a dick. $20 says the kid is her recruiter's.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 12:42 PM
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I promise you a junior in college isn't in the settling phase.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 12:27 AM
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Definitely. I've been lifting in some capacity since 2007ish, but after blowing off the idea for a few years that I need to "drop out of school" and "stop worrying about the gym" I finally caved and now it's back to square one. I'm doing SS to get my feet wet (and boy is it fucking humbling) and was talking to a guy on here about KetoGains 5x5 (and keto is a helpful diet for epileptics anyway, so I'm giving it a serious look) but any info and input is more than welcome. I came here because every…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:35 PM
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It's an honest representation of my current state were I to attend classes today. I was in TRP for years (2013-early 2016) and really slipped the last year (total fucking trainwreck) because I stopped applying TRP to my life and used my medical troubles as an excuse. I'm on the upswing, but like you said, it's small steps first. I'm still a ways out from being able to execute a serious move or attend classes that require consistency and attention, so I'm spitballing and throwing ideas at the boa…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:56 PM
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I spent my first two years in the MGTOW slot, but only with respect to in-class activities. I spun plates outside of school (never more than three, it gets...messy), but the tighter things got medically the worse things got socially. If I went there now, I'd be BluePill for sure. I'm a year+ before I can realistically handle school or serious work but I think if I set my sights on setting myself up for the RP category that I can realistically accomplish that if I start now. I'm already back in t…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:18 PM
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More just not wanting to be the "old guy" in class. I experienced it in paramedic training where most of the population was around 19 and assumed I was over 30 (I was 24 when I started that training). 4-year university is a different culture than 2-year colleges, though, so who knows.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:09 PM
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"I'm not your gay BFF." Cut contact. If she's told you that's what she wants, you have nothing to gain by giving her a second more of your time or resources.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:52 PM
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Admittedly, I'm like this. You can force people to enter your frame this way. It's effective with people who believe themselves your peer (or superior) but have no real qualities to justify that assumption. It's unwise to do this with people who are legitimately your superior either realistically or structurally (your boss who is legitimately a moron but has real power over you). The radio host won the match because he broke frame and no matter what his excuse is, he cannot recapture the initiat…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:39 PM
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Most importantly- if you're applying TRP values, how do you end up being the one paying the commitment toll for a girl everyone else got to fuck for free?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:21 AM
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I've already served. I'm 27 with roughly 18 months left on my GI Bill (first half has gone toward an associates degree in emergency medicine). I can't run ambulances anymore because I'm too sick to work, so realistically I have to return to school, which would be my last 2 years of a 4-year degree. If I go to a 4-year university after treatment, I'll be roughly 30 years old. I can't figure out whether that would be a plus....
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:14 AM
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Replace it with "sincerely" to get the desired affect and sound like an adult instead of a basic bitch.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 01:44 AM
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If you haven't read the sidebar material, you shouldn't be giving advice at all. It's actually a rule in this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:36 PM
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Every time I hear shit like this I second guess my decision to enlist. I could still make it out to university for my last 4 semesters but I'll be 30.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:32 PM
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Dogs definitely love upward. A dog is a far better investment than a girlfriend for this exact reason.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:12 PM
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The entire latter half of your post says otherwise. You knew the answer before you posted here, you even said so- you're just looking for someone to tell you that you're okay to chase her. She's already gone, you just haven't accepted it yet. Focus on your move and enjoy new prospects in fresh territory.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:33 PM
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You haven't just pedestalized her, you've Tanya Harding'ed anyone you may have had a chance with otherwise. "9/10- no makeup" "Never had a boyfriend" "Super into me" "No one like her" "I'll never do better" "She feels like I don't like her as much as she likes me" "Doesn't want to get attached" You're her fucking puppy dog and she doesn't draw any value from a puppy dog that is 4 hours away. She's definitely fucking someone else if that's how you think about her and act toward her and she's alre…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:22 PM
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You've taken her bait hook, line and sinker if you really believe what you just wrote. Let her go. She's been gaming you from the start and she's gaming you now. You had your turn, go find a replacement. You've already ruined any shot with her, and I can guarantee she doesn't view you as an alpha because you don't behave like one.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:05 PM
