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| 3 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?It's a discussion you can't really have in most circles these days, so its almost therapeutic to be able to do so. There is a danger of becoming bitter or resentful, and I don't hate women of course. All those chores you mention - I don't think they're particularly dangerous or require that much strength. I think every adult who is able should be able to do certain things, male or female. Also don't get why say throwing out the garbage is the male job by default, unless if it is super heavy. Yes… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?Are you saying that's a current or new belief, or also historical? Because it seems in Victorian literature there was more emphasis on female character, even if they were objectified for their beauty, which is lacking today. Yet men are still judged on that. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?Stand up for their rights? Take no shit from their man? Earn as much as men? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?I have no issue with women working in different fields of course, but I think anything overly male or female dominated can be bad. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?That's a good point that is often overlooked. Patriarchy might on the surface seem to only benefit men, but sometimes it apparently benefits women. Lifeboats on the Titanic comes to mind. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?Yeah I acknowledge women do have a ton of pressures, of course. It does feel a lot of it is due to appearance etc, which isnt cool, though some is related to how they should act etc. I suppose in the past there was a lot of pressure for them to act a certain way. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 01:19 AM |
| 9 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?I mean, I wouldn't mind that rhetoric if the same applied to women. Why would a man try to be some traditional strong man if the typical Gen Z woman doesnt want to be the traditional woman? I'm not even that big on traditionalism, but I realise the value of certain traditions and norms. I just want to see consistency. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/25 03:58 PM |
| 32 | Why does it seem only men are encouraged to improve themselves and take responsibility?I've noticed many of these people appealing to men or men's rights are in effect actually reinforcing this. Like right wingers or 'conservatives' basically emphasising how men need to sacrifice for their women and be cannon fodder for their nation. I don't see much 'how about everyone try to be better' from ideologues on either side. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI dont think it's good on a societal level, and personally am not that into continuous casual sex with people I don't have a connection with. I think it's more the inequalities of dating than hookup culture per se though that's a bigger issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel online dating is alienating the sexes more?I think tech has facilitated/encouraged that a lot more. Made us even more shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you think female friendships are closer/stronger than male?I mean, my best friend is female and I'd say half of my friends are. They're mostly on the autism spectrum/neurodivergent and have mostly male friends themselves, so I feel there's a link there. I feel many women aren't tolerant of difference in their friend group (men too, but I feel they social police less). Like some women are outwardly friendly/welcoming but secretly really judge you. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The rising trend in female bisexuality and what it means for men and male sexualityHave you asked every woman you've met? Many claim theyre totally straight and have never done anything with women or desire to. Sure, some aren't being totally honest, but I'll give anyone the benefit of the doubt until I have reason not to. Also don't discount the influence of society and culture. There are/have been cultures where most or all men were bi. Its just currently its more accepted or encouraged among women. I also think female sexuality may be somewhat different to male in general. … | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 05:08 PM |
| 8 | More men single, but these stats seem off to meNot just Dail Mail, many have reported on this. Still there's gotta be a heck of a lot of women in their 20s with men in their 30s for this to make sense. I don't think the other reasons account for that much. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessI seem to attract those like me I guess, not the most successful at relationships. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessAlmost all of my friends, male and female, are single. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/23 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be better if more men with gay or bi? For men into women.That's part of it, but I mean...I wonder how much reducing the supply of available men will change things. I heard one stat that claimed 25% of young black women now identify as bisexual. One explanation given was the shortage of black men. In nature homosexuality in either sex does often increase where there's a relative shortage of the opposite sex. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Wouldn't it be better if more men with gay or bi? For men into women.That's part of it. Like it is a bandwagon/seen as cool or even the right thing to do for some (not all of course). Like they might be straight/mostly straight and play that up. It does sometimes go together with anti male rhetoric too. Likewise the huge surge in girls transitioning, or ahem, AFAB transmen. Don't tell me its not at least partly a trend. Teenage girls in particular seem susceptible to peer pressure. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it be better if more men with gay or bi? For men into women.Yeah I feel many go to evolutionary explanations for things that culture mostly explains. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 02:44 PM |
| -7 | Do you think men are important?Would you say a woman's intrinsic importance is based on childbirth, though? Or on attractiveness to males? | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Wouldn't it be better if more men with gay or bi? For men into women.I feel the over sexualisation of women by men is also backfiring on men, with the huge increase in women especially identifying as LGBT+. Ask many hetero women and they'll say women are just more beautiful, sexy, they'd rather be with an attractive woman than average man. I've said it before, but more women will leave men for women (the demonisation of men plus glorification and sexualisation of women, less impetus to have a family, resources etc) and make it even harder to find women. Apparentl… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be better if more men with gay or bi? For men into women.I feel the over sexualisation of women by men is also backfiring on men, with the huge increase in women especially identifying as LGBT+. Ask many hetero women and they'll say women are just more beautiful, sexy, they'd rather be with an attractive woman than average man. I've said it before, but more women will leave men for women (the demonisation of men plus glorification and sexualisation of women, less impetus to have a family, resources etc) and make it even harder to find women. Apparentl… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 02:06 PM |
