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| 8 | Bill Maher Defends MILO Invitation: Boycotters ‘Reason Liberals Lose Elections’I personally think both of these guys defend their position really well and have loud attitudes. It will be interesting to watch this. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/17 09:00 PM |
| 9 | How I Hacked Online Dating - Amy WebbShe vetted correctly! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/02/17 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Another example of glorifying immaturity in ads. Just break up w/ him if you want adventures with strangers.So in one part I feel like... great. She didn't get married to someone who would not make her happy. That can be a good thing sometimes. The other side of me is like what a douche! She went for the bad boy of course who will probably dump her ass when she gets old and crusty. Don't get me wrong, sometimes you can have successful relationships that are full of adventure if you find someone like that. But this dude knew she was getting married and picked her up anyways. So he isn't the greatest of… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/02/17 03:56 PM |
| 0 | I need some help motivating my husband.He has a lot in savings and pays his half of the bills and takes care of me and treats me sometimes and when we need a household purchase (we needed a new dining room table few months ago) he won't hesitate to get it. What the flying fuck is your problem exactly? That he doesn't follow your commands to clean like you do? OMG Relevant username. SRSLY! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)We do cuddle and touch a lot. This is how he is telling you that you are doing the right things! It just seems the sex aspect is the last missing puzzle piece to get our marriage back on track. He might feel like it already is. Maybe in your head you think the sex level should be something that it never will be. I'd say just let him lead and be receptive like I said. Flirt!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)Well I would suggest always making it clear you are receptive. That doesnt mean initiating. A sexy comment here. A lewd gesture there. That doesnt put pressure on him to do it now now now. Flirt with him and make him feel desired not that he is a walking dick. Also physical intimacy isnt just PIV. There are other thing you can do to make him happy and that means putting your desires on the back burner sometimes. Even moreso you could have physical intimacy that isnt any form of sex. Just snuggli… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 02:38 PM |
| 3 | I'm baaaack - and ENGAGED!!CONGRATS!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/02/17 11:30 PM |
| 2 | National Spouses DayI don't have a spouse... yet... | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:55 PM |
| 3 | How did/would you handle the end of the honeymoon period with your SO?I dont think in my relationship the honeymoon is over. We've been together over a year now and there are still a lot of moments when we are in honeymoon stage. We are very loving and caring with one another but sometimes I forget. But then moments happen that reaffirm my love and its honeymoon all over again. Even when we do mundane boring shit. Like the other day he was reading while I was playing the piano. I just looked over at him and was so happy I could have someone by my side doing boring… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Guess who's having a baby?! IRIS!YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Laura Doyle: My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary and It Was The Best EverThe link works for me though :( I think we all misread people to a large extent and it's because we are thinking of their love in our terms. very true! Trying to bring him into my frame never works out quite how I think it will. LOL | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Laura Doyle: My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary and It Was The Best EverIts nice when we can catch ourselves rejecting our SO's love. Like wtf! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Laura Doyle: My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary and It Was The Best EverThanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | There Really Is A Dating Site For Everyone (For us it would be #1)What do you mean they were scams? | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 08:08 PM |
| 3 | New Years Eve(ish) MegaThread!!!My night was amazing. I went to bed early and got up early for a meeting at 6 am. No fun. I don't have resolutions per se as I set goals. How I get there is entirely up to the world. I find that if I focus on the end goal rather than the process I achieve more. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016lol. yeah. i've seen some shit man. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesYeah. The advice that was given was NOT that. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Well it used to be anyways.... | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Wait. You don't know about Mr skeletal? It's the top part of me_irl | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016The best kind | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Holy shit check out the bot that replied to me | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016You won an updoot!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016I was wondering if anyone caught that haha | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Just watched the first episode. I can totally dig this one. It is a bit hyper though so maybe when I'm feeling amp I can watch. 9/10 | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Just watched the pilot. I do have to say I am not a fan of musicals.. but I"m going to start singing the sexy gettin ready song from now on. That will be a thing in my house. I'd totally watch this. 7/10. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesEven if that is her worry... she wanted to elope. Not even invite anyone. So now because it isn't done how exactly she wants it to be done she is freaking out. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016oo good to know! I hadn't noticed there weren't that many episodes :D | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Just watched the pilot. How apropos that it was about marriage. The pheromone party.. holy shit that was crazy. The wedding at the laundromat.. omg so funny. 8/10. Will def keep watching it! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Ok just watched the trailer. pilot. I'll admit I was skeptical watching it but the end made it worth it. The fashion and the hair.. omg so classic. hahah. 6/10. Will probably watching with my SO. He would love it. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Just watched the pilot. Skinny single dad george clooney (aka ted) is hot. lol Also, Lem was on psych. He was one of the most prominent guest actors on the show for me. He was hilarious!! Overall 7/10 I might give this more of a try. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itSomeone with an above average cock who's great at sex is better than someone with a below average cock great at sex. I don't believe that at all. Interesting take though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/16 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016I'm off today and bored. What should I watch y'all? FYI I have HBO, Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon Prime. Also this funny video... kinda nsfw | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Is divorce a status marker in your social circle?Well in my circle of friends, divorce is probably very prominent (I'm in AA so lots of broken families here) and therefore a non-issue. It is almost a mark of camaraderie. However, outside of that it is a sign of failure and can brand you as someone to watch around other womens men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/16 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itWe kind of agree, as long as we aren't talking about monster cocks So your contention is that someone with a monster cock who has no clue what he is doing with it gives more pleasure to a woman than someone who has a smaller than average sized penis but knows how and what to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Please help me learn how to forgive my husbandTheres no cure for being a cunt | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Please help me learn how to forgive my husbandDude sounds like a crackhead but you're equally as batshit insane as he is. Also this is embarrassing to admit but I got herpes a year ago That can lay dormant for a while so you really dont know when you got it. I am terrified of him leaving and my children being plunged into poverty. No you're not as you said in your argument with him. You can make just as much money as him if you work. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itDon't forget the good spots deep inside. G-spot is child's play compared to the A or P spot and a 3 inch cock can't reach them. This is exactly my point! Most people don't know about those spots. Guys with big dicks even less I presume because they have no incentive to figure that shit out because they can more easily stimulate the gspot. They have no reason to do more. It doesn't matter until she had her first huge lover You've never had your cervix rammed by a guy with a huge dong who has no c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/16 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesI'm from a small family and would prefer to elope No. she would prefer to elope. SO this person suggesting ONLY to call her family is bullshit. She shouldn't call anyone. He wants to plan let him plan. She should just be happy he is doing his part and stfu. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itOp said no extremes. a. you are op. b. I wasn't addressing the post with that comment. I was making the suggestion towards your comment that I said that bigger means more pleasure. I was making the case for why I fee like that isn't true actually. when all things equal a guy with a smaller than average dick loses against a guy with a bigger than average dick I agree with this. most women who claim that a smaller than average cock is as good as an average or above one lie about it I agree with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/16 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itit matters but just s other things do This is just my opinion obviously, but I think for people who don't actually know... it matters. Which I think is most people. So by default yes, it matters like other things. But it shouldn't because it really isn't as big a variable as people think it is. As you say the right size helps experience more pleasure No. I said that a bigger size makes pleasure more easily attainable. That doesn't make it MORE pleasurable. This is all dependent on the body. A wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Please help me learn how to forgive my husbandThe first thing I note is that you say SEVERAL times that you trust your man. It sounds more like you are trying to convince yourself that you do when I don't think that is necessarily true. Also, there is a misconception that there are gradations of trust. You either do, or you don't. However, there are things you can trust in a person and things you can't trust in that same person. example: I trust my sister to be honest. I don't trust my sister to not gossip about me to my dad. Same person bu… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!Holy fuck woman. He is right about you being materialistic and selfish. Did it EVER occur to you that maybe he is more guarded with showing demonstrations of love because he was devastated by the passing of his wife? That it could be his coping mechanism? He built a wall that won't ever let you get that close to him because the pain of losing a spouse that you love so much just isn't reasonable to let his guard down? You lady, need to chill the fucking fuck out. Who the fuck cares if he doesn't … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Your personality type and where you fall as Red/Purple/BlueESTJ but the T is borderline. I test as ESFJ during shark week with the F being borderline too. I'm red. Like a crimson/candy apple red. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 03:32 PM |
| 6 | If you could say one sentence to your eighteen year old self regarding sex and relationships what would it be and why?Nothing. No Ragrets!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Who's up for ceasefire post?I don't think it is necessary. also: why are you calling my username to anyone????? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Penis Size Doesn't Matter and Most Women Wouldn't Even Recognise a Big Cock if they Saw OneAs it turns out, I'm well above average in statistical terms. You made this post just to say this. Didn't ya? I said it in the other post, size doesn't matter but most people are to inexperienced with the variety to know that size doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itIt matters to women for two reasons. They don't know better. Men don't know better. Firstly, they don't know better because well if a man has a bigger penis, he is more apt to be able to stimulate the gspot to help women reach orgasm. So women will equate bigger dick with more chance to have an orgasm. Plus a lot of women (IMO) are too afraid to ride that dick just how she likes to in order to reach orgasm. It takes a lot of self knowledge and practice to get it just right. This can be achieved … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How many of yall are on the spectrum?I got a 13. and I'm ESTJ fwiw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 26, 2016this hurr. I officially dont trust any salons so I've avoided them but my roots are now playing games so....I'm kind of stuck lol. OMG Good luck with this. It took me years to find someone I trust and absolutely love! I think finding a combination of a good person/good stylist is so hard. Like if you can do hair but are a total bitch I won't see you again. But the other side of that coin is true too. If you can't do hair but you are awesome... sorry.. not sorry. The girl I go see now is just a b… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesYou want a small wedding? Don't make all those personal calls to his side of the family :) That is super manipulative and not RPWi AT ALL!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 12:45 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI'm grateful that my SO encourages me when I don't have confidence in myself. He has this way of just pointing out the obvious that really motivates me. He really is a great person to be around. I'm grateful for my family. I am usually the one who likes to bring us all together but lately my sister has been stepping up to pulling us all in for events. It has been nice! I am grateful for my new sponsor. I am really nervous about all the work that she is going to have me do but really, I need to g… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 05:57 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!ok... I would expect NOTHING less from you! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 05:28 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!not to toot my own horn or anything lol Thanks for the vote of confidence. Like I said, I'm still relatively new to the music world so something like that piece to me seems like it is going to be an Olympic Level Event. Every single song I feel like "ok this is the one that is going to trip me up and I'll never be able to learn it". But to his credit, my SO always says "isn't that what you said on your last song?" Then magically I power through a new song. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Moving In TogetherSo we started going out in Nov. Official in Dec. He was staying with me and I staying with him every night by Feb. Officially moved in June. But by then we had already been living together just not officially if you know what I mean. It was about the kids and keeping them in a routine while in school. Then when the summer came BAM they lived with us for the summer. it was wild. You know, I don't think I was ever in danger of living a life under other circumstances than I am in right now. Not bec… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 05:04 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!To me this is what I want to play. I love this piece so much. I don't think I'd ever get that good to play it but that is like the dream. So just between you and me (and now the rest of the internet that has read our conversation) I played the clarinet in 5th grade. I hated that thing. Anything like the trumpet/clarinet/well basically any instrument that needed a mouth piece wasn't for me. Even the violin which needed your neck involved just wasn't something I could get with. But the piano.. I s… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 04:50 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!sometimes the hamster just gets to me, ya know? ...have you not read my field reports hahahhahahah I'm trying to prep some stuff for busking in Amsterdam in March This sounds so cool! I've only been playing the piano for about a year now so any rpwi band we formed would be stuck playing things like Scarborough Fair and The Entertainer. lol I just always wanted to play the piano and let me tell you.. I freaking love it. I practice almost every day. I don't think I'd ever be a professional piano p… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 04:38 PM |
| 3 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!I'm guilty of being a perfectionist in many areas of my life. you and me both sister! it's that time of year so seeing everyone else get what I want is making me act like a child. Something that really helped me was this quote "Don't compare your behind the scenes, with someone elses highlight reel" What you see on social media is EXACTLY that. Just the best of others lives. You don't see the pain, heartache and suffering that got them to that point. That is the point of social media. Showcase t… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 04:17 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!They'd put movies on at 50% volume So apparently my dad is going deaf. We never knew why the fuck he would put the tv at 100 while we were at his house for football games but then he told us the news about it. We all now laugh at the tv set to 100. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!Well a lot going on here. Firstly, shark week? Secondly, not sure if you read this thread. NOT SAYING THAT YOU NEED TO DREAD HIM. But I think B has basically told you "in order to move to the next level XYZ needs to happen". I think that is a very positive thing. You now know what you need to do. You now have no excuse not to meet him half way. Rather than looking at is as "oh man I haven't done this and now things are bad" you can think of them as "I have a goal and I intend to reach it with B"… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Moving In TogetherThis is so sweet. I'm so happy for you. I also moved in really fast with my SO. There is still a box in the hall we have yet to address 6 months after the fact. Hahhahahah. Is this your first time living with a SO? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Keeping FocusI'm Glad. I think that's a common response around here. People don't like what they initially hear but the good stuff is never easy. I'm glad you are working on yourself and I definitely encourage you to post an update when you feel inspired to. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 27/12/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016My SO just took this.. got 4/19 :D I don't feel bad now hahah | /r/RedPillWives | 25/12/16 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/2597736393.html I forgot it was free Friday and posted this somewhere else. Thought y'all could use it too. Hahah. Terps gonna terp. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificei never meant to intimate that all people must do any one thing or another. I just want to be clear, I don't think you meant to either :D | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeOh see, for me Version one and two (or just as someone in an LTR), it would depend on who I made plans with first. I don't think I would be with a guy who ask me to ditch my friend because he wanted to see me. Unless there was a legit reason that would warrant breaking plans and not just cause he wants to see me really bad. I'm very loyal to the people around me so when I make plans, unless there is a death, nothing will make me break them. That is just my personality. Now, if I were married, I … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificeknow what I mean? "so this might be an unpopular opinion here". I do it all the time girl. I think what you said has a great degree of truth to it. So don't be discouraged. I just wanted to make the distinction that there isn't a prescribed right/wrong way to do things. But what you said is still valid. I wouldn't want someone to come here and read your statement and assume it is law else you can't be rpwi. It is more about knowing and understanding, rather than strict rules. You are doing just … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeWell the overview of it is that we are all here because we want the ultimate form of commitment. That is a given. However, that doesn't mean to get that form of commitment is going to work for all men. Understanding the male/female natures will optimize your chances of getting that ultimate commitment. Knowing that men don't commit just because they get sex is important. But some men will want to have sex quicker than others because they know they can get it more readily. Some men would wait til… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificethat just as you might show cleavage without having sex with someone, you can also show your RMV skills without submitting 100% prior to a LTR. I see what you're saying. I just didn't want people to tie in actions/dressing as a "RPWi" way to do things. but I thought it was generally believed that usually that's not an ideal route to take. it isn't in the sense that our goal is to gain the ultimate commitment. Generally speaking sleeping with someone without gaining the minimum level of commitmen… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeIf you're RPW you wouldn't sleep with a guy super early without commitment, but you might wear something that shows a little cleavage and have a passionate make out session. I just want to make the distinction here that being RP doesn't mean this specifically. It just means that if you do sleep with a man quickly you understand that you aren't necessarily going to get commitment because of it. Same thing goes for you might wear something that shows a little cleavage and have a passionate make ou… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeSome do, but that is not the man with whom you would want to be with anyway. So I guess, for me anyways, I would think that the men who are thinking that are the ones who are afraid of being with gold diggers. So yeah, some do, but there would definitely be other red flags to this guy if this is how he is thinking. I don't think a normal average joe would be wondering if you just wanted him for a husband. That just screams paranoid to me. So you're right that some do think like that, but I can't… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeIt seems the older you get, ITS WAY HARDER to argue holding back anything because your window of having any bargaining power quickly diminishes with every passing year. So this might be an unpopular opinion here, but I don't think that this is a cultural issue. That is more of a self issue. I just think there are tooooo many men out there to feel like you cannot hold true to your values at any age. Even if I were 60 and trying to date, i would have the same standards. That is what it takes to be… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificeit's forever more SO and CQ or SO *and SunHappy Why can't it be CQ and SunHappy <3<3 lol Yes. I think when a man demonstrates to you that he wants to make the ultimate commitment to you, then you should be willing to do the ultimate sacrifices for him. I completely 100% agree with that! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificehow can you say it has nothing to do with him, but then say right after that you treat him like a hubby? So I probably worded it weirdly. My SO is not my husband but he mainly gets hubby bene's. Sex when he wants. Priority over friends and family. Deference in the decisions of home and space. The one thing the doesn't get priority over right now is my CQ time. That is purely restricted to when I have the ultimate commitment. So he does get most of the hubby benefits but just not that one thing. … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeI was still updating. Fixed :D | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeWhat are some examples of when you are yielding when you DON'T want to be? I know I've talked about this a lot but for me it is in the kitchen. I just have this thing where I take food really seriously because of past traumas. I just get really controlly in the kitchen. But so does my SO aparently so I have to totally check myself before stepping into the kitchen. I need to tell myself 2 things. 1. He is going to try to change whatever you do. 2. It is his meal too and you are doing this for him… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeMy husband does not apologize, unless he's truly done something wrong I totally understand this! Frame is strong in our men! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Show respect... even if you know the answer.Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Show respect... even if you know the answer.I'm also more social than my SO is. So I could def fall into the trap of making plans and forgetting to ask. But I'm always mindful now. Thanks for sharing!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Show respect... even if you know the answer.I love the correlation between "measure twice cut once". That is exactly what is happening here. Might as well get it right the first time!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Show respect... even if you know the answer.Exactly. Plus if there WAS some complication he'd be able to communicate that with you rather than you feel the effects of it because you didn't ask. Thanks for sharing!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Winter attire threadBOOT TWINS!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:09 AM |
| 3 | x-post from r/wholesomememes- 2017 Mood! Ladies, what are your New Years Resolutions?Ever since tinted posted the comic I have been trying to live by this and it is really a great reminder that you can definitely control how interactions go. Putting a positive spin on things is a great way to create bonds with people and makes people feel good. So thank you for posting this again :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Winter attire threadI say they are like mini ovens for my feet. SOOO WARM | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Winter attire threadJust found my boots... on sale :(. I have them in black. I just did a price adjustment request so hopefully they can do that for me! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Winter attire threadThat's why I love uggs. I had my last ones for three years before they met an unfortunate accident. But I probably would have had my last pair still. They last and are worth the money if you treat them right. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Winter attire threadI have the same sorel boots in black. Love them. I now have uggs for the cold snowless days (can't find them on site anymore). I've been meaning to get some Frye's but always forget. When it gets warmer out I'm gonna grab some. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Hey. Just checked. I only saw "el diablo island" BOOOO!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 19, 2016I agree. My SO can drive aggressively and that makes me uncomfortable. But when he gets wreck less I simply say "I don't feel safe at this speed" and he usually calms the fuck down. You don't have to nag to get your point across. But be direct about how you feel. Definitely don't tell him how to fix it. But he wants you to feel safe and when you tell him he isn't accomplishing that he will just fix it himself. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 09:18 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 19, 2016BONUS QUESTION: What are things you do to make the holidays special? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to Get Hair So Shiny It Will Blind a BitchHey how was the Kenra Silkening Gloss | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Weight concernsHi New user. Please read this https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/wiki/respect We don't know you so asking people to DM you isn't going to fly around here. This thread was deleted by the OP so it may not be so relevant now but for future posting please keep in mind that we are trying to promote a safe internet culture here and that excludes asking strangers to DM you. Thanks | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | No one likes a shitty cupcakeomg does it really? I didn't know that. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Shit girl I totally forgot to look up diablo on my mac. I put a note in my phone to do it tonight!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016OMG That is hilarious. My SO and I were playing Diablo together and whenever we would beat someone and they would release all their treasures, he would be faster than me and get all the good shit. I would get upset so while we would walk to the next area to beat monsters, I would just continually shoot him. Not that it would hurt him. But psychologically it made me feel better to shoot him. It's a thing we do. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 03:41 PM |
| – | Weight concernsHello I have locked this thread /u/mrppants. various women here have given you advice that you are clearly not willing to hear and understand. The community here is built on tough love and we gave you a dose of that. You are not a regular contributor here and you are trying to tell US how to behave? Fuck off with all that noise. I suggest reading more about us and reading more threads to see how we operate. Please reread all of the advice given already in this thread and try to internalize it fo… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 19, 2016Good: Lost a few lbs again yayayayyay :D so happy. I'm not beating myself up anymore if I slip! I've decided that it is ok to slip but not to slip and then just dive head first into a spiral. So I'll indulge in a couple of sour patch kids here and there. I also said yes a lot this past week and found so much beauty in the week. I got so much done and was not overwhlemed. I've also upped my aa program so that could also be a part of why i'm feeling so good. I was also asked to speak at a meeting … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Weight concernsNo. It is not your job to make him happy. It is your job to not make him unhappy. There is a difference. What you're doing is acting like his mom and taking responsibility for his weight. Knock that shit off. No one wants to be in a relationship or, for that matter, do better in their lives for their overbearing mommy/wife. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Weight concernsI do NOT want to change my husband. I want to help him get to the point where he has the motivation to work on his health. lol. do you not see that you are saying you want to change him??? Only he can change himself and motivate himself for weight loss. You just need to focus on you. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Holiday Edition: Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI also saw a graphic on some things to avoid saying when talking to a french person because they can mean something else entirely. Je suis chaude J'ai chaude... I think this is a case of that. Ma tante viviat en France (probably using wrong verb tense here) quand elle etudiat. Qui est francophone? Thank you for sharing the video. The funny thing is that I can understand more spoken than written. I have watched a few movies in french and feel like I can spot so much that I understand but then whe… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Holiday Edition: Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadOk so I just put that through google translate... hahaha Thank you my pussy girlfriend. Not really what I meant. I guess I meant this... Merci mon ami chat | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Holiday Edition: Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadIf you're in the IRC and I'm there, whisper me if you want to practice your French Merci mon chatte amie. Comment ça va? Je suis très bien. J'aime bien parler français avec ma tante mais je peut parler avec toi aussi. Je pense qui c'est utile pour moi. So far I only listen to kids books so I can describe things like big red dogs or houses made of hay. Lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 08:02 PM |
| 5 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DWelcome. As we always tell people, take what you like and leave the rest :D | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Holiday Edition: Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadWoo hooo So I am always so excited about these posts. I am still only 47% fluent in French but I am not doing as much as I used to because I don't wanna burn out again. Plus, since I missed out a lot I'm doing a lot of old lessons to catch back up. This may stay stagnant for a bit. In piano, I am learning this song and also learning Eye of the Tiger :| While at my dads house I wound up tinkering with his piano and seeing that he had this popular songs of the 80's book so I was thumbing through i… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 09:22 PM |
| 9 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important Tipspants are for suckers My weekend motto 😂😂😂 | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Female dread gameWhat i'm thinking though, is that underneath the 'dread' idea is a method of causing a reevaluation of your RMV and thereby encouraging greater effort in a partner. This is such a great way to put it. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Female dread gameAt no point reading the OP did I think Yeti was suggesting (at all) that women should directly lift and identically apply 'dread game.' I didn't think so either. I thought he was asking about women applying the male form of dread game and if it was applicable. I didn't suggest that he was saying we should use it. But more of a conversation piece as to what those stages would look like which is why I'd suggested the things that we do not do, which are limit those actions that are in the 'male' fo… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Female dread gameSo, what are your thoughts on the staged approaches for dating or in a LTR, respectively? This is the question that makes it seem like /u/yetieater is asking about women applying male strategy. I mean women COULD apply it but that wouldn't be girl game. That would be bitchy mcbitcherson game. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016lol. yeah, I tend to build up carbs in my head and find out they aren't all that magical like they used to be. However, my bday is coming up and that is my 'cheat' day on my diet. So I'm gonna house me some carbs. Making a list.. checking it twice....lolol ok. I think I'm done for the day here | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Female dread gameSo I think that female dread can exist in that you could pull those 12 levels with your man. However, I think the female approach to dating/marriage is to limit what dread you inflict on your relationship. I would say some things you would want to eliminate are friendships with men, flirtatious behaviors, dressing too sexy for functions that your man isn't at (I mean some guys are into their women dressing sexy while they are with them), talking about other men to your SO...hmmm those are the on… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016We did but recently it's been dwindling since my parents keep knocking on the door in the middle of the deed and then coming to the window waving jams and croissants at us.... They're into some kinky shit eeek | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016Now I want a churro... :| | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016Yes mods pleeaassee..... oh wait | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016The llama of shame flair!!! /u/TempestTcup lets get on this hahahha :D | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016Well it is my spirit animal | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016The door? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:46 PM |
