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You can’t do very well on tinder without being attractive. Keep lying to yourself. And honestly it’s because I don’t think I’m the best looking but girls find me so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:14 PM
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People aren’t contracts. And it means something in that it at the very least implies I’m good looking. And almost all of the women I’ve been with were attractive. What you want? Pictures? Sex tapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:04 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:48 PM
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I do extremely well on tinder so no that’s not it, and have been with 50+ women. Crazy how people come up with anything at this point. This guy really compared women to contracts 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:47 PM
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They’re whores
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:45 PM
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Ngl this just seems too incomprehensible to even respond to. I can’t tell if you’re a parody or not lmfao. I really hope you are because if not….😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:11 AM
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Mix of both but vast majority desperate imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:09 AM
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You don’t express your authentic thoughts all the time though. No one does. Do you go up to women you see randomly on the street and immediately think of fucking them and then tell them that to their face? You don’t. Why don’t you? It’s because you think it’s disrespectful or uncalled for. Context matters. I always say what I want. This doesn’t mean I want some bitch who’s “easy” either. And I meant same opinion on you for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:05 AM
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Also lmao at a mid 30s looking man using the word boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:01 AM
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Idk man sounds like you’re one of the more insecure men I was talking about which would explain why those “bitchy” women remained bitchy to you. It’s no wonder men keep complaining. Having a different opinion isn’t a stupid opinion lol. Almost no one will have the same opinion as you. When you disagree with them, you say so. If they’re disrespectful about it, then you can be too. It all depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:01 AM
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No I’ve just been with all kinds of women. The women who are insecure will let you do anything. You could tell them to start literally being your foot stool and they would. It’s not just about attraction. There’s not a single man on earth someone like Margot Robbie would let be used as a foot stool. All women submit by the way if you’re not insecure and don’t belittle a woman for having a different opinion, which is usually what frustrates men. You’re confusing a shit test for being bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:51 AM
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OF girls usually are more desperate unless they’re already celebrities for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:36 AM
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Funny how an earlier comment you made contradicts what you just said here. Anyways, being resistant != being difficult so this is just a strawman. You’re confusing the two. Resistance = easily getting laid. The easier a woman is to bed, the higher the body count usually. It is what it is. It’s a trade off. The more resistant she is, the lower in general. Sure she’ll be less resistant at the beginning to men she finds extra attractive, but her rules are similar. Being a difficult person is differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:31 AM
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Nah unattractive women are nicer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:51 AM
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Most of the women I find attractive seem to be the gold digger type
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:45 AM
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Nah I agree with you. But when a person specifically expects getting gifts it’s a turnoff. The girl I was with last who didn’t expect anything and seemed genuine about her hatred for materialism would get tons of gifts from me. It’s weird like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:32 AM
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What is that EDIT: Oh, I’m 23 lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:27 AM
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Thanks for proving my post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:26 AM
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Because they actually worked for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:15 AM
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ecause companies want to hire women more because it makes them money. Thats not in the FAVOR of women. They want women for these positions because the average D&D player will think the clerk is hot and spend more time and money at the store. You're an ignoramus. These are for actual tech positions, not clerk positions. But you presumed I was talking about clerks. You're the one stereotyping women, not me. Shorter sentence is a result of patriarchy. Many con women also have kids at home. They don…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:11 AM
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What in the world are you talking about? Your comment sounds like gibberish and a bunch of hogwash. I did make an argument Women having more people to care about their mental health is a PRIVILEGE over men. Women being hired for their gender in some industries like in tech which men don't have is a PRIVILEGE over men. Women being presumed innocent during conflict is a PRIVILEGE over men. Women being handed a lower sentence for the same crime is a PRIVILEGE over men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:59 PM
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Just because arguments have been repeated before, doesn't mean they're not significant. The reason why they're repeated, consider, is that they're good ones. Suicide rates are important. Dating is important. Having a support system when you're feeling down is important. Having people automatically presume innocence on your part any time there's a conflict with you and a man is important. Being able to be hired for the sole reason of you being a woman is important. These are all privileges only a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:46 PM
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The average man has less power than the average woman in today’s society
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:20 PM
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in other words, you only use stats when it suits you, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:43 AM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:14 PM
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found the guy who watched blacked.com
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:45 PM
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The thing is this just means that the women having sex with you aren’t into you. Most of the reason people don’t visit prostitutes is because of the self respect, not because of the money. For me it’s not about the money, it’s about fucking someone who’s not into you. So I’m ngl this is kinda dumb. If you’re already attractive though then maybe this doesn’t count, but judging by how you worded it, probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:54 PM
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Aka you’re actually a sugar daddy lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:51 PM
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I hate when people stereotype men too, or other races, yet no one cares about that tbh. But yeah I get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:15 PM
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I agree. Women are definitely more scared of black men than other men from what I've seen in my experience. They just won't post about it anywhere but when it comes to men in general, they'll post about it easily. This is hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 PM
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My point is we're doomed. As long as men keep paying for these thots, it's fucking over bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:59 PM
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Yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:37 PM
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Part not full. She’s white too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:56 AM
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So she's not black. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:55 AM
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This comment is halfway between incredibly useless and incredibly unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:09 PM
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You’re sick for defending a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:52 PM
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Why do you feel guilty for your rapist? You’re mentally ill and lowkey part of the problem. If someone raped my sister, I would have killed him with my own hands. And I would have kicked her out later if she felt any sympathy for him as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:25 PM
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I’ve dated white women primarily and I’m not white. Keep making up dumb theories
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:04 PM
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Idk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:04 PM
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They’re arrogant that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:03 PM
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yo that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:59 PM
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Yo the edited face at the top is KILLING ME lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:38 PM
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Am I wrong in what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:37 PM
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Brunettes have better faces tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:36 PM
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He’s weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:29 PM
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Someone’s mad. No wonder you’re a “former” manwhore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:20 PM
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This is the dumbest comment I’ve seen btw
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:05 PM
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Who said I hate women? I just said white women are the most privileged group. Also I can’t control my hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:05 PM
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80-90% of the women I’ve been with were white given where I live and this doesn’t apply to every one of them. But what I said still applies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:02 PM
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100% not bots
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:48 PM
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Believe me these are real 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:47 PM
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But fundamentally, every skill is different from a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:18 PM
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Completely agree. The less rule driven you are before an interaction, the better. You'll know what sticks from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:18 PM
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Opposites don't attract. Every study has shown that the more similar we are to others, the more attractive we find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:59 PM
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Tbh losing your self respect is no different than paying for sex. A guy who simply pays women gets laid more too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:41 PM
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Tbh losing your self respect is no different than paying for sex. A guy who simply pays women gets laid more too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:38 PM
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Imagine thinking the world is binary like that. Status can influence how attractive you’re seen as
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:56 AM
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Your skepticism doesn’t determine what’s true. Just do a poll on women asking if they’ve ever dated a guy who chased them a bit or were persistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:15 AM
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It’s literally not lol. If I’m not interested in a hot girl I’m not going to find it more hot if she’s persistent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:14 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:53 AM
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Happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:31 AM
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Sometimes women chase a guy who initially chased them but stopped chasing them the hardest. Again, you’re oversimplifying things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:15 AM
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No the reality is that there are tons of factors that influence whether a woman finds you (atleast sexually) attractive and it depends woman to woman. When it’s the other way around, you just need boobs and ass or a nice face There was an experiment that showed that the most liked guy on tinder got about 30% of women to swipe right on him. Confidence and boldness heavily depends on how already attractive you are and tons of other factors you’re oversimplying. You oversimplify because you WANT it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:12 AM
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People don’t care about logic bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:38 PM
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Nice edit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:37 PM
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Didn’t say you weren’t. You didn’t address any of what I said. A lot of men fall for the same women are wonderful biases that women do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:31 PM
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I don’t know why they do but it’s a documented fact. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/ Probably for protection purposes. But biases lead to false beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:30 PM
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Unfortunately nothing will change if people don’t change their minds. At this point some things might be useless if certain people are hardwired to believe certain things. But I could be wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:28 PM
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Proving my point. You didn’t address any of what I said and simply resorted to emotion. It is a fact that women follow rules more than men. It is also a fact that women have an ingroup bias towards women more than men. These aren’t ad hominems
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:25 PM
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I can see why you're in an open relationship. No need to insult
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:05 PM
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I wouldn’t look down on anyone in any sense even if I looked better than them! That’s why that strategy doesn’t work. In regards to the rest of the stuff you said, women do things that don’t make sense all the time! Such as, and not merely limited to, talking about how they get the ick from certain types of guys and then magically end up dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:37 PM
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You can find someone near your league or build your status to the point where women find you somewhat sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:12 PM
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No she doesn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:05 PM
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Good looks get your attention, but personality keeps your attention. Good looks also keep your attention when you're ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:59 PM
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but in real life with people who get to know him long-term In other words, he's great LTR material for the women who want someone for the sole purpose of knowing they won't cheat on them. Adding this as further evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:27 PM
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Possibly? I'll be 38 in February. We haven't had a poll in a while, but aren’t most of the women here older than most of the men? That is true, but that's because in general a lot of the younger women aren't on reddit that much. They're too busy watching tiktok What do you think the reasons for that are?. A culture that allows you to openly hate men, but not women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:25 PM
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You're much older I believe. The modern younger woman sees a lot of men as enemies now to be frank
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:22 PM
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Most assaulters use weapons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:21 PM
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Would you make an off the cuff remark like this about black women? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:19 PM
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Women seek to LTR the better man (hypergamy) but after having trouble achieving this, often settle for an LTR with a lesser man (I guess you can classify this as hypogamy). It's not hard to understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:16 PM
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I've never said that that's the only way in which they operate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:15 PM
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I don't think I've ever said that "hypergamy was the only format a woman operates under"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:11 PM
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I made an earlier post about this but the men you know are statistically a bigger threat to your safety than a "strange man"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:46 PM
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No, not just strangers, this includes acquaintances and friends. And I"m asking why the difference is much, much larger for women than men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:34 PM
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Seems as if you're the one who's mad and cares given this response :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:32 PM
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Women confirm these roles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:57 AM
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Your SO isn’t special. You just know him for longer and like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:23 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:13 AM
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Most men who rape are men women trust or have trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:59 AM
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online sexual violence, harassment or aggression This is very different. When you’re talking to thousands of men, one man being shitty online is common. It’s also subject to interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:50 AM
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Bro what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:48 AM
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I didn’t say they’ve had more sex with strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:59 PM
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Updated the link. Was the wrong link
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:58 PM
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The men around you are more likely to assault you than a stranger. Anyways, I agree. People need to fear men less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:55 PM
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Didn’t say it’s not needed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:48 PM
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I know. That’s part of the point with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:48 PM
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No but they meet more strangers in terms of numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:48 PM
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People meet others alone such as for hookup situations all the time. And yet, people women know for longer are STILL more likely to sexually assault. That’s what I’m trying to get to your head
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:34 PM
1