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You sound like someone that needs sidebar work. Badly.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:35 PM
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Why lie? She's not your fucking wife.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:26 PM
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He got downvoted for wasting space. He failed to contribute in any way.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:25 PM
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Were the pictures all taken in his dorm room or at random locations? Chicks have very little problem being photographed getting fucked or sucking dick, which is perplexing because the internet exists, but a lot seem to find it a turn-on for some reason. Even if they'd seen it before hand, maybe the idea of being a part of the "collection" of a clearly high-value mate plays a part. Edit: There's also very little risk in taking a bent-over shot. Tingles without shame is like crack.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:21 PM
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You seem unfamiliar with dread game. This absolutely works.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:17 PM
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IMO if you leave them around the general common area it makes it look like you don't clean your place. The best places I've seen are the goddamn doorknobs because they are so easy to overlook (how often do you look at your door knob?) but women will leave those breadcrumbs there to claim their territory.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:06 PM
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Hair ties. Leave one on your bathroom and bedroom door knob. Leave one on your bedroom windowsill. It's enough. Extra points for leaving different kinds. Maybe a bobby pin or two for good measure. Don't leave too many, just one or two is enough.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:00 PM
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Fuck you, I'll grab my balls whenever I want. Honey eyes seems like gold and I'll be stealing the shit out of it. I also learned while reading this post that I have zero muscle control over my eyelids between regular blinking and squinting, so fuck you again because now I have to workout my eyelids on top of everything else.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:31 PM
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With regard to frequency of ejaculation, it definitely varies guy to guy. The last girlfriend I had (over 3 years ago now) I had been doing kegels and was in a physical peak I'd been working up to since 2007 before I met her and she was at her physical and sexual peak as well, so between those factors she almost had to repeat a semester of grad school because we lost so much time in the sack and I still had to rub one out once or twice a day just as an act of mercy. Sidenote: Do kegels. Get off …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:48 PM
2

If it survived the "Subreddit-of-the-Month" mess, it'll survive this. The dipshits either improve or leave, TRP is incredibly efficient at self-selection. The culture and material filter out those who don't belong and any stragglers get weeded out by the mods, even if it takes a bit.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:41 PM
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A lot of that downvoting is likely still external traffic being driven here via the hit-piece put out a few days ago. Don't ask, it's not worth talking about, but it's brought a lot of participation in that has no desire or intent to engage in self-improvement or even understanding the community. You see stupid shit, downvote, report and move on.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:37 PM
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I do too, and I consider myself quite the connoisseur, but I'm only on day 2 and am suddenly keenly aware of how much hold it really has on me because the only thing the back of my mind is concerned with any time I sit still for more than 6 seconds is how much I want to cum on or in something with nice tits. I'm pretty sure that's the desired effect but I'm used to being able to settle it at will and now it's not there anymore. I consider that negatively impacting my life if it's reducing my dri…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:32 PM
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"It's her responsibility to protect herself from unwanted physical affection, not yours to guess how much affection she is comfortable with. Her restricting your access is funny, always. Acting butt-hurt about being rejected is tremendously unattractive." Push the envelope. I forget this a lot. I find myself waiting for "cues" that she's open to advances. Fuck her cues. Make her shut you down. If she's into you, she won't. If she's not into you, why are you wasting you time? "Regularly temporari…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:15 PM
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I'm an agnostic existentialist. If you look at the root core of Christianity it calls for people to care for one another and to spread that message of caring for another. All rules and regulations etc came after and the bible itself says that condemnation of another man is basically a ticket to damnation. It's a massive oversimplification, but the message was never a complicated one, we made it as complicated as greed, pride, selfishness and tribalism allowed us to make it. As to Ecclesiastes- i…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:33 AM
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My last account (5 years) was compromised by a chick that decided to help herself to my computer. I don't think she found any TRP shit, but she created a reddit account and added me as a friend. I didn't even know that was a fucking thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:55 PM
2

I say this as someone who decided on Thursday to return to Monk Mode: By your estimation, you can't pull without being an AMOG and should only pull once you've become one. This is bullshit. You can be broke and overweight and still get yourself laid if you own being broke and overweight. I spent from 2006 to 2009 viciously working and working out and it never got me laid. Why? I wasn't approaching. The only action I ever got was a BJ or two from chicks I met through friends because I wasn't sell…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 04:08 PM