| 4 | My Husband Lies to Me - Laura DoyleIt’s about recognizing the opportunity to take action and make changes and encouraging each other to do so, instead of playing the victim and refusing to examine your own contributions to an unpleasant status quo. definition of RPWi | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | My Husband Lies to Me - Laura DoyleOne of the biggest lessons I learned is that sometimes lightening his load means doing nothing I hate being that girl.. but SO. TRUE. lol Sunhappy taught me a good lesson the other day about another manifestation of doing nothing which is just to STFU. Not everything needs a 10 hour discussion to hammer it out and get on the same page. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016haha. There was an AMA of someone who worked at Disney doing several different functions. Very insightful. One of the stories he gave was of a couple of kids brought in by social services. Their parents literally had died the day before in a car accident and they wanted a refund on their disney tickets to get a flight home or something like that. Then through the magic of disney, they spent the whole day there. Got money the money back. Met Mickey. A whole bunch of other things. Disney Magic is … | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:07 PM |
| 5 | My Husband Lies to Me - Laura DoyleI thought this article was very interesting because as someone who was (can still be) very controlling, i can understand why men lie sometimes. It is the easier choice at times to just avoid confrontation for the sake of peace. Does that make a man less of a man? I don't think so. What I do find interesting also about this is that it doesn't address that sometimes, men will lie as learned behavior from previous relationships too. Was his ex a total bitch and you aren't? Why are you being penaliz… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Healthy recipes that can be easily bulked upExactly!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Healthy recipes that can be easily bulked upIf he's happy then it's you who is dissatisfied right? | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I think I could drink pickle juice.. but I don't think I can get over the stigma of just drinking pickle juice. What broth do you buy? Like I don't want a broth that is just like a liquid. That just seems weird to me. I would want it from like a soup I made with veggies and actual chicken. Maybe I'm just spoiled. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!Pickles are my go to for sodium. I could eat a jar a week. They are delicious. edit: although I am still trying to figure out how to make broth to help with the sodium too. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!chicken bacon alfredo Yup. I make this one all the time. I think I actually shared this with Phantom | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 01:59 AM |
| 2 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?I went NC but after her mother died I wound up talking to her again. But not it is minimal contact. Which is fine for me. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Share your Favorite Picture, Meme, or (SFW) video!haha. On netflix they have "Fireplace for your home" and a classic "Fireplace for your Home: Birchwood edition". hahah. Actually, I saw a crackling fire video where it was just a couple of hours of darth vader burning in the fire. Never melted but was like in the middle of the flames. The internet is so bizarre! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!keto recipes is great. They link to some amazing food every once in a while. Like I found this recipe that everyone just about died for but then they have 10000038249083 posts about cloud eggs or whatever they are called. I also use caveman keto. That was how I found the carbquick. Also, bulletproof tea changed my life!!! It is so delicious. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I made these fat bombs. OMG They were good. chocolate Halo Top I'm not an ice cream person but I'll check it out. One of the things I love are atkins bars. I like them more than I like quest bars. quest bars are too tough for me but the atkins feels like you're eating real junk food. What websites do you use for recipes? | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!OMG. Let me tell you. I just discovered carbquick. It's like Bisquick but low carbs. I just bought some and if this is any good it is going to be a total game changer. Another thing is looking for no sugar substitutes that taste good. I just saw that there is a no sugar ketchup and no sugar BBQ sauce that I wanna try out too. I'm actually having trouble cause I think I'm eating too much protein vs fat cause I am still hungry after 1200 calories. I think I need to up my caloric intake wit fat Tho… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I am thankful for my son!!!!!! My son arrived on 12/1 CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I am grateful for my SO's ability to make me smile even if I'm half asleep still. I am grateful for the /r/keto community. They gave me some good suggestions today so that I can better tailor my diet so that I'm not binging anymore. Going to try those out asap. I'm grateful for Uggs. They are like mini ovens for your feet. Tomorrow is supposed to be 7 degrees F. As in FUCKINGSHITITISGOINGTOBEFUCKINGCOLD | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Share your Favorite Picture, Meme, or (SFW) video!Not really a video but http://www.rainymood.com/ is always nice to have on in the background when you are just laying around. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Share your Favorite Picture, Meme, or (SFW) video!/r/childrenfallingover you're welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:58 PM |
| 3 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?I'm considering leaving RBN only because I'm a bit stuck in the victim mentality. I agree it can perpetuate the victim mentality, when I posted there it was cause I was raw and didn't have anyone else who could identify with me. However, sometimes you need that outlet. So I wouldn't say you need to leave it, but just understand that it isn't your crutch. It is there as a tool to help you process and nothing more. I'm a bit of a control freak so it will help if I learn to let things go. You and m… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:54 PM |
| 3 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?So once I'm done with monk mode I just start dating? Well dating is a process. Sometimes it can be very time consuming so you don't have to start dating and find someone the next day. It can take a while to find a good man. So you may need to take breaks here and there. Don't let that overwhelm you. Plus, and this has happened to a couple of people, when you are in monk mode and are improving yourself, men will just naturally gravitate towards you. You wouldn't want to push a good man away who h… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:28 PM |
| 3 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?Hey! I think you are on the right track here. I think on of the hardest things to do is to realize that you need to fix yourself in order to have a better life. Not have a better life that will fix you. So good on you for reaching out to this sub (and to RBN!). So it seems like there are several things that I can suggest to start with the caveat that changes take time. Months.. if not years! Even if you are a 7 (or a 10 for that matter) if you have a shitty attitude you are going to have a bad t… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Present Ideas, Holiday cards and LettersSo I think I'm a huge fan of subscription boxes now. It is literally a gift that keeps on giving. Most places you can pre-pay for X amount of time and then that way you don't have to expect a monthly charge. But I think this is a great way to appeal to different aspects of people lives. There are gourmet food ones, games, makeup, candy, books, toys, clothes, razors (I do this one personally), 'adult' content... just to name a few that I have come across. I'm sure there are other types that you c… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherRPWi Laws of Power: Always be agreeable but do what you want. Wear pink dresses bahahahhaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherIsn't that one of the laws of power? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherHer favorite thing to say is, "What you really want to do is..." o.m.g. I'm having PTSD flashbacks right now | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherThey have conversations and he's like "uh-huh, wow, yeah, what a great point, definitely!" and then turns around and is like "yeah that's not what we are doing at all, fyi" hahaha. My SO does that with a lot of people too. He just says Ok ok ok yup mmmhmmm... then just does what he is gonna do. Ultimately it is cause he knows that words don't mean shit. Someone could tell you all day long what you need to do and the thing is... YOU DONT HAVE TO DO IT!! lol. I always feel like when someone is giv… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherAND YOU WERE RAISED CATHOLIC? yes. I am a recovering catholic. Youth Prayer Camp and all. you just saved my brain a few explosions haha. Well then maybe you might benefit from how I deal with my mom. Admittedly, it works when I actually employ this but also admittedly I can be a high intensity person so interactions with my mom can quickly dissolve into arguments. So take this with a grain of salt. Allow you mom to win. Even if it just a tiny tiny tiny microscopic bit. So I live a life of rigoro… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherThat's a pretty astute assessment and something I hadn't at all considered I came to this conclusion about a year ago with my mom. It was a moment of "holy shit my mom is trying to sell me on catholic school for my daughter like she would sell me a house!!!". Total mindfuck for me. What really got me to internalize that was the fact that also, if she can't close a sale, it messes with her livelihood. No sale. No money. No home. No car. ETC ETC. So to her 'closing the sale' means that she is succ… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherIt is quite possibly a contributing factor. Also being in Real Estate you have to understand that her job day in and day out is to sell. My mom does that shit to me all the fucking time. Do what you have to, to get the other side on YOUR side. It is a salesman mentality to always convince other people to come into your frame until you are proven wrong. Now for the SMS part of it being a contributing factor, it isn't so much a bad thing to have it when you are just trying to survive. The problem … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherThese are conversations largely between my mom (M) and her husband (A) throughout the weekend they helped R and I move into our new place. R and I (B) are also peppered into the interactions. Already lost me. lololol I think one of the things that I see is that she gets into a mindset of "this is how things are going to go" and she gets stuck on that idea. She gets attached to a specific outcome. That is hard to deal with. I know that all too well. I build up in my head how things are going to g… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 12, 2016I usually do it before it gets to that point. For me it's always good to make sure that gratitude it as the forefront of my relationship. I'm not perfect at it but I work really hard. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 12, 2016I've been resentful lately of my husband a little bit. I work 4 days a week, and he works 5, so the bulk of the housework falls on me. How about making a gratitude list of all the stuff that he DOES do around the house and tell him thank you. Did he pay the light bill? Thank you for this wonderful light my love! Well don't be sarcastic. But you get the point. Lol | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Porn has nothing to do with rmv or smv. Porn is an individual choice. Not a rp one. You as an individual identify what you can and cannot deal with and move forward from there. If you choose not to be with men who view porn then that is your right. But applying rp concepts to that you are severely limiting your dating pool which would limit your potential to find a mate. You just have to be aware of that. That itself is rp. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 12, 2016This comment from Iris really helped me out. It took me 4 months to complete it because I was doing one thing here and there. So maybe you can do the kitchen part of it. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 05:06 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 12, 2016BONUS QUESTION: What is your favorite holiday dessert? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 12, 2016good: surprisingly, I have stuck with a lot of the stuff from the SMV challenge. I've really felt a lot better and it has even helped to keep me on my diet better. I've read some keto threads that are also keeping me hopeful. This holiday season I've been on and off (well not fully off but on keto lite rather than full on keto). My dad wound up giving me a new piano book with some 80's music. It is too funny learning to play eye of the tiger with my SO being such a goof ball. bad: damn that nag … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 02:16 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - December 10, 2016issajoke! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - December 10, 2016Lost it at participation trophy. Lolololol | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 02:39 PM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - December 10, 2016Speshal Sneuxflake Syndrome Feminist grafitti MANSPLAINING TRIGGERS ME SO HARD I actually get more in shape when in a relationship. How sad :( | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Russian Dating School: A return to traditional gender rolesThat's what we call women in these here parts | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 09:22 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Define Cheating?This be me when I'm giving my angry advice. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 02:37 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Define Cheating?Just so you know, my SO says I sound like Rosie Perez. So put that in your head too. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 10:52 PM |
| 5 | How Do You Define Cheating?Also I wanna make clear that if for whatever reason if I became incapacitated and couldn't provide all my man needed I def wouldn't fault him for straying. But id have to be like quadriplegic or something fucked up like that. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 10:41 PM |
| 6 | How Do You Define Cheating?But you would actually leave someone, regardless of kids, length of the relationship, etc? Yes. I am not in a poly relationship. I am in a monogamous relationship and the person I am with is subject to those terms. I mean we talk about them and discuss them at the beginning of the relationship so it isn't like he doesn't know the expectations as well as I do. I even set stricter expectations than what most men would accommodate (eg male friends). If there were something that I couldn't fulfill i… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016YES PLEASE!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 08:26 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Define Cheating?I think it varies couple to couple. Some would say kissing isn't cheating. Some would say that sleeping with other people isn't cheating. For myself though, when there is any sort of physical or emotional attachment that is romantic in any way, that falls outside of what I'm comfortable with in a relationship. That doesn't mean that I see romantic feelings in every interaction with the other sex. That would be a wasted exercise. I know my man can leave. I know my man can get another woman. I don… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?So if your SO had an emotional affair that would be ok? I'm just asking not judging. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016You know, I don't even think I can find ONE trans blogger/vlogger that I can sit through and listen to their babbling. No one has any sort of coherent argument except "MAHHH PRONOUNZZ". I'm honestly convinced that even they don't understand what they are talking about. You just can't!! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016That vid is really hard to watch! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016From the subreddit PublicFreakout: this video makes me cringe so fucking hard! First she claims that she has watched all his videos. He says he has over 500 hours of videos. Then she says "do you really think you are worth that kind of time" UGGHHHHHH | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016I just saw this and had a good laugh. I thought I would share. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Don't be Daisy DuckWell there have been other theories that Aladdin takes place in the future. Which is how genie knows about those pop culture references. This is supposed to be some post apocalyptic scenario. I thought it was just an interesting read that had some valid points. I don't think disney has some master design on movies like they claim over in /r/FanTheories but it is nice to see some different perspectives and theories that are floating about. I'm not sure 'Easter Egg' is really the right term I thin… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:55 PM |
| 2 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...Thanks for the early morning laugh sting. I needed this :D | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:34 PM |
| 1 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...pointing posting ftfy hahahahha | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...edgelord shitlord ftfy | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Don't be Daisy DuckAladdin is one of my favorite movies too. It is one of the few that I can recite along with it playing. I actually just read this this morning and was blown away by it. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | 1,500 People Give All the Relationship Advice You'll Ever Need - Mark Manson looks at why the relationships that last, lastHere are my favorite lines from this piece. True love — that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy — is a choice. This is what I live by. I realize every single day that I choose to be with my SO and he chooses to be with me right back. One day that choice may no longer be there but we trust each other enough to keep making the same choices together. As a follow up to that As a reader named Olov put it, “Respect yourself and your wife. Never talk badly to or about… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPHere is a post from /r/sex of someone trying VR porn. His reaction I think says a lot about it. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for having this sub-reddit and propagating realistic and positive relationship behaviors.This post violates several rules. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 12:02 PM |
| 6 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...I'd imagine it to be the color of sadness and isolation. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 11:57 AM |
| 3 | I'm Going to See The RedPill Movie Tonighthaha i ain't mad at cha! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I'm Going to See The RedPill Movie TonightOohh dear god that was glorious | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I'm Going to See The RedPill Movie TonightAintnobodygottimefodat.gif | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 09:57 PM |
| 5 | I'm Going to See The RedPill Movie TonightSame here. I'm not driving 5 hours to watch a red pill movie. Lolol | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Female Nature and Advice for Young LadiesYes I love her!!! So glad someone posted from her vlog | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Russian Dating School: A return to traditional gender rolesI HATE MY AUTOCORRECT!!!!!!!! hashtag LeavingItCray | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Russian Dating School: A return to traditional gender rolesThere have always been programs like this. Refining schools were a way for ramen to learn how to present themselves in a more ladylike fashion. Conversely id say the army was the same for men. We need to bring back home economics and wood shop to schools. Those classes were very important in showing gender roles. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 10:59 AM |
| 14 | Trans: If you don't date me, you're discriminatory - my opinion"Your dating preferences are discriminatory" NO SHIT SHERLOCK! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Woman Defends $130 Wedding Ring Set: 'You're Not Marrying Someone for a Ring'I'm thinking I'll need a ring Sherpa | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Woman Defends $130 Wedding Ring Set: 'You're Not Marrying Someone for a Ring'I'm up to 95 carats in my wedding ring joke with my SO. Everytime we mention it it goes up a carat. When someone displays a huge ring on tv or a movie or something I say in an Arnold Schwarzenegger voice "LOOK AT DAT PUNY LITTLE PEBBLE ON HER HAAND? DOESN'T IT LOOK PUNY??" Usually garners some laughs from my SO. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The Kindness ChallengeSweet. Do you have a private gmail acct. Pm me!! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The Kindness ChallengeI like it!!! Should we get a Google spreadsheet going? I can do it tomorrow. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 10:47 PM |
| 1 | The fight that never was (also known as "I'm a dumbass)I think the worst one is when you try to joke about it cause on some level you know you should be OK with it and want to be... but something is blocking that. That's why for me writing everything out can help me unravel shit. Cause halfway through I can realize... well this is dumb... or have an A-ha moment that will help me process it better. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 10:06 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI'm grateful for the snow. Girl you cray. It snowed an inch here yesterday. I was pissed. lololol | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 07:27 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayCongrats on the engagement! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The fight that never was (also known as "I'm a dumbass)Women have this unnecessary compulsion to share. Exactly. It is a feminine trait to share and talk about things. But you're right. We don't need to talk about everything. That is why this is a category for stuff that DOES have to be discussed. I do think that there is that line between what to share with friends vs what you need to work out before you open your mouth about something. So I should have made that distinction. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 07:25 PM |
| 3 | The fight that never was (also known as "I'm a dumbass)I hope one day I wont have to do all the word vomit part and just be able to internalize the problem and sort myself out me and you both!!! I'm glad you have found something that works for you and R :D | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 04:06 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayI'm grateful for my SO not being phased by my crazy. Like truly. I am grateful for a community of wonderful women who keep me honest about my deficiencies in my relationship. I am grateful for amazon prime. No shopping malls for me this holiday season yo! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The Kindness ChallengeI could do a squat challenge. /u/PhantomDream09 you in??? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 05, 2016how was the move????? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 05, 2016Actually, I probably just need to default to STFU at all times... You and me both sister! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 05, 2016See in my head I need to talk about it. But maybe you're right. Maybe just apologize without the dramatic "talk" is what we need. I'm going to write it all up so I can get my hamster to stfu right now. I think he would definitely appreciate being spared the twenty minute dialogue about why we need to fix this. Lol. Oohh dear god the hamster!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 06:33 PM |
| 5 | [FR] It pays off to be a lady!GAH I JUST POSTED THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:34 PM |
| 4 | [FR] It pays off to be a lady!Just wanted to throw THIS out there for other women... | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions - December 03, 2016So here is my questions. Are you sure you are a 34 DD. I am 5'3" and a 34 DD and I don't have big boobs. /r/abrathatfits can help you check that out. I'm also a size 8 and do not have a problem at ALL finding clothes that aren't slutty. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 05, 2016good: last week my diet was great. I cooked a lot and I even cleaned. My SO told me "hey have you noticed that your side of the room is always clean and I keep mine kinda sloppy?" I told him "I've cleaned up your stuff before". He said "so you do notice!!". To which I replied "Not really. I just think of it as our room and I just pick up whatever I can.". Got me a big ol kiss on the lips :D UGLY: So I am carrying a resentment right now which culminated into our first fight last night. Like he st… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsYou did not hear me out whatsoever. Everyone feels pressure. Doesn't matter if it's work. Home. Friends. For him he is now responsible for you and your sons well-being. You don't have that weight. It is normal for him to feel more pressure than you. You're reading too much into what he is saying. He told you something in strict trust that you would hear him and be there for him. But you took it and now are adding more pressure to him. That's not fair. At all. He should have just kept his mouth s… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsThe weight of having a family and having responsibilities can weigh on anyone and it usually does. When you told him that what he said "wasn't a ringing endorsement" you basically spit in his face. He told you something that made him vulnerable and you took it personally and told him he was a bad person for it. Like damn girl he just was sharing with you that he feels weight. Everyone feels it. It isn't your job to make his life 100% perfect. He is a human and needs to carry his own weight. Your… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsThank god for small miracles | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 02:49 PM |
| – | Monthly Caption ChallengeHOLY SHIT YALL LADIES ARE BRUTAL ILOVEIT!! Keep em comin!! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!We are not in the business of womansplaining other peoples advice. Either contribute something meaningful or gtfo. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 3 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!So I feel like I already planned my visit around his work schedule. Therefore you made plans without consulting your other half? Thats not good. That is probably why you are mad. You thought you would do something and planned and planned and planned and then when it didn't actually fall in line with the family now you are all in a huff because you didn't get your way. Sure going on xmas isn't ideal but it is what is best for the people who need to accomodate you for this trip. I'd say just go on… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:11 PM |
| 5 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!I think he's afraid my family will judge him on how he performs with them alone. They probably would. Then you see why they can't help. So effectively they cannot help him. If they are the type of people to judge someone for trying to parent then I agree with your husband in that he has no way of getting help while you are gone. I don't know how old your kids are but a lot of college students are home and can help babysit during winter break and they have a flexible schedule. So maybe that could… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 02:59 PM |
| 3 | How to respectfully disagree?Sounds like ya did good! I think sting did a good job of summing it up but I'd also like to add that thinking of the problem as you vs him can lead to how you were trying to process the problem last night. It came from a very antagonistic mentality which long term isn't good. Well short term either but you get what I mean. It should always be you and him vs the problem. And I think you demonstrated that very well with how you handled it. You tell him your position. Then you defer to his solution… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsOk. I see where the disconnect is. I think you and I see it the same way. And you're right about who get affected more when their partner has a bad day. I got that part mixed up in trying to tie it in with what I was thinking. Cause yes my man can sense I'm having a bad day but if he were to also start having a bad day because of that then he'd be coming into my frame. Which is not good. Then that fits better with what I was talking about with the sexuality part cause women can be around her man… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 12:56 AM |
| 5 | How to respectfully disagree?He is the parent too. It's his style. It's both of your kid. Not just yours to dictate how the kid should be raised. No matter what always demonstrate a united front to your kid. Then discuss it when the kid isn't around. Tell him that whatever he did goes against what you believe. Then let him talk. But ultimately you've gotta deal. This is who you chose to have a kid with. And unless he is molesting the child or abusing the child (and for the record I do not believe corporal punishment is abus… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 12:50 AM |
| 3 | How to respectfully disagree?You tell them you respectfully disagree then stfu and move on. Lol. I don't know what the circumstances are that you're talking about, but unless it's something like he wants to start smoking crack, then there really isn't much that you should be up in arms about. It isn't your life anymore. It the life of the collective and most decisions anyways would be up to him. So yes you can tell him you disagree, but then move on once you do. No sense in harping over it after the fact. Also even if he is… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsLike women generally act on emotions whereas men might feel those emotions but not act because of them. So they react but not act whereas women will. In the other sense about sexuality where men see a hot girl. Wanna fuck. Try to fuck. Where women you need to do more than just be hot. Well in most cases anyways. I just always thought of the two different aspects (emotional and sexual) are driving forces in people. However, I'm disinclined to believe that sexuality is the opposite of emotions. Ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsThat could be. I guess I'm thinking about /r/deadbedrooms and really how IMO it is usually the women who are the ones who stop wanting sex generally and I feel like it is due to external stimuli not inspiring a women to want to have sex. But it might be more impactful to men when there is an external stimuli that would make a man stress that much. If that makes any sense lololol | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsMeaning like environmental or situational stimuli? I would disagree with that No I mean physical stimuli. Like you could touch a guys eyeball and he be ready to go whereas a woman would need more physical stimulus to get going. But you bring up a good point about environmental/situational. I think for BOTH genders it highly affects us. Men, when stressed about work/life/family etc might not be able to function, and this also happens to women. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 07:50 PM |
| 2 | From r/sex "My wife and I made up a 24/7 [sex game] that keeps things spontaneous."This is so cute! Looks like fun :D | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Random RP ThoughtsSo something I've always thought about is how men are typically emotionally reactive while women are the ones who are emotionally proactive. By that I mean that is how out bodies are built. We feel the world through how the world makes us feel. However I have found that men feel the way the women in their lives feel. Like if I have a bad day, my SO has a bad day. If I'm happy excited, he is also happy excited. I've found this to be true for most men. But what is the flip side to that? Is it sexu… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsSo I make no bones about being in AA. One of the things that I have learned from another member was that I wind up tying myself to a specific outcome. I get invested in that outcome. I work hard to try to force that outcome. I do this rather than living life on lifes terms. So when, inevitably, something doesn't happen the way I thought it would go (eg SO doesn't pick up trash because I cleaned the house/friend doesn't like the food I made etc etc) I get upset. I built up in my head this fantasy… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Removed from RedPillWomen: Why I could never swallow the red pillI do consider myself a feminist Already against all that RPW stands for. there is a lot of advice in RPW that just seems like common sense common sense isn't common. women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. This is not true for everyone. I spent several years just wanting to have fun - during this time a few men wanted to have me be their girlfriend, so I had to break a few hearts. This provides truth to the gatekeeper statement. There were also men who withhel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Me timeMERP | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 2 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!Hello and welcome. Feel free to modify this post with your questions. That way we can answer anything that you wanna know. I know you put them in some comments below but some people don't actually read all the comments. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Me timeTSHIRTTIIIIIMMMEEE Its the shirt before the shirt! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Me timeand watch Jerry Springer OMG I LOOOVVEEE JERRY!!! JERRYJERRYJERRYJERRY | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:09 PM |
| 2 | December 2016 Events!I'm looking forward to the Winter Attire thread. I'm usually just wearing 1039481048109 layers and look like the Michelline man cause IDGAF about what I look like when I'm just trying to be warm. But I wanna work on that. lol | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!You would benefit from a perspective shift. Instead of asking the community to perform for you ("give me content") - display your sincerity by being thoughtful. Writing a content rich thread sets the tone. Tell people about yourself, your background (where are you relationship wise? What are your goals and why are you pursuing them?). Share a meaningful story that illustrates why you treasure your grandmother. I'm assuming that this is where you are getting your direction from. What you neglecte… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Me timeI was putting others first and being totally selfless, just like Jesus! ahh yes. The martyr syndrome. Good on you for remembering that you are an important part of the equation and should also take care of yourself too. (Plus it accomplishes day one of the challenge this month!!) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:12 PM |
| 2 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!I think where the disconnect is, is that you aren't talking about anything that is relevant. Your posts seem to just be a reason to push your blog. It doesn't talk about anything RP or associated with RP. It seems like you just ain't gettin it. We would like to get to know you but this in your face post ain't gonna cut it here. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Tips on being a better housewife?I had my daughter start doing things for herself when she was 4-5. Small tasks. I'd take out the plates/utensils. She sets it up. She pours the ajax to the toilet/tub and I scrub. Help with folding her own tiny clothes. When she was around 8-9 then the task became hers and hers alone. Set the table. Fold all her clothes. Now at 16, she cleans the kitchen and her room and does her own laundry. It is progressive I think. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 07:06 PM |