No first dates aren’t considered acquaintances LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:33 PM
1

It’s not about knowing. It’s about caution. Do you show more caution to men you know than to strangers? I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:30 PM
1

Uh it has to be. Most women are frightened by strangers compared to men they know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:27 PM
0

Women are meeting strangers all the time. If this was true, stranger assault would be more common than from people you know. You say it’s stupid but didn’t link a single stat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:27 PM
1

Your boyfriend is more likely to assault you than a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:05 PM
4

Nice generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:51 PM
1

Of course there are. But in the back of their head, and especially the man’s head, they would know the entire relationship started off with prostitution. Anyone can develop genuine feelings for anyone. But the foundations will always be shaky. A woman will always respect and more genuinely like a man knowing that he didn’t have to pay her directly or indirectly for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:10 PM
1

The wife loves the man bud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:08 PM
1

I was being generous. If your friend is actually “meeting” these men, you have no idea what she’s doing bud. Women lie all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:04 PM
1

You act like most sugar babies are even making that without doing sexual favors. It’s hilarious that you think so though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:59 PM
1

Of course not all of them have sex. But the ones who don’t are not making much. Congrats on making a few extra hundreds or thousands LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:35 PM
1

Just the other day I found out about a girl who was cheating on her bf with sugar daddies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:34 PM
1

I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:33 PM
3

The experience is different but you’re getting paid for sex. Everything else is filler. There’s no such thing as a genuine relationship if you go into one seeing a human being as an ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:28 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:26 PM
1

You’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:54 AM
1

As in they’re whores but worse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:58 AM
2

Great sex while getting played isn’t great sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:54 AM
2

They almost always have sex so irrelevant point. And no it doesn’t because in relationships women genuinely like the men, often before any expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:53 AM
1

You came here to insult me. You’re probably mad because you’re a sugar baby and it hurts your ego. Maybe stop being one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:53 AM
3

That just makes it worse. Taking advantage of mentally ill men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:52 AM
2

and yet you're here commenting. it's against the rules to roast someone so i won't put more energy into someone like you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:46 AM
5

Atleast you're honest about considering yourself a whore, just a more expensive one. Respect tbh. Most sugar babies don't admit to this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:36 AM
1

Someone’s mad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:34 AM
6

Getting played for seven years is an L
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:33 AM
2

that's cool and all but she was interested in me too. I rejected her. It's not that hard to understand love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:23 AM
3

They’re lying LOL. Anyone who makes a significant amount of money doing this is having sex. Don’t believe the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:16 AM
7

You got played bud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:06 AM
2

I didn’t want it to work out. I don’t like dating whores
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:02 AM
17

They’re all just prositutes bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:02 AM
6

Found the sugar baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:01 AM
9

Bro what? “To rape”? Relax with the language. No one’s paying to rape anyone literally wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:25 PM
5

This man called me flower 🤣 I’m out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:20 PM
5

They’re charging for sex bud. They just pretend like they aren’t. Let me guess, you’re with one? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:46 PM
5

Prostitution is also a good deal. So are many other things. But many of these things have disastrous mental health consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:03 PM
9

It’s just prostitution bro lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:45 PM
6

I respect prostitutes more for their honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:32 PM
5

I wouldn’t tbh. And most men with the opportunities DONT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:30 PM
1

Pity that you didn’t actually point out how it’s any different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:12 PM
3

Oh boy she thinks it’s not very popular 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:10 PM
6

On her side it’s being a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:10 PM
-1

What? You don't make sense bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:14 AM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:51 AM
1

Everyone is, at the root of it, a hormone driven animal, including you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:40 AM
0

Won't stop due to testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:27 AM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:26 AM
1

women "often" (something you conveniently left out) use fear as an excuse to be rude even though men are assaulted more than women != Just like in your original argument that because men are more likely to be assaulted, women’s caution is unjustified. No point in continuing this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:17 AM
1

The message is back off because I don't play and I won't be weak and demure. I'm not a victim. This is the verbal warning shot. Back off. Nine times out of ten, I bet you didn't feel genuine fear in this situation, or you're an exception. Are you going to tell a man about to assault you while you're in a room with him, as he's visibly bigger and stronger than you, to simply "back off"? Most women don't do this. The stats are clear on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:10 AM
1

