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Fundamentals Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction05/06/25 02:24 PM
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Outer Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction04/06/25 01:27 PM
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Fundamentals Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction14/01/26 01:09 PM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction06/06/25 03:44 PM
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Inner Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction15/12/25 08:47 PM
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LifestyleKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction19/11/25 08:17 PM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction16/07/25 01:21 AM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction19/12/25 10:12 AM
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Inner Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction20/06/25 12:23 AM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction04/06/25 11:34 AM
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Inner Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction04/12/25 09:58 PM
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Fundamentals Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction15/12/25 02:25 PM
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Outer Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction07/07/26 10:00 PM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction12/01/26 03:54 PM
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Fundamentals Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction26/05/26 01:46 AM
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Outer Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction23/01/26 05:33 PM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction02/07/26 11:21 PM
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Outer Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction19/01/26 03:06 PM
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Field ReportKindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction26/12/25 08:00 PM
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Outer Game Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction24/02/26 10:51 PM
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Fundamentals Kindly-Tough-2091/r/seduction07/05/26 11:59 PM
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I guess this indirect approach will be more effective than being direct , because i think if straightely asked her out she will become defensive not because of me but maybe something to do with her personality and self esteem, that why building that idea inside her mind will be the best thing to do ,right ??
/r/seduction07/07/26 10:52 PM
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Even though i am seeing a positive reaction, like we make fun of each others and tease each other . I am not the laughing stock if that's what you mean !!
/r/seduction03/07/26 09:41 AM
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Hi , i totally agree with you , but my issue is more than that i am a social person , i talk to people all the time literally , older women , younger woman ..... . I am also good at small talk ,i think my issue is coming from lack of relation schema , i missed out on many opportunities, my issue is something new but rather not thought of . I don't when to act how act even though i have all the knowledge about it .
/r/seduction26/05/26 03:38 PM
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I totally agree with you .
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:29 PM
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The context is i don't want to be the guy who gets played by women intentionally or unintentionally ( sorry i thought we were friends ( when the whole time you were acting as a couple ) ) , or being used for certain reasons ( resources, quality time ) . I don't think context really matters , because no one wants to be used or get played .
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:27 PM
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I know them in real life , so what do you advise me to do, in general what would you do when someone is already into you , but i know for a fact if i acted the same she wouldn't, i know that my somewhat cold behavior, not caring was the reason why .
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:23 PM
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That was initially my plan until i found out that they are sisters, and now I don't know what to do hahahahah?
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:16 PM
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And me here just trying to get a conversation, sex isn't even my goal anymore, a conversation is my 2026 goal hahahahahahaha
/r/seduction28/01/26 11:13 PM
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If the cold approach is one of the versions , what are the others ??
/r/seduction23/01/26 07:04 PM
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Alright, but do you think that , approaching a lot of women would do you any good , why would i approach a girl and let her decide to choose me or not , why put myself in certain positions where i let others judge or qualify me as good for them , maybe if you are damn sure that she likes why not , but even if she likes but she is shy or whatever may be her excuses i don't think she likes you that much .all the girls that i attracted were either by eye contact , or just minding my own business al…
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:59 PM
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But in the social circle you will notice cues , IOI , but in public to random people i don't think it's the same. The whole issue with me is putting yourself in a position where you either get chosen or not , and i don't think you can show abundance in these situations or why would you approach in the first place.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:50 PM
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Hahahaha , no i am not
/r/seduction15/01/26 04:02 PM
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Is it really bad to go for someone of their calibre , aren't they people like us , and i also think that people who date in their league or based on certain criteria like personality, shared interest will feel the same sense of entitlement as me , because everyone has a some sense of entitlement to their achievement whether it be women , job , friends....
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:59 PM
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So ?? Based on this , a high value men have the same stacks as someone who is still on level 1 , with these girls . The only difference is that at least the high value man has something going out for him apart from dating.
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:48 PM
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I agree on treating women with respect and so on .but do you really think they can read me quicker than I can imagine, then why don't they read out the guys who are toxic , fuckboys and so on , then complain about how all men are bad , honestly you lost me in the second part .
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:41 PM
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What do you think is the best career to have access to these , i am not talking about a career with high income , but a career that will put me in those social environments.
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:26 PM
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This tactic is good for all female groups or just these types of girls , because i wanted to use it on a girl the other day and i was afraid it wouldn't work on normal girls .
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:22 PM
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What are the signs that a guy is boyfriend or husband material, and what is the difference between those signs or cues like clothes.... Of a husband material than of a fuckboy .
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:20 PM
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To be honest , it's more of a challenge than accomplishment , i would definitely feel entitled that i could date those types of girls , even though they come with a lot of problems, and also a part of it as you said it sources of validation.
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:21 PM
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Yes , the game is already stacked against the guy , but wouldn't it be any way to flip the game ? For me i think it's just a hard pill to swallow that men need to do more and work more for girls , whose whole work is to show up.
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:18 PM
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I partially agree, but , i know i might sound sexiest but girls especially superbabe rarely develop a personality, and i can even say that major of girls will not develop a personality untill they become older or never , so at least be sad with a status symbol on a short term obviously.
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:13 PM
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Yes , this is the way , but in order to be toxic , you need to be a high value man yourself. Cause if not you will only looked at as a hater .