| 5 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsYou can't dress up as a Mexican without being called racist anymore. What a world. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Any tips and tricks on how to make Christmas special for little ones!I just wanna echo what others have said. Smells! Bake cookies/cakes/roasts. Smell is tied to memory heavily. So if you want to create a lasting nostalgic connection, bake! edit: you can also put some aromatics in a crock pot and leave it on all day long on low with some water. Things that would smell like christmas. Like this But put it in a crock pot. lasts longer and you don't have to watch it. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Survived Thanksgiving by Accepting HelpAll the food turned out perfectly despite using an untested oven ooo risky move there kitten. lol Glad it all turned out. Who'da thunk asking for help could be so rewarding?? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 08:15 PM |
| 3 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?I've also heard of people paying for cuddling. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 07:12 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayI am grateful for my SO and all he does for me. I find myself just amazed sometimes that he pulls his own weight and I just need to appreciate what a great person he is and how amazing it is to be around him. I am grateful for automoderator who lets me relax and post things I want to without it seeming like I'm bombarding the sub with content all. the. time. lol I am grateful for aa. It takes away the crazies sometimes. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 06:41 PM |
| 3 | The Kindness ChallengeDay 6 - Do something kind for someone who you don't like. maybe give a blooper reddit gold. lol. I don't think it has to be someone you don't like per se... but maybe someone you find annoying or just grates on you. I mean I usually don't think of people that annoy me as people I don't like cause I typically avoid them. So maybe that is a distinction you're making? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 06:35 PM |
| 7 | The Kindness ChallengeYAY! Can't wait to start this today. Sex Challenge update: Hey everyone!! Day 1: Took a nice long bath. Maybe gonna invest in some bath bubbles/oils but need to find some for sensitive skin. I break out for anything! Day 2: Back rubs galore for my SO. :D Day 3: Chocolates for the office (so I don't have to eat them at home)! Should have been day 4 but I needed these chocolates out of my house. Day 4: I had a long talk with my stepmother about my childhood with her. Actually put her fears to rest… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 04:03 PM |
| 3 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?Wow. Just. Wow. However, I will say that I read this article about how Japan is literally working itself towards extinction. So this doesn't really surprise me. Their culture isn't one that enables "dating" and uniting o two people. They do the group dating thing but also have to work long long hours. So there isn't an environment conducive to romance. So how else is a gal to find some emotional connection? Also, the "tsundere" archetype is prevalent in a lot of American Romance novels. Think of… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Week 7 Girl Game Challenge: Declutter your lifeDay 11: Entertainment Area. Make sure all CDs, DVDs etc are in their proper cases and evaluate what you really will use. Music and videos are so easily accessible through our computers and mobile devices, that your CDs and DVDs may be a thing of the past. This is the only one I have to do left. It just took me 4 months. I'm going home tonight to do it!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016Looking forward to both of your FR's! I am working on one of my 1 year with my SO. I keep typing it up then regretting it then typing it up and deleting it. The cycle is neverending. I'm going to do it. Just not sure how to write it. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: LDR Reunions, Joan from Mad Men, and Bye to Birth ControlWelcome back!! <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Any housewives here or young women who would want to be homemakers one day?So I honestly would love to be a SAHW. However, I don't like to clean. So I need to keep my job to keep paying someone to clean. I think what is appealing about being a SAHW is pretty much everything else. Like I would love to do all the other stuff. Just not the cleaning. Yuck. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016AAANNNDD SAVED!!!!!!!!!!!!! Omg, thank you so much. I have a few things on my list while there but I def want to avoid like tourist traps. Although some tourist traps will be ok. Like Trafalgar Sq and stuff like that that can be done in a day or so just to say we saw them. lol. Now I'm super excited :D | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016Let me know if you need/want any UK recommendations. :) UMMM YEAH!! Like all of it. hahaha | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016We are going to England, France, and Belgium. Well the France part is up in the air. But def England and Belgium cause those are where are flights are into/out of | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016Amsterdam sounds like it is going to be amazing!!!!!!! We are going to Europe in May. I'm like super excited to be going. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes Megathread!So the pioneer woman has a broccoli and cauliflower casserole and I made it. It was a HUGE hit!! omg so happy with it. Also I kinda gave up french for a bit. I got overwhelmed with doing french, dutch, and spanish. So I took some time off and got back to it this morning. Still 45% fluent. lol I just finished learning this piece on the piano. Really excited that I finally got it down but I'm on to a new lesson today. YAY :D edit: Also, my SO usually gets a tree for his kids but he has a fake one.… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016Also we went to see santa! You're a lot younger than I thought you'd be. LOLOL :D | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016I'm one of those people that takes the directions too literally. It said 20 min. I did exactly 20 min. I'm afraid to burn my hair off. Lol. But what I realized is that the first day was rainy and humid outside so that prob had to do with it cause then the second day it was shiny af. Gonna leave it in longer next time still. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 25, 20164/19.... yeah I'm no better. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/16 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016I just put in the John Freida Hair Glaze because of /u/queenbee126's post on how to get hair so shiny you can blind a bitch. We shall see if people get blinded here today :D edit: My daughter said it was shinier... but not a lot. I think I need to leave it in longer next time. Also, SO didn't notice. But he wouldn't notice anyways. Smells yummy tho! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016:( I haz a sad now. lol. I'm still on my quest to get bread right!!! I will do it. Glad yours came out. I wonder if my oven has a bread setting... | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016Good luck cats! You can do it!! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Self-Care or Surrender?I just want to echo what bella said. Get back into the dating game ASAP whilst improving your SMV as you go. These things can go simulataneously. It wasn't until last week during a challenge that I started wearing more makeup. I've been in a relationship for a year now. You don't have to start out at an SMV of 10 in order to get a GOOD man. You need to start out at The best you are right now and never stop improving. I think after 5 years of self-care it is now just a crutch if you don't start t… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 01:00 PM |
| 7 | How to be better than your man.This is so great! Thank you for posting this. The idea that "but my man isn't good at this" has been kinda prevalent here lately. Who the fuck cares. You don't' get to control everything just because your man doesn't do good in one area. Also, how will they ever BE good at something if you are always there to catch them? How can they grow as a person if you keep interjecting your "expertise" without them letting them take a few bumps? | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Struggling to find contentmentSo figuring this out, what I would do for you is apologize to your man because you recognize you haven't been fully 'in'. Then start to figure out how to live where you are. It seems like you do want the best for you and your family and there is nothing wrong with that. Just shift focus on what you thought that was and to what it actually CAN be. Good luck. You should keep us posted. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 04:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "I'm sorry. I was wrong."I think this could have been a FR.... <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Struggling to find contentmentA lot of the time it is hormonal, yes. I just got my regular cycle back and I totally forgot what it is like. Then you need to start tracking your period and the cycle that you go through. Setup time especially during your crazy week to take care of yourself! That is really important. How do you think the honest vulnerability applies to the big decisions? From what you say, the decision has already been made. Y'all already moved. It seems more like you are happy to support him... so long as he d… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to find contentmentYou say you're happy 80-90% of the time but then that means the other 10-20% you're being a complete bitch. Now, is that usually shark week? Cause I know that gets me. Also you should bring your problem to you SO and not give him a solution. Tell him what you told us here I feel like I have no autonomy whatsoever and no outlet. Cause I feel like out of every other hamster comment you made this is the only sentence that it's the true issue. This is just manifesting itself in a variety of ways (eg… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 12:16 PM |
| 2 | The "Have Great Sex Every Day" Challenge!Really? Cause your boobs and butt get bigger... I thought in some weird way it would make you more appealing. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 08:49 PM |
| 2 | New here, advice?Basically don't rain on his parade over every little thing. EXACTLY!!! You know who does that? Mom! It's a form of control really and that is exactly what you want to avoid. Like the plague! No prob. Keep asking. That's what we do here. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 07:59 PM |
| 3 | New here, advice?Like I said. My biggest suggestion is always take what you want and leave the rest. I have a lot of financial obligations that overlap with personal ones so I'd never let that go. That is fine for my relationship. It plays to my and my SO's situation. RE: Letting your man just drive. I think the underlying point is that you don't have to be right every... single... time. Like minor corrections that are just a small jab are really bad too. Case in point, my SO can sometimes make suggestions in th… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 07:46 PM |
| 10 | [FR] "I'm sorry. I was wrong."This is great!!! I have done this and when they look at you like "but wait.. you're not going to argue??" look, it really makes you think hard about how you come across. Good for you!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayLucky you!! We already had snow which is super early for us. Usually in January or late dec! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 06:48 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayWhoa looks like we got a lot of guys who can work with their hands in the group. I'm grateful for my SO's ability to fix things. He fixed my tub... can I tell you how amazing baths are?? I'm grateful for this past year with my SO. Each day we get closer and closer and I'm over the moon with him. I'm grateful for my SO introducing me to the wonderful world of Diablo 3. Gotta say, it has been more fun than I thought it was going to be. Finally I'm also grateful for my SO and his ability to build s… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 06:47 PM |
| 2 | New here, advice?So yeah, I think you would benefit from reading TSW then. It will help you get out of the way of intimacy developing. I found it really useful in seeing how I behaved impacted the dynamic with me and a partner. It makes me really happy that you are fighting for your relationship and if anything you should keep asking questions and keep us updated! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 06:22 PM |
| 1 | New here, advice?ok I don't think I follow. You said this: the issue isn't me being too overwhelmed to have time for him. Then said this: For a long time, I was too overwhelmed to care. So that was the problem. he wasn't putting the moves on me and being rejected either. Here you start putting it on him. That it is him who didn't care but why should he when you were 'too busy'. Its kind of like a chicken an egg thing. Were you overwhelmed/stopped caring and he stopped caring. Or did he not care and therefore you… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 04:04 PM |
| 6 | gifts for your mando you and your SO do gifting? We do and we don't. I like to buy gifts all the time. But small stuff. The big stuff I leave for holidays/celebrations. He will usually just buy something for me when we are at the register by telling me to put my wallet away. He isn't really good at picking stuff out (or so he says anyways) so he would rather get me something that he knows I"m going to like. Which I'm ok with. do you prefer to buy or make your gifts? I am not crafty at all. But I typically include… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 03:33 PM |
| 2 | The "Have Great Sex Every Day" Challenge!I know my libido is much higher than is normal Being preggers ramps up the libido too. hahah. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 03:19 PM |
| 3 | The "Have Great Sex Every Day" Challenge!This will be an interesting challenge during the family seasonal holiday week that is this week. hahah. I guess where I'm hung up is that we already do this. But I do have some ideas that I can incorporate this week. so we shall wee what transpires.... I'm gonna take this opportunity to update my SMV challenge: This was my plan {CHECK} Day 1: red lips {CHECK} Day 2: red lips heels {Check}Day 3: red lips heels new do {Check}Day 4: red lips heels new do eye shadow {CHECK}Day 5: red lips heels new … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016I think I regret him asking you.... hahah I don't think of it so much as trying to be a formidable ally, so much as I don't wanna be the ally that sucks! Yesterday we checked how much of the campaign we have completed and only 4%. I'm like whaaaat?? I really need to quit my job now to play this full time. There is just so much stuff to get done there. Actually I can't wait to get home to play some more. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 03:08 AM |
| 3 | New here, advice?Yeah in women it is a manipulation tactic because masculinity is defined by a stronger sense of loyalty. I read somewhere that 70-80% of divorces are started by women! That means that men are there still trying to figure out the relationship a lot of the time. With men, however, dread keeps a womans natural hypergamous tendencies at bay. Women tend to use other women as litmus tests for how desirable their man is. If no other woman wants your man, why would you want them either? Hope that makes … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | New here, advice?That is great that you recognize what you were like before. What do you do for self care? Also do you date your SO? There are many things you can do to create gratitude. My favorite recommendation is writing out gratitude lists. Every week here we have Gratituesday posts by /u/jade_cat so you could start with looking that up. That would help with not resenting your SO. The thing is it looks like you need to reframe how you think about things. Resented him for getting to escape it 8+ hours a day … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | New here, advice?The only reason I mentioned the SMV is because i read something about creating "dread". Back it up here. Only men create dread. As a woman you should NEVER create dread. Ever! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Cullen Bohannon ummm well hello sir.. how youuu doin??? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:13 PM |
| 2 | New here, advice?First and foremost I want to say good on you for wanting to work through what seems like many many years of what I would consider to be hell. For the BOTH of you. I'm going to break down a few things. Take what you want and leave the rest is my biggest suggestion here though. new to RPW but have done a fair amount of googling the subject and reading up on MRA groups. You've got a lot of reading ahead of you. My personal go to book is the Surrendered Wife. This book gives a lot of practical advic… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016It's sometimes hard to not get down about my bad luck though. I know exactly what you mean! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016I pulled off to the side and gave myself about 8 seconds of cry time, then I drove back home. I don't think that's bad at all. Sometimes things can be so stressful you need a good cry. It would have been bad if you got mad and took it out on someone. What I've learned is that I need to feel my emotions so that I can get over them. I used to be one of those people who never cried. I always got pissed if a tear welled up. But now, it is just a stress reliever. Don't beat yourself up too much about… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016had a stupid squabble over nothing last night. If you haven't apologized, you should do so now. It's the holidays. No need to get upset over spilled milk. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Thanks <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Good luck on your move!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Thanks!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:40 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016He decided to level his player up in Diablo without me... Now I have to play alone to catch up but he keeps interjecting "well my player can handle that" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr let me level my mother fuckin player up yo!!!! I know its petty. But fuck that. We supposed to be playing together. You can't have this awesome monk fighter playing alongside a wimpy demon hunter. Its an imbalance of power. He finds it hilarious tho. One day I'm going to secretly quit my job and just play… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Thanks Sun! That means a lot coming from you!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016Good: Last week I kicked the SMV challenge out of the park!! i can't wait to update it tomorrow in the new thread. Also, I detatched from a few things I had lingering and I'm feeling good. Also, shark week started and I recognized it and have been taking better care of myself. I didn't beat myself up that the scale went up a couple of lbs but I attribute that to the shark week. Also, yesterday I celebrated 2 years sober. I am so proud of myself. Now today I celebrate 1 year with my SO. For that … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 01:47 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016BONUS QUESTION: What is your favorite turkey leftover dish? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: SMV Challenge Check In - The Perks of Being a WomanOh so true. I love my girl. She's super chill and her instagram is of her trying new shit out all the time. Like there are a handful of people who I am super faithful to in terms of service industry. Like my tattoo guy. My hair stylist. My nail guy. They are all super awesome people and great at their job to boot. Can't beat that. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Littleknownfacts Presents: SMV Challenge Check In - The Perks of Being a WomanLol. Girl put the drank down. Haha. I love being pampered. I drag my ass to the nail salon for Mani pedis twice a month and love looking at my nails right after. I'm kinda known for the crazy designs I get on my nails cause they are the only indulgence I allow myself. I am rather plain Jane otherwise so people notice that crazy detail. I've discovered a lot about myself this week as well for this challenge. :D now I can't wait to update too. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Clothing questionI'm on it! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Clothing questionwait,.... i'm supposed to build a pinterest board??? gahhh | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Clothing questionSo I took the plunge and signed up.... eeek. Gonna get my first box in december. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.WOOOOOO HOOOOO!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Clothing questionBanana Republic. Now they have some really cute wrap dresses and also some sweater dresses that are ok priced. If you have a Banana Republic Outlet... hit that up!!!! If not then old navy had some. As it is winter here there are a lot of thicker materials going on. You could also try modcloth online or asos. Else I would ask /r/femalefashionadvice where else you could look. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Struggling, ladies.HE was my obsession. He should till be :\ I don't think he'd be okay with me reading while he watches a movie. You have to ask him. Don't try to read his mind. It might be that you are just projecting what you would think about it on him. You know him better than some internet strangers but comments like that and this he's hinted in the past suggest that you haven't communicated exactly that you would like to spend time with him but maybe just doing the things that will grab your attention. Just… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Struggling, ladies.OK well it's troubling that he feels like you sold him an extroverted version of you only to find out you're not that girl. You lied in the beginning about how much extrovert time you can give to a person. Honestly it may be that you say no more often than you think you do. He is clearly telling you his perspective and you're outright rejecting it which isn't healthy. Finally, what's wrong with reading a book next to your man while they watch a movie? Or doing whatever quietly next to them while… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Thanksgiving Megathread!I am making this for Thanksgiving. OMG OMG OMG SO YUMMM. I love the pioneer woman!!!!! EDIT: The casserole was a HUGH hit. Everyone loved it and said I should make it whenever I come visit again hahahah! THANK YOU REE!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:13 PM |
| 2 | How to choose a signature scentI really like DNKY red delicious. You could even try the Be Delicious. Those were two of my favorites from a long long time ago. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] He's not just there to have your back, but to push it tooI hate those moments when your SO slaps you in the face with some love. Haha Jk I love it. But this is great. Thank you for sharing it. 💝💝💝💝 | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How to choose a signature scentLol. I guess so!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Those mugs are hilarious! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?on the role of facial hair in women omg i read this and thought... ummmmmmm :| I need to learn to read better sometimes. I love a beard. A good one too. But sometimes.... Then the wizard. I think they are just too much. I prefer like this. Not too long but full enough for it to be a full face if that makes any sense. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How to choose a signature scentThis is what I use. No sulfates and smells amazeballs | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?The why of it doesn't matter to me. I just wanna know how to mitigate it. Hot bath. Chocolate. Whatever works I'm down. But the why isn't interesting to me or my so. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | How to choose a signature scentThat is one of the things that I have no idea how it works Well a lot of the foods we eat affect our natural odors. Think about someone who eats a lot of garlic or onions. Also sometimes our body's ph level puts a scent out too. That is just how a body smells. There are also other hormones that come into play when that time of the month comes around. I think it is interesting to see how people's natural scent changes. You can even tell when you walk into someones home. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?I think again it is ultimately up to the man to either want to know or not. We cannot force men to want to understand what happens in a womans body. It is an accountability thing. Personally I don't even think that most women would have the insight into what is going on in her own body that it could be expounded on more than "i'm feeling like crap today babe. steer clear". That level of information just isn't necessary IMO. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How to choose a signature scentI use this heat protectant that my SO absolutely loves! But you only smell it the first day after you do your hair. Other than that I rarely wear perfume. I only have 2-3 that I wear on "special" occasions. But they would be my signature if you ask anyone. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The SMV ChallengeCheck it out | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | The SMV ChallengeCheck it out | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?If my SO asks, I tell. It is up to him to either wanna know or not. I'm not going to sit there and lecture him about my menstrual cycle. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Personally I would make sure that after a long day that the home is ready for him to relax in. Not sure if he is going to eat that late but having the house smell like food when he walks in the door. Have all the stuff ready for him that he need to unwind. Also, practice STFU. Don't jump all over him when he gets home and have expectations that he is going to want to do anything. He may just want to shower go to bed. Allow him his space. No nagging. Let him set the tone and the pace and you just… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016I think reddit has exposed me to a lot of dark shit. Stuff I wouldn't want to pass along to anyone else. But I don't think I would have been exposed to it otherwise. Not sure if it makes me better or worse off knowing that some stuff exists. I just know that there have been days where I just need to shut off reddit and hug someone. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016:D | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 02:00 PM |
| 8 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016OOOOHHH AUTOMOD WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM THE BEST AT CODING! I HAVE THE BEST CODES!!!!!! damn i thought i got all the typos :( | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 01:53 PM |
| 8 | How to stop being extremely clingyAre you on your period right now? How long has it been that you picked up extra hobbies? When you get needy are you hungry? Angry? Tired? Yesterday I came into work early to get something done. In that I had to forego my usual yoga routine and so I decided when I got home I'd do it extra time. So I get home and start working out and he's just kinda chillin in the kitchen looking at YouTube videos. Now in my head, I'm feeling like I need to be with him. I should be sitting with him. I should be s… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/16 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Nag-Jar: Come update us on your JarHey there. So nagging is a form of asking a request which is why it can be easily confused. The difference is in the motive. Even though you might think sometimes what you are asking is communicating, it can come across as a nag. It is really a tug of war in trying to get someone into your frame. (I'm assuming you are familiar with RP jargon.) So I know you and I have discussed my trash house of love before so I am going to use this as an example. My SO asked me what he can do to contribute arou… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/16 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Anxious About Meeting FamilyNumber 3!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Nag-Jar: Come update us on your JarAny reason to be better!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Nag-Jar: Come update us on your Jarlol. woot woot. lets do it!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Nag-Jar: Come update us on your JarOK OK OK.... I'll be the first to admit it. I DIDNT DO IT Here is why. Hamster. I thought to myself, my nagging isn't going to impact me that much. I don't need it. Admittedly though, that doesn't mean that I have been perfect. So really, I thought I could get away with it. What I will say is that I just put a reminder in my calendar to get a nag jar out tonight. I think it will incentivize me to NOT nag even the tiny little bit that does creep through. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOHAHA I love that gif so much!!!! Bitch you betta back off ma man!!!! I will cut you | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:46 PM |
| 2 | The SMV ChallengeI'll come up with something. Might be a while before I post tho. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16In the preface of TSW, LD talks about how in other languages there is no translation for Surrendered so it is marketed as The Submissive Wife. I think that would DEFINITELY put people off to it. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16Don't be afraid of the name of this book but..... "codependent no more" by Melodie Bettie is really great on the art of detachment. It's a quick read and easy to follow. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The SMV ChallengeOooo id like that one!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:09 PM |
| – | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOHello other pill. Please refrain from commenting on here. This thread is heavily moderated. I will not hesitate to ban. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI am grateful for my new job and my first paycheck! congrats!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Great visual for choosing the right colors for youOMG THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! I have such a hard time trying to figure out what to buy and I have a shit ton of makeup that just does not look good on me so I avoid it all together. With this weeks challenge tho I wanted to come out of my shell and this is really inspring to me. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16I feel like I'm missing out on many good things right now. :( Not gonna lie... You totally are :P | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16There is a blog post about a cake that I saw posted somewhere on reddit. Now this post was just TMI. It was talking about her miscarriage which is just a horrible thing to live through, but on a food blog? Like wtf??!?!?!??! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayYay. I love these posts. You know I'm all about positivity!! I am ever grateful for my SO and his ability to make me smile all the time. If I'm pouty... throws on country music. If I'm frustrated... tickles me with his beard. Etc etc. He knows how it goes. I'm Grateful for my fitbit. I'm so excited with taking responsibility for my eating habits and this is really pushing me to workout. I'm grateful for another year with my daughter. She is 16 tomorrow and is a wonderful young woman and I'm such… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOPirating books makes you an asshole. But libraries.... | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOPrivileged white males are yum. hahahaha!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:46 PM |
| 2 | User Shoutouts (:Awww honey... I accept you!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:34 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (::O :| :D | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 04:22 PM |
| 2 | The SMV ChallengeIt is a small detail I always forget! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:49 PM |
| 4 | User Shoutouts (:So I have a few people who I would like to shout out. /u/fhigurethisout I want to say thank you for starting the RPWi weekly reflections thread. It has been a great idea and I am proud to be continuing on your legacy here and helping women remain accountable to themselves. /u/Sunhappy_DC when I first came here your tone was really what made me snap out of it. It was harsh, to the point, and quite frankly, really reminded me of an old family member that would tell it like it is. I was drawn to th… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:29 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:HEY SIS :D I love you assessment of all the mods (plus Bella). We ARE like one big happy family here. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | User Shoutouts (:Thank you so much sun! Your words mean so much to me. I am just floored right now. You ladies are too sweet. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:10 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:I'm legit crying at work. You are so sweet Bella! I rub people the wrong way when they meet me generally so your assessment of me isn't too far off from real life. Thank you so much for your kind words :D | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:08 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:/u/CoochQuarantine because sometimes I wonder if she's a more advanced version of me. :D Thanks. That is really very sweet of you. Y'all got me blushing at work. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:05 PM |
| 5 | The SMV ChallengeI've been simultaneously dreading this and planning hard cause I love challenges. That being said, I am using this challenge to come or of my comfort zone one act at a time. Here is what I'm going to do. {CHECK} Day 1: red lips {CHECK} Day 2: red lips heels {Check}Day 3: red lips heels new do {Check}Day 4: red lips heels new do eye shadow {CHECK}Day 5: red lips heels new do eye shadow stylish outfit {CHECK}Day 6: red lips heels new do eye shadow stylish outfit jewelry {CHECK minus jewelry womp w… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16I always get people who assume that someone in my family MUST be illegal and what am I going to do if they get deported? I'm like bitch we are legal and have always been legal. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16Yes. Dave Chappelle hit that nail on the head!! His monologue was also very powerful. Calling out for peace in a very heartfelt way, he is such a class act. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16they absolutely refuse to accept that anyone can think differently from them Not sure if you saw the bonus on my entry here but Russel Brand pretty much says that the Democrats really have no fucking clue what the pulse of the nation really is. They have surrounded themselves with unworthy causes and fail to actually see that the country was hurting severely. We needed a change and with Hillary, THAT would have never happened. It's just interesting to see someone actually have a sane reaction to… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16OMG I wish there would be a restaurant here!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16Not sure what state you live in... but here in MA we are the only state that didn't give any counties to Trump. Everyone here is in a big whine fest. The democratic history of MA are so ingrained in here that people allow this to happen. There have been rallies and emails and on the radio, local tv, every single place you look... it is people crying that hillary didn't win. People are accosted for wearing Trump pins, even one lady tried to commit suicide because of the election outcome. I really… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16Where the fuck were my doughnuts when nine churchmembers were slaughtered in WORSHIP AT A CHURCH IN SOUTH CAROLINA?? PREACH!!!!!! holy shit. I live in MA. This place is just one big fruckin safe space hugfest. My kids school sent out an email. I've wanted to walk out of my AA meetings because it is now just one big threat to drink over who the president it. Trust me. I feel your frustration when it comes to now people are mourning!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16Good: So last week I discovered The Pioneer Woman. Well, let me rephrase that. I have accepted her into my life full-time now. HAHA. I made a few of her recipes. ALL of which were a huge hit in my house but not only that. I was able to keep on my diet with her foods. Which I found really surprising. Also, I have been practicing the art of detachment. I have dropped a few issues that had been bugging me with the simple phrase "Tend to my own garden". You know what this has brought me... My SO say… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16I love BOOPS | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16I would totally take Yoga Self Defense! Also, nice couch! I think I need a set for the living room. I just have mismatched furniture like I am in college or something. LOL | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 02:18 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!I'm not a fan of japan fashion. looks like hobo clowns. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 09:44 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Yeah I'm gonna need that recipe :\ | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!You could make something like this. Good luck :D | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Well I guess the question for the thermos would be you could put in a creamy soup. Like a cream of broccoli/cream of cheese. But if he isn't into that then maybe you could do raw broccoli/cauliflower with some dressing? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:25 PM |