I bet if I ask my friends if they have been jumped on, assaulted, or threatened with murder, 80%+ will say no. I will wire you 10k immediately if 80+% say no. Being jumped means getting beat up by multiple men by the way. Key caveat: you better have more than ten friends atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:02 AM
1

Just like in your original argument that because men are more likely to be assaulted, women’s caution is unjustified. Nowhere did I say this. At this point, there is no need to continue with someone who's putting words in my mouth. Show me where I said this or stop replying to my comments honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:01 AM
0

Because that's what the stats show. period
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:46 AM
0

Congrats on living in a gated community or going to a school where noone gave a fuck about you. The vast majority of men have been jumped in the world. It doesn't take rocket science to figure this out. The "Every single man" was done for exaggeration. The point is you were atleast in a violent situation even if not jumped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:44 AM
2

Strangers aren’t the most common perpetrators of SA as mentioned before. Your guy friend is probably 10x as likely to SA you than a stranger. Yet I bet you’re more scared of a stranger than him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:32 AM
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Rudeness isn’t a tactic people use for when they’re actually scared, especially for women. Women aren’t very combative when they’re scared. They experience a freeze response in fear much more than men. It’s why the vast majority of rape cases involve a woman experiencing that freeze response. When a woman is threatened, most of the time, she is NOT thinking about being rude to that stranger. This is a common misconception and has been studied extensively. So when a woman usually is rude, it’s co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:31 AM
1

Yes, but have you asked yourself why women are more scared of strangers than people they know? Do you think that’s irrational when stats suggest the opposite? In the West, especially, the VAST majority of rape is done by men who women know. What this means is that you should technically be MORE cautious of men you know than men you don’t. Yet who does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:28 AM
2

People don’t control their behavior as much as you think. I agree that men need to take responsibility more. And ultimately, they’ll need to learn how to behave. But I also don’t think men will ever commit less violent crime than women. They have more testosterone which results in aggression. If you implanted the same hormone in women compared to men, the exact opposite would occur
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:26 AM
1

Again, most women freeze during SA
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:07 AM
1

Unlike women, men suffer more from aggravated assault, which is more common than SA
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:06 AM
1

Testosterone tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:06 AM
1

Yes, I find it equally rude. But I bet you don’t. I bet 10000000% you’re more likely to ignore a man saying hi than a woman saying hi. If you say it’s because a man is saying it because he finds you hot, would you have the same response if a lesbian woman said it? If you say it’s because a man is more likely to attack you than a woman, then by that logic, certain groups of people are also more likely to attack you than others. For example, maybe taller men are more likely to attack you, or a bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:02 AM
0

Getting killed is worse than anything else yes. You’re dead after LOL. You were talking about assault
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:54 AM
-1

Do you seriously think women suffering from sexual assault who are raped try to fight their way through it and be rude etc more commonly than freezing or experiencing paralysis? Most women freeze during sexual assault. It’s literally documented so idk what you’re on about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:45 AM
3

Why does anyone have to be nice to anyone? This route of thinking never made any sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:44 AM
0

I didn’t say it’s not worse or worse. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:44 AM
1

Men are more dangerous than women. Okay, so? It doesn’t change the fact that most men aren’t out to get out. We men recognize that even though we’re more victimized. That’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:43 AM
1

Just because violence is more common doesn’t mean it has less of an impact so what the fuck are you talking about? If it was normal for every single woman to get raped, would that make it less of a talking point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:42 AM
1

You’re more likely to be raped by someone you know than someone you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:26 AM
1

Congrats. Too bad a lot of women don’t think like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:25 AM
-6

Where’s the study that shows a women being rude is just as likely to be scared as a woman who retreats?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:19 AM
0

Nowhere did I say that. I don’t know why people like you put words in my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:16 AM
0

Let’s not play this route. What if you get a debilitating injury after getting beat up? Who are you to say it’s better or worse than being raped? They’re both violent crimes so stop these needless comparisons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:11 AM
1

People you know don’t owe you anything either. I technically don’t owe you anything if I know you for an hour, a day, a week, or a month. Can you point me to which rule of law states one is owed something? If you can’t, then you must admit that your judgement of what is rude is ONLY and MERELY based on your feelings. Anyways, personally, I do think ignoring someone if they say hi is rude. But I also think that if someone doesn’t want to have a conversation, and the person persists, then the pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:08 AM
1

How do you know they are? And no one’s talking about fear in kidnapping or rape situations lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:51 AM
0

Dick is so valueless that you’re here complaining on a Reddit post about people with dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:50 AM
1

I do very well with women actually LOL. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:37 AM
2

If women weren’t seen as more precious, social outrage at a woman and man being killed would be the same. But it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:34 AM
1

I didn’t say that women being fearful is unjustified. I said that women often use fear as an excuse to be rude. This implies they are NOT always fearful. No one is rude to someone they’re scared of
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:06 AM
0

No it doesn’t. I don’t have to engage with someone making an uncharitable reading of thre post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:46 AM
3

Atleast you’re consistent. Now post both of these opinions publicly and let me know the response you get
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:45 AM
1

There’s nothing wrong with women being cautious. There is something wrong with women lying about feeling fearful when they’re being rude. Most people in fear aren’t rude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:44 AM
1

No it doesn’t. It implies that women aren’t actually that fearful when they’re being rude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:43 AM
0

Who said that men shouldn’t be cautious? Can you point to where I said that in the post? I’ll wait “bro”. The point is no one cares when a man is assaulted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:42 AM
3

Found the man hater
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:55 AM
1

Where did I say you shouldn’t be scared of men? Your other reason is bullshit. Most men who are victims of violence don’t have weapons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:53 AM
1

So have men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:53 AM
0

So you were in a violent situation got it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:52 AM
0

Where did I say women should be less cautious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:50 AM
2

Nice assumptions. Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:49 AM
1

The motivation is irrelevant if you’re victimized by men more than women are. Yet society scoffs at you if a man is scared of other men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:49 AM
1

Congrats captain obvious. That’s what’s implied in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:48 AM
0

It was a bet, doesn’t have to be literal. The point is there’s probably more men who’ve been assaulted by another man than women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:47 AM
-3

Next time a guy with a gun is at my house and I’m scared, I’m gonna get angry at him! You’re not in fear when you get angry. Adrenaline maybe. Not fear
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:46 AM
1

Where did i say that women should be assaulted more? Stop putting words in my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:45 AM
2

Okay where did I say men shouldn’t be cautious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:43 AM
2

Where did I say they should be less scared?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:42 AM
6

“Men are victims because they choose to be” got it. Would love to see your response if I said women choose to be victims
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:19 PM
-6

A large part of why some men assault more men than women is because men are considered indispensable and women are seen as more precious. Hitting a woman is seen as 10x worse than a man. Even though most of the time when men assault men, the victim is defenseless. It’s why wars are fought against men. It’s why women and children are considered the first to be rescued. They’re seen as more precious when they shouldn’t be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:04 PM
-5

I know what people tend to do. The question is whether or not that’s irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:31 PM
1

Ok and? my post isn’t talking about those cases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:24 PM
-3

Point went over your head. When a man is rude to another man, fear doesn’t work as an excuse in society
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:16 PM
1

True true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:12 PM
-1

Because men are taught to, by other men and women, to not be scared
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:08 PM
1

You’re exactly on point tbh. When someone is scared, their first thought isn’t to be aggressive. Aggressiveness usually means annoyance. When a person is scared, they usually just ignore you or play extra nice so they can leave the situation without potential harm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:06 PM
2

Okay but a lot of times they actually are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:59 PM
1

I did lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:58 PM
0

Again, stop ignoring the question. You said you have control over your emotions right? So try being happy for the next 72 hours and get back to me. It should be easy for you since you can just choose!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:58 PM
0

