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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Where am I going wrong with my approach to dating?I friendly banter, make them laugh, and just be me Shit, I realised that's grade A level of bestie behaviour | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Where am I going wrong with my approach to dating?What do you mean by "raw male power"? | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Where am I going wrong with my approach to dating?Could you elaborate on that? | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Update: I spoke with herThank you king 👑 | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/09/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else overwhelmed by the dating advice?I'm aware I'm the last person to give dating advice but this is my observations from my mates that are in relationships. Before I do, I just want to point out the "ex", so it's not that it's going to be impossible for you to be in a relationship. Don't chase a relationship, you can't force a relationship, if it happens it happens. Again doesn't mean you don't shoot your shot if you come across someone you actually fancy. Most relationships begin as friends, as friends, you'll see each other in y… | /r/MenSupportMen | 10/08/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Do I meet Face to Face?Thank you for replying. As I've mentioned, I honestly have gone past wanting a relationship a long time ago, now, it doesn't even feel like a friendship. That's what's getting to me, she puts 0 effort in keeping a conversation, nor does she show any enthusiasm in the things I like or even pretend to and I've always been the one to ask her out never the other way around....the only time she did was at uni for lunch, the day after she cried. A few of my close friends all said the same thing, she's… | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/07/24 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Do I meet Face to Face?Thanks for replying The thing is, I don't mind it, I would love a friendship with her, but as I mentioned it felt one sided and free counselling. As I've mentioned, she never asked how my days are, what I've been up to, or anything to carry a conversation....that, that is what I have an issue with. I was told I shouldn't expect things from people, but am I wrong to feel that the mentioned things are the bare minimum? And it's something everyone should do? | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/07/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | No social lifeNot really...no | /r/MenSupportMen | 15/04/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | I give up on loveHey Anhedonia after reading your comment as well as PatientFoundation, I agree with both of y'all. I do have some hobbies which may have been missed out from my side but is understandable as generally sometimes people don't have them so hence is suggested and I also agree with you that it's fine for someone to want something more from life and I appreciate you for that but I also agree with PatientFoundation because, as clearly derivable from my post, it appears I've been to focused on trying to… | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/06/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I give up on loveThank you good sir ♥️ | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/06/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I give up on loveThanks for this! And to clarify, when I said the second quoted sentence....I'm a more of a person who loves hugging people and being physically there with people and since she knew it .....she didn't want me to be committed as there won't be any physical contact between us....if that makes sense? | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/06/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I give up on loveReally appreciate, much love dude ♥️ | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/06/23 01:55 PM |
| 2 | I give up on loveI'm 20 | /r/MenSupportMen | 31/05/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Are women irl as toxic as the toxic feminists on reddit?If I may give my two cents for this. I really try to avoid generalisation of things, sure sometimes do but it's a behaviour I'm still working on. When it comes to feminism or any social movement, such, the MalesRightsMovement, Feminism or any other communities, you're always gonna have people who are toxic, that's just how it is. The issue is, these toxic ones have the loudest voice and hence paint everyone else in a bad picture. Since the topic is feminism, I cannot say how much online media ha… | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/05/23 05:25 AM |
| 2 | I want to learn Martial ArtsI do not want to persue it as a profession, it's more of like how some go to Karate classes just to train themselves? That's the sort of mind set I have going for this, if that makes sense? | /r/MenSupportMen | 08/05/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn Martial ArtsSo you would suggest going to a normal gym rather than training for fighting though it's not a career choice of mine? | /r/MenSupportMen | 08/05/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Made to feel like I'm missing out on lifeI mean sure...why not...I'll TLDR it for you - Bad timing - Had a chance but she shifted states permanently. | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/05/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Made to feel like I'm missing out on lifeHey, hope you're doing well, love the comment! I do realise that life's not only about work but about forming relationships. Being an ambivert ( as people point out that I am), I find it hard to meet new people and like to keep to myself but when I get comfortable, I am the most energetic guy you've seen. I'm still trying to meet new people, slowly but surely I guess? | /r/MenSupportMen | 29/04/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Made to feel like I'm missing out on lifeI appreciate your comment ! I do try out new things as long as the risk analysis checks out as I've mentioned in another comment. Thanks again! | /r/MenSupportMen | 29/04/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Made to feel like I'm missing out on lifeHey, hope your day is going well! So I understand what you mean and I feel that too sometimes but the thing is, I perform risk analysis on certain decisions. So I'll sort of run over from a mentioned comment why I haven't done the mentioned. So for drinking, I've lost closed ones from being under the influence and from observing my peers' behaviour when doing the same, from just starting fights to being the weirdest people to hang around with, it's not something I would like to indulge in. For F… | /r/MenSupportMen | 29/04/23 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Made to feel like I'm missing out on lifeI mean, my interests have a correlation coefficient of 1 to my academics....but I'm also trying to branch into other activities such as coffee brewing, writing stories/poems, cars, mountain biking, videography/photography, and might take up music as well.....but yeah, these are a few things I feel like I'm growing a passion for..I know it seems illogical but I do like all of them. | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/04/23 01:26 PM |
| 3 | How to balance academics and fitness?Thank you for this, just wanted to add a few things. I do stay on campus and we do have a gym, however we cannot "cut down" on the number of classes we take as a result my day goes from 9 to 4pm. Leaving me with a limited time to study, approx 4hrs a day. And I genuinely struggle to wake up at 6 in the morning. With respect to my diet, I have completely stopped eating junk food and all sugary items except on special occasions. And as mentioned my Uni doesn't provide the healthiest of food option… | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/04/23 09:53 AM |
| 2 | How to balance academics and fitness?Really appreciate it Altair, will try to accommodate time 👑 | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/04/23 09:50 AM |
| 2 | How to balance academics and fitness?I will genuinely try my best to follow this, will update Yall! | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/04/23 09:49 AM |
| 2 | How to balance academics and fitness?That's the problem my dude, so my academic day begins at 9 and goes till 4. Now from next week, I have my examinations beginning. So from 5-7, I have to study followed by dinner and then study again from 9-11:12ish. Also our dorms require us to be inside before 9pm. And I'm genuinely struggling to wake up at 6am And my Uni doesn't provide the healthiest of food either, it's more of fried items. | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/04/23 09:48 AM |
| 3 | I don't know if my mate's realHe's better now....but now I'm very open with him. And like when he crosses the line I make sure...I let him know. | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 3 | I don't know if my mate's realI tried to distance myself but he always comes to me. | /r/MenSupportMen | 22/03/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps or not?Thank you for this! Will keep them in mind before proceeding further. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/02/23 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Dating apps or not?Really appreciate it my dude, hope you find yours too! | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/02/23 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Inconsiderate roommatesI might not go for an earplug, would it be possible to be unaware of your alarms with plugs in? If not, I'll try them out. As I mentioned, the second guy and I are mutually understandable. I love that guy, but he hates confronting, he's a yes guy, so he doesn't stand up against the third guy. So at this point it's just him and me. I'll try to make him understand and worse comes to worse, I shift. | /r/MenSupportMen | 29/12/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Am I stressing myself for no reason?Hey man, sorry to hear that. It's honestly fine to feel a bit shit now and then, it happens to everyone. If you feel that it's not a phase that may pass by, I think it's time to talk with someone about it. You have a wife my dude, talk with her, y'all did vow to be there for each other through good times and worse. Talk with her privately, tell her what's going on and maybe she can help you feel better. If you don't feel that it wasn't helping, you can always reach out to a professional. Maybe t… | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/07/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | I do not like the person I've become.Hey mule! So with regard to the handshakes, I do not mean like them, but like a short firm handshake, that's it. As I was clarifying below, when I meant I was loud, I do not mean being in an obnoxious way, it's more of a bold and confident way of speaking? If that makes sense, as compared to then, I'm now a mouse, when I talk I'm very soft that you have to make me repeat myself again and you won't even know I'm in the room and as much as I regret it , I would have to be transparent and say yes t… | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I do not like the person I've become.Thanks man! | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/06/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | I do not like the person I've become.Thank you, it does make sense! As I was telling u/cravin_more , I do feel a bit lost and weird trying to go through this but I'm definitely trying! And I definitely agree with keeping my distance and I'm beginning to do that, place definite boundaries and expecting people to respect them. However I'm also trying to not let the smallest things get to me, if that makes sense? Like knowing when to react to what and how? | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 3 | I do not like the person I've become.Thanks man, I'm trying to take it little by little and it does feel a bit awkward but I'm trying. I definitely get what you mean by balance and the examples you stated. I just feel a bit lost but I'm getting there, thanks again! | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/06/22 05:24 PM |
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