| 5 | FREE FRIDAY!Does he use a thermos? Does he have a lunch box? I'm assuming you are sending him with more than just the potato.. although the imagery of you just handing him off a lone sweet potato at the door is quite funny. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:12 PM |
| 6 | FREE FRIDAY!Littlest One is cancer free! Congrats! That is the happiest news I've heard in a while :D | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 06:21 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!OMG THE SPONGES haha. this was awesome. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 05:49 PM |
| 3 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeHow is the challenge going?? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 02:17 PM |
| 3 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeHow is the challenge going?? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 02:17 PM |
| 3 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeHow is the challenge going?? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?It's tagged humor. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 11:10 PM |
| 2 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?Regardless of whether or not they are good representations of the male female dynamic in leadership, they will always be the figment of someone's imagination. More likely exaggerated and never close to people's real life circumstance. The facet they portray is only a piece of the puzzle. Bringing in fictional characters isn't facilitating in solving the issue. It only serves to demonstrate that op doesn't get it. Even using real life couples as examples isn't helpful because you don't know the i… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 09:59 PM |
| 6 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect? Every single person is responsible for decision making. That has nothing to do with honor and respect. Does your husband help put your clothes on in the morning? This question is loaded. For example, what if one's husband has a life history of poor judgment and bad decision making? That should have been weeded out when you were dating the man. Not after you made major life decisions with them like… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 06:26 PM |
| 2 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeMid-challenge check in. I haven't said no to anything. It has been hard because there are certain things that I need to get done, but remembering that sometimes my priorities don't take into account others and how they feel and the things they need to accomplish, has allowed me to just let it go. The laundry can be done tomorrow. The bill isn't due for a month. The chicken can wait til tomorrow. I've been doing things that I didn't 'plan' for. They aren't bad. They are just different. Sometimes … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 04:07 PM |
| 5 | On Being GraciousGrace is a woefully underappreciated characteristic in today's world. Especially in these times. Thank you for posting this. Right now it seems like tensions are high and grace has definitely fallen to a new low. I have learned the following in my program: "And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, plac… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 03:50 PM |
| 5 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?By then animals will have been granted human rights and a fuckin’ hamster is going to be running the country. This part was my favorite. The slippery slope argument. Every. Fucking. Time. (Also how apropos for this sub that he chose hamster.) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!One thing that we hadn't expected was how much closer we felt after getting married, and how much fun it was to say "my husband" and "my wife". That is just a fact! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 03:07 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayI'm grateful my so loves to spend time with his children. it shows me that he is a dedicated man to the ones he loves. I'm grateful for my friends who are there for me when I reach out for some help. I'm grateful for this sub. It has taught me so much about myself. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 10:27 PM |
| 11 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityIf you're a single woman, you probably envisioned your twenties as a roaring social scene full of expensive dinners and lavish nights out. You probably thought you'd have a boyfriend, or at least a few dates a week. Oh dear god the entitlement. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pill is putting magic before accountability.This is a great observation. I think another BP thinking is the romance aspect of relationships. We get bombarded from a very early age with the romance narrative. Flowers, gifts, chocolate, candles, saving the day and the hero complex. When the reality of it is that most of the time, life is just doing your day to day thing with someone by your side. Not very appealing for movies and television, but the bond that is created is so much more strong than the initial rush of emotions and lust could… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 02:49 PM |
| 3 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeWoot woot. So excited ab this. I'm all about the power of yes. I sorta use it as a measuring stick. How often am I saying no is very telling in where my head is at. If I'm constantly rejecting rather than accepting I know that internally I don't have room for letting love in. So I usually do a sanity check. a mental decluttering if you will so that I can make room for love. So this week I'm going to start out with a huge space for yes!!! Update from last week. Boyyyyyyy that was hard. Some habit… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Because you're steering the man towards making a decision. Wut? That is not true at all. You are telling a man you are available to date. You aren't steering him anywhere. Steering him would be out right telling him what he should do. You make the assertion that you are available. He then makes a choice whether or not to ask you out if he is interested. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/7/16 the calm before the storm editiongahhhh i'm on it! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/7/16 the calm before the storm editionthe sassiest pair of high heels ever. Right up my alley!!! edit: also you might try scheduling the down time. I'm notorious for overbooking. But now I have chunks of time set out as "AT HOME NOW". | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/7/16 the calm before the storm editionI'm getting all of my gifts either from Amazon (eagerly awaiting Black Friday) Wait... does Amazon constitute as Black Friday shopping or Cyber Monday.. Is Cyber Monday still a thing? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/7/16 the calm before the storm editionwe are sneaking off to the other side of the world for a full 45 days. It sounds like it is going to be an adventure!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Advice please... I can't think of a solution.Question: are you touchy feely when you are not in the bed? Like my SO likes me to be draped on him like clothes whenever he is home. He loves physical contact. So I oblige. If i don't do that I find that he tends to try to make up for it when we get in bed to sleep by snuggling up more at night. Which I'm ok with but it sounds like you are not. Like maybe you could try to be more touchy feely so that he doesn't feel neglected. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!Why would that be manipulative. You're clearly indicating that you would be open to going out with them. it's about as direct as you can be. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/7/16 the calm before the storm editionCongrats on the move! It sounds like you have a lot of wonderful things going on for you right now. So HappyForYa :D | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/7/16 the calm before the storm editionGood: last week I lost some weight. I kept up with my workout plan. I kept up with diet plan. My house was kept clean. I made some new recipes but won't be keeping them in my repertoire. But I did make one new recipe that I will. I hate yeast :\ bad: well, I'm still trying to get rid of this weird controlly food thing I've got going on. It seems like I get really tense when I'm trying to feed people. I love cooking. i love when people like my food. But I'm still taking it damn personally when pe… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!No. There is a difference in saying "Would you like to grab coffee sometime?" vs "I think it would be nice to grab some coffee with you sometime.". It lets a man know you are open to being asked out. Surrendered Single 101. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | 5 Mistakes Men Make When ProposingI actually want a ruby. I love natural rubies. Diamonds can be a bit bleh. Either way I will love whatever he chooses (if he chooses) for me. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Well a. assuming that what the friend said was true, your friend should take it like she needs to get in shape. b. again assuming what the friend said was true, sending a letter to him was absolutely childish and stupid. Why the fuck should she care what some OTHER man says about her body? The only opinion that should matter is her mans. c. assuming that he never said that, then her man was just trying drop a hint to lose weight. You can't really tell your SO that. But if you are losing attracti… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!I don't think so but in a part I feel like it is also because women aren't really taught how to be open to being asked out. I mean you've heard about how "men just don't get it" or men saying "how was I supposed to know?". Dropping hints never got anyone anywhere. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:19 PM |
| 8 | NAWALT vs AWALTSpecial snowflake syndrome (SSS). "They are not! I'm not like that. I know this other girl who is not like that!" | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 01:48 PM |
| 5 | The Fastest Way to Push a Man AwayHow about politely asking if he could drop you off in front of the place because you don't feel so well? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/11/16 05:57 PM |
| 2 | The Fastest Way to Push a Man AwayOoo this is so good. Something I definitely needed this morning. Lately I've been falling into the expectations trap. I set the bar "this is what I would do" (insert smug face) and when that expectation inevitable fails to be met, I blame blame blame. Now I'm better at not pointing it out but that feeling is still there and not left in check, can pop out. Who that fuck cares who is right or wrong? Who even knows who is right and wrong? Each interaction is colored by baggage. Ultimately, you can … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/11/16 01:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I still have long way to go, but I'm learning:D <3 <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 11:36 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Here it is in all its glory. SO says amazing but I could have used less lemon zest. Otherwise perfect :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 06:51 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!dude. i pulled them out and the tops look a little done... but for some reason my oven just doesn't not like bread. they came out half done. So i have to pop them in for anotehr 10-15 minutes BUT I already put the icing on it. THIS IS A DISASTER!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!gah... i had just enough cream cheese for the portion. i wish i would have known this so i would have gotten it. gahh. well. They only need like 4 more minutes. I'll send a pic when they are out. They look so bootleg. hahahhah | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!some.....lol | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | RPW & Social MediaI second the standalone post! This would be such a great topic! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 06:01 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!So I didn't realize that because my house is so cold right now it was going to take forever to rise. So I read somewhere online that I could pop them into a low temp oven for a lil bit and they would rise faster. So I did that. Then I took it out and put the jelly in and put the oven to 350 to bake but then I saw I needed to let them rise again. I just got frustrated, waited 30 minutes then put them in. Not sure that they are going to be good... :\ | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 05:58 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!I'm making some strawberry rolls right now. Pretty sure I fucked it up /u/irisandoleander :( Hashtag YeastIsNotMyFriend | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Fruit Friday: Post all fruit related food recipes, crafts, memes and jokes here./thread | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 12:59 AM |
| 3 | RPW & Social Media/r/iamverysmart comes to mind lol | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 07:17 PM |
| 10 | RPW & Social MediaI think by definition to post on facebook/instagram or other forms of social media, you need at least a tad of narcissism. Even on here. You have to believe that other people want to see you, hear you, read what you have to say and notice the things you do. You can't escape that. Now with that said it depends on who your audience is. Like when I was on fb/instagram et al, I would only be friends with reallllly close friends of mine and my family. The posts I would make would only be major milest… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Happy Friday!Looking forward to it :D | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Happy Friday!It is all for the children if anyone asks! LOL. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Happy Friday!OOO Post pics! I like seeing refinishing projects. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Happy Friday!I've got nothing going on except to pick up some ski boots for my sister tomorrow. Other than that just cooking. My weekends are usually filled so it'll be nice to just relax at home for a change. I've already got the menu set so I'm happy ab that. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 03:34 PM |
| 5 | The "Listen More, Talk Less" Challengemidweek check in. So this is fucking haaarrrdd I've been trying to keep my babbling to a minimum but I forget and will catch myself mid babble. Another thing I have been doing is trying to refrain from sharing at AA meetings. Most of my meetings I will usually raise my hand but I've been trying to do more listening. But sometimes people get shy so there is an awkward silence so I'll usually breakdown and raise my hand. Plus when people are talking I've noticed I'm still trying to come up with so… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/11/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionHey hey. Here is the recipe for the moussaka Sorry it took a bit. Life. Ya know? Couple of notes. Temp is in C and I replaced the Kefalotyri with parmesan. The closest greek store to my house is about 15 minutes driving so I opted for the replacement. Let me know how it comes out!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/11/16 11:16 AM |
| 2 | [Q4BP] Why are there sluts if slut shaming exists?I just saw on another thread that N=1=slut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Interesting article in Elle on Love and a new personality testI got negotiator. Your score on the Explorer scale is 29 out of a possible 42, or 69%. Your score on the Builder scale is 31 out of a possible 42, or 74%. Your score on the Director scale is 28 out of a possible 42, or 67%. Your score on the Negotiator scale is 32 out of a possible 42, or 76%. All 286% of me :D | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 01:22 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayI am grateful that my SO works so hard. His dedication to his work is inspiring. He never does anything half assed and it pushes me to be the best I can be. I'm grateful my SO keeps a cool head when I cannot and helps me outta my crazy too. He knows exactly what to say or get me to do in order to stop the cycle. lol I am grateful for myfitnesspal. It has really helped me keep my eating in check. I tend to go off script without tracking stuff. I'm grateful for my sponsor. She is always easy to ta… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption GameHaha. Omg. She does have that rape repellent makeup. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch?Just keep telling him you believe in him and his ability. Don't focus on the negative. Make sure you don't point out negative parts. Focus on what he did right and help to reinforce that. He sounds like he's struggling but you can't carry this for him. As a man the only way he will appreciate his success is if he is the one to accomplish them on his own. Even his failures need to be all him. It's tempting to want to help out but long term mommying him will only get a point to resent about you. B… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!ok | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!no no....the rock! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!My point is that she is not ignorant of the rules and is not going to admit wrong doing. Agreed. I know this. This has nothing to do with the original argument I made. Dense means slow or thick or dumb. Not true as I pointed out above. This is why it's a bad idea to use emotional language and name calling to discredit someone or something. No one did that. She is a fucktard for skirting the rules. Period. Anyone is a fucktard for that. It is the lazy American's way though, dismiss emotionally wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!dense: adjective informal (of a person) stupid. synonyms: stupid, unintelligent, ignorant, brainless, mindless, foolish, slow, witless, simpleminded, empty-headed, vacuous, vapid, idiotic, imbecilic; pick one and I still agree with my original statement. You are all these things if you ignore the rules even if you knew about them. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!She is. She doesn't get to skirt the rules. No one should. Especially those who run the country. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Yes she should have followed the new rules, but her actions were not a result of stupidity. ummm i think you just proved my point. She's not exempt from the rules. Plus we aren't talking about Donald Trump. He's got nothing to do with this thread but you made it a point to bring him up for some reason so you agreeing with that statement about just trying to improve yourself and marriage doesn't apply. We are talking about a blatant conflation of one womans egregious abuse of political power for … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Who says I don't like her? I don't but the fact remains that, as someone who works in a secure facility, YOU CANNOT BE THIS DENSE WITH SENSITIVE INFORMATION!. Period. This is something only a fucktard would do. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Let’s Take A Quiz! How to Get Stuff Done.Now I want steak. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Take A Quiz! How to Get Stuff Done.I've never actually made jerky before. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!I'm sorry. I couldn't finish this article. I thought the article actually had the 'unbelievable' part on it. I thought "whoa.. time is really stepping it up here"... then I began to read. This lady is fucking serious. It is politics. They are using whatever fuckery the candidates are up to against them. This would have happened if it was a man or woman. In the article does she in no way shape or form actually draws the appropriate conclusion from her assumptions. There is no evidence that this i… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption GameDem eyebrows Tho. Lol | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 05:03 PM |
| 3 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption GameDed!! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Take A Quiz! How to Get Stuff Done.Yeah see I've been trying all these crAzy recipes with like Worcestershire sauce and other rando crap. Maybe I should just keep it simple. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Take A Quiz! How to Get Stuff Done.dropped everything and started making beef stew at 7pm. So I'm gonna need a recipe please :D. i can't seem to find a good one. i've made like 4 different kinds and they have all been just... meh | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 03:41 PM |
| 2 | The "Listen More, Talk Less" ChallengeI have a huge issue with listening. i find myself planning what I want to say based on the things already being said. So for instance if we are talking about some shared experience, I'm almost jumping out of my skin to tell my part too. It is like I want to connect and feel like that way I can get someone to connect to me by sharing my story. I should start to look at it more like I am trying to connect to them so I need to listen to their story. I also have a propensity for mindless chatter. I … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Funny story - listen to your captain!Tone is lost on me here. LOL. Glad it worked out :D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Take A Quiz! How to Get Stuff Done.I'm an upholder. I'm one who sticks to commitments 100% unless death maiming or something gets me and of I can't do it I obsess over that fact til I can make it right. I'm a woman of my word. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Funny story - listen to your captain!Women belong in the kitchen, right? That's our thing? Or so I thought? WTF are you talking ab? We never say that here. You follow your man's lead. Period. You don't steam roll him by mothering him with food. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)when I translate it back to english If a thing is done, and to send to you to stop google needs to go home. It's drunk | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)"Have some agency and stop letting things just happen to you "Si aliqua res fieri et prohibere mittere ad vos So says google. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionwe married earlier this year CONGRATS! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:20 PM |
| 13 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)Oh dear god you sound really rude! As Tempy said, you don't have to be a bitch to convey that you aren't looking to hook up. Just be polite and say 'no thanks'. The end. The huffing and puffing was overkill and then you brought it home and HAD to tell you SO that these other men were hitting on you. Oh please. You chose to get upset over something so damn trivial. You SS is probably single. What did you honestly expect with going out on a Friday night with a single women? You put yourself in tha… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionNo Beijing. I'm sure no matter what part of china she goes to she will love it. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionChina!! We are so proud of her. Only 12 people got accepted in the whole school ~800 students. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionI have the moussaka recipe at home. I'll send it when I get a chance tonight :D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | November 2016 Events: Challenge Edition!LOL. That's the thing. i already dress up for work and wear a small amount of makeup. So me trying to ramp it up... I'm gonna be glam girl at the office for a while. I really wanna do it now! I'm even looking up makeup tutorials so I can throw in some eyeshadow. I've been having trouble with that because it'll be like going from not wearing anything to Amy Winehouse in one wrong flick of the wrist. haha. I guess it'll be a good reason for me to practice more! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionBINGO! I mentioned it in a gratituesday post. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionCattle innards What sort of recipe calls for this? | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionspanakopita ummm recipe? When I came back from greece I went crazy and made moussaka. That took about 3 hours to make but it was so delicious and totally worth it in the end. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionGah. That living situation is tough but I'm sure you can get through it with grace and poise. As with everything.. this too shall pass. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Para-share!For Boston Lady in Black The most famous ghost of the Harbor is the Lady in Black at Fort Warren, seven miles out to sea on George’s Island. Legend has it that in 1862, Mrs. Melanie Lanier came to the fort from South Carolina to rescue her husband, a confederate soldier, who was being held prisoner there. She snuck and lied her way into the prison and managed to rescue her husband and the others imprisoned there. Unfortunately for Melanie Lanier they were apprehended. She fired at the nearest gu… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionGood: This past week has been the bees knees in my home. Diet is going good. Romance is going good. I think I have finally figured out the last piece to my SO that was missing and that was driving me a little bit crazy. But I have surrendered that part now and have been so much happier for it. With my daughter, she just got accepted into a foreign exchange program and we went to the first meeting with the other families of the students involved. I am really over the moon with my daughters succes… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 02:07 PM |
| 2 | November 2016 Events: Challenge Edition!/u/Sunhappy_DC's challenge for me is going to be the hardest one. i thrive on very structured days so trying to get out of that is going to be a really tough. I am super looking forward to it though! I'm already looking up hairstyles I might try and which outfits I can actually wear while commuting and going to work. This is going to be really fun!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Is my mindset too controlling here? Not sure I want to necessarily pick this battle but I thought I'd pick your brains to see if there is anything I can do other than bottling it upBahahhahahhaha. Best update ever. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/10/16 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Free Fridayyes. I'm east coast... REPRESENT!.. Do the kids still say that? Am I being lame? made edit! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayI'm a slight step above that... you ass! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Free FridayI just installed the app again. So it would prob be while I'm at work m-f. I keep flip flopping on whether or not to have it. It can be a dangerous tool. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Free Fridayhere | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayWhen do you ever get on. It seems like when I get on no one is there. Pretty sure y'all are avoiding me. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Free FridaySo I just took a test online to see what my spirit animal is because they are 100% accurate. I got a llama. :\ | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayThat's right. You have the giraffe fetish. I remember now. The giraffe mug and shit! Makes total sense now! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayI thought more Toys R Us Giraffe. I missed the heterochromia. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!or God forbid another variation with even more letters My friend is super preggers right now and is naming the baby Madison. However, not with that spelling. They haven't agreed to how to spell it yet. So whenever I text her to ask how she's doing I always exaggerate the name and add more letters to it. haha. Right now we are at Madyssynne. You just reminded me about that. haha | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!haha love the update. I said if I ever had anymore kids we would name them something ridiculous because it would never happen and they would be miracle babies. Goku and Apostolica. Boy and girl respectively. Also, Sawyer was one of the characters from lost. his shoulders were weird so I concur with M. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Absent minded professorYeah it can get be easy to penalize someone for not living up to my standards. I just accept my garbage house of love now :D | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Absent minded professorI think, oh no, how do I get it fixed, what if the whole place starts falling to pieces, etc etc etc. hahah I know exactly what you mean. I think I posted here a while back about my SO taking the trash out before he was living with me. Now that he lives with me he just does it all the time. But when things start to pile up I swear up and down that we live in a garbage house and only sleep on garbage, eat garbage, and shower in garbage. Obviously that isn't the case but sometimes guys just are mo… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 4 | You Know What You Are"My dear lady, we've already established what kind of woman you are, now we're just haggling over the price." ooooo snap! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Absent minded professorI think there is a lot going on here. First... I love him and don't really want him to change. But Already there is a resentment. The minute you say "but" after that sentence its bad news bears time! Just get it out of your head that he is going to ever fix the drawer. notice the boots. unwobble a table. That isn't him. Next, realize that you being the SAHM have a job to maintain the house. Yes you do a side job but as you said he is the one who pays the majority of the bills. This is your job t… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayYeah I was thinking about getting an underboob tattoo. Kinda like this. But I dunno man. Everyone says that is like a three blow torch area. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayYou can kinda see it on the pic I posted. Very painful area. I dunno what possessed me. Knowing what I know about the pain I don't think I could do it again. lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayMy chest piece. It felt like he was tattooing my neck. The lower he went I felt like my boob's were just going to pop off and say "fuck this shit"... that was terrible. I can't even imagine my feet. Or for that matter the bank of my hands. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayI think anywhere freaking hurts TBH. So when someone is like "this area ain't so bad" it's like saying getting hit with a blow torch ain't so bad compared to getting hit with a blow torch twice. Still fucking hurts. lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Free Fridayahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh How long did you sit for? That is awesome. I got this one back in september. It's not done though cause I can only sit for three hours. But I'm doing another 3 in March at the tattoo con. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayI just love looking up on pinterest all the halloween baked goods that I cannot make lol. They have the cutest black cat cookies on there along with the candy corn rice krispies treats. I need to figure something out with this diet. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Free FridayAlso I want to say a big "Thank You!" to /u/TempestTcup for bringing some Halloween spirit to the sub! :0) AHHH I usually don't see the theme on the subreddits cause I disable it. SO COOL!! Thanks tempy! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayI love field reports!! You should totally do it. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Had the ultrasound!CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadAre those pickled eggs? I always wondered if you just eat them like that or do you use them in a recipe. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Biggest FearsI definitely have a case of impostor syndrome I feel like that all the time. Like when are these people going to catch on that I have no clue what I'm doing. LOL. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Biggest FearsOh I'm a self proclaimed bitch tho. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Why the heck did I ever say no?! LOL. I totally understand this. I tend to say 'no' just to assert my independence. Not necessarily because I don't want to do something. It is just me kinda putting my foot down and saying "you can't make me do this thing". While really when I say yes.. and keep saying yes, I really always have a better, easier, more fun, and exciting life. Glad you are getting some rest! Don't feel guilty that your H is showing you love by taking care of the house. Appreciate it… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Biggest FearsIf you're hanging somewhere with a mask on and surprise me I will 99% chance start crying. Oh god. in my house that is a constant occurance with the popping out of the closet routine. I usually start swinging and yelling some profanities. Which is of course hilarious to my SO because he is like twice my size and me hitting him is like a bee trying to sting a tree. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Gratituesdayhouse hunting is a go woop woop!! so much fun :D | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Gratituesdayummm.. do you think you might get a recipe.. this seems like something my so would love :D | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:26 PM |
| 14 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meshe even suggested that I should divorce him if he wouldn't start making sacrifices for me. Or at least threaten that I would have an affair if he would not spent more time with me, because that's the thing to do when you have spare time because your husband is away. No seriously... NEVER TALK TO THIS FRIEND EVER AGAIN ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!! Who in their right mind would suggest divorce/cheating on their spouse??? This woman is crazy! edit: Find more hobbies to fill up your time. Have … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Biggest FearsI've had this discussion with my SO. We both agree that euthanasia is something we'd both want. But it would have to be something like totally debilitating. Nothing like being a paraplegic. Like if I got Alzheimer and was just a shell of who I am. You know what I mean? It can't be something that I am still living and coherent. Obviously you get older and need help sometimes and that is acceptable. It has to be something like I'm just not me anymore. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Biggest FearsFears I am always worried about the future. It makes me anxious. Like will I have enough money? Will I have enough love? Will I have enough XYZ? It makes me anxious and I'm usually terrified that if I don't do something NOW NOW NOW that those things will just slip through my fingers. OO Just thought of another fear. I fear being so horribly maimed that I cannot tell someone to just kill me. Like I'm brain damaged and have now become a burden to my family (not that I'd actually be a burden but yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Gratituesdayhe rubbed my feet because they hurt so badly You know I totally get this. Every morning I wake up I try to use this. Just a couple of minutes each foot the minute I wake up, and I feel like I get better circulation in my feet throughout the day. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 12:54 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayI'm grateful that my SO is patient. He's been putting up with crap from me for the past month or so and it finally came to a head this past weekend. We talked extensively about it and it feels like so much tension has been released. He is an amazing man and I am deeply grateful for that. I am grateful for my daughter. She has such ambition and drive at school and always comes home with positive things to report. She was just recently accepted to an exchange program to their sister school in Chin… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!Ava My niece is named Ava. We call her Ava doll. Runs right off the tongue. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 12:48 PM |