There’s biological reasons to want to do many things. There’s men who have a biological impulse to want to fuck anything and everything too. Some people have impulses to kill! Does that make it right to force their will upon people? No. If skeletal musculature warrants fear, then so should the literally higher likelihood of being killed as a man than a woman. You can’t have it both ways. Women often use rape stats to justify fear. Why can’t men point to homicides or aggravated assault stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:57 PM
5

Facts, especially on the stranger part
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:53 PM
-1

You think we choose how we feel? Alright, do me a favor and choose to feel happy for the next 72 hours. Let me know how that goes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:53 PM
-4

Women don’t assault as much as men so that’s irrelevant. If I’m a man and I’m more likely to be attacked by a man than my sister is, who should be more scared of men? That’s the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:51 PM
3

Just my opinion based on experience. Your presumption that men and women both equally don’t blame themselves is also…just an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:51 PM
-2

“Just because men choose not to be scared of other men” You’re not gonna get out of this one chief. People agree with me so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:49 PM
5

No, it’s not just that. We men talk about our relationships all the time and we’re pretty honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:46 PM
5

Not true. Most men recognize their faults with relationships honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:45 PM
3

My ex thought I was a narcissist and psychopath. The only person who’s ever called me that. Of course she then told me that she was just acting crazy and it was because of her BPD. But do you think her female friends know that? Of course they don’t. Not a single other woman has called me a narcissist, yet if she spread her story, people would believe her. My best friend who’s the sweetest person ever was accused to be a psychopath by a woman I also knew. She clearly said that out of bitterness s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:45 PM
-3

Why should that be the metric to look at?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:42 PM
0

Hook me up with your gated community
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:39 PM
5

Ah so when men aren’t scared, it’s because they choose to. But when women are scared, it’s not their choice. Got it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:27 PM
1

No one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:45 PM
1

Ok so? Men get killed way more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:45 PM
6

Bullying is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:35 PM
4

Congrats captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:19 AM
2

Not getting bothered by a man hater is a pussy trait
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:52 AM
0

You’re not going to get an objective answer here lol. People will of course pick Zelensky since he’s more liked. The first guy is more attractive though physically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:51 AM
2

Lmfao, atleast you have a positive attitude, kinda funny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:49 AM
2

I make triple that without selling my body
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:48 AM
8

“But men do it too” nice argument bro. “Just killed someone, but men do it too!”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:46 AM
2

Why you laughing so hard stripper
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:46 AM
2

Active on r/stripper. Nvm makes sense lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:36 AM
8

Easier said than done. Hope to God you get exposed for all the heinous things you’ve done since no one is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:33 AM
1

Imagine writing so much to celebrate selling yourself for cash
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:32 AM
5

You're acting like Facebook wouldn't take down the group if guys had one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:35 AM
0

Yeah it is, women are quite literally shamelessly whoring themselves out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:35 AM
0

Imagine being proud of this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:34 AM
55

This is straight doxxing and any woman defending this on this post should be exposed for any single bad action that they've done to know what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:33 AM
12

Don't act like you haven't done anything wrong or shameful in your life. If it was exposed to the world, would you like it? If you wouldn't, then exposing the wrongdoings of anyone else makes you a hypocrite. When someone is cheating on someone, then I can see the reasoning. But aren't these people posting about bad dates? How the fuck are you okay with that? Imagine I started posting about how I met you, along with your first name, along with how you looked trash compared to your pictures, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:31 AM
3

People don’t care about what group of women you’ve dated. People care about how attractive the women are that you’ve dated. I don’t think race matters as much as beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:15 PM
1

How about you stop telling me what to do or pretending like I’ve sent unsolicited ones. I haven’t. And most of the time I’ve sent dick pics, I ended up meeting them and having sex. Stop speaking for all women it’s cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:06 PM
3

Another pseudo-intelligent and weak attempt to defend yourself after being utterly wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:44 PM
2

You know very well what an unsolicited picture means. It usually means in the form of sending it randomly. It’s almost never meant in the context of sending nudes to each other or when someone’s sexting each other and it’s mutual. Even I as a man don’t remember saying “show me your tits” to most of the nudes yet if we’re having a sexual conversation, it’s implied, and I wouldn’t call them unsolicited. In a good amount of cases for me, women did directly ask. But this isn’t the point. The point i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:25 PM
4

Get help tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:57 PM
2

I didn’t say the women were all asking for it. I’m asking why you assumed that I sent unsolicited pictures. Do you know that that’s sexual harassment? Do you generally accuse people of wrongdoing and when people point out you’re mistaken, backtrack and change the subject? Your ego prevented you from apologizing but everyone can see here that you’re not as smart as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:54 PM
6

I hate to break it to you but where did I mention it was unsolicited? Or did you just decide to assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:07 PM
1

Curious about this. Wouldn’t it hurt more with a bigger dick during gay sex than it would for PIV?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:55 PM
2

If a woman says someone has. A small dick, it’s probably really small tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:15 AM
1

A woman’s small dick is a terribly small dick in reality. Women are horrible at estimating size. Which is why I said “unless you have a very small dick”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:58 AM
2

Because they don’t lol. They only care about it ONCE they’re already in bed with you, but before that happens, they usually have to like you. But once they like you already, it’s not like she’s gonna be like “only 5 inches? Guess I cant love him anymore!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:42 AM
2

Again, you’re overestimating how much women care about it. If it was that different they’d be aggressively trying to make sure the guy’s dick is big before even going out on a date. They do care but not as much as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:31 AM
0

It’s actually hilarious how systematically bad they are at it LOL. But it’s not their fault. Their spatial IQs are lower
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:16 AM
4

Hence the term girl inches :) I had a girl tell me she’s been with a guy with a 13 inch cock. LOL. It was hilarious how adamant she was
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:02 AM
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1 day old account
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:01 AM
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Source: just trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:38 PM
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None of the women I’ve been with who liked it rough watched porn and when they did, it was lesbian porn. You’re literally making shit up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:33 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you’re a woman. Most women I’ve met did not consider it romantic. Your experience isn’t any more valid than theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:57 PM
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No it has to do with hormones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:04 PM
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Approaching isn’t risky. You have nothing to lose lol. You seem like a man hater though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:05 PM
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Yeah some of these comments literally argue for the sake of arguing. The amount of people genuinely into that is way too high. There’s probably MORE women into spanking/choking than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:26 PM
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Oh god he literally said she called him lol. Relax
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:21 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:17 PM
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No I meant like she said that she generally sometimes talks in a cold manner to see if guys get insecure to test their confidence. She said it’s fun to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:16 PM
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it's hilarious reading that comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:06 PM
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LOOOOOOOOOOL. They liked it. Why are you having so much trouble admitting women like extremely rough sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:06 PM
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Noone considers hair pulling and spanking romantic lmao what are you talking about. And I've been with 50+ women so don't go the whole "you don't understand what I'm talking about" route
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:04 PM
2

