Summary: A friend breaks up with her boyfriend after 2 and half years, an hour later group of friends, she and I discuss who and how she going to fuck as soon as possible.

Body: I will try to keep it short as possible. So little background: This all happened yesterday, my friend (call her "Lost") got drunk around 3 pm and invited my LTR to talk. She said that after 2 1/2 years she just isn't happy (she is soon 20 years old) and that she really loves her boyfriend but he refuses to change for her (I met the guy, she means for him to stop being beta and become alpha already).

So this leads me to this: At 3 pm she got drunk as hell, at 4 pm she broke up, at 5 pm Lost, my LTR, DramaQueen (another friend of hers) and me met for a coffee. Everything was casual and we weren't even talking about the breakup. And then after 20 mins or so ( I was waiting for this part so I was kinda glad to get over it) DramaQueen asked how it went. Lost said she wasn't happy and she saw how a real relationship is suppose to work pointing at me and my LTR ( This was a personal win for me to be honest, since I've started cultivating my alphaness and applying TRP in my relationship it was and still is doing so great.). All the other "nice things to say when dumping him" things and whatever.

And now everything changed: Second later she finishes talking about the breakup she says and I quote: "Well I'm a free woman now, I just wanna fuck someone and I really don't care who." My reaction was TRP solified, I didn't even blink, it was that natural in my head she would want that. My old self would literally call her a whore and stormed out of a caffee. I really like Lost, as a friend she is a fellow introvert which I share a good music taste and I appreciate our little friendship but in my head only AWALT is ringing.

So why not test while I'm at it: So in the next 2 hours we have listed around 50 people (guys and girls) we knew that were single and she could try something with them. While they were running out of ideas I went with the most simplest theory: beta and alpha. First I have named the sweetest guy they know who is not ugly at all, tall, masculine, has a car, funny and witty. Their reaction was priceless: A face of disgust. All three of them literally stopped the chitchat and stared at me like I was retarded. I was laughing so hard and acting I don't understand. Then my LTR literally tried to explain it like this: "He is too much of a sweetheart. He would be all around her and she would have to explain to him how a relationship works. She can't always be the grown up in a relationship." Well I don't even have to explain what she meant by that, you all already know.

So let's try a different guy, and I knew just the guy for the job. I then mentioned a guy that through conversation has managed to slip some TRP phrases and so I believe he is on this subreddit. He is without a doubt a reformed alpha, very ripped off, beard, tattoos, IDGAF attitude all over the place, etc. Their reaction? As expected: "He is kinda dumb and an asshole, I wouldn't be in a relationship with him."

DramaQueen:"So just do a one night stand. He is so fuckable and with those muscles I bet he can fuck you so good." Lost:" Yeah one night stand is perfectly fine."

Closing thoughts: Best convo I've ever had in my life, and I love the fact they were so open and not pretending to be little princesess around me. Why? Cuz they literally told me that I'm that "rare kind of guy that just gets it." Life is great.

Quick lessons learned:

  • Doesn't matter how many years of dedication and hard work, if you are not doing it right she can just forget it in 2 hours and planing who to fuck next.
  • Don't hate the so called "sluts", they are easily understandable and they will appreciate you not out casting them, it's like seeing your teacher piss-drunk in an alley after the divorce, you won't talk shit in his face, you understand and on monday in school you just won't mention it. Same goes here, at least for me.
  • Girl are always on the prowl, they just can't be happy if they are alone, so stay a man and in her head you will be a "one night stand is perfectly fine."

Cheers.