| 2 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!Samuel One of the books I"m reading now the bad guy is named Sammael. I thought it was a very interesting twist on the name. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!That's not a bad goal!! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 09:55 AM |
| 4 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!Sloane That is a really interesting name! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 07:49 PM |
| 4 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!I'd have to see your belly to make an educated guess. I've never been wrong. But I will say it is a girl. I didn't care what my child was so long as my child was healthy. There were a couple of health scares so the gender really didn't matter. Favorite boy name: Maurice Favorite girl name: Aurora Least favorite boy name: anything aiden, jaden, caden etc Least favorite girl name: Britnney I dunno why. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Lol. Yes. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Updates!Field reports are always fun. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!Swoop and scoop girl!!! Haha | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If you found out your significant other was a Endorsed contributor on r/TheRedPill, how would you react?I don't know enough about TRP EC's or Vanguards to actually care whether he was one or not. He's good to me so who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/16 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Updates!I'm so glad you are doing better! It looks like you have a lot of wonderful things on your plate which is always exciting. :D Happy early bday!! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!I don't think guys are into it... more like they want to see their women smile so they nod along. Haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!Lol. Yeah. Some men might not be into it!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Thanks Thanx Tx | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Tx!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16I'm so happy for you with the job!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??Oh man. Two names I haven't seen in a while!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!Congrats on the weightloss! That is such an amazing achievement. Maybe you could remake the dress in a smaller size if that would be something you wanted to do. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!HAHA I love that!!! MODDD ABBUUUSSEE!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!:D Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??I'm not sure if /u/PhantomDream is a mod in the subreddit and can get you into the /r/. The subreddit has the link to the mfp group. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Occam and I are giving WOW a try (I haven't played since 2007 :O:O:O:O Let me find out you're a closet gamer!!!! Well maybe not so closeted since you are posting it here... wait... maybe even less so cause you are on here :\ all my holiday cards are written I haven't even bought mine yet. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!That is such an AMAZING dress. I love it. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!I've seen some people keep their original clothes and do before after pics on /r/progresspics in the same clothes. That /r/ really keeps me motivated. The transformation of some of those people is astounding. Especially when you see how the shape of the clothes changes so drastically. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!:O That is hilarious. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!It's kind of a fat insurance haha. I like how you put this. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Good: So I'm totally back on diet and fitness regimen for the past two weeks. I'm always hesitant to claim one week of success when I start something because if it doesn't stick then the following week I need to chalk it up to being a fluke. Well I'm really excited about this and have been doing well. I've already lost a few lbs... thanks keto! Yesterday I heard something at my AA meeting that really helped me to get over this resentment I've been having. However, when I talked to the person it … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexIn general yes. But in this case no IMO. She is a total shit bag and telling her that if shes young and attractive she can do better. Even if she is young and attractive I don't think she can cause of how she thinks. Should she leave the guy and let him be in peace away from her shit. Yeah. I agree with that. But to tell her she can do better... the original comment didn't address her fucked up thinking. Hence why I thought it was more team woman. Your point is correct. I just didn't put that in… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexlol tx. But Wing brings up a good point about it too. My comment has been deleted. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexIf you are an attractive young woman you don't have to settle. I was mainly referring to this statement seeing as though OP has those fucked up thoughts about her SO and other men. But I see what you mean. I'll remove my comment :D | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16I'm so glad you posted a pic of the quilt top! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexI remember when you posted that. So glad things are working out so much better now :D | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexI wish. Maybe I'll be comfortable being overlord... ahem... mod around here one day:D | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexThis line of questioning is manipulative. Please don't post comments like that here again. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexFor someone as sexual as she is she would need to get on board with taking responsibility for her own sexual well being. There is no double standard. men are told the same thing. Even the red pill literature tells them to be responsible for it on their side. We don't bash women for turning men down when you aren't in a committed relationship. We also don't tell women to fuck their men more than their men want. We tell them to be available to their men. Period. Now what men do is what men do. It … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexWhy does him rejecting you make you angry? Is it cause you think he doesn't want you or because you think he is the one who owes you sex whenever you want it? You've gotta figure that out first. You are responsible for your own sexual satisfaction. Not him. There is a mismatch here in libido and now that you've identified that you need to stfu about it. Well here's what I would personally do. Let him approach you. It seems like he likes to be the one to do that. Masturbate more. When you do talk… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI have an old coworker who does quilts. She did this one that was amazing. It was two scenic views that were intertwined. (I'll try to explain but probably sound like a dumbass). So they were triangular cuts. BUT. For a square she would use one from one scene and the other from the other scene. So to see one of the scenes you had to look at it from the bottom right corner and to see the other scene you would have to look at it from the bottom left corner. I mean this thing blew my mind. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadYou quilt??? OMG I love sewing. I tried to learn how to make clothes. Well make them and also try to repurpose stuff. Turns out that is like the hardest thing you can do to learn hahha. I wound up taking a class a couple years ago with my daughter and we made a hobby purse with a matching wallet. So cute and it is really sturdy. Anything I tried to teach myself to do fell apart. I wound up giving away my sewing machine cause I got so frustrated. It is a regret I have because then I learned about… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadYAY. Love these posts. Ok. So I am now 47% fluent in French and now have picked up trying to learn Dutch. It is such a hard language!! Mon petit ami est tres beau :D Whoops hit save too fast. I'm too excited hahah. So I learned this song on the piano and that shit was hard for me. It really took me a couple of weeks but I powered through it. Now I am on this song which I think should go by a little bit faster. I'm super excited about my progress and I always catch my SO humming the songs I play … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The Something ElseI think it is pretty obvious because even when he is home he is still checked out. Also, some guys might be dedicated and are workaholics and it would be like that even if you were being a good woman to him. You'd just have to do your best and if your best isn't getting through to him then that is exactly who he is. You'd never get him to WANT to be home because he will always want work life more. I don't think that is actually common though. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 10:01 PM |
| 2 | The Something ElseI can agree that a miserable marriage is a two party exercise. I will also concede that even if both parties agreed that they were unhappy, many wouldn't be so keen to change. Hell is even go so far as to say that even knowing that you're unhappy, saying it, and wanting to change doesn't even mean you know how to change in order to make a relationship work. Think of the vast information out there that tells you BE YOURSELF. But as its relevant here, it's to learn about the other gender and act a… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 06:45 PM |
| 5 | The Something ElseI think out of all the people I know, I only know a handful of couples that are happy together. I've asked them what they attribute their relationship success to. And across the board it's respecting who the other person is and allowing their so breathing room to just be. Too many marriages get the life choked out of them from smothering/mothering. It's like women think the way to keep a man is to treat him like shit almost. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 01:49 AM |
| 4 | The Something ElseThus, we have generations of Men in the Garage who feel some desperate need to claw out a tiny space where they’re free to be men in a home they own. These men need something else that’s just marginally rewarding set apart from their unrewarding spouse. Laura Doyle has a good blog post on this regarding the hamstring women do. Oh if only he would put the Xbox away we would be so much happier. Or. Oh if he only would pay more attention to me we'd be better off. No. Just no. The ones who are compl… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 01:46 AM |
| 1 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??Tell me ab it. Hahah. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 12:20 AM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!Hahaha | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??I'm CQuarantine if you wanna add me. Let me know you are from RPWi also :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Haha. Love it. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 01:13 AM |
| – | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!So as this is going to be my first stickied comment. I'm going to post the my favorite links in the /r/modgifs haha How to deal with trolls Mod Abuse When people ask me is modding my sub is literally my job | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).wow. Ok. So lets just play along right now. You want me to tell you how to fix your situation? Well I would say recalibrate exactly what he is capable of in your mind. You say that you admire him and that he is a hard worker. Then focus on that. Tell him your fears in non-acusatory ways. Good way: I'm afraid of being homeless Bad way: I'm afraid that what you are doing is going to lead us to being homeless. Good way: I fear financial instability Bad way: You suck at money Good way: Losing our ho… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionBinge eating and gym skipping like woah That is prob tied to the anxiety. I stress eat too. What I have found is that on my diet I can binge eat and still lose weight because I'm eating high fat foods that fill me up fast. Plus they are typically comfort foods. Bacon. Guac. Stuff like that. I'm sure now that you are making new friends that that will subside :D | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).She is telling us that he is not capable and would like for us to tell her how to defer to him anyways. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).I am a worrier, I like things to be planned out. My husband is not a worrier and although he likes to dream of the future, he often handles important things in a way that really sets us back or makes the common goal/plan fail. Nagging is something I don't like to do and I find myself doing it sometimes out of fear for our future and my own personal safety/contentment. I need to find a way to be more emotionally detached from the results, I guess? I have no idea what to do but I know the things I… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).Have you read any of the literature? Like the wiki, top posts, The Surrendered Wife, and posts by endorsed contributors? Secondly, What have you done to resolve this problem? really means, how have you worked to better yourself in terms of your nagging, controlling, distancing, blaming, detatchment..etc Those things are not healthy avenues to fix the problem. As far as I see it, you see your SO as incapable and do not respect him. At all. You might think you do but you don't show it in any way s… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks! I'm glad to be a part of it. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Eeek. So excited :D | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionIt's $3. You go watch it... NOW | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Date Night Megathread!Dr. Robotnik's Mean Bean Machine OMG YOU JUST KICKED ME IN THE CHILDHOOD!!!!!! I loved this game!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionNext time... wear depends hahhaha | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Relationship adviceLol. I have made it a habit! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Advice on avoiding conflict within my family.The thing is.... When people say others are ignorant... they themselves are ignorant. Do you think that they have done the research to their own candidate or just read those click bait articles and post on facebook? Do you think that they have done the research on the opposing side to make an informed decision? Probably not! Name calling is really just projection most of the time. I'm going to equate this to what I told my daughter one day. She came home crying because someone called her stupid … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 12:34 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI love Fall but I hate the illness that comes with it Ain't it the truth?!?!?! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Gratituesdayshoebox full of "open when!" I did this when I went on vacation with a friend. I left my SO a letter a day and he opened them every single day right before bed. He said it was the sweetest/cutest thing ever. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Advice on avoiding conflict within my family.How do you deal with feeling uncomfortable around people who are judging you unfairly. I think you are adding a narrative to this so we will be on your side. That really isn't fair. I would say look at it like a sporting competition. All political elections are like that. The team with the best strategy wins. Now myself being a Red Sox fan, I get a lot of shit from Yankees fans. They talk a lot of shit and post shit about how the red sox suck. I don't take it personally. That is their belief. Wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Tales fromt the Crypt: It’s Time To Push Back Against Feminist Bullies by /u/TheLadyLawyerMen like easy women. Hahhahahah. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Tales fromt the Crypt: It’s Time To Push Back Against Feminist Bullies by /u/TheLadyLawyerIsn't slut shaming a woman on woman crime mostly? | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 04:18 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayTx! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 03:40 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayTx!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 02:53 PM |
| 9 | GratituesdayI'm grateful my SO wants to take care of me. I got sick yesterday and took care of me by making me Jello and buying himself and my daughter dinner. He always looks out for me :D I'm grateful for my stepmother and my aunt who took me to the ER. They are super women who really have my back. I am grateful for HBO and their wonderful shows for without them I'd be super bored today at home while I am getting better. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Tales fromt the Crypt: It’s Time To Push Back Against Feminist Bullies by /u/TheLadyLawyerThe top comment of this old post I'm tired of these armchair, clickbait "feminists" promoting the fantasy that there is a "war on women" unless a woman can get blackout, puke-spraying drunk and lie on the ground naked with her legs spread and get 100% respect, 0% sexual assault | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionBlack Swan was gooodd | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionIf I can make a suggestion. Your first project should be something you really wanna do. I chose a yoga mat bag because I needed one. It wasn't too complicated. Used various stitches. It kept me motivated to finish because I actually needed it and wanted it. Then after a year of other projects I remade it and it is soooo much better. Haha. My first one was twice the size I needed it, falling apart at the strap, would always lose the tie off it. But it was mine. I made it. I was damn proud of it. … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie Editiongood: so last week my SO was kinda having a hard time. I didn't add to it and I wrote this whole thing out but I'm gonna actually do a field report on it cause it is a lot. I'm on day one of keto yay. bad: nada ugly: nada Bonus: My favorite movie is The Three Amigos. i can recite that movie from start to finish. I used to watch that movie as a kid over and over and over again. I could still watch it like it was the first time saving those people of Santa Poco from El Guapo and his plethora! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesCross stitching is fun too! What are hobbies besides watching Netflix and painting your nails and playing games on your phone and reading Reddit?? Learning a language, learning a musical instrument, making jewelry, drawing, painting, acting, cooking, baking, paper mache'ing, board games, gun smithing, video games, lock picking, origami, fashion, sports, news, couponing, cross word puzzles, yoga, pottery, puzzles... all googled in 5 minutes. get off your butt chica! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Friend 1: Men are just threatened by career women Friend 2: YESSSSSS they are! Oh dear god yaaaassss. Men don't give a shit about your career! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 03:40 PM |
| 2 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!how many camles are you and your husband worth? He is 65 and I'm 52 hahahha we is po in the camel department | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'shaha. I thought you meant Wife Dressing: A cookbook. haha like Sparkling Wife Vinaigrette... I thought it was some cannibal stuff you were talking about hahahhahahahahha | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:57 PM |
| 2 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI guess I just didn't understand??? totally understandable. There used to be a post on laid back captains. Basically it was saying that certain captains might seem like they don't want to take the reigns. Which is probably what they will say. However, they are just laid back and in fact want a first mate they can trust to handle even the most mundane shit. Effectively, they delegate out a lot of the work because they like to be comfortable and trust the person they are with. Take it as a complim… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:54 PM |
| 2 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesBut I just don't want you to think that my shitty actions and his hurtful words are aaaaalllll the time I don't think that. But I do think they are extreme. Which isn't better than constant bickering. It just manifests in another way. Like I said, my suggestions are to keep reading and stfu. These changes take a while to happen and if you apply the tenets of RPWi correctly then things will change. How they change and how much they change is different for all relationships. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:47 PM |
| 2 | What kinda fruit are you?My SO is a coconut! Yes I made him take the quiz :D | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:33 PM |
| 3 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesLook. If you look waaaayyyy before I came here you might be able to dig up me saying some fucked up things. Also if you went on older usernames I had it would be worse. However, from looking at your past you can see that he is clearly telling you that how you are behaving is pushing him away. That is the overall message. Your clinging and your neediness is ruining your engagement. This should be a time of happiness and love and the covert contracts you make with him are beating him down. You nee… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:28 PM |
| 5 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé does"How To Improve Your Relationship Without Talking About It". I'm going to add this to the book list. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:19 PM |
| 6 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doeshe doesn't want me to submit to him. You mean he doesn't want a doormat. He wants someone who has an opinion and can thrive without him needing to validate and micromanage. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:18 PM |
| 2 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI don't think there's anything wrong with being a feminist and being here I didn't say that. I said your preamble was unnecessary and reflecting that you don't know your audience or any of the material. Ok so reading your update here it is more that you need to find that balance. You don't want to be controlling good. But you also SHOULDNT be a doormat. Believe the words coming out of his mouth. You say "what do you want for dinner" and he replies "whatever" BELIEVE him and pick something. As hi… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:16 PM |
| 3 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI'm not the one pretending not to be a C word hahaha :D | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesWell this username is even more telling :/ | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 10:20 PM |
| 6 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI think from her username she is looking for a BDSM thing now that I think about it... | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 10:04 PM |
| 5 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesOk. So I'm trying to wrap my head around all this hamstering you are doing. So I'm going to ask the prerequisite questions. Have you read Surrendered Wife? Have you read the side bar material. You have only been here 2 weeks. Have you commented on any threads (I'm assuming this is an alt). Have you read the top posts here? The point is, you don't know shit about what we are about here. Nothing about your post says that you have read anything. Your preamble about you being a feminist screams that… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 10:03 PM |
| 2 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!hehe relevant user name | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 09:54 PM |
| 7 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Ooo let's do date night by going to the mall!!!! WARNING May induce vomit and laughter at the same time. Watch at your own risk I have "standards" BUT SHE'S A WOMAN!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: How to Make the Most of Your RMVLol. If your game is lacking and it isn't cause you can afford someone to do it for you it's cause you ARE lazy. Lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: How to Make the Most of Your RMVSuch a great post. Some other related posts I think are Camille's characteristics of feminine beauty and queens How to Get Hair So Shiny It Will Blind a Bitch post. Beauty is highly controllable and if you find that it is out of your control it's because the things blocking it are things that you are choosing to ignore (eg eating disorders, depression, lack of financial stability) Now I know I've been quoting tempy left and right but "if you're bored you're boring" keeps being so relevant. Being… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 01:22 PM |
| 3 | What kinda fruit are you?I'm a softie... like a banana 🍌🍌🍌 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Social Media #FFded! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Social Media #FFSo now you are going to make me go browse on pinterest for the rest of the day?? grrrr!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I know. They have some great flavors for the questbars too. I'll probably just wind up doing some eggs though. They seem to be good enough to get me through the morning. I was doing yogurt but that has way too much sugar. Like I said for me it is all about planning. Hopefully next week will be good. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Social Media #FFI have none of these :(. Well I have a pinterest but only for random shit. Like I don't have any boards or anything but if I'm doing something special (eg cookies for party, custom costumes for halloween) I'll do a quick search on there and just follow the link. Other than that I'm only on here. Y'all are on point with your pinterest boards though :D | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!quest bars are a life saver for me. See I used to eat the quest bars but then started stalling. I was eating one for breakfast most days. I also found that Mio flavoring for water makes me stall too. I think I just don't do well with artificial sweeteners. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Next reminds me a little of white house black market. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!I have not done a fat fast before however, when I did keto last time I dropped 20 lbs really quickly. I had a lot of energy and was generally happy with how I looked. When I want to do is get back into eating in a healthy manner. When I start with trying one thing and then modifying it, I just don't respond well to it. So I wanna just hop right back into keto and then when I start to stall (which happens at ~20 lbs for me) I'll look into the fat fast. For now, my diet is shit. My weight is shit.… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I'm looking right now. Trying to adjust my goals. I've already got my shopping list for this weekend to get back on keto. These past few weeks have been toooo carb filled. I need to get back on it. No more 'weening' myself off the carbs. Just going cold turkey. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 05:01 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!I like "ITS A MIRACLE YOU HAVEN'T FUCKING KILLED YOURSELF TODAY" hhaha. The face on the business translation kills me. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!The Krieger and gf would be hilarious!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:47 PM |
| 4 | FREE FRIDAY!If my SO came home to soft lighting he would be like "why the fuck are all the lights out?" lol. He likes to see what he is doing I guess. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Googling masculine cruella yielded this. I love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:45 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Do you want to do a fitness challenge together? Sure! I could use the motivation. I'm thinking about getting a fitbit cause I know a few other ladies who have one and are always telling me to do challenges with them too. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:43 PM |
| 4 | FREE FRIDAY!I thought some of you military wives might think this was funny :D Have you gone apple picking and don't know what to do with all the apples?? This recipe is freaking amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are y'all still doing MFP? I totally forgot about it and gained weight... yeah thats why :| | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'sI'm also trying to figure out how to subtly get my roommate to read the chapter about letting go of ex-boyfriends haha Oh the irony.... lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | W4ALL: where did you get your Reddit username and does it have any significance?I've had a few usernames but this one was just me making a word salad from the inspiration at the moment. Cooch being from Archer (as in cooch chili) and Quarantine being from a work email for spam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'sIt's up there! Thanks :D | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'sI put it up there :D | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...I have a saying "I'll sleep when I'm dead!" I usually thrive on about 5-6 hours sleep but feel like shit if I sleep more. I still get up at 6am on the weekends! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'sThey are up! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'sI'll add then in the morning. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Looking for relationship adviceThe problem is I don't think he was honest with me in the beginning. Then yeah. That is a totally different story. When people exaggerate.. to me anyways.. it is a form of lying. I'm all set with that. Still. NEXT! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Looking for relationship adviceOoo. The fact that you're against someone who makes less than ou is very telling. You should be more worried about a man who works hard rather than a man who makes money. There are some really good men out there who aren't going to make as much money as you but it seems like this guy who happens to make less than you is now using your resources which is totally different. Does that make sense? Like for myself, I make way more than my so. By an extra 0 at the end. But for me as long as he carries… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...Also any teeth damage. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Would You Rather...When I thought wigs I was thinking lady gaga and lil kim. I would be so fucking fabulous. Haha | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Would You Rather...OMG. Good ones. Paralyzed. That feeling of having to pee sucks. Live as a man. I couldn't be with a man who could sexualize me looking like a child. But I would be gay to high heaven. Haha | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:20 PM |
| 7 | Looking for relationship adviceNext. You stopped vetting when the word relationship hit. Never. stop. vetting. Till you got a rock on your hand. Now you know what you need to look for next time. Be glad you didn't get knocked up and move in with him. One month is pretty standard when it comes to becoming exclusive. We've had plenty of threads that demonstrate that. When you enter into a relationship though you need to be more pragmatic about things. You said his career isn't something you'd associate with taking care of a fam… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...Would you rather Eat and gain 1lb a month or never eat again anything but stay perfectly healthy. Learn a new language or learn and instrument. Love and lost or never loved at all. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Would You Rather...What's the point of a cell phone with no internet. Hahhahahah. Jk. No cell. Never eat cheese. Know how. I could knock out some duck sized horses. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...Wedding Jail Hearing. Never shave again haha Bald.... think of all the wigs I get to buy!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations for RPWi'sIf you have any recommendations please do tell. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 08:23 PM |
| 7 | After DB he changedI'd say, report this user to admins. It violates TOS like another user said. Get their IP banned. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 05:30 PM |
| 8 | After DB he changedThere are several reason why I think people do this kind of thing. They don't get it. They just keep asking the same question in different ways to get a different answer so they can justify their shitty behavior. They are stupid and think that this is hilarious and entertaining for them. They just want to poke the bees nest because they ain't got shit else to do. Anyways, they have got way too much time on their hands and really need to do some soul searching. Their lives consist of posting on a… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 03:50 PM |
| 4 | After DB he changed23 minutes ago... | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 02:36 PM |
| 3 | After DB he changedOh you mean Twilight? :D | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:46 PM |
| 4 | After DB he changedNo. way. I mother effen knew it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:28 PM |
| 4 | After DB he changedHe turned to be a red pill guy two months ago So there is your problem. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:17 PM |
| 5 | After DB he changedYeah. Doctors sometimes have incentive to prescibe a specific pill/medicine which sucks because how do you know if you are getting what is best for your body or because the dr is getting some kick back form the pharmacy company. They outlawed big pharma from incentivizing dr's here but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:17 PM |
| 5 | After DB he changedCould be. Could also be that they are getting prescribed the wrong kind. There are over 20 types of pills to take. It's like with all medications. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:13 PM |
| 5 | After DB he changedFor a lot of women it regulates their periods and actually lessens the effects. They prescribe it for some hormonal imbalances and also some uterine dysfunctions. It isn't for everyone but for some it even enhances libido. It's all body chemistry I guess. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:01 PM |
| 3 | After DB he changedNope. She called it off when she went DB | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 12:57 PM |
| 3 | After DB he changedI think that it is not too much to ask that after 4 months of frequent good sex to quit the nightwalkers. You can't make him quit. Either you accept being with a man who does that or leave. But here you are I'm assuming because leaving isn't an option. Which is good. But you gotta know that because that was his MO for a while that now you have to kinda deal with it til he feels comfortable. Not your timeline. It is a relationship. Not a marriage yet. We wanted to marry when my Body started actin… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 12:48 PM |
| 4 | After DB he changedWell they aren't vampires :D ba dum tssss | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 12:42 PM |
| 4 | After DB he changedUgh I hate this computer. Sorry if this gets double posted. I've been fighting with it all morning. So you went DB and he found another way to 'fix' that with hookers. Now you are demanding that he give you all his sexual attention and stop seeking out his safety net. It seems like this guy is afraid to have a sexless marriage again. Probably not the best way to go about it but he is just trying to cope. However, with the other stuff you are saying there is a disconnect between how he is treatin… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016I still feel guilty for being unable to provide Sex more then once a week for a year. I'm going to assume you've read this post and this one too. So I guess I would say if you are feeling guilty then do more. PIV isn't the only way to have sex and besides, taking 30 minutes out of your day to make sure your man is ok in the sex department costs you nothing. Libido be damned. edi also this | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:50 AM |