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Weak erector muscles and APT are a huge part of poor posture. Building the habit of moving and sitting and standing this way will 1) help those muscles but more importantly is 2) building those muscles deliberately will help you maintain this posture without thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 02:56 PM
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I had a look at it. There's a reason psychology is considered a "soft science." Like astrology, the results of the Braverman are just vague enough to be common to just about everyone who chooses to see themselves a certain way. Anybody who has elevated levels of any of those chemicals at any given point in time will experience those reactions and those dumps will result from the external experience not the experience resulting from the chemical dump. It's kind of like saying fight/flight is goin…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 02:42 PM
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I don't save TRP posts (for obvious reasons). This got saved.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 02:17 PM
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It shows that women have always been this way. It isn't feminism's fault. Women are hard-coded to be deceitful, ungrateful and selfish. I'm not Christian and haven't been for over 15 years, but if you want to have your world perception rocked, read Ecclesiastes. It changed my life forever and I have lived by it since before I found TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 01:26 PM
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If you go back through my (relatively) recent history you'll find we arrived at the same conclusion (minus the porn, but that's not at all a bad idea). My problems began from the MOMENT I was dishonest with my plates and it tanked from there, because I gave up on myself and lying was the air pressure leaving the cabin. I'm in the market for new work. I'm not at all opposed to trade work, I have a military and paramedic background so I prefer work that keeps me active and on my feet for sure, but…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 12:23 PM
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I live in south Florida. I've ridden that ride, gotten several t-shirts and attended the convention. 10% of the population under 40 has abs. Getting abs isn't terrible. Maintaining abs fucking sucks. I've done every split you can imagine and the routine I settled on made a lot of people scratch their heads, but it worked and it worked well. Intermittent fasting was a nightmare. It was effective but I was hungry, tired a mean while I was an it. It sparked my black coffee addiction, that continues…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 11:49 PM
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Please, I always look good naked. But yes, my first time running SS I had T-Rex syndrome bad and had to seitch to the Onus Wunsler variation. Now the base program includes pullups to balance it out more, but maybe I'll get my sea legs back on SS for a month or two and then see what KG can do for me. Being epileptic, keto can never hurt and SS dietary guidelines are basically "kiss abs goodbye, motherfucker."
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:45 PM
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Can you expound on this a bit more? I'm genuinely curious whether you believe and can back that up, because in my AO living with your parents is an absolute success-killer. I was forced to move back in with my parents due to medical issues while still making good money and it basically killed my ability to pull new women of any age. That was the initial start of my backsliding and why I started spiraling down (beginning with lying to my plates to preserve them because I didn't think I could repl…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:32 PM
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Don't grin like a doofus. You can smile without appearing needy. Dark and brooding netted me effectively ZERO pussy growing up. Badasses don't have to try to look like badasses and you always run into the "always a bigger fish in the pond" problem. Be warm. Be funny. Be audacious. You're a bigger badass than most guys she's seen that week just by catching her eye, giving a wink or a half-smirk and then walking directly over and introducing yourself. Edit: bonus points if you throw her a wink or …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:09 PM
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Don't forget to smile. Just staring is fucking creepy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:02 PM
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Yes. One of my Army buddies. We go way back to middle school and our entire group of friends has always joked that there is no other dick on earth when Rob is in the room. It doesn't hurt that the dude is packing a 10lb hammer, either. He's scrawny, paper white, below average looks, average height, weird eyes and pale hair. But his demeanor is over the top because he does literally whatever the fuck he wants, even in the Army. We joke with him that he played "Army" on hard-mode because he's basi…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:16 PM
2

Please throw a jab at someone expecting to knock them out. Record it and report back here.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 06:27 PM
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I think mastering female psychology is the default setting in response to the recurring defeat that almost all who come here initially feel. It's about studying the enemy that has kicked their ass for so long, to learn how to beat them. Then after reading and applying the concepts for long enough they start to recognize that the real enemy they've been losing to all along is their loser self and that all the focus on women was just avoidance of the real problem, which is the harder pill to swall…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:51 PM
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Well, that's exactly what SS is, simple compounds designed to get your body trained or re-trained into the movements so you can build upon them for more advanced training. It's a linear progression 3x5 program that prepares you for 5x5 programs.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:18 PM
2

You'd be surprised how well a girl responds to getting wrapped up and fucked. They love that shit. Now, if you're throwing her in an armbar and telling her to tap....