The education for caring professions is a walk in the park bud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:37 PM
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Well it’s a bit confusing since she’s great otherwise and atleast was honest about it. So is it really that terrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:50 PM
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That's great of you. Meanwhile, the woman I'm talking to right now purposefully talks in a cold manner to "test" men's confidence. It sucks that she's extremely pretty 😭 but is otherwise great
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:35 PM
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Attractive as in liked. The word was used for emphasis o purpose, not to be taken literally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:11 PM
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You're confusing different types of risk. Asking a woman out isn't a risk lmao. What are you even on about at this point? The post is talking about risks as in perhaps saying or doing risky things, being extra bold, etc etc. That is attractive to a very small limit, and women are more likely to get the ick from you saying something that shifts away from their definition of normal than anything. Like I said, one strike and you're out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:08 PM
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Men who take risks are more attractive to other men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:06 PM
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Did that happen before or after you started dating him though? That matters a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:04 PM
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Actions > words. Who knows what you’re actually attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:37 AM
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Impressed != attracted. When was the last time you were like “god his ability to be in tune with his emotions was so hot”. Whereas you’ll find tons of women who find the coldness of men hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:22 AM
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Just because you think something is true doesn't mean it actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:02 AM
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Taking risks doesn't always you get more women. That's the whole point of the post. An impulsive man is often seen as weird to women but not seen as that weird to men. Taking risks can get you success though which in turn gets you more women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:57 AM
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Being broken isn’t an excuse to be a bad human being
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:07 AM
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They’re not one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:06 AM
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Women don't care about male strangers bro. I've been telling everyone this. Spread the word tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:03 AM
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I better not ever see you suffer from anxiety or depression then unless you wanna admit that you're entitled. Because that often comes from not getting things you want, Arrogance in these comments astounds me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:02 AM
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That’s literally what women do when they complain about not finding the right man lmdao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:41 AM
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This story sounds like something a woman adamant on calling out men would make up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:34 PM
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That’s where you’re wrong. Tons of women have sex for purposes other than pleasure. This includes but is not limited to pleasing the man, doing it for opportunities, doing it for money, etc. Men purely have sex for pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:32 PM
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Because women don’t want relationships with multiple men as much as men do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:19 PM
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Eh these are just excuses through and through. Attractive women are more rude BECAUSE they have power. It’s no surprise in my experience that uglier women have been nice in comparison. People are rude based on how powerful they perceive the other person to be. I can guarantee you attractive women would not be rude around someone very powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:54 PM
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You just fail to realize that women blaming men on everything plays a role in their mental health as well and in many cases LITERALLY kills some of them by suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:50 PM
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First of all, this is literally just an assumption. Secondly, it’s been shown that women are attracted to emotionally unavailable men, so a lot of this is also fear based on what women want. Keep making assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:26 PM
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Using the word bro is cringe. Secondly, what? I didn’t say it had anything to do with misogyny. You LITERALLY just said that men are killing themselves because of misogyny. Go read what you just said lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:17 PM
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I’m not your bro I don’t know you. Second of all, you just said it has to do with internalized misogyny hahahaha. You literally..literally…just made that up. I can’t believe this is real lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:15 PM
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Elected positions are ELECTED by men and women. WOMEN are electing these men just as much as MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:13 PM
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So men having higher suicide rates suddenly has to do with misogyny. Let me guess, you think everything is because of misogyny don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:13 PM
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Men have higher suicide rates than women. Men have been victim of more violent crimes than women. The pay gap is an utter load of bullshit. In fact, in certain companies, women make more than men for the same opportunities. Google “google employee lawsuit gender discrimination.” Lastly, women are half of the population, and thus elect people in office. Tons of them are against abortion. These are all facts, not the ones you cited a few of which are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:02 PM
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Where’s your evidence that they are currently oppressed by men? Your feelings arent evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:55 PM
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Like where? There’s discrimination against men too. Women are actually constantly preferred for certain kinds of positions. Stop playing the victim complex. Even when it comes to violent crimes, men suffer from other men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:49 PM
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Women are not oppressed anymore though in the West, and in many contexts, actually have a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:45 PM
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I just googled. It’s misleading. Homicide is more of a likely cause than pregnancy related issues. That doesn’t mean either is likely and has more to do with how safe pregnancies are. This wouldn’t be the case in other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:48 PM
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Less than 0.002% of men murder. Irrelevant if men murder more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:27 PM
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That doesn’t make ‘em attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:28 PM
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How about you take this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:21 PM
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Yeah problem???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:18 PM
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💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 What’s so funny huh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:16 PM
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Yup the I don’t owe you part
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:03 PM
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Men have lower standards. Just because a few men in the right state are willing to fuck a fat girl doesn’t make her attractive lol. You’re using attractive to mean “fuckable”. A better comparison would be to see how many women men would actually want to be seen around with. But even then men have lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:02 PM
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Yes because if you text em again, and they genuinely forgot, they’d say so, not “I don’t owe you a response”. That’s what I do, I’ll apologize and say I forgot. Stop pretending like men and women are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:57 PM
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Stop generalizing it’s annoying. I like it tbh, I’d feel uncomfortable if they were persistent but it’s really not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:55 PM
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The forgetting to respond isn’t ghosting. The not responding because I didn’t want to was only for people who said something obviously rude. I’ve never really ghosted someone out of a lack of interest on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:45 PM
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I don’t really ghost people tbh. Feels weird to but maybe I should knowing that most people ghost and think strangers aren’t even human
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:39 PM
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Everyone has. Including you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:36 PM
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Hope you know what /s means 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:24 AM
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lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:21 AM
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i haven't laughed this hard in a while /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:20 AM
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Secondly, I would get upset if a girl I’m not attracted to tried to steal in a kiss lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:39 AM
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You’re just assuming things. I don’t actually care about whether I’m being complimented by a man, woman, old man, old woman, or whatever else. I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:39 AM
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Honestly, from a guy who's been approached by gay men as well, I don't think that's true. For me, I'm not disgusted by anyone showing interest to me. I would say this is arguably the case for most men too. Sure, there's the odd man who might tell a fat chick to stay away, but for the most part, men appreciate being complimented, regardless of who it's coming from. This cannot be said for women as discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:18 AM
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If you think it’s silly goose, then why did you say I can’t say it’s your opinion? You’re contradicting yourself. Your entire argument relies on how many people agree with you. But that begs the question: why does this matter? It was completely normal to think slavery is okay. Imagine if someone at the time disagreed with it and someone like you said “you seem to be suggesting it’s abnormal for me to think slavery is fine. Most people agree with me”. It would be ridiculous. It’s subjective throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:37 AM
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Again, you keep restating your opinion. “People don’t deserve being nice/polite to”. What someone deserves is subjective. I could make the argument that you don’t deserve a response right now. I could make the argument that you deserve to be treated harshly every single time because I think you’re horrible. How would you counter this? You can’t. Your argument sums up to “I like the world to be this way” which is fine but don’t expect others to agree with you or care about what you think. “Clearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:15 AM
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Again, that’s just your opinion. People use defense mechanisms and assumed fear to be rude to people many times as excuses to make themselves feel better and less guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:07 AM
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That’s literally just your opinion and what YOU think is correct. I think strangers should not be assumed to be disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:46 AM
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TIL a few bad experiences = men just don’t listen when you ask nicely. Do you purposefully ignore the men who do listen just so you can have an easier time hating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:40 PM
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It’s not that women don’t find interest in random men. It’s that women don’t find interest in random men unless they’re exceptionally attractive or rich or famous. Men can still find interest in women even if they’re not the most attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:21 PM
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Women feel more disgusted by men than the other way around. https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/Why-Are-Women-More-Easily-Disgusted-than-Men.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:10 PM
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Women are more disgusted by men than the other way around. https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/Why-Are-Women-More-Easily-Disgusted-than-Men.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:07 PM
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The reason why men have lower standards is because they give women more chances when it comes to looks. It’s not that men find all women attractive. It’s that they give chances to women who they might not find the most attractive because there might be other qualities, even if just physical, to make up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:04 PM
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It’s not any different. In the case of online avenues or at bars, you’re still having a conversation. But before a man has approached you, he has nothing to go by. Secondly, many men have lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:50 PM
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A man can’t know how interesting you are unless he’s said a word to you so your analogy is horrible. Women on the other hand, unless they already have a connection with the man, are thinking “what is he going to do for me?” for the entire time in online avenues. Secondly, often times, male standards are lower
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:48 PM
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Because they’re more shallow in online avenues or even at a bar even during a conversation where you can get to know a person
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:47 PM
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Women are not just scared of strangers, they’re disgusted by them. It’s not just fear. https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/Why-Are-Women-More-Easily-Disgusted-than-Men.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:45 PM
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No, men care more about stranger women more than women do with stranger men. Women are much more dismissive, sometimes in a rude way, of male strangers than the other way around. The reasoning is that this is because of fear, which plays a role, but the more primary reason is disgust as studies have shown. Women are quite literally disgusted by most men they don’t know. Men on the other hand are at worst apathetic to women they don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:42 PM
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Why else would he approach you if he doesn’t know you? Do you expect him to use his magical mind reading abilities to know how much of a supposedly interesting person you are before meeting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:39 PM
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why did this kill me hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:56 AM
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Women celebrate the idea of looking for rich men all the time on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:30 AM
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I can kinda see that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:48 AM
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Yes they generally are in the sense you don’t get shamed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:48 AM
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Dude stop pretending as if it’s equally acceptable to say both of those things. The amount of “but men do it too” arguments I see on here is insane lmfao. They don’t have to do things at equal rates
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:36 AM
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Again, using anecdotes as evidence isn’t a fallacy. What matters is the reliability of anecdotes compared to other conflicting information. You don’t know as much about science as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:34 AM
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“Empirical evidence for a proposition is evidence, i.e. what supports or counters this proposition, that is constituted by or accessible to sense experience or experimental procedure” Note the phrase sense experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:13 AM
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Anecdotes are empirical evidence. So is experience, believe it or not :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:09 AM
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Are you suggesting I said that? If so can you link me some empirical evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:55 AM
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I’m talking about the women who quite literally expect regular payments or gifts from men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:26 AM
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Men can’t live without money either you don’t see them chasing rich women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:11 AM
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You don’t see them because they’re often the really hot ones who think they’re too good for tinder etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:25 AM
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There’s tons and I mean TONS of women who expect it directly or indirectly now from what I’ve heard and seen myself. If you haven’t seen these types of relationships, you need to get your hand out of the sand. After high school, it’s a free for all now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:43 AM
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Translation: “I failed to provide a source so let me write another opinionated paragraph.” My post is based on sources: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:48 AM
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Nice opinionated paragraph. Now where’s the source of you saying they have just as much if not more of a bias? Still waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:36 AM
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Okay but no one wants to be future’s main bitch bro lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:29 AM
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Ah the good old “but men do it too” argument. Show proof. Hint: you won’t find any
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:28 AM
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Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:03 AM
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I meant ingroup bias for men not outwards towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:59 AM
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No one’s dying to be with em bro Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:44 PM
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Why’d you name them specifically hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:52 PM
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Dan B doesn’t attract women, he attracts people looking to use him as an ATM
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:39 PM
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Barring Russia and Ukraine which has the hottest girls on earth, the rest of Eastern Europe isn’t that attractive. Still more attractive than the West. Still though, paying for sex isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:50 PM
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Clearly I’m including only women who fuck men for transactional purposes. Although getting paid to be seen as a sexual object by people sounds ew
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:29 PM
-2