| 7 | Keeping FocusI have said it here before. You don't cultivate motivation. You cultivate discipline. Motivation will always wax and wane but discipline is for always. I like to use a habit tracker called loop habit. That makes a little reminder when I am supposed to be doing something that I do daily and it can be as small as saying something I'm grateful for to something larger like doing my piano lesson for the day. There is no bouncing back... there is either you do it or you don't mentality for me and the … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Topping From The Bottomhaha. well..... just a couple of hours ago. I was browsing on amazon as I always do for random shit I need. and that is how I buy his coconut flavoring for coffee. But I thought... I should buy him this 6 pack of flavoring that isn't coconut because he will probably like to try different ones... this is after months of him telling me that once he finds something he likes to keep at it until he gets sick of it but it usually takes a while to get sick of something. So I was thinking... well he has… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Setting up dinnertime.Yeah. i know. But I dunno if I just want them because they are awesome or if I actually wanna get them to use them. decisions. decisions. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Setting up dinnertime.apple strawberry | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Setting up dinnertime.I know! I'm actually looking into getting a dutch oven, a thermometer, a hand blender, and a tea kettle. The problem is, is that there is this place right down the street from my house that sells kitchen stuff. They specialize in it. They have this dutch oven that is shaped like an apple. The handle is a leaf!! OMG so cute. They also have a tea kettle shaped like a strawberry. I just can't handle myself in this store, so I'm just waiting to see if I actually need this stuff or not because I can … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Setting up dinnertime.So I just read this post. I have a few utensils I apparently need to get hahha! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Setting up dinnertime.No. I need one. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Setting up dinnertime.What do you like to cook? Meat Are you a same-10-meals person, or do you cook all kinds of different things? I rarely use the same recipe twice. How'd you get your recipes perfect? The ones that I do use twice are simpler recipes. Have any been flops? All the freaking time. That one time I undercooked a roast chicken. That one time with the whole head of garlic. That other time with the mustard pork chops yeacchhhhh Do you do a strict meal plan or just go with what you're feeling? I'm using supe… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 05:19 PM |
| 5 | GratituesdayI am grateful for my SO taking me to the Ren Faire on Sunday I went to King Richards Faire yesterday. So much fun!! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016woohoo | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:47 PM |
| 6 | GratituesdayI am grateful for my SO's support in everything I do. He is proud of me and he isn't afraid to tell me and I appreciate that so much from him. I am grateful for having a stable job. There is no drama here. There is no tension having to come here. I am grateful that my kid and my SO's kids get along really well. It makes for an easy time when we go out :D | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016I love that gif. Never fails to make me laugh! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/201629 days!!! I had to look up when I posted i was smoke free for a week then added 7. So could be 28. Either way WOOHOO | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016Pay someone else to do it!! The first time I wrote my reflection that was my tip too! haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016We went to Lou Malnati's. Was not impressed. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016The deep dish? When I went to chicago I couldn't find a decent place to eat it. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016This is the third time I type this out grr. So short version. Good: not a bitch, still not smoking bad: gained a couple lbs ugly: nada protip: for ceramic pans, scrub with a baking soda/water paste to get back non stickiness. edit: Just realized weight gain may be due to not smoking. DAMMAT! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016Walmart is the worst, I regret going there every single time. You leave there feeling... ughhhhh I used to just eat hotdogs with ketchup. But then I went to portillos.... totally had me questioning my lifes choices. hahha. Actually, I'm really big into chili dogs right now. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 10/10/2016i've been on the hunt for sport peppers since I had hot dogs at Portillos. OMG I could eat those everyday! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 01:39 PM |
| 1 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!I won Best Quote from the Bloop Awards Committee. Yay!! 💫✨💫 | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Can a RedPill Wife have it all?my husband is wonderful about these things. He enjoys that I am financially independent and doesn't get angry when the house is a mess or I don't cook. I just feel like its unfair to him sometimes! If your man doesn't care then you shouldn't care. Stop hamstering. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!http://qz.com/802632/theres-a-word-in-japanese-for-the-literary-affliction-of-buying-books-you-dont-read/ | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 02:29 PM |
| -2 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!Boys will be boys. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 10:50 AM |
| 3 | So frustrated...Any advice I give is "this is what I have done in a similar situation" that's it. If she can identify and accept then she is ready to change but if she compares and rejects she wants to be validated in her shitty choices. Just be a good role model and that's all you can do. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Tales from the Crypt: /u/HappySnowGirl “Girl Game: Guys Night Out”I would contend that if you've got a problem with a man who frequents strip clubs then don't date men who frequent strip clubs. But that's just me. Now given that I don't have a jealous bone in my body, personally I wouldn't text him while he is at the strip club because I just don't text him no matter what the circumstance is. If your hamster is running wild then you need to deal with that. See: stfu method. Talking ab whether or not he is that kind of man shouldn't be happening when he goes. I… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Be His Soft Place to LandMy point is that men don't need more hardness to help them through their day. I freakin love this! Thank you for reposting it :D | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Tales from the Crypt: /u/HappySnowGirl “Girl Game: Guys Night Out”Personally, I do nothing. The sexting part to me seems like it could be a double edged sword and you'd need to check your motives. Are you sending them because you want them to be a nice thing for him or do you want to make sure that he is thinking about you vs the booty that is shaking in his face at a bachelor party (if they are into that kind of thing). So use caution. What I will say is that I will tend to hide my phone so that I am not tempted to text him. Putting the phone away serves as a… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Dominance Level Quiz?I think there was a quiz on masculine and feminine traits.. I was like 80% man and 2% woman or something dumb like that. Not sure what the other 18% of me is but I think it's 18% awesome MyMommySaidSo. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!So. My book nemesis has resurfaced yet again. Let me tell you something.... trees are dying because of your weird little bound paper fetish. You are literally robbing me of valuable oxygen so you can stare at words. How dare you!!! Give me my oxygen back you tree hater.... as I cross my legs with my snake skin shoes. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday!!whoa. that was amazeballs. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 07:13 PM |
| 2 | What Makes A Woman Boring And How Not To Be BoringIf you are bored, you are boring; if you have interests, you are more interesting! What a great way to put it!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreLOL. Great story. It also brings up a good point on recognizing how your man is demonstrating his acts of love/appreciation too. They aren't the same as women's demonstrations and sometimes we have to just sit back and think about it for a sec. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 01:40 PM |
| 3 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreIt'll be in the wiki YAY. I am so glad y'all are diggin my posts :D we have to set aside our pride, put in more effort, and eliminate unnecessary expectations. Exactly. This is the summation of this sub with respect to relationships. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 01:38 PM |
| 2 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreWhen I do nice things for my husband it's because I want him to feel loved. That is what you should be doing. And when he shows appreciation, that tells me he gets that I'm making a loving gesture. This is you seeking to be validated in your choice. When he stops thanking me, I figure he's not registering the gesture as an act of love. This is your hamster at work. So I start looking around for a new way to make him feel special. There is no need for that. When a man initially tells you that he … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 01:35 PM |
| 2 | SolipsismWhat a great post Sting! I read somewhere on here about the difference in perceptions about the world between the genders. Men experience the world through fact: The sun rose at 7 am and then I ate breakfast. Women experience the world through feeling: The warm sun rose early and then I went to eat yummy breakfast. Both statements explain the same exact thing but one is more of a factual statements about how the morning progressed whereas the other is more about the sentiments of the progression… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 01:32 PM |
| 3 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreHahhahahah yes!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 10:09 PM |
| 6 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreSelf reflection is never a bad thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | "Your Favourite Post" PostHAHAHA. That was the best. HASHTAG CHAIRLIVESMATTER | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | "Your Favourite Post" PostHere is this subs link STFU | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:37 PM |
| 3 | "Your Favourite Post" PostWow. Now we are getting meta in this sub...I love it. My favorite posts are all of the Field reports. Honestly, seeing how all of you ladies work hard to be better and do better in your relationships always warms my heart. I especially love those FR's that show not only the success, but what it took to get there (eg the goof's and the mess ups). I think this community is all based on that. This stuff does work. Maybe not for all, but for us it has and showing that it works, I believe is inspirin… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:31 PM |
| 3 | "Your Favourite Post" Post:D WOW Thanks :D | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:27 PM |
| 2 | "Your Favourite Post" Post:D yay. Thanks!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:27 PM |
| 2 | October 2016 EventsI'd burn the whole place down for fun... I mean for you :D | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 03:08 PM |
| 2 | October 2016 EventsHopefully nobody makes fun of the internal strife Anyone who laughs is a piece of shit. Just my opinion. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 10:59 AM |
| 1 | I used redpill to help me at work today in a way I thought I never would...results were straight out of a red pill textbookIt's definitely been an interesting read and the book isn't too long so you can bang it out in 4-5 hours. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What's In Your Bag?!I tried it about a year or two ago. Hmm seems like a bit more of a hassle than I wanna deal with. Thanks for the info Tho. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What's In Your Bag?!Diva cup Ok. I need to know. I tried this and hated it. Admittedly because I got the bigger one because it said if you are older and have a kid. Now. That shit did not fit. So I want to try the small one but just the material itself was not appealing at all. Does it soften with use or can you barely even feel it. I'm hesitant to waste another 30/40 on this thing if it is going to make me miserable. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 06:28 PM |
| 2 | What's In Your Bag?!ooo that filigree detail! gurl that is cute as hell. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What's In Your Bag?!Lipstick in a little Italian leather case with a mirror in it (inherited from my grandmother) This sounds so fancy! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What's In Your Bag?!I use these. I'm addicted to keeping my teeth clean so I put a little baggie with like 20-30 of them. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 06:18 PM |
| 3 | What's In Your Bag?!So. I am a fan of big purses. I love to carry all my shit in there so I have something similar to this Wallet with all money related stuffs Keys Badge Phone Sparkling water (no seriously I carry a litre of it everywhere I go) Umbrella if necessary Small mirror Lipstick Charlie Card (for the MBTA) inhaler Earbuds Toothpicks Journal Pen Epipen mail that needs to be addressed. All of this AFTER I did a purse purge. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:05 PM |
| 2 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3">" this symbol first then the words so it would be ">take what you want..." then hit return two times. (obviously omit the quotation marks) lol | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | I used redpill to help me at work today in a way I thought I never would...results were straight out of a red pill textbookSo. I am admittedly a self-help book junkie. I've said it time and time again. I'm reading no more Mr. Niceguy right now and it is giving me a lot of insight to the other side of the coin. Human behavior is something that I am very interested in. Thank you for sharing this FR | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Gratitude TuesdayGratituesday bahahhahahhahha love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Gratitude Tuesdaydamn tickly beard hugs are the best YESSS No one around me gets this. My cousins all make their husbands shave it off with threats of no more affection. Sad really. But I'm like I LOVE THE BEARD HE BETTER NOT SHAVE!! haha. We've got a thing going. I keep my hair long on my head he keeps the hair long on his face. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Gratitude TuesdayI am grateful for wine lol I don't drink (read: I'm an alkie) but wine was so good. I went to a wine tasting once that had this red that was a mix of two different ones that had this buttery after taste to it that I fell in love with. Who knew wine could have such a variety of tastes. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Gratitude TuesdayI love rewatching shows. You get to see all the little things that you missed the first go around. I do that with books too. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Gratitude TuesdayThat is so exciting moving in with the BF!!!! I'm not nervous at all. I know exactly what you mean. When you know.. you just know. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Gratitude TuesdayOh man. It's wednesday can I still play? I am grateful that my man has drive and ambition. It extends to work, play, romance, and family. I see it in everything he does. I am grateful for my home. It is my sanctuary when all else is chaos. I am grateful for my health. I was sick last week so I am definitely loving the ability to breath through my nose right now. I'm grateful for all of you ladies. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:10 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Hey hey :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:03 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3I loved TSW! That book really put me on the right path to fixing the way I viewed relationships. I'm glad it is helping you out too. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:03 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Well. I am a lady. Not a man. Nope. Definitely not a wo... I mean.. man. yeah. lol :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Welcome back :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Hello friend :D Glad this sub challenges you. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:00 PM |
| 2 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Heyyy you quoted me :D Welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 12:59 PM |
| 6 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3but I've definitely borrowed a few things from here. "Take what ya want and leave the rest" - CoochQuarantine yesIquotedmyself | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Reflections with RPWi: 10/03/2016good: This past week I was sick like a dog and I was great about not taking it out on my SO. But.... bad: I dunno wtf happened but on saturday I was supposed to just relax all day. I felt I was owed it (can you see where this is goin?) and so when that didn't happen I just got so frustrated. I stormed... STORMED... out of the room and needed space. Well I guess I didn't take it out on my SO but I know he was like 'w.t.f just happened'. Honestly I felt entitled to just relax but shit kept coming … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!So I have a total crush on the following women Christine McConnell Doetzen Kroes Samantha Ravndahl Adriana Lima Teyana Taylor | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Caption Challenge #2I TOLD YOU IM NOT UPSET | /r/RedPillWives | 01/10/16 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Starting a little early, Welcome Rollo Tomassi Everyone!Thank you for all your hard work. I don't know exactly how to word this but, how much do you think your studies in Behavioral Psychology have shaped the message you put out? Do you believe that it explains why we are taught the opposite of how to engage in a romantic relationship or at the very least exposes that we are being taught incorrectly? What would you say to others who would like to study Behavioral Psychology? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenI hid it in the cereal box because I didn't want him to eat it :| | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 05:09 PM |
| 3 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenI only said I wanted to destroy the sun because I was really hot when pregnant I used to hide snickers in the cereal boxes and claim it was my evil twin. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:53 PM |
| 3 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenSidenote, is 10 months a reference to you and your man being together for that long?! YUP!! It just goes to show AWALT and also AMALT. Exactly. Just like men need to understand the rules of attraction and act accordingly to get what they want, women also need to do that too. I keep seeing so many of my friends thinking "well I'm just like that and they need to love me for me". That isn't how it works. Not that 100% everyone needs to act like robots and do the same things, but there are certain b… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenNo. But I can't even.... I knew about this product but have never seen this in my life. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:37 PM |
| 2 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenHoly shit. that was amazeballs! I would say that for my SO I'm in the unicorn stage ONLY because his previous data has skewed his point of reference. Like I'm super chill. I think I'm good lookin. But I know that I'm not "hot" or that I am not fuckin nuts. BUT compared to the ex.... I am a fucking unicorn here to save his world with my rainbow glitter poop and shiny mane (thanks /u/QueenBee126). So this chart is accurate but as the guy alluded to... it is relative to the person too. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/26/16Did you use the guide to online dating that's in the wiki as a source for your mom? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/26/16Food really is the way to a man's heart, huh? I live by this motto | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/26/16I'm sick so I'm going to keep it short and sweet. good: wasn't a bitch bad: none ugly: none RAoK: I bought my new aunt brunch yesterday because she just moved here from Europe and doesn't have a job yet. Its nicer than it sounds but fuck it i'm sick. :P | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 04:37 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?I get tickle torture as punishment. ALL. THE. TIME!!!! This is so cute. Sounds like me and my SO. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 11:46 PM |
| 2 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?You're sean astin, bubbles is the girl, and your man is the other guy.. hahah | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 11:41 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Hashtag imjellyaboutbubbles | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 10:17 PM |
| 7 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Clearly it's watermelon bubbalicious. I mean it doesn't last a long time but the powerful impact and assault to your taste buds makes it worth it. Hahahahha. This is cute! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 09:48 PM |
| 11 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Oh we are silly. He usually practices some arm bar type Brazilian jiu jitsu move on me and I go boneless on him and we wind up wrestling. Of course he is just holding me off as I fight for dear life..... siigghhhss Whenever we say something dumb we mimic each other with a baby annoying voice. And we laugh like crazy cause we know we just said something dumb. Anytime someone walks by the foot of the bed for sure a foot is being tickled if left exposed. We've done this a few times. We've gone to t… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Homemaking question!I'm always buying candles and incense because I like making my house smell good but this seems like a great alternative and so much cheaper cause you can use stuff that is going bad cause it's not like you're gonna eat it | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 05:19 PM |
| 6 | 1 Week Challenge SuggestionsThe Power of YES Challenge This is a challenge simple in principle but difficult in execution. All you have to do is say "YES" to everything your SO asks for, requests, and suggests. The only time you are allowed to say "no" is if it puts you in any physical, psychological, or personal harm; goes against your morals; is physically impossible. Some reasons to say yes: I want to eat chinese food tonight: yes. I want to see this movie: yes. I want to do this activity next month: yes. I want to do y… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/16 08:41 PM |
| 5 | How to handle salty/judgemental comments about my relationship?I wax his back hair so I think this is ok. dying. laughing. i can't even! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How to handle salty/judgemental comments about my relationship?Yeah. People are always waiting to poke holes at your relationship when you mention some facet of what you do in it. Like they think automatically if you're mentioning it it's because you have a resentment because of it. Better to just say how happy you are. It's a hard lesson to learn that sometimes women project their negative views on you but it happens. That's how I know now which friends I can talk to ab my relationship and which ones I can't. If I mention something I do and they blow up ab… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 01:09 PM |
| 8 | How to handle salty/judgemental comments about my relationship?I've heard that I'm too busy to cook for him, I shouldn't listen to his opinion about my hair/dresses, he isn't allowed to say when my behavior is out of line, I shouldn't have sex if I'm not in the mood in the very beginning (nevermind I have a mostly responsible desire and these people know it) etc etc etc. Stop blabbing about the deets of your relationship! No one needs to know about his opinions of your hair/dresses. no one needs to know you cook for him even if you are busy. no one needs to… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 12:17 PM |
| 5 | How to handle salty/judgemental comments about my relationship?I try to emphasise my happiness, not the details of our relationshi Such a good distinction to make!! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Why I returned to work (the long version)Stevie... this is absolutely amazing. I'm so happy for you. From your older posts you can totally sense the difference in how you present yourself. I personally (and a few other ladies here) have even told women "does the house work really matter that much if it is making you miserable?". I've ruined a few dinners in my day. Now they are a reason to laugh. So long as your attitude is upbeat and you and your man are happy THAT is what matters. Congrats on the job | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 10:05 AM |
| 3 | When your SO is being a jerk?My guy isn't a jerk to me per se but his attitude can be stank sometimes because of circumstances. My initial reaction is usually "whoa.. someone isn't too happy". I don't tell him how I feel because I know I get bitchy too. So I just kinda stay quiet and ask if there is anything I can do to help out and just accept whatever answer he gives. Not at all. Usually he thanks me for being even keeled when he needs me to be. I can tuck away anything bugging me to be his support 100%. Nothing good can … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Barrel crabs attack perfectly lovely Bake Off contestantpouty lips = duck face | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Barrel crabs attack perfectly lovely Bake Off contestantShe's got a boyfriend. The bald guy that is in some of her pictures. At least I remember reading that somewhere. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Random RP Thoughts!I just had to | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Inspiration for cooking and marriage!<3 | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Barrel crabs attack perfectly lovely Bake Off contestantIt is just like reddits love/hate relationship with Christine McConnell. She is talented, sexy, businessminded but she gets sooo much hate for her femininity. Thank you for posting this! I love the current topic goin on about how women dress lately here! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Random RP Thoughts!When he gave her the crazy eyes my heart melted! OMG YAS! I think so much about the past season was just amazing. I wasn't expecting much because well... it caught up to the books and so I thought they would go off on some weird tangent. But I like how it is all playing out. The show is actually why I read the series... well it motivated me to read it twice. The third and fourth read through was all me.. :/ | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Random RP Thoughts!I like it. However, she did try to take an opportunity to find someone to love. It turned out that people were betting on who could bed her first though. After that she decided to go WGTOW because she just figured she would never find someone who would love her because she was ugly and tall af. She then goes for men who she knows on some level she can't have (ie Renly, Jaime etc). So she figures she'll just be a part of the kings guard (read: plate) and that is the best she can hope for. She rea… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Wedding Megathread!ummmm... | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 11:58 PM |
| 4 | Wedding Megathread!Probably afraid the lannisters would send their regards 😂😂 | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Wedding Megathread!That sounds like a lot of fun actually! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Wedding Megathread!Just saw this. Thought it was funny. I'm still having a wedding tho.. lol | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Wedding Megathread!Some history on it. Not sure how accurate it is but I've seen the things said in this video said in other places too | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes Megathreadlol bunny food :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Wedding Megathread!Happy cakeday yo! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Tales from the Crypt: /u/IceCreamnCakenCake “The Dowdy Patient”Opinion's on the article? The comments section is a gold mine of crazy talk. "Glad I'm not your patient". Although, I could conclude that her dress style was one facet of her personality that probably needed to be worked on, I see some other red flags. The higher education, the wall street job... not say they are bad to have, but typically you will find women in those categories who become entitled. I mean she was getting at least some dates but just no one would stick around. So her personality… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Tales from the Crypt: /u/IceCreamnCakenCake “The Dowdy Patient”I think it's like the 'niceguy' problem Ooo very true. The idea of 'people should just love you no matter what'. Like if I gained 100 lbs or shaved my head. Honestly I don't think that my SO would leave me in those cases but I know he does not find that attractive. Why would I want to stop attracting my man? Just because I got him already? Sounds like a quick recipe for complacency. I just don't think I look good in some styles I think this is a good line to draw. I know some styles don't look g… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI had a total of 6 years of vegan and vegetarianism before I met him, so cooking and eating meat is still a hurdle of sorts to me! I was just talking to my SO about this a couple nights ago. The wife of a friend of his went meat less and is now making the husband go meatless too because he doesn't cook. He thanked me for eating meat every night lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Wedding Megathread!Does anyone else plan a fake future wedding? Not that I am doing that or anything. Just asking for a friend :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Would women lose attraction to the man in this scenario and how can it be avoided?So the question is if a woman theoretically got raped while her boyfriend was forced to watch helplessly, defeated by the rapists, can the relationship ever be saved or is the man forever weak in her mind after that? I think it is also the shame that comes along with not being able to stop it yourself and having someone watch you at your lowest, most demeaning and embarrassing moment. It wouldn't be because he couldn't do anything. Consciously we understand that men also want to protect themselv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 03:57 PM |
| 5 | The Power of Nesting | Notes From a Red Pill GirlI don't clean. It's just not my thing. However, I do tidy up. Someone actually gave me a 30 day cleaning/purging schedule (which of course has taken me since July 29th to get half of the way through it lol). But I have noticed that when I do tidy up I feel better. Especially after a particularly long day. Knowing that I've left the house tidy is somehow even more relaxing. But overall I just pay someone to do the dirty work. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 12:03 PM |
| 4 | 8 ways to celebrate your relationship everyday!I love love love celebrating small things. I know I've shared this story on here but we went to some chain restaurant with one of his daughters. We were heading to mini golf. I told him "well today I am payin!!" he asked what the occasion was and I said something stupid like "well it is a saturday and it is cq pay day!" He just laughed because I come up with stupid things to celebrate all the time. LOL. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 05:26 PM |
| 3 | The importance of how we dressooooooooooooooooo. I'm sure you killed it!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | The importance of how we dressCongrats on the date!!!!!!! Can you describe the dress? I loooovve full length gowns. Did you buy or rent? I usually go through rent the runway when I have a gala for work. I work with a bunch of crunchy granolas so no one knows how to really dress so even a half hearted attempt is way off the charts compared to my coworkers wives and other female coworkers. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016lol :D I hate when my phone does that. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016Actually triple posted! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016I think you double posted by accident :D | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:31 PM |
| 8 | "If you aren't part of his journey, he can drop you like a bad habit" True or false?Overall, I think men don't change too much with respects to their romantic relationship outlooks when it comes to their career. I think those while not mutually exclusive, aren't as intertwined as it being a basis for when a man would be ready to commit or not. A man in his 30's is going to be in a place that is already in mid stride. You get out of college early 20's, so you are already in the field for at least 7 years. That is a considerable amount of time. Maybe not as much as 17 years, but … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Just spreading my wingsI feel silly being my age and not knowing this stuff. Why would you know the answer? You were married for so long!! Well I think the problem might be in how you portray your interests. You don't have to list every. single. thing you do the minute they ask. Maybe talk in more general terms rather than giving all the specifics of all the details. If you've been met with the question about if you even have time to date more than once, it is because you are portraying that you DON'T have time to dat… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016I love that 'fresh out the barbershop chair' look. When my SO gets shaggy he is still hot but it's just something about the neatness of it that just does something to me. hahah | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016He wore this tight black shirt that just activated all of my goth receptors. This is awesome! I've got the rugged male lumberjack receptors hahahahahah | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016Thanks!! You know I never thought of it like that scheduling free time... lol. I like it. I'm going to put some stuff in my calendar right now. Thanks for the tip :D | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/19/2016Good: SMOKE FREE FOR OVER A WEEK NOW :D feels like longer I guess lol his week I really mitigated a lot of instances where I normally would have gotten coocoo in the head. I'm very proud of that. I feel like I'm able to better predict when I am going to need to calm down BEFORE I get out of hand. but... Bad: I still got snippy. It is a weird week for me in terms of work and home so I was trying to play superwoman a lot. I mitigated most stuff but not all. Need to get better at not over booking m… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Just spreading my wingsI believe I'm older than most of you so this may not be as relevant. Don't be so sure about that. lol What I'm getting from your post is that you are just so excited to be single that the idea of being in a relationship scares you. You didn't give much about your past relationship so I can only assume that bad choices were made on both of your parts (which is generally the case even though some people would like to think the blame lay mostly on their ex's side of the street). What I want to say … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 01:05 PM |
| 9 | Why you are not 'just one of the boys' and you don't want to beCan't make female friends? HUGE RED FLAG. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/16 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI just used as a marinade for a couple hours. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/09/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadOoo very nice!! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadWooo hooo I love these posts. I'm now 42% fluent in French. Je mange une pomme rouge aujourd'hui. I am learning this on the piano. So in another comment I made I recently discovered supercook.com and have been going through my cabinets like crazy. I'm so happy not throwing away so much food. So here is a list of some new recipes that I've tried that were a huge hit in my house Banana muffins with a cinnamon honey cream frosting Baked eggs with feta and tomato Balsamic chicken thighs. Just a note… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/09/16 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Volunteers Needed For A Special Project!A case against friends of the opposite sex I just had a conversation about this today. it would be so great if you wrote about it! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/16 08:37 PM |