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:15 PM
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As a grunt, I have to call you out on gaining mass from calisthenics because everyone in the military you see that is "swole" got swole in the gym by lifting like mad men and then got lean from the general PT, myself included. We run 5 days a week and do a nauseating amount of bodyweight work in the mornings, then we hit the weights at night. No one is getting big from morning PT. No one. Edit: Also, all your military friends getting big "without lifting weights?" They spend days on end carrying…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:05 PM
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I used to add 10 minutes on a heavy bag to my old workout. It really doesn't take much time at all, it's really about the muscle memory. Brilliance in the basics will take you farther than any advanced routine.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 03:56 PM
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Just started Starting Strength again after being forced to leave the gym for over a year. Would you recommend transitioning to KetoGains 5x5 after establishing a foundation again, or would you just jump straight into it? I can't train to fight right now. My body simply can't handle it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 03:52 PM
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Until someone restricts the use of your arms because they know how to grapple and you don't.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 03:47 PM
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Considering the number of people who have continued fighting with all manner of bullet and fragmentation holes, concussions, lost limbs, blood loss etc, you seriously underestimate conditioning and fight/flight instinct/chemical dump. Fuck, I finished the last 10 days of Parris Island with broken ribs and deployed with a back injury after being told by sportsmed that I was non-deployable but recognized I'd be leaving my platoon under T/O if I didn't go. You can absolutely suck up the pain and pu…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:23 PM
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Easiest way to express this to people is to illustrate the time someone is willing to spend playing Guitar Hero as it would translate into actually learning to play the guitar. Hundreds of hours into an activity that nets zero ROI verse the same time that leaves you with a tangible skill.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:33 AM
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Progress: Continued in the gym. Went back to class even though it's PONR for my grades at this juncture. Finally cut ties from all plates and potentials to fully commit to a new "Monk Mode" (my last being 2013). Began exploring music again. I had completely stopped listening to music without even realizing it and it occurred to me upon putting my headphones in at the gym. Failure: Still do not have work lined up. Still have not gotten in control of sleep since meds were increased. Still spending…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:28 AM
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Honestly, it even applies there. You can train through fear of physical harm. The fear will still exist in a rational man, but he won't be overcome by it. You should still get it looked at, though.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:22 AM
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You can't have it both ways. You have to be discerning about who you give your attention to and if you choose wisely you can't afford to be seen as passive. Typically people that like to run their suck about themselves aren't looked upon favorably by others anyway, so you really needn't spend your time listening to them drone on about nothing. Powerful people want to know who they are dealing with so they will engage you, if they deem you important enough to do so, so they can get a feel for who…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 02:01 PM
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We're here for each other. He and I started going to the gym together this week. He's shamed himself out of going for years and years but I finally pulled him into it because I'm not allowed to drive so I told him if he was going to be driving me he may as well hang around and exercise. First couple times he really hurt, but he seems to be taking to it now.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:33 PM
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This semester would have been my last, but I've had to back off significantly due to recent developments. I'm being groomed as a potential candidate for brain surgery, but I still have a few months of testing before that's set in stone. My GPA is strong enough to take the hit for me to finish in the fall and I would have applied for ADA exceptions, but I'd lose out on the income if I did that. I'll have my AA by December, I already have my AS. I have options, it's just a matter of narrowing them…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 12:52 PM
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It already has been, but my previous ventures have been, possibly permanently, curtailed by medical complications. I spent 4 years in the Corps, developed a resume in security and obtained my paramedic license with the idea in mind of either going into contracting or firefighting, but I started having seizures. So, now, I have to realistically start looking at other options and everything I'm really geared toward (skilled trades) require you to be physically stable to do them safely. I'm sussing…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:48 AM
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I understand you completely. Mid-2015 I had everything I could want at my age. That changed very quickly due to circumstances entirely outside of my control, but my attitude and actions surrounding those circumstances made it so, so much worse. It happens to a lot of people. Your story resonates with me especially because I just pulled my father out of rehab 2 weeks ago for the drinking problem he developed 20 years before I was even born, largely surrounding his own mother's suicide. He is a ve…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:42 AM