| -5 | Wouldn't it be better if more men with gay or bi? For men into women.What are your thoughts on the idea that because men like two women together, they are naturally more bisexual? Like cos of co parenting, to entice men, whatever. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Birth control and Women's PreferenceDunno if you're aware of the studies saying women's arousal is less 'category specific' too. Wonder if that's related. I do wonder if women would appreciate men more if they weren't on the pill. It's hard to determine now as many women have been psychologically influenced by the pill for so long...plus the sexualisation of women in culture plays a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Birth control and Women's PreferenceI wonder if the prevalence of BC has led to a rise in bisexuality in women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?In what way? I did read one reddit user say going off birth control made her more interested in men visually. Maybe that's part of it? | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I’m a women that’s an avid supporter of men’s rights.. but some discussion here is concerning…Yeah that's why I try not to get too caught up. Some might accuse me of sitting on the fence, but for me it's about trying to respect everyone and actually pursuing fairness and equality. I agree nowadays the rhetoric is mostly anti male, but to do what the radical bigoted self labelled feminists do makes you the same as them. There are a lot of really jaded and bitter people out there who latch on to an ideology that accords with their grievances. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Female bisexuality/lesbianism and the devaluation/disdain of men, also polyamoryNot being so thirsty and desperate might go some way to increasing their value, cos atm its at an all time low. Even raise the subject of the devaluation of men and women get angry and defensive. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?'Lesbian' is the most popular porn category for women in most western countries. A lot of women say it focuses more on female pleasure, hetero porn is rough, misogynistic, more about male pleasure. Plus the fetishization of lesbianism began in the West in the 90s but really 70s with porn (think the film series Emanuelle if you're aware of it). Then many researchers point to biological/evolutionary explanations while ignoring the huge socio-cultural factors. Even in the US male bisexuality exceed… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?I can appreciate it, certainly, but I'm generally aroused/romantically attracted by women. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?In some cases it was the norm for most or all men in a community to engage in homo as well as heterosexual behaviour. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?Commoner than female, but in some cases commoner than male heterosexuality. Pure homosexuality is actually a lot rarer than male or female bisexuality. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?Do you think our society/media has sexualised women to the point it makes them more bisexual? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?So they keep telling us, but I feel a lot of it is culture. Maybe in some ways, but men's is a lot more fluid than allowed. In most cultures male bisexuality seems commoner. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Why “manchild”, but never “womanchild”?I know just as many immature women, tbh. It's just usually judged less, tbh. You also don't hear people say 'be a woman.' I have also thought that since men never give birth etc in a way they never reach a certain level as women (shoot me if you will). | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this study? Are most even straight women more attracted to hot women than average men?Apparently they gazed longer at the more attractive male models. I think most people will naturally look more at whats attractive regardless of orientation/attraction. Doesn't mean they want to sleep with them. I think many women are more comfortable rating other women as attractive/sexy too. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenWow | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenWas she like this in general or mostly to you? Like did she hide it? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenYeah I figured most women are like that - maybe most are - and was a little shocked to hear all these stories. Surely it's a minority nowadays anyway. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenI mean it sounds like something a socio/psychopath would say. What was she like otherwise? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenWtf, I'd be shocked if a man responded like that, even a stranger, let alone ones ex. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Men crying in front of womenMakes sense. How someone wants to be percieved and how they are is often different. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Men crying in front of womenWe're all emotional and rational beings. The idea that men are one and women the other is such bullshit. I think it's one area MRA etc and feminists need to unite on imo. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Men crying in front of womenI do think plenty are genuinely supportive, but yeah some still pretend to care cos its the PC thing to say but secretly hold these bs views and attitudes. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Men crying in front of womenWtf. More women need to be called out on their lack of empathy. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenYeah part of it is cos we're told not to trust men, we can't approach them etc, and tbf some men don't make it easy either. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Men crying in front of womenYet if it's a feminist sub I expected more men insisting how women have only been supportive etc. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenI sure hope you're not in a small minority. It's weird these responses don't seem to accord with what I perceive, unless a lot of these women aren't being honest. If someone left me cos I cried (and if I cry I'm really feeling it) I wouldn't want them in the first place. Like it'd show me a lack of empathy, regardless of gender roles. Wonder what your friend would think if a man left a woman for crying. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Men crying in front of womenUgh, like where's your empathy, do you have to make everything an opportunity to make a political point? (Not you your wife, no offence to her I'm sure she is great in many ways). | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenYeah I suspect it's a lot to do with the circles you're in. I can't imagine anyone I'm close with doing this but then again I've never tested it.. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenYet ironically, being able to cry if you need to shows confidence, that you don't care about being judged about being authentic. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Men crying in front of womenWow yeah, I can't imagine anyone I know acting like that, but I can imagine some I see. They probably go for muscly guys with lots of tatts who always wear singlets, lol jk stereotyping. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | The idea female friendships are stronger than male friendshipsYeah thats pretty common for men and women. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Online dating makes women devalue menI have done, did have two short term relationships but its been years. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Online dating makes women devalue menYeah i mean...I'm not saying its good per se, but it's nature and many feminists think if only women get along we'll all live in a happy matriarchal utopia, maybe like bobobos... | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Online dating makes women devalue menI meet more single mothers personally. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Online dating makes women devalue menYet ironically many seem very insecure about their appearance, but it really goes hand in hand. Ergo many will say women are objectively better looking, they notice women more, what are all these beautiful amazing women doing woth ugly men etc... | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Online dating makes women devalue menSo where are most women finding partners? It doesn't seem many meet irl as much anymore. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menI've heard those theories. Conversely in many polygynous species males have sex with males, esp if they don't have access to females. So if this is the case, it would go both ways, not only females being bi while men without wives just being abstinent, but males also doing it...but it seems this isnt really the main reason anyway. Homosexuality is most prevalent in bonobos which have a mixed system that isn't monogamous or polygamous. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 07:42 AM |
| 7 | Have you noticed all the articles etc celebrating single women, but few for men?But if we assume the genders have a similar desire to find a partner that seems odd..unless men actually do have less of a desire. Wouldnt make sense for women to. Many of these women do want relationships not just sex too. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 07:39 AM |
| 12 | Have you noticed all the articles etc celebrating single women, but few for men?I don't think you can generalise by gender like that, but it seems nowadays (maybe unlike the past), men are told they need to be with someone to be happy, whereas with womens its almost the opposite. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 07:37 AM |
| 9 | Have you noticed all the articles etc celebrating single women, but few for men?I mostly want a relationship, romance etc. Sex would just be a bonus. And I think it's true of more men than many realise. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 07:04 AM |
| – | Have you noticed all the articles celebrating women being single compared to men?Yeah I mean there are good things about being single too, it doesnt mean your life has to be miserable. I do think its still a factor for how many are valued but not to the same extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:06 AM |
| – | Have you noticed all the articles celebrating women being single compared to men?Yeah I get that, but at the same time it seems society, including many feminists, are encouraging it in women but not men. In many ways it seems they want to flip a lot of traditional gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:50 AM |
| – | Have you noticed all the articles celebrating women being single compared to men?Yeah I mean, speaking in evolutionary terms, those who don't reproduce are genetic failures in a way, but that doesn't mean they're failures at life. That is after all what status is for on a biological level. Its interesting nowadays you have more women saying they don't want children too, which you'd think would go against natural instinct. Like more power to them, we have too many people, but...yeah just want on a tangent lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menYeah exactly. Many women are into gay porn, so its not just men who like two members of the other sex together. I remember seeing a Greek painting of a mmf threesome conga line lol. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 01:50 AM |
| 2 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menHaha | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 01:49 AM |
| 7 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menTrue. Of course female desire/lust can be unattached to that, but it plays more of a role than male. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 08:05 AM |
| 3 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menWell the Greeks are among the hairiest in the world, so obviously it didnt stop them celebrating the male form. I think the revulsion against body hair is a more modern thing anyway. Also remember women remove a lot of their body hair and many are naturally quite hairy. Statues were made with small penises not because they were feminine but because large penises were seen as animalistic. Finally body hair varies a lot by ethnicity. Many Asian and African men are less hairy than many European, Mi… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 05:35 AM |
| -3 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menI think feminists go too far blaming everything on the patriarchy, but I do think a certain type of patriarchal power structure does exist. If more MRAs recognised that they could I think rectify things. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menI know there are reasons why things are the way they are, but it'd be better if men and women were more equally sexualised. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menI do feel a lot of it was created by men - the patriarchy if you like. Like over sexualising women and under sexualising men has backfired as some women are more erotically interested in their own sex. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 04:58 AM |
| 20 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menIt's depressing. It seems popular for many women to downplay how attracted they are to men nowadays. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 04:57 AM |
| 11 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menLike for instance for a lot of women they're more aroused by being the subject not the object. Like when they see a sexy woman they imagine BEING the woman not having sex with her. Whereas men in general tend to see her as an object. Generalising but from what many women say it seems to hold. Also despite what some claim, in general arousal for most men is more visual. At least when it comes to mere nudity vs sex acts. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 04:56 AM |
| 7 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menThey're not objectively better or worse looking, but modern western culture acts as if that's the case. In the past and in other cultures male form has been celebrated, often more than the female, not just feminine men. Those were often statues so carving body hair wasnt always practical, and it was the norm to draw and paint males as hairless too. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 04:55 AM |
| 6 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menYeah I honestly wonder if it was partly done on purpose. It seems there's a group of researchers who focused on proving all women were bi in some way while no men were. They did change their opinions publicly but still.. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 04:52 AM |
