| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 26, haven't been dating, struggling coming out of my shellhow... feel so far gone | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | 26, haven't been dating, struggling coming out of my shellI've been trying to get it together, even when I did "have it together" had a place and decent job but still felt like it's not enough, now I'm in car with a worse job no idea how I'm going to get better while in school and get a place. It's just overwhelming | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Watching pron and wasting energy instead of going after girls & goalsI live in my car | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26I just know I can be doing more than plumbing, I've tried trades and it feels like I'm just wasting away my life. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Stopped dating after success in early 20sWell I cared less, trained BJJ full-time, worked PT and lived at home | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Stopped dating after success in early 20sYeah working on it just moved starting school soon got a bar weekend job might start personal training during weekday PT, currently just have one. Just the mental side haven't been doing too good, hard to stay afloat sometimes | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26How, I mean I think school is a start but I really don't know what else or where I'm going, only thing I can control is grades | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26Doing bus admin-> accounting/finance, tried trades and really hard to move up or get experience ime | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26Yeah but it affects me whether I want to or not, I have terrible anxiety and other people can see it, they usually tell me I look angry or upset, even though I try not to be. I'm trying to find right medication now waiting for insurance, I microdose psyilocybin it helps a little. But it's very hard day to day | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26I'm angry at it but angry at myself also because I made my own mistakes I could've avoided or done things differently | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26I mean like lots of violence, dad was on drugs/alc took it out on me & mom police at my house every month... | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Feeling angry and depressed about current lifeWell even working FT won't really be able to afford place and goal is van life anyway. Trying accounting/finance, no idea what to study, qualify for some grants ~$5k/semester until getting bachelors. I found something FT yesterday but need a decent PT while in school. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Feeling angry and depressed about current lifeYeah my thinking has been off but I've been trying to get myself over the years not much success, making an effort at jobs I had but not much success in that either. Feel that school is only way I can get higher pay but feel unsure about it, no idea what to study just changing to business/finance now instead of IT. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Decent attractive guy, haven't dated in a while, life's a mess & angry at the worldAccounting/finance | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Decent attractive guy, haven't dated in a while, life's a mess & angry at the worldAnger mostly sometimes fear but not really | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Decent attractive guy, haven't dated in a while, life's a mess & angry at the worldYeah going back to school FT hoping it leads to a career but going to be a while, and still alot of the anger just affects everything in my life but I'm hopeful I can get into higher pay with school. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Decent attractive guy, haven't dated in a while, life's a mess & angry at the worldYeah well going back to school but idk still have anger no matter what i do | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure when girl shows interest, deluding myselfI've been able to develop a a few friendships with girls, and I'm actually able to open up more and more, the problem is when I'm interested or I think she's interested, then I think if I open up will I be enough? Or will I get hurt and rejected? And how do I develop a sexual relationship while feeling like enough, not insecure and scared this person is going to leave | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure when girl shows interest, deluding myselfI know it is yet I still believe it, what makes it worse is never being in a caring relationship, i cant really say when ive ever felt love in 25 years | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure when girl shows interest, deluding myselfnever been in a caring relationship, witnessed my mom get physically abused a lot, always had a hard time getting in healthy relationships, | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 06:37 AM |
| 6 | Feeling insecure when girl shows interest, deluding myselfI believe they don't like me, I'm not good enough, or have enough going on, despite being shown the opposite, or I don't look good enough, I haven't been with someone in a while so something must be wrong with me, I believe some girls are just better than me and I don't deserve them, I don't deserve love despite wanting it, I believe I'm scared to get hurt and open up, despite not knowing the future. These are some | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How to open up more? Start dating again?Just get your life together dude I'm toxic because I've witnessed all the women in my life get emotionally and physically abused and I've been abused, its not something you want to be, and you'll just end up feeling empty like I do... | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Going through dry spell, scared of rejection and opening up, childhood abuseI guess I just don't really know how, I've been feeling pretty lost. | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Going through dry spell, scared of rejection and opening up, childhood abuseYes I know I've been trying to find ways to cope while also trying to build my life | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How to open up more? Start dating again?What do you mean putting myself out there? I guess I haven't really, I've got a few numbers but haven't gone far, lost interest, I feel shame about my situation, probably because my parents made me feel a lot like a loser and belittled me for a long time despite my effort | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to open up more? Start dating again?I like this idea, have a lot of girlfriends at work but I've been afraid to lose my job doing this | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How to open up more? Start dating again?I agree I've been toxic but in my experience most of the girls are, at least in US, but mayne you're right, like i said i don't really know what a stable relationship looks like, and ive lived through a lot of abuse | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why am I nervous/scared? Waiter gameI guess I haven't found the one then, I think I just have trauma opening up to people/women from my childhood | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How to get date/# without pressuring girl?Yeah I get making a big deal of nothing don't know why I'm stuck in my head, I guess I'm not sure she'll like me not sure why I'm insecure about it. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why am I nervous/scared? Waiter gameIn general I can talk to anyone in regular life I don't approach women, only at work now and before, not really afraid because I approached many women | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Why am I nervous/scared? Waiter gameYeah I get that, I know I look good too just not feeling confident enough in myself, I blame the dry streak and mentally I've been alone and just having a hard time because I'm broke. I just don't want to feel rejected and also I don't really know how to ask for a date but in a less pressure way. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Dry spell, unsure why I'm self sabotaging, 25Nah I wouldn't say fulfilled but I learned a lot and I do feel guilty because I was doing it on purpose, I know I could have another girl so I would treat them all like sht, even though some of them like being treated like sht. But honestly I haven't learned what a healthy relationship is which I think is more important than just having a bunch of hookup stories. And I really understand the trust issue part because I am struggling with the same thing, so I choose to be alone. And honestly I thin… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyNah it's the antimen feminist propaganda they teach through school until college, unless you need some type of service then we're needed... | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingYep then remember is feeling scared going to be worse than the feeling of regret? Because most likely the regret is a worse and continuous feeling that you cant change and causes doubt in the future. | /r/seduction | 13/08/23 07:53 AM |
| 11 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingInaction = later regret that will eat you little by little and cause you to doubt yourself, action = some result whether positive or not at least you know. | /r/seduction | 12/08/23 07:50 AM |
| 0 | First thing to realise.Who cares what they think | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 8 | First thing to realise.That's on you, thinking you're ugly, maybe she thinks you look good... | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | First thing to realise.Yeah it's not that weird to ask how someone's day is going after commenting if they seem open, some people are more reserved in public, girls are usually the most reserved if you're a guy, but if you talk to more and they know you do they'll get more comfortable, making it easier... | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:29 AM |
| 0 | First thing to realise.Sometimes you say something that makes there day better ++ or they make you laugh + | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Based | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:54 AM |
| 15 | Made out with shy co-worker. She told me she's liked me for a while. Now she's avoiding me?Don't over think, leads to mistakes | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:13 PM |
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