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I may be too late for this, but here goes: I'm not strong in math. At all. I did okay in statistics, but shit like algebra and geometry I find rather difficult, mostly because it relies on any number of formulas you have to internalize and recall situationally. Understanding this and approaching a point where I will be transferring to a 4-year college (potentially) next year, would it be wise for me to pursue a major in finance, or would it be foolish given my historical struggles with math?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:15 AM
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Seeking validation from women by making them the center of attention and listening to all their problems is sure to work out in your favor. Surely. Any day now she'll realize what a kind, genuine and selfless person you are and stop fawning over the guy who commanded the attention of everyone in the room from the moment he walked through the door. The person who does this is forgettable. You don't want to be forgettable, you want to be legendary. No one ever became legendary by sitting quietly a…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:01 AM
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"1. Never appear desperate in your self-defense against the slander of others Do not let yourself get angry or defensive at the slanderous comments of your enemies, it reveals insecurity, not confidence in your reputation. Take the high road instead, and never appear desperate in your self-defense." You're doing this. As to approach, introducing yourself goes a long fucking way. You're selling yourself. Hard to sell something without showing the product. Use humor. Pick-up lines are fucking lame…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:16 AM
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Couple that with the fact that within my lifetime sex robots are likely to cross from "Uncanny Valley" into "passing the Turing Test" territory and you have a serious problem for shitty feminist women on your hands. Can you imagine the outcry when the first "egg bank" opens up?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:05 AM
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Why bother doing shit you don't want to do? This is the ideal end-stage of "abundance mentality." You are able to pick and choose when and where you want to capitalize on women's attentions because you are no longer desperate for it because it isn't a scarcity for you. You want to hit the gym, or write, or go hunting, or work on your car, or advance string theory rather than bang some girl, then fucking do it. This mindset is what will continue to improve your value with women anyway. Do you. If…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:52 AM
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Except those cliches are absolutely devoid of any real advice because they lack actionable detail and are fluffy feel-good sayings for those who cannot accept the real root of their continuous failure, much like "just be yourself." No. Yourself is a loser. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be where you are right now. The reason women get so pissed with this place is because they can't look at themselves and say "holy shit, I've spent my entire life dating the exact men I claim to hate while sidelining …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:38 AM
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No, you're 100% on track. It's not a matter of "liking hypergamy." Hypergamy is the reality. Her social persona is that she should be a "strong independent woman" but really she's still sniffing out the highest value man she can get her hands on. The real goal of everyone here, regardless their end game, is to be that high value man she strives to get (and keep) her hands on. All "game" really is is derailing her bullshit games, which are built around maintaining her social persona, to get her t…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:15 AM
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Ask yourself why "trophy wife" is simultaneously a treasured and shamed title among women. Women crave independence but abhor responsibility. The more independence they have, the more responsibility they have to shoulder, and while feminism demands they publicly fight for said independence, the more they obtain the more collectively miserable they become. I have zero desire for anyone to be dependent on me for anything- the legalities surrounding it are exhausting to even think of. What I do des…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:45 AM
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Of course that's what you drew from that, rather than "your first and foremost concern should always be improving your physical and financial health- everything else falls in place behind that." As to your initial question- personally, yes. Many men here are looking for quality women to marry and have children with and have much more complex goals and as such have a much more complex filtering system when it comes to choosing a woman to share that life with and are using systems derived to engag…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:25 AM
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It went over my head (which is on me because Poe's Law doesn't even apply because you even added a fruity little emoticon), but I wasn't calling you dense, I was making a generalized statement.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:31 PM
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If you take any terminology or concepts from this subreddit and discuss them openly in your personal life, especially with women you are engaging with, you are too dense to gain anything from the information you will obtain here.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:19 PM
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I'm looking forward to the next 48 hours as people project their insecurities onto a community they don't remotely understand. Not nearly the first time and it certainly won't be the last.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 06:02 PM
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Giving the story wheels, even for valid discussion, gives it publicity and credit that it doesn't need or deserve. While the article will drive traffic here, and inevitably subscribers, it also harms the person in question unjustly. Also, as winning subreddit of the month showed us all very clearly, quantity and quality rarely coincide. This subreddit thrives most when those involved in the discussion are self-driven to explore it, not those riding a publicity wave who have nothing invested in i…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:47 PM