| 10 | *Repost* Saw this on MSN - nice to see this kind of article in the mainstream - "The Top Complaints Men Have About Marriage"Yay! I'm so glad you reposted it!!! Congrats on the baby. I've noticed that sometimes I can get into a mindset that my SO is here for ME. like he is here to listen to me. He is here to help me. He is just my support. While yes he can be supportive, that is not his primary function. He is not my minion to command and staple a honey-do list to him the minute he walks through the door. He is not my therapist to listen to my mindless babble. He's here to love me. And well everyone here knows my stan… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/16 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Tales from the crypt: A post from /u/L261. "Alpha Women, Beta Men"Why are people score keeping all the time? Feminism | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Tales from the crypt: A post from /u/L261. "Alpha Women, Beta Men"My husband had a very strong identity and was successful in his life,” Corcoran explains. “Thank God for that. There’s no way I can control him. I wouldn’t stay married to him if I felt I could. I can readily take my business personality into the home. But he forces me to be a partner rather than the boss. It’s what keeps our marriage healthy. He won’t give me an inch of satisfaction. He won’t acknowledge my superiority. AKA he held frame! LOL. I'm telling you. These womens attitude about the po… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Tales from the crypt: A post from /u/L261. "Alpha Women, Beta Men"Example of what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine. EXACTLY. The entitlement dripping off these women is so gross. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 03:14 PM |
| 4 | My heart's broken for my blue pill parents.As everyone has said here. Don't get involved. However, for myself anyways, TRP has improved MY relationship with my dad and generally the men in my family. Everyone has taken note that I am more feminine now. Giving the men in your family the respect they deserve can come from you too ya know!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.That is so great! Keep it up. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessYou don't need to burn it.. You can donate to some unfortunate soul who needs to be exposed to a wonderful world of whatever book you handoff :D | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessMy sister uses this one because of the wine glass holder. I put a chair next to my tub and use voice commands on my laptop. I don't read physical books :p Another benefit to that is I can netflix in my tub too. edit: Added link | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessWhat kind of coffee do you use? We use Cafe Bustelo. Stuff is cheap! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Routine HappinessWell she has a great 30 day challenge. It could help you get into the habit of doing it and it is great because they are only 30-45 minutes. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessDo you have all the fancy gizmos and gadgets for your coffee making? My so just like cheap drip coffee. I could buy some fancy dancy organic free trade from the jungles of guatemala and he would be like "meh". lol | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessOh I know exactly what you mean!! Yeah if my class were at any other time than before work I don't think I'd be able to follow through. I get up make my SO lunch then yoga then work. What else would I do for an hour before work? I'm also an early bird so this type of schedule really works for me. Which online yoga vids have you done? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Routine HappinessI always hug my SO by myself :D Srsly though, I take yoga classes twice a week now. i was doing it 5-6 times a week but then had to quit cause life got me all messed up. Starting october I'm getting back to that schedule. But I digress. One thing I have found (and I dunno where you live for this to be applicable) is that there are a TON of free classes around. Lululemon has one that is free. Also, where I live they do free ones once a week in the summer along the Charles River. There are so many… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Routine HappinessClay masks and bubble baths are such a great combo See I like to combine those things with OTHER self care things. Clay mask and movie. Bubble bath and reading. Getting nails done and podcasts. Doing hair and music. Those things just don't interest me unless there is other stimulus going on. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Routine HappinessMy yoga practice usually puts me in a good mood for the day. When I'm grumpy, I usually am hungry so I try to eat a small snack. What I do to just smile go in for a huge hug from my SO. Never fails!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Why are having sex and getting to know someone thought of as mutually exclusive?I think having sex is a part of getting to know someone. but it should be held off because that part induces other sorts of reactions in the body that could have you overlooking some potentially bad characteristics. Your sexuality is a part of you but not something you need to reveal to every single person that comes your way. For someone to 'know you' they don't need to have sex with you. But that facet is still a part of you that ONE person should get to know when the time is appropriate and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV - Men are losers. Women aren't.The guy is also sitting in a way that isn't flattering at all whereas the woman is standing up straight, at an angle.. which is really flattering in pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.aww get well soon!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Stacy London On Aging And StyleI'm a fan of "wear whatever you want to wear but understand what everyone is thinking". A lot of the things I feel like are 'youthful' are designed to enhance features commonly associated with fertility. So push up bras, midriff exposure, higher heels to accentuate butts, etc. Those kinds of things. So seeing someone who is post wall put it all up on display just seems like a grab at what is already lost.... youth. Now that doesn't mean that you cannot incorporate some youthful design in a taste… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.This is so great. I'm so happy you're learning ab reddit more and I can't wait to hear your story!! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 12:57 PM |
| 1 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionLol. Yes. It can be exciting. Just remember it is also hard work!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 10:05 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexFrom what I remember it was an article, it might have had those charts on them but not sure. If I see the article I'd know it but the pictures are lost on me. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesYour backwards smileys trigger me :D | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesGood so then I think we are in agreement. I AM NOT YELLING AT YOU EITHER!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:04 PM |
| 4 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexOh man. There was another article that I just cannot find that was on a similar topic. IIRC, it had to do with the idea that having less sexual partners led to more sexual satisfaction with women in general. (If someone can find that please link :D). I remember thinking to myself "what a load of baloney" when I read the other article because it basically said "you have nothing else to compare it to so you think this is the best it is gonna get". But upon thinking about it for a while, that isn't… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesHe is physically giving you the ability to harm him but trusting you won't. So then does the vulnerability stem from the trust that you won't take advantage of them in a weakened state and not necessarily that they got into that weakened state? They put themselves in that position knowing you won't kick them when they are down as it were. I would think this makes the most sense. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesAnd the same thing applies to men, it's not an either or thing, both extremes have a harder time. See (an this is purely anecdotal), IME, I have found that men who are more on the dependent side have a harder time than men who are more pure alphas. Well in so much as that alphas don't NEED the ultimate connection with a woman as much as a dependent man. So even if they have a harder time, just getting a little affection/love is more than enough. Or maybe I'm not reading your comment right. I agr… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesI may make the case that male vulnerability is calculated and temporary weakness done as an investment for long-term strength. This is such a great insight! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesOh see I was more generalizing the vulnerability differences between man and woman in terms of them being viewed as potentially weak traits should they be exaggerated. Actually, my former comment was wrong whereby I was talking about how a man exhibiting his vulnerability to the point of fault was clingy and dependent. I equated a woman being a doormat to the same standard but really there is also the flip side of it too. You could say that it would be more difficult for a woman and man to conne… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesIf female expressions of vulnerability are rooted in a desire to be protected and provided for, then the male version is about being nurtured and comforted. This is such a great way to put it! But I do think that being vulnerable is a weakness in a sense. However, that doesn't mean that that is supposed to be a major trait in you. If I was with someone who depended on me almost child-like I definitely wouldn't be attracted to them. Even if they were demonstrating the same vulnerabilities that so… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesyou mean men aren't looking for someone to be their rock? Because that I fully agree with. Yes. That is what I meant by my statement. I agree with it too, however how soft a woman needs to be will entirely depend on the guy too. There are some who would need a woman to be more thick skinned and some men who need a lot more compassion from a women. So the degree does vary. But to say that relying on a woman to be his soft place as an expression of his vulnerability is something I DO agree with. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesThey dismiss the risk as a possibility Too true! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesAWW That is so sweet. So maybe it is the reliance on someone being their soft place to land no necessarily relying on someone to be their rock? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesOO That is a good one. Do you think it is still true even though men aren't inherently aware of the laws skewing in the womens favor? Or do you think that innately men realize it anyways? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinWhat do you mean by this? "I'm selfish" | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionLol. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationOMG. What kind of a friend tells you to pursue a married man. YIKES! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:54 PM |
| 2 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionFenway Franks. But if you go down Yawkee Way they have like 'special' vendors so you can scoop up a Lobster Roll or Cuban Sandwich. Aww poor Sandoval. Can't catch a break :( | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:50 PM |
| 3 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionLots of sporting events going on currently (baseball i'm going to the Sox vs. Orioles game tonight... LAWD HELP MY DIET!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationPRO-TIP: When making this, take off the heat when you put in the parmesan. The heat from the food itself will melt the cheese. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationCAUTION: MAY PRODUCE ORGASMIC LIKE EFFECTS | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationLol. Dumbasses! That is such a simple fix. I usually make a keto dish and a side of carbs. So like /r/ketorecipes has a chicken bacon alfredo that I will make pasta on the side and we both eat. Or any chicken/protein dish I make, I make rice or potatoes on the side. he usually doesn't even notice. But I see your point. If he just wants something different then what is the big deal. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal Communicationyour friends cousins boyfriends mother I'm trying so hard not to laugh too hard cause I"m at work but my eyes are crying right now. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationWow. Great post!! This is such a crucial point in relationships. Doing something for your SO does not mean that they will recognize it as an act of love. I recently had a conversation with a gf of mine that went something like this... (m)=me (f)=friend M:when my so and I started going out it took me a while to figure out that he doesn't really like to eat leftovers. now I realize I need to cook a bit more than I thought I did F: well he better cook too if he isn't going to eat left overs M: ummm… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI used it all weekend!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 04:43 PM |
| 3 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]The comment section is hilarious. Victor is the creator of this video and Pizza is well... a novelty account(??). PIZZA: +victor varnado you are a complete and utter faggot. I hope you trip in front of a bus. Victor Varnado: You are such a mean pizza. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday/Sundayboth obscenely arrogant and cripplingly insecure The egomaniac with an inferiority complex. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 04:21 PM |
| 4 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionSo in reading my past posts, I have realized that I have really come a long way from the high intensity person I used to be. When I don't set up expectations I am generally more calm and I am definitely more accomplished. I get shit done! I haven't really done a reflection on my weeks like this ever because well honestly I've never had my thoughts collected in a place like this. Sure I journal but never on a focused topic like these posts. So actually seeing how much I've "chilled" out is super … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 03:06 PM |
| 4 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionAlso I have developed a habit of sitting on the balcony while drinking tea and browsing RPWives in the morning This sounds so relaxing. I have found that taking 10-15 minutes in the morning to just "be" sets my day up for success. I can handle stress better and I can just generally be more pleasant. It's the days I roll out of bed and run around like crazy that get me all riled up. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:56 PM |
| 4 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionBoss is away all week so I get to chill at work! This is the best feeling!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Keep your goals to yourselfYes. I hate that feeling of "they don't believe in me". It makes me more apt to not want to even TRY to reach my goal. So I just keep stuff to myself now. If someone asks then I mention it but other than that I stay a bit guarded. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:53 PM |
| 3 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: 09/12/2016 The "lets see how far we've come" editionHe has his eye on the new construction houses Oh man. I LOVE LOVE LOVE house hunting! Zillow is such a great place to look around and you might even be able to point some out to him too! I have found that sometimes the most beautiful houses have the worst problems. Good luck on house hunting!! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Bait, Bid, and Bite - Everyday affections.I always make it a point to engage in whatever it is that my SO says. Even if it a friendly eyeroll and giggle. Really, I think at this point I need to work on not talking about stupid shit. I can find myself rambling about things and just notice him listening but sort of checking out cause I kinda just dump some random thoughts on him that turn into a 20 minutes monologue. I like the sound of my voice a little too much. I think I'm going to start working on doing a data dump right before I see … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayI should be also to wear whatever I want!! NSFW OK cupid description: Loves to cook :) I'm not plate status!!!! Now I need a rape whistle while I'm alone??????? NSFW | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayWell it's not that simple. First you need to go talk shit about RPWi and give a play by play of your ban to the other pill. Then create an alt and give bad advice. Finally, create another alt because we all know you're cwm! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Why he doesn't want to come home.Your post reminded me of this post from Laura Doyle regarding that sometimes when guys pull away it is because they want to recharge. They are using that as a soothing tool. Maybe it manifests in playing video games more or going to the bar after work. But if your home is a shitty place to be why would he want to be home? Why would he want to interact with you. I think first and foremost you should be making sure that the home is a happy place to be. Then think that maybe he just prefers alone t… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinSweet!! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy Heinyou are letting your relationship tarnish just so you can pretend to shine it later This is amazing. I think this could be a post on its own!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 06:36 PM |
| 13 | How to share red pill knowledge w/my sister?How to share red pill knowledge: Step one: don't. That is her business. Learn for yourself. If she asks you advice then give it in terms of what has worked for you. Not what she needs to do. Finally, be a good example to her. Have a great relationship. Talk nothing bad about your man. And don't think you know better than she does just because you found something that works for you. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Hello, RPWives! It's Friday (or Saturday) night - what are you having for dinner?We has pepperoni and sausage pizza. Yum. Lol | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinThat's sad. Your husband sounds like a high dominance kind of guy and you're just not having it. The negativity that is dripping from your comment is why I say it's sad. Making a lunch literally takes ten minutes to make so your reasons make no sense to me. Maybe check your attitude cause honestly it's sad. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinA cooler might be good to have. Put an ice pack in there and the food will keep. If he's not keen on it then only snacks as other foods shouldn't be kept out in the heat unless you're in a cold area then in which case it doesn't matter so make him a sandwich and some chips with a soda water or something like that. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!A friend of mine used to work there and put me on to it. It's a bit pricey but a little goes a long way with it. Lasts a loooong time. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:55 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredI think you replied to the wrong person. Womp Womp. Lol | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!I use this I blow dry and straighten my hair twice a week. It has significantly improved my hair texture. But I put my hair through the ringer so nothing will stop the damage 100%. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinYes. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinI usually put his keys, cigs, phone, coffee, and lunch together on the counter. That way he scoops them all up together. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:14 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredJust remember, change takes time. You will fail a lot but it is ok. Just jump right back on the horse. A lot of effects of just STFU happens almost immediately. It is truly remarkable what can happen when you try to become a partner rather than a ruler. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinI also make his coffee. Well he drinks iced coffee so I make it hot and freeze it. He likes it like that. Just small things like that make him so happy and its funny cause people are like "WHYYYYYYY???" I don't get it. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:04 PM |
| 3 | My other half is returning home in 10 days - what can I do to make his return special?So off the top of my head: Be romantically available. 3 months is a LOOOOONG time. Don't hover over him expecting all his attention. Think about how long term you ultimately get most of his time so don't begrudge him time with friends and other family members. Don't fall into the trap of "I've been doing things like this for the past 3 months. How dare you try to change things now!!". Let him claim his space again. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinSo I've gone to the archives to repost some really great material and this is the first one out of a few that I am choosing to repost. This is such a great article. It talks about some of the social pressures she has received as a woman who does something for her man. I found it a very cute read and thought y'all might like it too. As a woman who makes her man lunch every day... RIGHT ON!! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | "should" a man who sleeps with a woman have to be immediately upfront and honest about his intentions to not commit to her or to ever LTR her **before** sexA woman should be cognizant that sex doesn't guarantee a relationship. PERIOD!! You have to navigate the risks of your actions. that means understanding wtf you are getting into when you sleep with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredHELLLOOOO and welcome :D The ladies here are great if you ever need some advice. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 3 | "We fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"They don't blame the bartender for their drunk driving. They don't. But establishments do get held liable for over serving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 11:50 PM |
| 7 | "We fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"I think it is great that she addresses not only that women asked for the right, but that women have also decided to not assume the responsibility. I don't know if there is more to this argument she makes but by extension, feminism is telling men they need to be more lenient on how they interpret the sexual message that women put out. They are now trying to control the male thought process and biological responses to certain cues. So now men have to be responsible for not misinterpreting the blat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 11:38 PM |
| 6 | "We fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"I think it was a nail polish that could test for roofies in drinks that they are talking about. Still. wut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 11:31 PM |
| 3 | "We fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"The problem is when does it stop? Slippery Slope fallacy. The Slippery Slope is a fallacy in which a person asserts that some event must inevitably follow from another without any argument for the inevitability of the event in question. In most cases, there are a series of steps or gradations between one event and the one in question and no reason is given as to why the intervening steps or gradations will simply be bypassed. What she is proposing is that with the right to be sexually provocativ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?Lol. I have a U🚫CME hat I got when I went to the money in the bank event here in Boston. We went to this bar before hand and because of some stupid trivia I also won these sweat bands. The kid sitting next to me at the even was a total cena fan so I wound up giving him the sweat band. But I love love love cena. His acting career is too awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?See I didn't know that all these people came from NXT. I'm going to have to check with my BF to see what services we pay for right now and if there is room for WWE network cause it seems like I'm falling behind. I'll catch a few things here and there but not enough to string things together as I'd like to. I remember the episode where he started doing his Miz persona and see I thought when I started seeing him in WWE that he was emulating what he had done on RW for WWE. I didn't know he was an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?Wait. Was NXT where Miz got his start? Because if so then I think I have watched a few episodes. I remember thinking "wait... that is the guy from Real World/Road Rules" (ok you caught me.. another show I may have watched in the past. But that is it.. I promise!!!!) Thats the thing though, if I get it I'm never going to leave my house again. I may consider it though. I dunno. UGH You are totally tempting me!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I have a question about self harm scars.I've never been afraid of a bit of hard work What a great attitude! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?I don't have cable in my house. Just netflix but a friend of mine's boyfriend is a total WWE fan like me. So during big events I would go over there to watch them. I've never watched NXT. I've been a fan since the Hogan era. One of my earliest memories was at the Boston garden for the Heart Attack tour. Watching The undertaker in a casket match and 'coming back to life' just before the casket closed and shrieking like a maniac but it was just so intense. I LOVE TOTAL DIVAS. I actually posted a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?WWE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Put In The Effortd'awwwwwwwwww I love when they notice!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Keep your goals to yourselfGet a journal to jot down notes, plans, ideas, etc. and if you really can't hold it in (my fellow extroverts!) share things with a close, trustworthy friend and let us know here in RPW! This is such great advice. I know I fall into the trap of OMG THIS IS SO AWESOME I WANNA SHARE IT WITH THE WORLD!! So finding outlets can be a struggle for me. This post is now in the wiki omg. Thanks!! That just made my day :D | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?I'm passionate about my hobbies. Piano French Yoga Cooking NEW TO LIST Psychology Red Sox/Patriots/Wrestling Reading fantasy Novels I think what makes it interesting is that I like showing anyone who asks me questions about it. I like talking about it. i like listening to things about them. But I also actively listen to others about their lives and interests too. I love asking questions about the things that people find interesting and learning about it so we have more to talk about. edit: Total… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:03 PM |
| 11 | I have a question about self harm scars.Well this is a tricky one because it all depends on the man. Something like that is extremely personal so I am going to defer to Laura Doyle's advice on showing your ugly. That is going to come out naturally. He is going to ask a question in the summer about you wearing long sleeves, or the beach, or whatever but eventually you not showing your arms is a question that he is going to come up with. At that time you need to be open, honest, and also discuss why you don't show your arms or reveal it… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16That's the second time someone has recommended using a voice recorder to me. Neat trick. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16I learned that cooking in hot, and humid weather is not good for my Hair. I look like I came away from a Hurricane. If you can afford it... Brazilian Blowout. FTW! Saved me from fuzzy hair. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 11:57 AM |
| 3 | RP musicCater 2 U - Destinys Child | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I spanked 3 times. The other times I just have to give her the look and she knew what was up. I don't get where people think that spanking is abuse. I don't want to be friends with my children. PREACH!!! This idea that we are buddies with these kids... no way. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I think way too many parents revolve their lives around their children, where they should be revolving their children's lives around theirs. OMG yas!! My family always gives me shit because I am not doing everything for my child. Like I had her taking the train to school when she was in the 3rd grade. My family berated me for it because she was too young and blah blah blah. Like damn, my sister is 23 now and still living at home with no job and not going to school. My cousins kids all have behav… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Psychological AttractionSocial Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?Oh yes. I totally get that it is more than pain for you. I was just giving an example I use for myself. Whatever the symptoms are, you can definitely learn about your body with them and take those steps.. like you said. Run more. Eat healthier (or indulge like I do). Running is a great stress reliever.... so is sex FYI!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 02:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?I cramp one day a month. But that cramping sucks because it feels like it reaches from my uterus to my lower back and I just want to double over in pain. Solution: Motrin. I make sure I take it the minute I feel my cramps and follow through with it for 24 hours as directed because I know that is how long it lasts. Could you imagine if I didn't know that? I would easily be able to be in a bad mood because of it. I took responsibility of my body so that I don't feel like I have that excuse (becaus… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Psychological AttractionHowever you also don't want to be like this | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?I'm also very irregular, but since I started tracking I learned that it isn't AS irregular as I thought and usually there are other signs. Tender boobs, hungry, bloated that will tell me about what is going on with my body. So those are thing you also need to take into consideration. Not just dates. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Psychological AttractionThere is a whole psychological study on initiating contact with someone through asking them to do you a small favor. This book I read called Social Engineering goes into depth about how spies/private investigators use this as a tool on their 'mark'. Quite fascinating actually. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Psychological AttractionNumber 4 seems awkward. Stare at them til they love you. I mean I get it, when you are in love you like looking at your SO. I understand that. But as a means to make them fall in love with you sounds kinda creep-tacular. The author even says it: you trick their brain yikes! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 01:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?Track your period and plan accordingly. I usually do things during that week to make sure that I am taking care of myself and recognize that sometimes my SO will say things that I will take personally. But I just STFU about it and usually in a couple of days I realize how silly I was being. The week before my period is when I get all crazy sad and shit so I know that I will even tell him "I'm feeling delicate this week". But you don't get to make someone's life a living hell. You need to take re… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Can I be feminine ant into STEM and MMA?ANTLIVESMATTER!! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16Someone told me on here to not take failed attempts at recipes personally. The recipe is the one that wrong, not you. Lol. Congrats on the eyebrows. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill Wives/traditional relationship media?TLC had a great 1 episode show called The Submissive Wife. That was really fun to watch. There was also a video on The Surrendered Wife. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/09/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep from getting discouraged while you search for your Captain?Well what have you done to find a guy? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 09:26 PM |
| 2 | "I Love You"I don't think I've ever said it first. But if I'm honest it's cause I was super manipulative and sort of forced it with guys. With this relationship we kinda said it together cause we knew through other words what we felt. So while technically he said it first I broached the subject first. It was about a month in. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionHahah. it's a start!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 05:46 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionChecking in now. How's the grooming. I've been better about my working out. Haha. The remind me bot just reminded me to message you. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16Duly noted. Oh well. I'm just gonna have to enjoy my pressure cooker when it comes. Lol | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!I second Iris' suggestion. The interior design /r/'s are great. There are ones for being on a budget and how to maximize space for smaller places. I'm terrible at things like that but I"ve never really tried to do anything. People always tell me that I seem like I'm about to move with how sparse my place is. Now that my SO moved in though... thats changed :| | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!OMG YAAASSS!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16Do you have a smoker? I want one but am afriad I won't use it enough. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16I've mentioned before here that i am a self-help book junky. A friend of mine started her masters in psychology a couple years back but for whatever reason never finished. She loaned me a couple of her psych books and I just have not been able to put them down. That combined with the general discontent I've had with my current job for the past year or so and it just seems like even if I went to another place to do the same thing I am doing now I just don't think I find fulfillment in it anymore.… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16I'm an engineer now but have found a passion in human behavior. So I'm thinking about trying out psychology. Not sure though. I'm going to look up some programs and do some research. It is not something I'm taking lightly. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 09/05/16Good: Last week I went to yoga, didn't overeat, kept up with routines, and best of all stayed pleasant. Working on my beach body even though it is about to be fall is tough but I'm managing. I also think I might have decided on a career change. I'm thinking about it now and not really putting pressure on myself. I just think that there is something else out there for me. Anyways, it is only food for thought. Bad: Nada. Ugly: Nada. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 12:45 PM |
| 5 | Simple Questions!OOO Make vampire tacos with the flat iron steak. So Yum. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!Are they blackheads or whiteheads? Like I can't picture them so I can't advise. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Simple Questions!The loss of a job. Isn't it true that financial issues are the most trying for couples? Well I figure if you can get through loss of a job then really you can get through anything else. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!For the winter I like the Sorel Joan of Arctic boots. Sorel makes some really cute boots that you might want to look into that aren't necessarily snow boots. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Goodbye ?!Always a Red Pill Bridesmaid? lol | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Goodbye ?!Bye Felicia! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 08:43 PM |
| 5 | How to motivate my BF to work outI did read it. And all you said was you are trying to change him under the guise of motivating him. It's still not your job to do that. Let it go. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 01:12 PM |
| 3 | How to motivate my BF to work outBINGO!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 12:55 PM |