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:05 PM
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Yes , social media is bad for standing out or even meeting people, i live in a relatively small town , and you can't fathom how much plenty of dm girls get , one time a girl i used to talk to couldn't answer my messages and when i asked her she showed me her dm , she wasn't even that 10/10 maybe 7/10 , even comment on a story is like a grain of sand in a beach .
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:02 PM
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So i am autistic, hahahahahahahahahahaha , probably. Idk
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:55 PM
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What made you say so ? Like genuinely?
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:53 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience with me , surprisingly i do share similar things with you , when i am not focused on getting girls , i do well literally, they even approach me first , but the thing for me is that the women that i want don't want me back and those who i am not attracted to , approach me the most . this way of thinking made me single and with no dating experience at 23 years old . Because i had this problem for as long as i can remember. Finally i am frustrated not because wome…
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:42 PM
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To be honest with you , i know people will criticize me for my approach,but i do pull the 4 and the 5 effortlessly ( they approach me first) , but i can't see myself with them , the same as women don't want a certain type of man , i also wouldn't want those type of woman. Finally i think you are right , i never had a dating experience because i never dated the 4 and the 5 to kickstart my dating life .
/r/seduction20/12/25 11:19 AM
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Yes that sounds good . About the conversation part i know how it feels when people who have high interest in me talk with me , but stepping back will definitely help.
/r/seduction20/12/25 11:03 AM
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Yes , you nailed it , because when i go home after going out all night , i feel a bit of depression and no satisfaction at all as if i didn't achieve anything, i am sure that i am outcome motivated rather than process motivated, and i do link my success to my identity, how did you know ? And how can i fix this ?
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:58 AM
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Surprise , surprise my chest is already big hahahahahaha.
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:51 AM
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Yes i do approach, but not as much as people in this sub , my social skills are good , if i would really diagnose my problem , i think it stems from my inner game , honestly what you said is true about being picky that's why i become performative when talking to a beautiful girl .
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:50 AM
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I will definitely try that.
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:45 AM
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Anywhere, but street is the most common.
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:44 AM
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I would rather be single then .
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:18 PM
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You are correct, yes i wouldn't want a girl whose whole personality is having a boyfriend, and yes i can agree with you that i am too invested in this . And No girls don't just drop me off they just go cold , when I start investing less , like if i don't do the initiative, they simply won't talk .
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:18 PM
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That's what I've been thinking, but how to get a break ?
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:12 PM
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Yes i know , a) i am doing something wrong, b) my friends aren't the type that introduce you to girls , or maybe i am just not the guy who my friends introduce the girls to , idk . But how to know what i am doing wrong??
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:10 PM
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Yes , i do cold approach, but in a way that you might think, I don't approach everyone, i am a bit picky.
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:08 PM
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I think you might be on something, because when i travel, i become a different type of guy . I don't want to move somewhere else because one of the reasons is to have success in my city , and about the other areas in my life ( fitness , finance..) I've been working on them as long as i can remember , i might lack in some areas but that's not the deal breaker.
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:07 PM
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Which is ??
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:03 PM
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This approach is never heard of for me at least , but i think it might work for me, knowing from my experience, when i set my mind to get a number from a girl , i Always fail because i start performing, but whenever i am comfortable and girls happen to be close , they easily approach me for different reasons, this happen alot in my university, when i set my mind to approaching girls or knowing them i do terribly, but when i am in a fun state with myself ,they themselves join in .
/r/seduction17/12/25 02:51 PM
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You gave a whole different point of view about my inner game. I think i fall in the 2nd and 4th .
/r/seduction17/12/25 02:36 PM
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Yes i am open to more insights if it will eventually help me become better , i was gonna ask you anyway about how can i learn more about this.
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:22 PM
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I am not searching for a quick route but i just wanna make my inner game , my main trait that's all, cause i see a lot of guys getting manipulated by sex , love , attachment,sense of comfort and i don't wanna be that weak knowing that I never dated , still a virgin , and failed a lot of talking stage , my inner game for me ( no performing ....) is to still be me even if i get the girl . Did that make sense , and to have the most seductive personality.
/r/seduction06/12/25 11:00 PM
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This comment is so on point , where did you learn all about this , i think this is emotional intelligence i guess something like that right ??? I can agree with you because my social group and the way they see me is different from how i see myself, and the way i act is totally different from the way i feel , did i get it right ?
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:51 PM
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Can you elaborate more about the strategy.
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:39 PM
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I already experienced that when I saw a picture of mine when i was just getting to university i looked far better than I thought I was , what sickens me is that I missed a lot of opportunities just because i didn't think i was good enough. When In fact I was awesome.
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:09 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:47 AM
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Yes i think you are Right, but you will not move on from every interaction just because the guy is more attractive than you . right ??
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:46 PM
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You gave me by far the best reply , the thing you just said resonated with me .
/r/seduction04/06/25 11:44 PM
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I do think that your point is true ,but it's hard to not expect anything , it may be easy because you have a gf but for us the single is pretty tough . especially if you don't have little to no game .
/r/seduction04/06/25 11:38 PM
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Hhhh so how to become the ice cream
/r/seduction04/06/25 01:23 PM
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Yes you are partially right ,but people that have something going on in their life tend to struggle getting a woman or a partner , the guys around me that get laid constantly aren't what you think , they have nothing going out for them , they aren't pursuing a degree , they work regular minimum wage jobs even if they work in the first place , they do look good though , but it's more than looks i guess
/r/seduction04/06/25 01:19 PM
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