| 39 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menI wouldn't say female genitalia is a work of art either. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 02:00 AM |
| 5 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menDunno, we don't know what stimuli they used. Also the man was strolling while the woman was doing calisthenics which I found odd. Like not comparing like with like. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 01:45 AM |
| 18 | How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than menI think if the study is any reflection of reality it says more about how fucked up society is. Like imagine if you told your wife or gf you found chimps sexier than she lol. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Women and conformity: progress and changeI think many just see it as more inherently fair and just: I mean, in principle it might be, but not all seem to factor in the practicalities. I'm sort ot moderate-left myself. What I don't like is fake feminists/leftists who want to reap the rewards of patriarchal or capitalistic gender advantage. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women and conformity: progress and changeThat's not true. Look at the data, women in Britain tended to vote for Conservative and men Labour until recently. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Being uncircumcised ruined my chances with women in high school.Man America is weird. Not an issue in most of the world, where circumcision isn't the norm. I'm against involuntary circumcision (unless there's a real medical need). Glad I wasn't circumcised. But tough break, sorry to hear about your story. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 12:37 PM |
| – | Man vs woman being romanticWhat the fuck? What kind of guys have you been dating, like wtf is wrong with them? I wouldn't even think of acting like that. But yeah it's both strange and sort of sad if they're as you say. Not something I and I imagine most of my friends can relate to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Man vs woman being romanticNot putting it down, I like it as much as the next straight man, but I guess I like being engaged with emotionally too, not that many women don't. I guess that's just how things are portrayed. I guess a watch and a hug aren't really comparable but I get what you mean. I'm not very materialistic but I do love thoughtful gifts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Man vs woman being romanticYeah I don't feel I'm overly masculine, but not sure I'm overly feminine either. Maybe neutral/androgynous? I'm attracted to those sort of women/those who can be dominant so maybe that's part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Man vs woman being romanticTrue some men might even feel emasculated by it. Not me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Man vs woman being romanticOuch, yeah there is a lot of rhetoric, but hopefully there are many women who do show their love and appreciation.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Man vs woman being romanticYeah I'd probably prefer those things but I'd certainly appreciate flowers. Likewise many women don't care much about flowers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Man vs woman being romanticI do have a friend who'd do a lot of stereotypically 'male" romantic things for her bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Man vs woman being romanticTrue for some men, not for me, I'd be very appreciative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Man vs woman being romanticI'm creative/artistic myself, and given the effort required, something like that would really touch me. But yeah, lucky you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Man vs woman being romanticI dont go crazy for flowers themselves (though they're pretty and all that, but they don't last long), but would be really touched by the gesture if I received any. Or any thoughtful gift. My main 'love language' is quality time so while gifts, words etc are nice, that's mostly what I appreciate most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Yeah it's good to keep that perspective regardless. Like if you're looking after 'the one' it doesn't matter whether you get 100 matches or 1 if they work out. The difference is with 100 you have a much higher chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:18 AM |
| 17 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?There's also the idea that relatively fewer women are open to casual sex than men. https://sexualalpha.com/frequency-of-sex-by-age/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:16 AM |
| 6 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?You mean aside from single 'Chads?' I mean plenty of single men do have casual sex etc. The question is, are there more single women having sex than single men? Would like to see stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?I dunno, I did a very informal poll on reddit asking this question, and most preferred to settle for an average man of their own than be one of many of a hot guy. But yeah I'm sure some wouldn't mind, but most women want more attention etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think most men are ugly? Do you think most women are attractive?I know what you mean. As for female children, most still have long hair and boys have short. There are also behavioural/psychological associations and factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Then why don't more put more effort into appearance etc? I feel if most women dressed more frumpily, didnt wear makeup etc, men would be pickier and they'd have to develop other qualities. Ironically in Jane Austen novels there's more about a woman's chatacter than now. It'd still be unequal but not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:07 AM |
| 13 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Yep shopping is what it is. We're reduced to a few photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think most men are ugly? Do you think most women are attractive?Standard anti male bullshit, really. Like that's her totally objective breakdown of attractiveness by gender...and most 'cute' girls struggle to find someone? Cute theory. I'm a hetero guy so notice/am personally more attracted to women, but can appreciate good looking men and don't think women are 'objectively' more attractive. Maybe cos of makeup and grooming they might present as such, but this video just perpetuates more casual misandry imo. I guess that's in right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think most men are ugly? Do you think most women are attractive?If you take away makeup/grooming/fashion etc, like same hairstyle, clothes etc, would this still be the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Yeah we're just like rats in an experiment feeding from bottles of cocaine water. I admit I get a fleeting jolt of hope when I get a like or match, which almost invariably goes nowhere. Like constantly getting my hopes up. Like free market capitalism it's not sustainable though and will invariably collapse. Yeah me too. It's just the system, we all want to benefit. But long term it's not good for most women either, psychologically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?So where are they mostly finding men? Bars, clubs, through friends, school, work? I guess where they used to? But it seems harder than ever to meet someone irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:18 AM |