I am unhinged yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:29 PM
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Where’d he say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:23 PM
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Guy talking about dumb assumptions while implying Andrew Tate is physically attractive. You don’t know how to judge whether a man is physically attractive to a woman. You just don’t. Accept it and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:21 PM
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My dude, or woman, it’s obvious when a woman is with someone for his money or whatever else. Don’t make this extra complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:19 PM
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Not any man’s judgment but I’m pretty good at judging
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:12 PM
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“6’3 with no major facial flaws” He’s literally bald and not attractive. There’s like no women on earth who find him attractive physically. Have you actually asked women if they find him attractive? You’re one of the men who get easily fooled who I was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:10 PM
-1

By knowing his
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:09 PM
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If she finds him ugly and to have a terrible personality* not just ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:05 PM
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You got fooled. You don’t know his life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:41 PM
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You got fooled son
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:25 PM
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You fell for the shtick. Just like many other men. He has a wife :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:24 PM
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How you know who his wives are? Or who he’s had sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:13 PM
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He has “multiple” wives dude. And I guarantee she’s similar to a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:06 PM
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They go hand in hand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:04 AM
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Drinking water and meditation helps with anger btw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:40 AM
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I don’t need a troll’s validation. I just called you out for not actually addressing any points made in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah okay bud. “This is just excuse-making for not making the effort to meet people.” You didn’t even address the post thinking I won’t notice that. Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:19 AM
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Because your comment made an assumption that I don’t leave the house when I’ve probably left the house in a month more than you have in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:15 AM
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I do well with women. Any other assumptions you wanna make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:11 AM
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That’s literally not what the post is implying. Did you read it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:24 AM
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That’s just your assumption. Most people are harmed by people they know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:23 AM
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Not as much of a threat as from people you know believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:22 AM
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Because most people form their social circles at an earlier age. I bet most of your friends you didn't meet as strangers so this post is a horrible strawman. Most women are scared of strangers unless the interaction happens at already scheduled events. And within this current economy and tons of options that exist online for women, a lot of people don't have the time for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:45 PM
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No, men are better at some things than women. Women are better at other things. And it may as well be the case that there’s more things men are better at, or more things women are better at. You’re letting your bias of what you WANT to be true (neither gender being superior) with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:14 PM
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You literally did what I criticized in my post 🤣 I said that women do this more and your response is “but I do it too. Therefore both genders do it”. This shit is a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:04 PM
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“THEY DO” Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:03 PM
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Wishful thinking over facts at it again. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2755553/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:55 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2755553/ Bet you didn’t expect that did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:55 PM
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No I meant to respond to someone here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:50 PM
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Well if you didn’t make an assumption the first time, now you did! I already did answer your question by saying no. The rest stems from that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:49 PM
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No, nice assumption though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:45 PM
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Just because things sound equally dumb TO YOU, doesn’t mean they actually are equally dumb. Also, your experiences can easily be shrouded with bias. But overall, the evidence shows that magical thinking is more common in women. Certain kinds of conspiratorial thinking may be more common in men, but these aren’t usually supernatural. And not all conspiracies turn out to be false. On the other hand, not a single supernatural theory has ever been confirmed to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:44 PM
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Why would you assume that they’re equally dumb when it comes to magical thinking is the better question? Perhaps it’s your bias from a fairy tale view of the world where everyone believes, acts, and does the same things? Anyways, when it comes to supernatural things, which arguably have the least evidence, women are more prone to believing in them: https://www.psypost.org/2020/06/higher-trust-in-intuition-helps-account-for-why-women-are-more-likely-to-believe-in-magical-phenomena-57075?amp=1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:37 PM
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Men believe in conspiracies more than women but that's it. All other forms of magical thinking are more common in women. And let's be real..what's dumber? Believing that the government took part in some COVID 19 conspiracy or thinking there's demons out there affecting your chakra?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:04 PM
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This is actually true LOL, not sure why exactly though. I would argue the occult stuff is more dumb though, since atleast some conspiracies are true. Nothing in religion seems actually true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:02 PM
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Yes. Factually, they are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:00 PM
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lame tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:05 PM
1