| 6 | How to motivate my BF to work outThroughout the time that we've been together, he has never worked out. That is who he is. Deal with it. Stop forcing your ideas on him. Stop nagging him. Love him for who he is. Not who you think he should be. Let. It. Go. By all accounts you state he is a good man. So treat him like he is a good man and stfu about his exercise/diet habits. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 11:22 AM |
| 2 | RPWi Example: Branch SwingingI think Drew's first relationship was a great example of a hll and Adam Sandler's first relationship was lhh. The imbalance in thresholds was what threw both of those relationships off.. haha. It's fun to act like these people are real.... not saying her behavior was excusable. But it's understandable knowing what's behind it. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What Is Love?Happy cake day!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Niche Dating: Just Don'tIt's all about numbers. The bigger your candidate pool the more comfortable you are with nexting guys who don't quite fit the bill. But it can also be a double edge sword in that if you have TOO many options, you may next someone who could be great but you thought "I can do better". So being aware of that is necessary too. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 04:56 PM |
| 2 | What Is Love?Do you agree with Nozick's definition of love as the formation of a "we"? If not, what do you think is the defining characteristic of love? I agree with it. Do you believe in unconditional love? If so, does Nozick's definition suffice or do you have a different understanding of what it means to love unconditionally? No I don't believe in unconditional love. I think it is very contingent on circumstances. Now is that to say that love is fickle? No. It just means that so long as you remain within … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 02:48 PM |
| 2 | new here, looking for advice or other wives with similar experience, can my husband changeI meant more lik this. I have never been a runner so a jogging stroller was just not even something I'd considered. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 02:20 PM |
| 7 | new here, looking for advice or other wives with similar experience, can my husband changeSo looking at your history you already battle a whole slew of mental health issues. SO that could be a major source of your discontent and not necessarily your husband. However, that doesn't mean that you can't still water your own grass, as it were. So here are some things I"m going to recommend you do. a. work on your gratitude. You've been with this man for 13 years and he is providing a life for you and your kids. So much so that you are a SAHM. Not everyone can afford that. Stop being so un… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Does socioeconomic status play a role in adopting the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that position" mentality?I think the feeling was universal. Maybe not reflexively but a lot of people were there to tell you to fuck off with all that if you were in the wrong... as they viewed it. So if I got robbed. I shouldn't have been showing off. But I got robbed. Yeah but I shouldn't have been showing off. Then if you got robbed I'd be right there to tell you the same thing. It was like people wanted to make sure that you knew your part in that and should have known better than to wear that new leather coat. Or w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 11:12 AM |
| 2 | How to Talk to Boys: A Response to Danielle CampoamorSo I have a couple nephews and I've said it many times... I do not understand those boys at all. I grew up with sisters. Have a daughter. Grew up in a house of 7 women and one guy. Most of my cousins around my age that I hung around were women. And then my first nephew came along. What's with the rough and tumble. What's with the butt jokes. What's with the random scream fest. Why do you wanna punch me. Like I know it's cause he's a boy but it's foreign to me. Then my second nephew came along an… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Does socioeconomic status play a role in adopting the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that position" mentality?That is radically different than my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:47 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?Lol I figured. :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Does socioeconomic status play a role in adopting the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that position" mentality?O. M. G. Becky's even get upset at big butts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Does socioeconomic status play a role in adopting the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that position" mentality?Are you talking ab when people have something done to themselves or when they ate making observations about what happens to other people? Cause my original question was about making an observation about other people. "They should have never put themselves in that position" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:34 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?I work. I don't stay home at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Does socioeconomic status play a role in adopting the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that position" mentality?How does it compare to your experience with people of lower socioeconomic status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | First-Reactions to RPWOh I completely agree. I was just continuing on the conversation :D | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | A hypothetical for TBPSo that whole thing where you put a monitor in your car so they can give you a safe driving discount must be bunk. I've never heard of that. Your zipcode only shows where you park the car. I'm not saying that you are wrong. I'm agreeing with your statement. I'm just adding that they kinda do already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 08:04 PM |
| 1 | A hypothetical for TBPI bet your car insurance company would LOVE to know you regularly put your expensive car at risk. They kinda do when they ask your zip code. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 07:59 PM |
| 3 | A hypothetical for TBPI'd say you's a dumbass for comin into the hood with that car and not EXPECT to get got. But that is just me and that was the mentality of the people who I grew up with. edit: Also I don't think that people in the hood would have the technology to actually steal this type of car. They might vandalize the shit outta it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 07:52 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWMen could argue all of our girl game, etc. is just more subtle manipulation to get what we want. Yes. However, think of it in terms of work. You also have to behave a certain way in order to obtain success at a job right? Some people don't have those social skills and sometimes can't hold down a job. They learn those social skills and wind up succeeding. Does that make them manipulative or does that make them more apt to succeed because they now understand the social constructs which dictate how… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadJust bought my insta pot yesterday. I should be getting it by next wednesday! This commen inspired me to get it because my damn rice cooker broke down. :D | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: most misogynists became one because of negative experiences with women.I know misogynists who have good relationships with their mothers. Their fathers were also misogynists so maybe that is also a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 05:54 PM |
| 3 | is this situation "rape"?I'd say no. If the command hallucinations told her to give away her purse and someone accepted it, would that make them a thief? They could not be a party to a criminal act they were not aware of was happening under coercion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 05:51 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?I'm 33 y/o latina. 5'4" (a giant in my family lol). Average weight. Brown hair and eyes. This is me Typical day is me getting up. Making my SO his lunch. Working out. Working. Running errands. Heading home. Cooking dinner. Playing piano. Shower. Sleep. Those are the things I do 5-7 days a week. Pretty routine stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Where do you think you would be right now if you didn't take "The Red Pill"?I read The Surrendered Single/Wife before I took the pill so probably close to where I am now but with no one to talk to about it. Actually, it might have taken me longer since I wouldn't have had other people to bounce ideas off of, share successes and failures with, and read other material that is recommended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 05:34 PM |
| 2 | 400 Ways to Make a Sandwich (1909)The sandwich I have been making a lot lately is pita, salami, provalone, feta, lettuce, cucumber and a side thing of greek dressing. So good. But damn gotta switch it up. The problem is that lunch meats don't last too long so by Friday that ham looks iffy. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | September 2016 Events!Can't wait to participate in these! Y'all have been coming up with some great material!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 05:20 PM |
| 2 | 400 Ways to Make a Sandwich (1909)My SO told me yesterday that he wants me to switch up the sandwiches so I was really pumped right now.. but then I began reading... ummmmm lots of sardines, liver, blech. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 03:02 PM |
| 3 | 400 Ways to Make a Sandwich (1909)Do people actually like sardines? With eggs and rice and ketchup. Good for when you is broke! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: RPW Only Works When You Have a Good Man AND You Water Your Own GrassSuch a great point. I also think that people misconstrue the idea of defering. The easiest way to defer is just to get out of his way when he makes a choice. What to eat, what to wear, how to take out the trash, how to build a fence, how to clean his car. Just STFU about most of the shit. 99% of the choices that are made on a day to day basis are not life shattering. So just let him do him. Now that 1% of the life altering things like where to buy a house, where to send kids to school, etc, thos… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 02:12 PM |
| 7 | Inaugural Caption Challenge!!!!"Before the viagra" "After the viagra" | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Fall Fashion MegathreadWill do. TX | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWThere better be sparkling water in that glass :D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWYes. The only thing I can do is just live my life. As it so happens a couple of girlfriends have asked me for some tips. Whether they choose to take it is up to them but the best thing I can do is just live my life the best way I can. If someone wants to view my relationship as a good example then great. If not, fuck em! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadWhere do you get sweater tights? I bought some last year but only lasted like 2-3 wears. No bueno. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadWhen I am trying a new style, what I usually do is google a loot. So I bought a leopard print belt, which is waaayyyy beyond my comfort zone, so I googled "outfits with leopard print belt". I went with something like this at the time but with black shoes because I didn't have the matching loafers. So maybe you could try that with "outfits with black skinny jeans" and see what comes up and what you can use from your closet to try it out. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 07:07 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWthey all sound like fedora-wearing darklords with delusions of grandeur. bahahahah! omg yasss | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 06:57 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWWow. I thought concern trolling was more about people who actually believe that what you are doing is harmful and are trying to "save" you from continuing down that path when there is plenty of evidence to the contrary. Like people who think we are mindless doormats who are in abusive relationships with assholes. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Littleknownfacts Presents: RPW Only Works When You Have a Good Man AND You Water Your Own GrassYes. NOT EVERY MAN IS A GOOD CAPTAIN!! Thank you for reposting and expounding on wing's post. The type of relationship you have is highly controllable. You find a good man... THEN YOU TREAT HIM LIKE HE IS A GOOD MAN. Why would I be with someone who is potentially a shitty partner and then defer to him? Now conversely, you do have to have a LOT of self awareness and think "Did I make this man into a shitty partner with the things I have done?". RPW may not solve all problems, but they will solve … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:55 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWfemsplaining Stealing this! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 7 | First-Reactions to RPW"GUIZ GUIZ, it's okay! You don't have to be anti-feminist -- isn't that great news?!" I'm crying laughing at this. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadI absolutely love infinity scarves! Super cute. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadWhat kind of boots do you wear in the fall? I have a hard time cause I walk everywhere so my calfs are really muscular. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:29 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWMy reading list just keeps getting bigger and bigger. I'm going to need a spreadsheet!! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadYeah but all my scarves have crazy patterns on them. I have one with birds, pineapples, alice in wonderland themed. You can't tell unless you reallllly look at them but they are all so cute. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Fall Fashion MegathreadLOVE THESES!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadHow can you lose when you combine fashion with function? You can't. And honestly, those are the only embellishments that I have on my person. Most of my clothes are generally solids or large stripes. So I need to bring in some personality into my wardrobe. Easiest way.... scarves. How do you hang them? I wound up taking a hangar and getting some of those plastic shower curtain rings. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadI break out my collection of vintage motorcycle jackets OMG I'd love to see some!! That sounds like a cool collection to have. I've got a collection (of sorts) of scarves as I noted above. I don't think I've ever been a person to collect things as I tend to purge stuff 4 times a year. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:01 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWhaha! I've got like 10 posts I've got in the works but I'm adding this to the arsenal. LOL :D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Fall Fashion MegathreadWOO HOO I've been waiting for this. Where I live, the fall is weird. You leave the house in the morning and it is flippin cold and then in the afternoon it's flippin hot. So what do you do? Layers! I typically wear a light shirt, cardigan, and light jacket. That covers me in the morning. Then in the afternoon I can take off the cardigan and shove it in my purse and carry my light jacket. I also use public transportation so having the right foot wear is imperative. I love using flats and when it … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:42 PM |
| 5 | First-Reactions to RPWI still special snowflaked all over the place until I got my main username banned Wow! And now you are a great contributor here!!! That is amazing. There are some other accounts that have been banned for saying some off the wall crap that I ever wonder if they ever turned around or if they kept on going along the path they were on. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:29 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWI had a RP blog You should get back to writing. i was reading some of your earlier entries in your blog (sorry for creeping lol) and really think from the beginning of the blog to now your writing style grew a lot. I liked reading them :D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:27 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWDr. Laura Schlessinger OMG I remember her!! I think I wanna read that book now. I'm totally a self help book junkie. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 02:22 PM |
| 4 | First-Reactions to RPWI'd found RPW because I was looking to see if there was any reviews on reddit of the surrendered single/wife. Well not exactly. I knew ab red pill before then but it scared me. I was horrified at the things being said. it was a crazy place. So I only gawked but never really read too much into it. THEN I read tss/w and looked on reddit and found this place. Y'all just get it. Now I can't stop seeing in others how I used to be and how it is tripping them up. Obviously I don't tell them that becaus… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Random RP ThoughtsI've got a few posts that I'm fleshing out but here are just some ideas I've got going on in my head right now. The idea of vulnerability is what I believe fosters the most intimacy within a relationship. I know that for women that means submitting and allowing her SO to take more control. But how does that manifest for men? What are some examples of captains that you absolutely need to avoid? Abusers, users, and cheaters are what instantly comes up for me but are there other types? Does your th… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionMaybe one day. I've given up irc. I felt like I spent way too many hours on there. Y'all are just too much fun for me :D | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to provide a soft place to land after work, if he gets home first?I like jadecat's ideas! I am assuming because he gets home before you he also leaves before you. So maybe also make his leaving a nice moment. Make his lunch or a cup of coffee (or both). That way he feels good leaving and knows that coming home is also something to look forward to because someone who takes care of him will be there. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Small reminders of your SOSeconded! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 01:11 AM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionGlad you are feeling better! I was gone for the week too. Some good reading!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Small reminders of your SOOMG that is too funny!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionLike my ghetto graphic?? Yes. yes I do. Also, it isn't linear. Like one week you might be .. and the next . and the next - and the next .... and then at one point you are just ---------------------------. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and Youthere are plenty of rational reasons a man would cheat and stay This is the crucial part. There are many reasons why a man would cheat and not leave his wife. Not as an act of cowardice but maybe as an act of duty (eg: kids or not believing in divorce). There are so many facets to it. You can't just throw a statement like 'a cheating man is a coward' out there. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionI can't handle this kind of workload and be a good partner. Good for you!!! That is so important. Something has to give. I decided against becoming an attorney for this reason, I don't want to work 55-hour weeks unless it's a very infrequent thing. Lol. I got accepted to law school. Paid my deposit. Went to Accepted Students Night. Then noped the fuck outta there. The cost/benefit analysis demonstrated that the path to being a lawyer was not conducive to me maintaining a healthy work/life balanc… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI'm convinced she herself has never had sex in her life. That visual is just disturbing. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Have Girls and Women Changed Such that They Are Unable To Say "No" When They Do Not Want Sex?I just read that. That was horrifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Small reminders of your SOshaped liked Michigan You sure they aren't mittens? lol It sounds like your hubs is super doting. <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouThis one is mine. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and Youomg. thank you. thank you. thank you. That was too cute. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouOMG WTF DID I JUST READ!! I need some eye bleach!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionWe're moving across the country in a few weeks and planning our wedding for next year. OMG Congrats! and welcome to the sub :D "it's ok I'll protect you now This made my eyes tear up. How so incredibly sweet!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Small reminders of your SOI'd be drinking my tea thinking "I'm drinking ded giraffe juice" :| | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:32 PM |
| 2 | RPW Pregnancy and Motherhood Survey ResultsNot always that easy! I was pretty sure I was pregnant before my period was due. Tried taking an early result test but it was negative. Ended up getting a positive one later in the week. Some women don't get the positive test until clear after their period would be over! Very good point! Basically it hurts, there is pain, but that pain is absolutely necessary to get the bonding hormones and protective feelings towards your child. You feel like you can climb any mountain afterwards, and have grea… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:31 PM |
| 3 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionI actually prefer breakups like this because there's no emotional damage from it. That is such a positive way of looking at it! I'm a masochist so the toughest breakups I look on with more fondness because those are the ones I felt like I grew more from. But you are right. Being able to walk away and have clean hands is so important! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:17 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionRemindMe! One Week "Check in with /u/cats_or_get_out about her grooming and you with your working out" | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:13 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionOk. You get on the grooming habits this week and I'll get back on the workout habits this week!!!! We will check in next week hahahah :D | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:10 PM |
| 3 | RPW Pregnancy and Motherhood Survey ResultsYou don't have to answer if you don't want anyone to know what your answer are!! To the 4 of you who don't know you're pregnant of not... take a test!!! For those of you who didn't use the drugs... what was the pain level 1-would do again ::to:: 10-holy fuck that was the worst thing I've ever experienced in my life?? MY KATATA WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN!!!!!!! for the two of you who thought breasfeeding for more than 3 years was ok... srsly???!?!? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:58 PM |
| 3 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionI catch myself being judgmental when I am out and about in public. I've been doing this too! I catch myself more often than not but damn I need to CTFO sometimes. lol saw Grandpa Munster looking back at me. BAHAHAHHAHA OMG!!! I do European wax Center. So I always prebook cause they give you a dollar credit and you can accumulate those enough to get a free wax. I also shave 3 times a week (my legs). The hair just doesn't grow in that fast. So every Sunday, Wed, and Friday I am shaving my legs. I'… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Small reminders of your SOThis mug is actually not even all that cute. It is like one of those touristy ones that you get from some place. (this one is John's Pass). I've never been but to me this was such a sweet gift from her. I was totally bummed about my mug. I got it in Provincetown from a master potter (not sure if that is what they are called). I watched him make some that were similar to the one I picked out. I really appreciated the craftsmanship of it. So losing it was like a :O WTF moment. Her generosity is re… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionactually, while I am writing these words my Eyes well up. There is just so much broken in me at the moment) Girl keep at it. I've read some of your comments and there is so much room for improvement and you seem to want to fix things. Keep. at. it!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Small reminders of your SOI drink my coffee every morning out of that mug Gah. I have a mug story too. I just broke mine a couple of weeks ago and mentioned it in passing to him and his mom. His mom said "Oh I have a spare one that you can have. It even has a little spoon on it". I keep it at my desk and drink tea from it everyday too! I didn't even think about that. It makes me think of her and by association him too. :D Come to think of it... ITS TEA TIME YALL~~~~~~ | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:42 PM |
| 3 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionIt feels like I knew the second I saw him. I totally get this!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Small reminders of your SOAww. That is so sweet!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Small reminders of your SOMoon & Lola I had to look that up. SO CUTE!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Small reminders of your SOcompany pens that always seem to end up in my purse. lol funny how that happens... | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Small reminders of your SOso he kind of drowns every time you fill it but whatever... That is bizarre but the mug is so cute. Like I don't know whether I should be disturbed by it or say "awww". | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:25 PM |
| 2 | 17 Gestures That Make Men Feel Loved. What ones should you work to improve on?The one I struggle with is 9. Save money. I am highly risk averse so a lot of money goes into re-investing into my work so I tend to be cash broke. No bueno! I think I'm going to start working on this NOW! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:56 PM |
| 1 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionGame of Thrones I love GoT, and I recently bought the books so I could start reading the series too. You are in for a treat! The series is one of my favorites!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:52 PM |
| 1 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionI was so ready to jump on the WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!!! train when you started out with it being positive. This show is definitely a 'how not to be' documentary. hahah. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:51 PM |
| 1 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionSo there is a podcast on dollop about Hugh Glass. When I heard it I KNEW he was talking about the Revenant. The podcast came out about a year or so before the movie came out. So when the movie did come out I had to go watch it. That was such a good movie. Did him justice I think, although I'm not sure how accurate it was. I don't think the podcast mentioned anything about Hugh having a son. Oh well. So good!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionI am watching The Sopranos right now and then reading up on the analysis of each episode on the AV Club. Also, I'm watching Naruto with my SO. He is all about it. We only have 300 more episodes to go. YIKES!! I finished reading The Shadow Rising which is the 4th book of the Wheel of Time series. It was an amazing book. Speaking of which I need to go post over there my thoughts. I also read another book called Dark Matter which was an interesting read. Albeit predictable, but still fun nonetheles… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How to Get Hair So Shiny It Will Blind a BitchI went no poo a long time ago and have not looked back. My hair is luxurious bitch!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's get ready to TUMBLEEEE!the 'brekk down mah walls baby' post gave me eye cancer!! omg these are awesome. Thanks!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: How to Have a Long Distance Relationship. Step 1: Just say ‘No’Yeah. I think LDR's serve a purpose (read: Emotional crutch). It kinda gives you a reason not to work hard at a relationship while still being able to talk about stuff that are personal. They kinda just serve as a therapist with a possible bi-monthly/bi-annual bang. YIKES!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How did you meet your significant other?Tinder. I swiped right on him and the app crashed. I didn't get to talk to him til that night. He asked for my number that same night. We made plans the next day. Met up the next week. It has just been amazing ever since. <3 <3 <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Surprise! Mid-week fitness check in and accountabilityI was out last week so I was NOT doing my fitness goals. Like at all. HAHA Caught me!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:39 PM |
| 1 | About pregnancy, childbirth, and new babiesThat is such a cute /r/! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post...Sunday!hahah omg this is a great pic!! related RPW post: this one | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post...Sunday!OMG DED!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Building Trust, Surrendering, and When Not to STFU for Women New to RPWOMG I love this post!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:16 PM |
| 1 | [Newspaper] 1856-02-21 - The Wife (Livingston Republican, NY)She thinks because he once loved her, he ought always to love her I hope this never enters my mind. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:03 PM |
| 5 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionSo the good. Everything. Lol. I was on vacation and usually I do one trip a year with a girlfriend or two to an exotic country to try local cuisine. This year we went to Greece. But while away I had a thought "I don't think I ever wanna do this again". All I could think while I was away was "oh my SO would love this" or "this would have been better with my SO". I was planning on telling my SO this but the second he saw me he gave me a huge hug and kiss and said "never leave me like this again!!!… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouOh man. This is some grade a stuff Bella. I think in my sexual availability post I also added that sex isn't just piv but a lot of different acts. I mean just cause one ride is down doesn't mean they close down the park. Ladies tend to forget that. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI'm sorry but do you know what /r/ this is? Men cheat for various reasons. Up to and including the woman in their life not providing enough sexual connection. The blanket statement that a cheating man is a coward is not true. Also a lot of men tell women that they will not get the commitment they want from them and women try to change men. there is also the idea that when a man cheats it's equally as devastating as an emotional affair. Finally if a man cheats and a woman chooses to stay with him… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadSo I just came back from Greece and as I often do I made a local dish that I really liked out there called moussaka. Took me like two and a half hours to make. But it was so effed delicious. Even the kids ate it. I'm 37% fluent in French now and am working on this in piano. I'll have it done by tomorrow. Funny story. before I left for vacation I recorded a song for my SO. It was one I'd been having a struggle with but wanted to get it right before I left. So I worked for two hours on it before m… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 11:14 AM |
| 9 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and You"Everything is rape" - the other pill. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 10:54 AM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflectionsGood. I'm totally chill on vacation. Nothing to report. Can't wait to read up on all the posts I'm missing. :D. Thank jade for posting this. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 07:35 AM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflectionsLol. It's OK. I'm on vacation. I've got the "fuckits" lol. Also just got internet now so I didn't even know. Haha. OK back to vaca. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Week 10 Girl Game Challenge: Write your own EulogyOoo. That's interesting. My three grandmother's passed away in the past couple of years and none of them had anything set for them passing away. No will no obit. No last wishes. And these were women who were very sick. Back in the old country that was just something you don't do no matter how bad the prognosis is. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 07:32 AM |
| 1 | If you can't handle me at my worst.....I know a few girls like this. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Week 10 Girl Game Challenge: Write your own EulogyIt's no so much a metaphor as it is an exercise in thinking about how you would like the rest of your life to play out with the people you love in mind. What does that look like? How did you spend that time? Was it dedicated to love or will those who were closest to you only say hard negative things. It's a self reflection of a sorts. Most people would continue on as they are with no real direction. So therein lies the potential for self reflection. Do you believe you can carry on the way you cu… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"Well if brown hair and glasses means hipster then I be dat!! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"I let my SO pick my nails a couple of times. the first he said "I dunno. All of them Hahah" thinking he got out of it. I came back with the rainbowiest rainbow ever. I was like "well you said.....". The other time he picked green for my toes. After that he has never picked another weird color. Hahhahahah. All pink and red. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 06:15 PM |
| 4 | Research-Based Wedding Vows; What do you think?"I promise to keep our lives exciting, adventurous, and full of passion." What if your man likes calm, peace, predictable days? What if exciting adventure seems foreign to him? This is bull. What about when you get old and there is no more excitement? Just weiner dogs and crocheting and law & order? WHAT ABOUT THE WEINER DOGS... ok maybe I'm harboring some weiner resentments right now. i'll get over it.... | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?clap clap clap clap clap | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 02:52 PM |
| 10 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?I do come across as a bitch in this post I see no point in fluffing it up. So this is the crux of the problem. You come here and give us your 'bitchy' self and we can't see past that because you in no way are giving us any reason to believe you would make a good partner. Bitches are not good partners. So ok. Lets assume that you aren't like this with men. Both replies ask me "what I would bring to the relationship" - what does that even mean? What does a man get as a benefit from being with you?… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 02:23 PM |
| 15 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?Long nails and martial arts? I call shenanigans. But if we must.... You're coming across as kind of a bitch. Nowhere do you say what you bring to a relationship other than what's on your resume. So maybe work on the way you project yourself. Quality men don't care about the details just the personality when it comes to choosing a life long partner. Your also don't find them. You make yourself available for them to find you. One more thing, can you list what you're looking for in a man in under 5… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"No I can only look at them on the weiner webz :D | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"my husband does love it That is all that matters! Welcome to the sub :D | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Why I'm not a red pill womanCall it what you want but that is what surrendering is. Letting go of the uber bitch. Mileage may vary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Why I'm not a red pill womanThe captain/fm dynamic we talk about on RPWi is usually specifically coming from a place where the woman has been dominating the relationship and cause unhappiness in his life and/or her own. When we say 'let him make the decisions and hold your tongue' it's for the controlling harpies who needs to learn to let go of the the control to rebuild the trust of their relationship. The control needs to swing in the opposite direction for a little while before balance can be reached. I think it would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 06:09 PM |
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