| 29 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Those men will sleep/have sex with her, but how many will date or marry be in a LTR with them? Unless we live in a world where everyone just has casual sex with no attachments. Society does seem less romantic that way. Maybe a free love utopia like those peaceful bonobos. Yeah the sexual market place has become as skewed as the capitalist free market. Full of illusions and lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Unless they want to be part of that rich attractive man's harem theyll have to settle, or remain alone. I think humans are at least partly if not predominantly monogamous, and most of us have internalised these ideas, they'll want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Men love to complain about women looking fake but consistently go for the fakest looking womenThat overly fake is not my preference but...tbh many men can quite easily want to have sex with someone they're not even that attracted to. Esp on a romantic/emotional level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 12:38 AM |
| 7 | Sexism as 'power + prejudice' is problematicYeah redefining terms, it's just like the Newspeak of 1984 yet people either don't see it, or those who do are silenced/not speaking out. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Sexism as 'power + prejudice' is problematicThe scary thing is they'll excuse all sorts of shit and justify it. Like they can justify anything. Year Zero in Cambodia... | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:38 PM |
| 5 | Sexism as 'power + prejudice' is problematicYeah it's still an individual act. If the individual is motivated by prejudice, it doesn't matter what the system thinks. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Sexism as 'power + prejudice' is problematicThat is in itself subjective. I think everyone is a victim and perp in some way. Depends how you look at it. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Does the "Women are objectively more attractive than men" "all women are inherently beautiful" rhetoric annoy anyone else and sound like BS?As a hetero man who's into women it does bug me, it's all subjective due to a lot of other factors, but I kind of feel it's the bed men have made, glorifying and celebrating the female form/beauty to such a degree, while relatively ignoring the male. I cringe when I hear guys say 'how are women attracted to us men', and then complain they can't find anyone. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 12:32 PM |
| 3 | The rising trend in female bisexuality and what it means for men and male sexualityIt's funny, the media and 'male gaze' encourages and fetishizes lesbianism while demonising male homosexuality. This imbalance isn't as pronounced as say, the early 00s when it peaked (as lesbianism grew more accepted), but I feel it's led to an increase of female homosexuality relative to male. Past studies (pre 2000) actually showed male bisexuality to be common in the West. I think most have some capacity for same sex attraction, so I think we'll see numbers evening out. Will we ever get to a… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:42 AM |
| 4 | The rising trend in female bisexuality and what it means for men and male sexualityThere's this trope of some women literally giving up on men and going gay, but not as much women. There's the idea women are more sexually fluid, but if you strip all the culture away is that really true? Great ape males display just as much sexual fluidity as females. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 03:07 AM |
| 0 | The rising trend in female bisexuality and what it means for men and male sexualityThey're both animals who have sex. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 12:50 PM |
| 0 | The rising trend in female bisexuality and what it means for men and male sexualityAmong giraffes 90% of sex is between males. Many prefer to stay in all male groups and mostly visit females to mate. So segregated. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 12:22 PM |
| 4 | LeavingTotally understand bro. Sometimes I feel too much reddit isn't good. I'm not bitter or hateful to women, and I don't want to be, but I am aggrieved about aspects of society. Women do get screwed too...but I am grateful there are a variety of viewpoints. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 12:17 PM |
| -3 | Do you concede the patriarchy does exist in some form and is at least partly responsible for the predicament of males today?I suppose if you're assigning blame...some could argue both the idea of patriarchy and gynocentricism have some biological basis. But...culture can change it to some extent. Do you think a totally gender equality society is possible? | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Do you concede the patriarchy does exist in some form and is at least partly responsible for the predicament of males today?Yeah I agree with feminists on some points, but they take it too far and bring back EVERYTHING to the patriarchy when it's a lot more complex than that, and always have the paint women as the main victims, with male suffering as incidental. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 12:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about the results of this study on the 'trolley problem?'I dunno how much is really biology. I don't deny there could be some biological basis, but there's definitely a lot of society/cultural influence. How much we can't say as they're inseparable/so intertwined. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | “Real men” sacrifice themselvesThis is heroic for sure, but I'd like to think she would've done the same. But I guess gender expectations... | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessI dunno, I've heard the tables do turn in your 30s and 40s but dating sites haven't been much easier than when I was in my 20s. Many my age are jaded and since they're usually more serious they have higher expectations too. Unless they just lack options. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYes, and also women are encouraged to be picky, whereas men are accused of being shallow or too picky if they have the same standards. Maybe cos of the realities of dating. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveSo youre saying most women are more turned on by being wanted/pursued? I mean I get that, but they can still judge someone as good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:16 PM |
| 8 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah Ive tried posting tons of topics in askwomen, most very reasonable, and they're always deleted. It's weird man. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveYeah many men feel invisible...like, most women get more compliments from other women than men do, for obvious reasons. I can't blame these women for it getting to their heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveWell there are male gold diggers too. Like the female ones they might not be as into them. Is the female gold digger's attraction any more real? To me intelligence/personality etc can make an average woman much more attractive, but I have to find her at least a little attractive and not offputtingly ugly (to be blunt about it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah online dating has made us all shallower, pickier etc...except in the real world few get what we really want. It's mostly illusionary and empty, unless maybe you just want casual flings. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessIt seems many men are obsessed with this idea all women want tall men...moreso than women themselves. Clearly many men under 6 feet are into relationships etc. And those who aren't super rich. But it still seems many women are picky about just looks. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessWhen I was a teenager it seems girls were as boy crazy as boys were about girls. Then I reached my 20s and realised how fucking unequal it was.. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 01:59 PM |