It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:25 AM
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A rule isn’t a trend lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:21 AM
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I know more about Bayes theorem than you I bet. Bayes learning tells you nothing about the kinds of bets you should take. It can only tell you the posterior probabilities of certain hypotheses in terms of belief given new evidence, not whether you should bet on certain matters, since each matter has a different risk attached to it. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:42 PM
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You can totally (and should!) apply these principles in both. No because certain events have higher risks than others. If there is a 40% chance I lose in a bet but there's a 60% chance I win and it involves money on the line, I might still take the bet if the reward is high. But would I take even a bet where I have a 90% chance of winning but a 10% chance of losing where my life ends? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:11 PM
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What are you even talking about. Stop derailing the discussion and address the actual points made or there’s no point in continuing this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:52 PM
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You’re saying that when analyzing a group, it’s useless to look at patterns. This is misguided. You can observe certain trends. Just because exceptions exist, doesn’t mean that trends don’t exist. Your point of there being exceptions is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:40 PM
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That's because there's no other way to get data LOL. You get data pertaining to groups by analyzing individuals. That's how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:30 PM
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It’s always best to proceed as though you’re interacting with a unique individual Yes, when interacting with an individual, but not when studying a group
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:15 PM
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All this shows is that with respect to certain attributes (in this case age), many men or women want things closer to a particular average. And note this is an average, not some answer that all men or women answered. The question remains as to which attribute is more important than another. In the real world, the people that we talk to have tons of attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:57 PM
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and have the same basic motivations and needs. Sure, we all want to eat food and have sex and enjoy our lives. But this isn't really useful information when it comes to interacting with people, is it? Grouping people by different characteristics is foolish It's not foolish when analyzing groups as a whole, but it's foolish when talking to individuals, which is the whole point of the post :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:54 PM
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Do you have any proof for that? Or you're just saying this based on how you "think" things work? Just by the fact that there's almost no man or woman on earth that everyone finds attractive. There's probably more widespread agreement on when a person is extremely ugly moreso than when they're very attractive but in general, it is subjective. Only it is? It's not. Do you have any test showing that the best looking man/woman as judged by others among a group of candidates always won the girl/guy? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:37 PM
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I don't think I've ever met even two people who wanted the same things. You're likely confusing wanting the same things with respect to a particular attribute vs. wanting the same things in general. The former may be true for most but the latter begs the question of which qualities are important and how many are important
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:34 PM
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You're only proving my point without realizing it. Even if it was true that how a face looks is objectively attractive or not (it isn't, but let's grant that), all that would show is that that particular judgment is objective. But this doesn't show that women (or men) act the same way, since they can each want a whole host of things and at various degrees of importance. Nor does it show that facial attractiveness is the most important attribute when determining who a person will be with. If it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:31 PM
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both outliers Again, you're making the same mistake I highlighted in the post. It's so hardwired in people that they don't realize it. When you use the word "outlier", you're already assuming that most people act the same, and only a few don't. But clearly, even twins don't act the same way in every which way. What you really mean is "people tend to act the same way with respect to certain kinds of attributes." Even if that were true, it would beg the question of which attributes are relevant, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:25 PM
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I really don't think that the age gap argument is doing you any favors since women just from experience prefer wildly different age gaps, some small, some larger. Any studies showing this? If the age gaps are different, then that just proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:23 PM
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which is that men and women aren’t that different. You are making the same mistake that I highlighted in the post. We are very different, not just by gender, but individually. Focusing on our similarities is what misguides us and inevitably leads us to unneeded pain since our patterns keep breaking over and over again. Focusing on our individualities makes us have better sense of the world. It's also more in tune with reality, since we are, in fact, different. The very idea of grouping people by…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:20 PM
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Any evidence that most men or women within an age group want the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:02 PM
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Ignoring that tendency walking into the cafe is stupid because a) you’d likely know nothing else about the tiger but more importantly b) you’d rather be safe than sorry. You’re using an example where there is real danger to your life and trying to apply that to your dating life where there usually is none
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:56 PM
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In all areas of life, you likely consider the specific more important than the general. For example, most kids love toys. But if you meet a kid that seems to dislike by his behavior toys, you’re going to stop giving him toys. Specific overrides the general. Or to put it more simply, you should rely on as much specific information as possible. It’s not always possible to get more specific information but I would say that benefits you more. And no, women don’t act or talk the same way. What really…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:45 PM
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Notice how basically none of the women in the comments address his points and just focus on his personal political beliefs. Some admitted to not even reading it. LOL! This shit is a meme at this point. Men seriously need to stop taking this shit seriously and move on. You're arguing against a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:15 AM
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I didn’t read his points ngl We know bud, we know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:14 AM
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they just were willing to accept this behaviour because you were hotter. No they went from finding it outlandishly horrible to outlandishly exciting. A complete flip
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:19 AM
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Your behaviour within a certain situation, independent of the other situations, is rude or polite. But I did give you a certain situation. And you simply followed it by saying "it depends". You can't just keep breaking down situations since it ends up begging the question. One can do this infinitely. For example, you said it depends on the tone in which you say it. But that just begs the question: what kind of tone is aggressive or rude? Does it depend on how loud you are? How much passion you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:32 AM
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I find it repulsive Why does what you personally find repulsive matter? Perhaps others will find appropriate what you find repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:24 AM
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Depends on who it is and why are they asking, and also on your delivery. So again, that's subjective. You literally keep proving my point LOL. Without realizing it. It's kind of interesting. Anyways, personally, I would not say that. But that's just me. Maybe using the word ugly does them more good than harm. Maybe using the word ugly is just being more honest with the reality of the situation and in a way less "rude". There's no objective answer to this. Note that I picked this example on purpo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:23 AM
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Okay let's take it a step further then. If someone comes up to me and asks if I find them attractive, and I say "no offence but you're kinda ugly". Is that rude? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:13 AM
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Interesting. That makes sense. It still seems as if you inherently judge one kind of interest over another and I would like you to consider that your judgment may be unfounded. Sure, you might feel more comfortable with someone who finds your hobby interesting rather than just your attractiveness. That is your right. But why is someone finding you hot and initially only being interested in that any worse than someone finding the book you're reading interesting? Do you realize these interests are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:11 AM
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And rudeness is very much objective ​ It all depends on context, it's never black and white. It's like you're arguing for me. Thank you. Lastly, most people might agree on someone being rude or polite, but that usually more often applies to extremes, not the ordinary. And the ordinary is more common by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:07 AM
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rudeness is very much objective, Is it rude to tell someone you don't find someone attractive? If so, why? If not, why? Any answer you pick will ultimately be based on how you feel about it, your experiences, how others view it, etc. Where is the objectivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:42 AM
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I've had approaches like that and they never do. Again, how do you know if they approached you initially because of your appearance or because they were genuinely interested in talking to you for something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:41 AM
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If you aren't aiming for any real interest or connection like that How would you know if they're "genuinely" interested in you or not? If their interest is initially based on just your looks, why is this less "genuine"? Isn't it by definition more genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:31 AM
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You'd be surprised at how often a man "being interested in your shirt" is really just an indirect way to say "hey you're hot but I'm scared of your reaction if I said that so let me just pretend like I'm interested in your shirt." Almost noone is excessively interested in a stranger like that, especially at events where chances are, you're not the most interesting person to him. I find it interesting that most women aren't aware of this. If they are, then that makes it worse, because hiding your…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:19 AM
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Love this answer wow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:15 AM
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What else should they base their approach on if they don't know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:14 AM
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What's wrong with someone's desire to have sex and thinking you pass that threshold? Genuinely curious. Especially since this is reality and that is how men (uncontrollably I might add) see a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:13 AM
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Almost every woman has an abusive ex story in my experience nowadays. The same can't be said of men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:59 AM
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The entire cosmetic/makeup industry is designed for white women and that's basically the main reason honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:57 AM
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Peronally, I don't. If anything, attractive women are treated too well in my eyes just because they're attractive, much moreso than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:56 AM