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Nobody. They also demanded Trump drop out of the race for a series of unsubstantiated allegation and one crass comment. We all see how that went. All of this is circumstantial as well. I, for one, happen to be an enormous fan of The Five Nines and have promoted them widely.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:40 PM
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Come to Florida. I'd say most women 8+ in their 20's are dating 30+
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:10 PM
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Basically. This is why I dropped off the MRA bandwagon years ago. It's just as bad as 3rd wave feminism in many respects.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:05 PM
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Almost 100% within the prison system.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:57 PM
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Thanks. It's been awhile. I've been in backslide for over a year so I'm have to recall and relearn quite a bit and it's only been a couple days. Wish I had that time back.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:30 PM
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Here's the deal- women don't want to be responsible for the decision to have sex. To do so would be unvirtuous. This is why they will act differently when they are removed from public or social situations, particular out of their social circle (i.e. on vacation). They expect you to initiate (notice I didn't say "ask") and the idea of "being taken" or "dominated" is ideal. However, "no" is fucking "no." So is a woman so out of her mind she can't form the words. Basically, push the envelope, but i…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:48 PM
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Men's SMV increases over time. I forget the formula, but your SMV as you grow older becomes tied more to your income than your looks. At 20 years old you can be broke as fuck and pull quality pussy if you're fit and aloof. At 45 you can be short and slightly overweight and pull pussy if you're drawing down $100k+ (adjusted for location of course) in liquid income. The consensus should then be, naturally, that your main focus should ALWAYS be improving your physical and financial health. Everythi…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:36 PM
3

The amusing part in all of this is how many offended women have dated, are dating and will continue to date these men they claim to hate.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:07 AM
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"My body, my choice," right?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:49 PM
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Be that as it may- the woman is untrustworthy and has a different picture of where she wants to end up than you do. One of the worst mistakes I've made was being dishonest with a pair of plates. I lied to both of them (about each other) because I had become weak (physically due to medical issues and mentally from there on) and desperate to keep them in the picture because I had no confidence in my ability to replace them. Lying to a woman is the worst thing you can do. First, she's a better liar…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:41 PM
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There is no reason to cater to anyone. The mods and the community filter out participants who can't follow basic instructions like "read the sidebar (all of it) before posting." That is the "normie" gate. Everything below that level is chaff and has no place here. This community is self-selecting to the maximum degree. Anyone not willing to read, contemplate and apply is not welcome here. They dilute the offerings and they dilute the discussion. I understand your point about "graduate school" le…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:13 PM
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Why are you moving in with someone who cheated on you with a coworker, leaves town randomly and doesn't have the same life goals as you? Get the vasectomy, but why are you staying in this relationship? She's red flag city.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:26 PM
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I stalled hard the last year. Backslid emotionally, physically, mentally, fiscally. I let the epilepsy win. After three years of fighting it I let it win. I left my job, I stopped going to class, I stopped spinning my plates, I stopped approaching, I moved back home (major blow), I stopped working out- I let it become an excuse for failure at every level. I'm sick of my life. There is no victory anymore. I spend my life waiting on my next medical appointment at the VA while my paramedic license,…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:09 PM
13

"Women- can't live with 'em. Pass the beer nuts." - Norm Peterson
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:11 AM
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Considering that Elon Musk could potentially be considered the Nikola Tesla of our time, his financial and emotional wellbeing directly impacts the technological progress of mankind.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:33 AM
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This one is long gone. I'm just saying this won't work with every girl and to recognize when it won't. I eventually reached the same conclusion you did. Bitch could give some great head, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:21 AM
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I had one that just wouldn't crack with this. I'd get her chomping at the bit, go in to seal the deal, get shut down and go back to whatever we were doing before things got physical. I could reliably get my dick sucked, but she would finish me off and consider the issue settled and not push it further. I changed locations, escalated, ignored her, I even up and left. She just wouldn't bite. She's by far the exception, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 12:58 AM
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That has more to do with your self-control than anything. If HR didn't default to the side of women and minorities for legal reasons, I would agree, but unfortunately any woman you fuck at work holds your fate in the balance of her lying little lips. Why bother? There are 3 billion other slits walking the earth.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 07:12 AM
5