| 10 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah I'm a romantic, I hate that utilitarian shit but that's the world we live in. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveI find that idea foreign. I mean...you do like men right? Haha nah. Like...even as a straight man I notice at least a few good looking women if I'm out, but I also notice good looking men, but not as much cos they're not my preference. More just aesthetically. Are you saying even as a straight (or woman into men) you rarely notice them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveThe answers in askmen would indicate that many find at least 50% attractive. Some do find far fewer attractive. Personally I'd say maybe 25% are somewhat attractive, and maybe 5-10% really stand out/would catch my eye. And thats those 18-45. So I suppose if you were to take away the others it'd be much lower. But if you're asking what % I'd rule out if they had a great personality just based on looks? Probably less than half of the age I am looking for (30-40 preferably, I'm 36). Maybe men don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveYeah men just need to be more picky and discerning. But guess that goes against biology? I dunno I do notice a lot of women I like but I'm not really into casual sex with many random women. I'm more of a romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:50 PM |
| 87 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah I certainly feel invisible. More and more men around my age feel hopeless/have given up. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveYeah maybe true for some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveIts often repeated, but there's still something called natural attractiveness. I see many women who are made up, dress well etc, but facially speaking they do little for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Most women find very few men attractiveYes but you do realise the specific socio cultural preassures that lead to that right? In the past and other cultures men cared just as much about their appearance as women. Maybe it's to do with the media, advertising, male gaze whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah but I mean to not even think 90%+ of men are good looking? Putting aside the other preferences or requirements. Plus even if there is a biological basis for it (and I think there's some), culture etc has warped things. It wasn't always like this. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveThe idea that women are somehow 'objectively' more attractive. Take away the makeup, fashion, etc and I guarantee most STRAIGHT WOMEN wouldn't think that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveWhats your gender and sexuality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveWow wtf...pretty high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveWhy interesting? Isnt it depressing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:12 AM |
| 6 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessI dunno, I kinda preferred the fashions/style of that era. I found the female movie stars generally better looking than those today, but personality and style plays a role. They just had more class. Men too. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah photos of women from say the 1800s make them look much plainer. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveI'm not expecting something completely equal but it's got ridiculous. You think a woman getting flooded with likes and many men struggling to get any is a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveThat may be the case for many, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:28 AM |
| 8 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessCan't deny the physical is a big factor in attraction generally. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:27 AM |
| 15 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessSeems pretty obvious, no? Most men struggling to find anyone, women too picky so they'll eventually have to settle. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Most women find very few men attractiveBut online dating is so based on looks. Many these days don't even bother with a profile. And there are fewer avenues offline to get to know people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveWhy not? Like, is the physical really not a factor or do few meet your standards? To me personality is a big factor, but yeah I will say like most guys I probably wouldn't turn down an attractive woman initially anyway, unless there was something big that turned me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:25 AM |
| 18 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessI went to a speed dating event where I talked to 18 women and did not get a single match. Felt I was interesting and charismatic, and am at least average looking. Not like I had much competition either. Pretty depressing. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:24 AM |
| 25 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessI think obesity is rising in both men and women, but not a dramatic increase. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveWhat about women? I mean in an impartial sense, like not attractive to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Most women find very few men attractiveYeah I was thinking about it today on the tram. Out of maybe 15 random women none did it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:20 AM |
| 16 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah in nature the males are usually the 'prettier' ones, so humans are an outlier - or rather, modern western culture. I do wonder, do you think the glorification of female beauty/putting them on a pedestal makes the dating market even MORE unequal than it would be? | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 07:02 AM |
| 24 | Most women find very few men attractiveI know. I feel fucking invisible most of the time. Sick of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:32 AM |
| 26 | Most women see very few men as attractive: devaluation of male attractivenessYeah wtf right? I've heard 20% but 1%? What are they expecting, male models? Movie stars? And the fact tbese comments get so much likes. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Basically any turn off? Or things related to low emotional intelligence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry and feminism: feminists justify inequality against men?The children were probably fair game, the women (young women of birthing age) were for sexual purposes/reproduction. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 07:46 AM |
