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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | She only wants sex ina relationship, I don’tI haven’t had sex with her yet | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 12:08 PM |
| -1 | Pro Tip - Get on Cialisumm, isn't that just viagra? might give you ED if you abuse it. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 03:37 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected by a girl, but her friends still reach out.Yeah I posted this in the other sub with more detail and posted this here to see what the men here think. I am already texting another girl from the group to test the waters, but jessica is the one I would ask what really is going on. I don’t want to waste my time and linger around for a girl that is undecided even if she does like me. I feel like I want to text annie directly as well, but I feel like I should give her space to come around herself. This situation is so off that I can’t stand not… | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How can I increase my libido and overall desire?Maca root? | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingDemographics are important, i live in the tropics in a city of about 2 mil. People my age are up and comers and young professionals, and some college girls here and there. If the girls you are shooting for are looking for that, then those are the wrong girls. The girls here just want connections and someone who understands. Its deeper for us hispanics. Those girls that you are describing are looked down upon by everyone here and those are only good for a quick fuck. They will switch up on you fo… | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingBy not overthinking what to talk about. “This traffic jam is nuts”, “i hate red nail polish” “this coworker is driving me crazy” just be yourself and share your experiences. Saying these things to 5 different people is easy. Also if the convo fizzles out i dont try to continue just talk to them at night to check in. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingNever said I didn’t like juggling. I said I found someone worth it to stop and that hasn’t happened in years. Simple as that. Women do it too so why can’t we? | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingGo someplace public, a bar or something. Leave the house for later or for a second date. Obviously escalate somewhere more private. Never force the deed. It will come naturally. You and women also will notice that it is being forced. The deed happens when you both are making out, and you start moving your hand around her lady parts slowly but naturally. She will either give you red light by stopping your hand or green light by letting it flow. I remember once I told a girl who gave me red light … | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingYou ask them out casually and after a few drinks it comes out naturally, i don’t really flirt over the phone unless we already have at least kissed. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingJust like that. I never put one on a pedestal(except this one girl I met). Never overthink things and once you treat them all the same, with honesty and vulnerability. Like you are talking to a friend not someone you want to fuck. Conversation usually comes easy even if you are talking nonsense or talking about your day. I don’t play games in a sense that, oh she responded late I will respond later. They either match my vibe or they don’t and I have my answer. It also helps getting rejected a lo… | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingI get it, and I own my mistakes I am very new to dating seriously. I just want to gain her trust back somehow. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingIt’s the solid 1 right now for me, but I think it might be too far gone and it hurts to lose that. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingAnd I only want 1 of them. I lost interest in the rest. This is my problem. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:40 PM |
| 93 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himBro has it so easy it turned him gay | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond?I sincerely forgot, I am at a point in my life where I am meeting many women, so I have a hard time keeping up with all of them and making plans. I only have those I am reeeaally attracted to on priority in my brain. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Movies that show seduction properlyThanks for the recommendations. I am sure to watch both | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 9 | You won’t get her by needing herThis | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | She just confessed her feelings for meEdited the post for more depth on conversation. What I meant with ‘not my first time doing this’ is that I have had been hit on by women with boyfriends, and have given in before to temptation so I really am trying to do better. I am going to tread lightly and not catch feelings. At the end of the day my main focus is hooking up. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | She just confessed her feelings for meIf anything she is the one flirting with me dude. I just decided to entertain her this time, and she drops the bombshell on me… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 3 | She just confessed her feelings for meNot really | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you need social media for modern dating?They can use it as a reference. For her friends to see what you look like as well. It will improve your chances for a yes for sure. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | What does not giving a fuck/not giving a shit mean exactly?Everyone struggling with approaches and getting devastated by rejections needs to know what not giving a fuck means. You first need to love yourself, before loving others. You need to think of yourself as the prize. Us men honestly give way too much effort and time to get girls and it smells. Girl's sense desperation in guys. Everyone here has basically said the same thing but just know, This is the way. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:14 AM |
| 2 | What does not giving a fuck/not giving a shit mean exactly?this is spot on | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Confused about dating multiple girls... How do I get in a better mindset?I have talked to multiple at a time as well. It honestly worked in my favor because I wouldn't feel as bad when I would get rejected. My key was that I wasn't leading anyone on. I would go out with these girls and just have a good time. I would never tell them how I felt about them or what I wanted. Call me an asshole if you want. Girls do this too. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | What would you guys do in this scenario if anythingInvite her out for drinks. She says no? move on Is she on the fence? tell her to bring a friend. You can bring a friend of your own and make it a 2x2. She says yes? you know what to do | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Best advice I can give youWomen notice when you are out hunting. (ex: looking around the room for the hottest woman around) It gives you an air of desperation that turns them off immediately to know people and build meaningful relationships, they won't forget you anytime soon. Just rip the bandaid off and let yourself be known without trying. Women notice when you are out hunting. (ex: looking around the room for the hottest woman around) It gives you an air of desperation that turns them off immediatly | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Do you need social media for modern dating?Well, some girls are gonna think that's weird. Yes, we are at the age that not having some sort of social media is wierd. I would just make a quick Instagram profile, you just need like two pics in there at least. You do not even need to keep up with it or add more pics. It will give girls a certain peace of mind. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Everything will be okay :)You will find the one | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:55 AM |
| 10 | Asked a girl out and she said 'awww'Just ask her “are you free tonight/tommorow night?” That will get her to take the hint. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl overYes, Commander! Lol thanks for your thoughtful response | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl overI know it seems that way. Imma be completely honest, i am not the type of guy who will make a move on a friend unannounced. I have to feel that something is there. I feel like I will never know unless i get her on her own. I just don’t want to deal with her other friends since it will just turn into a girl hangout/conversation spot I do not wanna be a part of. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Unless the pic is almost nudity where she is in her underwear/lingerie, feed her ego and compliment her. Anything else like telling her it’s not ok and that she shouldn’t post hot pictures will just show her how insecure you really are and the relationship’seduction will go downhill fast | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Are my approaches disorganised?Words of Wisdom | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Trying to be better. I have a plan for the next three monthsHold yourself accountable. Do not forget. Have a practical plan where you have a meet up with a girl you are interested in once a week for example. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Enjoying things for what they're worth: A lesson on neediness, staying present, and self relianceAll three outcomes you mentioned could happen. I would keep contact casual but fun, and not everyday. Maybe two times a week MAX, try to interact with her. It is only a month dude, that really isn’t too much in the long run. Try to find a concert or something a month away to make plans for when she gets back. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | How effective is “have I seen you before?”Yup, im a serial overthinker. Not with my looks but what I say. Im traumatized about experiences where I have made a fool of myself | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 01:59 AM |
| 2 | How effective is “have I seen you before?”I hate bragging but girls like me. I know im good looking, but my problem is my outer game Edit: to give a better perspective, I get looks and girls playing with their hair at least half the time. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | How effective is “have I seen you before?”Thanks for your thoughtful response | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 01:45 AM |
| 4 | How effective is “have I seen you before?”You dropped this…👑 | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 07:53 PM |
| 3 | How effective is “have I seen you before?”Not really, just something i tried this past weeknd | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotTo add to this, you are losing time as you say? if you are going to try long-term with a girl do not force it or go too fast. That all ends in failure | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 04:14 PM |
| 7 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotAny examples? I should also try roasting and teasing more | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 04:11 PM |
| 58 | How effective is “have I seen you before?”Ooo nice! | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I see this girl everywhere I goSound advice comrade | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 04:59 PM |
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