Don't shit where you eat. Pussy doesn't pay rent.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 07:07 AM
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I lost a longterm plate recently. 3 years long. She's not my only one but she was definitely my favorite. She's in full pre-wall free fall and she's desperate to find someone to settle down with. I took it as a loss at first until this realization hit: I won. I took a beautiful girl's best years. I fucked her inside out for 3+ years (22-26). I was the guy she called after a date, I was the guy she climbed off of before meeting some other dude to help her with an assignment. I was the guy who nai…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 06:03 PM
1

At the risk of initiating some global eyeroll, I'm very much a sigma type, so a "crew" has never really been a goal of mine. I maintain 2-3 plates comfortably and then typically poach from other dudes when I go out. I live near a bunch of overlapping campuses, so it's really not that difficult to do.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:39 AM
12

If you can get a woman to agree to you shitting on her chest, you basically own her.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 12:00 AM
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This is why I thoroughly believe in aftercare. You want to get inside a chick's head? Hold her after sex but few times else. Women will eat a mountain of shit for a spoonful of sugar.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 07:03 PM
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We should consider making this permanent. In 2012 when I first found this place I was Questions McGee because I was terrified of doing things wrong. One of the first changes I made (since I was already a runner and lifter and making good money) was to change how I addressed women by speaking only in statements. That alone yield significant results and I carried it over to real life conversations. Nothing destroys your image faster than asking questions, with both men and women. It automatically …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:46 AM
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You're doing it right by the sound of it. Also, not to be a dick, but I'm not your friend, I'm a stranger on the internet. You're kind and it's going to hurt you. Not saying you shoukd be a dickhead to people, but learn to be more discerning when you evaluate your relationships with people. I'm always glad to help younger guys out. As for marriage: I'm against it, but I also despise children. If you want a family, you're going to have to get married and I am 1,000% not the guy to get that advice…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:08 PM
2

I'm going to give my $0.02 because that's all I've got. I found TRP at 23 as I was leaving the Corps and I wish I'd realized this shit when I was in high school. Wear a condom. Wear a condom. Wear a condom. And if you aren't going to wear a condom, wear a condom. Wear your condom. Not the one she brought, yours. Don't keep the same shitty condom in your wallet for 6 months and use that. Don't keep it in your car for a year and use that. Buy a box of condoms, leave them next to your bed and if yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 03:27 AM
1

It's been thoroughly established that going 100% alpha in 100% of situations is not an effective methodology.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:45 PM
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To answer your question: Say you are emotionally unavailable Call you neglectful Bitch that you don't pay enough attention Accuse you of cheating Start going out "with the girls" or bring new guys into the picture to make you jealous (let's be real, chances are she already does this) Actually start cheating on you (if she isn't already) If she's crazy she may become abusive toward you or your belongings If she's really crazy start causing problems for you in your other close relationships, famil…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:41 AM
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You don't perform any. You don't play into them. A&A, pressure flip and radio silence will get you through 90% of shit tests unless you are a true DT type, in which case you wouldn't even need TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:39 AM
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Video games should be a minor vice. I play, but I would caution against the more consuming ones. They are negative ROI. You should be going radio dark while you train, educate, network or pursue other women.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:36 AM
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There's a happy medium. I stopped reading 8 months ago after having to burn a 6 year account to the ground (plate "friended" me on Reddit, I didnt even realize that was a thing). I backslid MASSIVELY because I wasn't engaged with others who share the mindset and methodology. I got complacent, I got lazy and I paid for it. I would say checking in frequently is good, but constantly viewing is bad. Just being here the last day or two shows me that a lot of dilution has occurred since I've been gone…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:15 AM
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You can soft-next a girlfriend just as easily as a plate. I would argue it's even easier given her emotional investment. She'll try to shit test the fuck out of you when you open other options up, but indifference is always the keys. If she leaves, she leaves.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:47 PM
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What are you doing currently to improve your SMV? You're a convenience item to these women if your SMV is low and they don't consider your loss significant.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:44 PM
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Kind of goes against rewarding good behaviors. If you use radio silence inappropriately it loses its effectiveness. You want to train her into the mindset that acts of service are the way to keep your attention.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:40 PM
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I realize it, I just weighed the benefits of drug use (short-term gratification and easier pussy) against the negatives and reality of dealing with the drama all drug-using women come with and decided my time, money and health were better spent elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 05:10 PM
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