| 2 | There is absolutely no rationale to the male disposability theory, it is just misandric nonsense.I mean, I do think it is true that yes, in general a womb is more valuable to the species surviving than an inseminator, but it's a lot more complex than that. Also males will 'high value' sperm/genes could be argued to be even more valuable. But the gender ratio is 50/50 so there's clearly a good reason why it's important to have an even gender split. As many have said 1 man and say 100 woman isn't socially or genetically viable. Genetic variability is important, and you need quite a few males.… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Looking for study about male vs. female valueThis is so fucked up | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Women like women more than men like menI've heard a theory they do this for protection. What do you think of this? But I mean how much of this is innate? Men self segregate too. In many mammal species there are often bachelor groups of males. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Women like women more than men like menYou could argue genes are inseparable from/a part of environment...the urge to create social alliances/friendships isn't just a female thing either. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Women like women more than men like menSo are you saying there's no hope? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Women like women more than men like menHow can you say anything is purely innate and not influenced by environment (society etc)? Basically everything psychological is. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 12:00 PM |
| 19 | Women like women more than men like menDo you feel male friendships in general are more solid or stable? Big generalisation I know | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 09:43 AM |
| -12 | What Women Mean When They Say “I Don’t Need A Man”Are you saying women don't have the same romantic feelings as men? I mean many still really want to be with a man. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 02:51 AM |
| 3 | The fear and hysteria around sexual assault and crime against womenYeah it seems this only seems to apply to sexual assault.. also if it was as easy to teach men not to rape, why don't we just teach people not to commit crimes...oh wait we've tried through schooling, religion etc...it doesn't work for everyone. If I ever have a daughter I sure as well hope she's as best equiped to protect herself/while being sensible. Of course I want the world to be as safe for women and everyone else, but it should go without saying shit happens and life ain't easy. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 07:02 AM |
| 4 | The fear and hysteria around sexual assault and crime against womenYeah some balance and perspective would be nice. God I miss the 90s sometimes, even if some things were worse.. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 6 | The fear and hysteria around sexual assault and crime against womenBecause that's how women naturally are. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 5 | The fear and hysteria around sexual assault and crime against womenHow did they create the problem? | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 4 | The fear and hysteria around sexual assault and crime against womenI just posted another thread there about this topic. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 8 | The fear and hysteria around sexual assault and crime against womenEr what? I dont identify as either an MRA or feminist, I do agree/disagree with both on certain points. There's no rule that says you can't post in both. Doesn't make me a troll. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 12 | Single men vs womenI mean if most men had more choices of course most would go for the attractive ones. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 04:10 AM |
| 12 | Single men vs womenYeah I don't advocate hating women. Not like most men wouldn't do the same. But I just wish things were more equal. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Single men vs womenBut only in the 65+ age group are there more single women. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? (women and monogamy)Yeah I mean many think humans aren't hard-wired for monogamy, using infidelity as an example, but it seems we're at least somewhat monogamous. Some people - men and women - are very happy with it. Some aren't, and that's their decision. But yeah, many do see most men as cheaters or abusers etc. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this? (women and monogamy)I dunno, statistically though they are still less likely to cheat so I can't agree with that. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 18 | Thoughts on this? (women and monogamy)The type of feminism they're selling is all about rights and privileges, not responsibilities. Also victimhood and infantalisation under the guise of empowerment. I support some feminist values/initiatives, but if taken broadly there are inconsistencies. It's an easy sell. I don't think cheating is good for anyone, but I've heard women under 24 are now cheating as much as men. Of course it's another reason to celebrate equality right. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/06/160608143955.htmI think it's more, those in power have turned it into a broad male vs female issue. The narrative is women need to support each other against men because men are inherently dangerous or at least oppressive, even if a minority are. It's insidious. Doesn't mean women don't screw over other women too. But it's not like men have never supported things that benefit them as a group. But even in the patriarchal system you did have things that screwed over men too. I know there are many women who are tr… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | I've noticed a trend in recent movies involving female and male characters during their moment of deathWe've been desensitised to violence against males. It's interesting cos I've heard some say female deaths are especially egregious because of the sexual/torture element. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/06/160608143955.htmIf so what would the explanation be? Feminists emphasise how women need to support each other, how they shouldn't fight etc. Sounds good on the surface but sometimes that means ganging up against men. But I find it interesting how men are actually less biased. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 06:50 AM |
| 9 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?I don't think any society has existed where people have had absolute freedom to choose. Most people anyway. Traditionally of course women still did a lot of work outside the house, though in agricultural societies men and women often did the same work. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?Well, as close to equality as is possible. In terms of legal rights etc. Some people will never be satisfied. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women?Maybe pretend to be against them more cos they're pressured by feminism lol jk. I guess many some would say whoever benefits more from them is? One could argue men and women do in different ways, but we're all individuals with individual experiences. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 6 | 'The fact that we're considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality'No that's not how it's usually defined. That's what some have changed the definition to. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has a monopoly on gender equalityYeah you always hear them say 'women need to stick/together and support each other', not as much men. No prizes for guessing why. Yeah I agree there are hierarchies in nature. That doesn't mean men or women should do this or that, but it is a fact of life true equality, like true peace, is more an abstract ideal than a reality. I mean full equality. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has a monopoly on gender equalityMaybe the key is to use emotion/guilt back, not try to reason. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 05:00 AM |
