tl;dr: TRP is like any self-improvement system; you can't just mentally masturbate over it, you have to become it.
If you are visiting TRP regularly you are either a newbie (which is fine) or you are seeking comfort from it, just like you'd be seeking comfort from other self-improvement systems, or games or porn or food...
Once you build enough confidence (because this is what it all boils down to) visiting TRP becomes meaningless.
You cannot expect a self-improvement system to do all the work for you; it will give you hints, ideas, however, you will have to be doing all the leg work. Do not delude yourself into thinking TRP is a cureall...
Focus on YOUR goals (not whatever goals are suggested by X Y Z);
do you want to be fit and healthy ? educate yourself on nutrition, medical science and a basic exercise routine.
do you want to have better mental health ? see a therapist, work on your particular issues.
do you want to be wiser, smarter ? educate yourself on many things, develop new hobbies, be curious about how things are made.
do you want better finances ? educate yourself on various ways to gain money.
do you want better "status" ? drop the toxic people and aim to mingle with people with higher "status"
do you want to build confidence ? do the above and put yourself in challenging situations.
do you want pussy ? this shouldn't be a goal in itself, but do the above...
stop reading field reports; seeking comfort and solutions by mentally masturbating over some other guy's life circumstances "this guy really is onto something... hmm I wonder if I could be a copy of him" bad idea stop trying to become others, be the best YOU that you can fathom.
stop writting them (seeking validation and comfort).
at the end of the day you set your own goals and your own lifestyle. you know what needs to be done, deep down, you do not need TRP to tell you.
just fucking go on about YOUR life, stop wasting time on TRP once you know the basics and don't be apologetic about it.
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