| -1 | Feminism has a monopoly on gender equalityI disagree, I think some feminists were well intentioned, some genuinely do care about men, but there has been a streak of misandry throughout, yes. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has a monopoly on gender equalityYeah sounds like some Amazonian fantasy. I've even heard some claim men or the Y chrosome will go extinct...in thousands or millions of years or whatever...it's pretty funny really. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has a monopoly on gender equalityI think most MRAs do just want a fair go, but any movement is made of people with their own hangups, bad experiences, biases and prejudice. There are bitter people on the MRA train same as feminism...it's just feminism gets away with more. I find it weird and disturbing some feminists feel threatened by the MR movement in its entirety though. I wouldn't characterise all feminism as like the KKK, but there are bigoted, hateful and sexist elements among it. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 04:56 AM |
| 7 | Feminism has a monopoly on gender equalitySo there's no overarching movement that seeks gender equality it seems. A Men's Rights movement would imo just go down the same route...but I do think like early feminism there's a place for it for specific men's issues. A true movement for equality would have to not really primarily be about any group's rights, but have the goal of indiscriminately eliminated unfairness. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the rise of lesbianism/female bisexuality?Yeah seems harder to believe given the times, but a lot of it was done in secret. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the rise of lesbianism/female bisexuality?Even in the 50s Kinsey claimed 30% of males had bad a same sex experience, compared to like 12% of women. But idk how representative his sample was. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the rise of lesbianism/female bisexuality?I feel its mostly culture. In the past male bisexuality seemed commoner. Lol yeah I'm trying to kick a lesbian porn addiction myself...well I don't watch that much anymore. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Has online dating ruined relationships?Wouldn't you rather someone who wasn't ideal but was still decent or no one at all? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Has online dating ruined relationships?In most human societies monogamy is the rule, though, and many mammal species are more monogamous (maybe not the majority). I think humans aren't as strongly polygamous as say gorillas. We're at least somewhat monogamous. Im not sure most women would rather share those men than have their own. In the past they often didn't have a choice as the richest most powerful men would take them against their will. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Poll on whether you'd save a random man or womanI mean there are many reasons why they might have selected that option. But yeah, that plays into it for some lol. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Poll on whether you'd save a random man or womanIt is a bit simplistic to say fewer women care about men but...it might apply in some cases. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 09:33 AM |
| 9 | Has online dating ruined relationships?How old are you? | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 08:48 AM |
| 11 | Has online dating ruined relationships?I still find it weird how that works, if you have roughly equal single men and women looking...like supply and demand says it shouldnt be so ridiculously unequal, not like there are way more guys.. Guess cos there are more online, and women are pickier? Still seems weird. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Has online dating ruined relationships?Yeah it fucking sucks really. It's become all so dysfunctional. No wonder in some ways the battle of the sexes is heating up again. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Poll on whether you'd save a random man or womanAnd yeah, the bias really bugs me. Not just gender but race/ethnicity and age. The media goes crazy over missing or murdered little white girls, but who'd care about an old black man? Makes me sick sometimes. All lives should matter. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Poll on whether you'd save a random man or womanI've often heard it said the average woman is more valuable because she gives birth, but in a way wouldn't the more 'alpha' males with 'good genes' be even more valuable as they can impregnate many with those good genes? | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Has online dating ruined relationships?Yes there are other social factors, but yes, online dating does detach us from reality somewhat. Like many aspects of life we're overwhelmed with choice. I've heard as many women complain about online dating, hopefully it'll push more to try to meet in different avenues, but even that seems to be getting harder, everyone is glued to their phones and the online world. I do like meetup for that reason. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Poll on whether you'd save a random man or womanYeah but you might not know which was which. If I had all the info I'd choose whoever would do the most good/least bad. It's a funny one. I think this thinking is as much due to the patriarchal idea women are more helpless, need to be protected, are valuable for their wombs, but I posed this question in another group and an obviously feminist woman actually said saving the woman made sense cos men are dangerous and violent. So there's this idea men are more dispensable due to being morally infer… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.I've had that thought before, actually. Like you'd think the hornier gender is less discriminating. I do think like others have said it's mostly society and culture rather than biology. Alfred Kinsey did a survey that suggested over 30% of males had a same sex experience, and this was back in the conservative 40s or 50s. Indeed it was far higher than for females. Of course we don't know how representative that was, but it seemed male bisexuality was commoner than female until recently. In human … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Many comments mentioned how this defense is brought up by racists/sexists who like to generalize. Amazing they couldn't see how 'all men' is the same thing.It shouldn't be not all men, but not most men. Not all men makes it still sound like most. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Most women good, most men badOf those I know I hear more women complaining about men. Some have negative experiences, which is understandable, though generalisation shouldn't be encouraged (like some people are racist because of bad experiences but that's never condoned). | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 11:28 AM |
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