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That's just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:55 AM
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You don't want there to be bad blood ultimately because of fear lol. If you didn't have a fear of that, you wouldn't give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:49 AM
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Which translates to fear in the sense you think you need them to gain a better social circle and would otherwise burn potential bridges. The fear of burning bridges, as you said yourself. Hence not an assumption is it? Like I said though at least you’re being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:24 AM
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Why do you want to keep a connection with someone you’re not attracted to but is above your league. Fear because they might be more powerful? Sounds cowardly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:20 AM
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So you're polite or impolite to people depending on how useful they are to you as a tool. Atleast you're being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:59 AM
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Yeah I know I know, was just adding a point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:46 AM
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There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:45 AM
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You're overexplaining something that doesn't need to be explained. Noone else here commented about that except you. You then used that misreading to falsely imply I haven't been with women even though I've been with tons. You're not good at reading my intentions sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:44 AM
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There's literal trolls getting 10+ dms a month bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:40 AM
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I for one am happy with social media and OLD. I now don't have to go on dates or engage in useless small talk with strangers. I can get a feel for people online first, feel more attracted or have them be more attracted to me already, and skip steps before intimacy as well. I still think it's bad for your mental health though of course
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:39 AM
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Yeah no I just don't believe that. You must be invisible on social media or something. I get like 1-2 dms a month from women and I'm a man. There's no way you get less than me. I'm going to guess you're not active.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:32 AM
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I am indeed mad that many men are simps. Problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:30 AM
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No, it was used as exaggeration for emphasis. Stop pretending like you know my intentions. If I say "the greatest risk in love is being played by that person" it doesn't mean it's literally greater than having your head slaughtered by that person LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:28 AM
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Interesting, thanks for the link. "Men who rated themselves as more attractive were more likely to rate others (both women and men) as more attractive." This probably cancels out the effect. Men who over-inflate themselves also have lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:25 AM
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Because everyone knows having your ego hurt is not as big of a danger as being killed. It's called exaggeration for emphasis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:24 AM
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Studies showing the massive difference in supply and demand between women and men on apps and actually looking at people's phones
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:22 AM
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This is just a pointless misreading. You're reading it literally. It doesn't mean it's literally your biggest danger. Sure you can get murdered and almost every woman is scared of that but aside from safety concerns, it's the biggest emotional risk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:21 AM
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It's not a vent, it's an observation. And I'm the pickiest man you'll ever meet and haven't really been with even a 5, so stop the projection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:20 AM
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Until I see a study of apps that people actually frequently use such as tinder/bumble or messages on snap/instagram etc, especially younger people, there is nothing to go by except experience. And there is nothing more real than the experiencing of actually looking at these girls' phones and seeing the kind of attention they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:19 AM
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Send the study. Studies show men overrate women and women underrate men: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513821000751#!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:17 AM
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It's easy for someone who gets constant validation to say that it is meaningless. You're like a rich person saying money is meaningless. Get back to me when you start experiencing none of it again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:15 AM
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Those men aren't their first choice. They just feel less scared to message them first since if they don't reply, it wouldn't hurt as much. Also, it's OKCupid, and again, who uses that except 40 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:14 AM
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That was OKCupid. Who even uses that now? Secondly, 90% of interactions women have with men are from men who message them first, so who you message first is irrelevant. What you really meant to say is that it's almost as if women are less scared of approaching unattractive men first. It doesn't mean they're more attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:09 AM
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The average woman who's online is still getting tons of messages online compared to above average men believe it or not. You're severely underestimating the occurrence or are an outlier and maybe hang around very unattractive women or something. You're underestimating how many male suitors there are for average women And in terms of how women feel, it's about what you do, not what you say. You might meet women who say that they're not attractive or feel that. But they'll still have high standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:05 AM
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You’re lucky it’s against the rules to roast you into oblivion too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:12 PM
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Completely agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:42 AM
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Yeah and so in that case, I don’t think it’s common. The putting people in boyfriend material zone is common and is usually an excuse. I don’t think things are very binary though. Love is a strong term. You can “like” someone and still stave off sex, but that “like” isn’t deep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:23 AM
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No and news flash: the title of the post isn’t about love. It’s for men classified as boyfriend material. That was just used as supporting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:17 AM
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Literally read the other comments. A woman described how she thinks in this way. Anyways, it's more common than you think. It happens all the time. In fact, I myself have been the "victim" of this on the opposite side where three girls in my life were like "don't want anything serious, only reason I even had sex with you was because I didn't want a relationship." They literally said they would have waited otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:51 AM
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It depends. If you know the guy wouldn't date you otherwise, then stop wasting time with him. If you think most guys would mind you getting fucked in a balcony every weekend last year with coke being snorted off your tits, then well, it's time to find a guy who wouldn't mind that. Most guys would not stop dating someone just because they were an ex drug addict so your analogy isn't a great one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:50 AM
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Women who experience actual love? No. Women who save sex with someone because they think the guy is boyfriend material and that they might fall in love with a man? Hell yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:44 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. We have higher sex drives, less mood swings, more energy, and now have drugs and technology to protect us from danger, something we had to worry about much more back in the day. I'm also glad I'm straight since men are lowkey disgusting LOL. I don't know how women do it (with me I understand though of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:42 AM
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I think you misunderstood. I was talking about the case where a woman supposedly feels love but decides to wait for sex BECAUSE she loves him and doesn’t want to lose him. This obviously makes no sense since a woman being in love makes her want to have sex with the man more anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:35 AM
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Of course. And they’re both bad for it. There’s reasons for everything. It doesn’t mean they’re justified
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:14 AM
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If you’re doing it because you supposedly “love” him more than the guy you fucked in the restroom of a club the other week, then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:12 AM
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“If women didn’t care about how many times I’ve only just wanted sex, I’d be able to just tell them I only want sex.” Blaming others for your manipulative techniques isn’t going to do you any favors love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:07 AM
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Or maybe you just didn’t meet a man who made you feel that way quickly. And in all honesty, the only thing I care about is how attractive these women are and I’ve always been extremely picky. I’d pick a 10/10 woman with a body count of 10 over a 6/10 with a body count of 5. That’s just how it works in my head. This doesn’t mean the former is easier. She still has tons more options so it’s not the gotcha you’re trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:05 AM
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No, you know how you think, not other women. It’s the same with me and other men. But we can both do some research, talk about our experiences with other people, and figure out how others operate to some reasonable extent. Again, I’m aware women often require more of a connection to want to have sex. But you’re ignoring that sometimes these connections take very little time and you’re also ignoring that there’s plenty of women who DO have raw, animalistic urges to want to have sex. How do I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:57 AM
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I get an ick from women who pretend to be someone they’re not more than anything. Tons of guys would agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:49 AM
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Almost every girl I’ve fucked trusted me well. In many of these cases, this happened within a day or two. Stop speaking for all women. Time is important of course but you’re underestimating how quickly a connection can develop, or how quickly a visceral sexual urge can develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:45 AM
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That’s like saying “if I lie to someone about something and she doesn’t find out, what’s the problem?” It’s manipulation. You’re purposefully giving an impression of a kind of person you’re not for your own benefit. It’s selfish. Just like you have the right to fuck strangers you don’t give a shit about immediately but fuck people you love more “later”, I have a right to judge you for that. And lying about not doing that is manipulative especially knowing that I wouldn’t date you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:43 AM
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How old are you? I’m in my 20s and have fucked girls on the first date tons of times. This is because I’m pretty good at turning people on but also because the culture has shifted a bit. People are recognizing that going on tons of dates is often useless The sweetest, most caring, person I’ve ever met who I was seeing for a while I fucked the first time I met her. In fact, throughout all my life, I fucked people immediately almost all the time. And guess what? There’s nothing wrong with that plu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:38 AM
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Why would a woman who fucks me right away mean she does it for everyone? That’s where women go wrong. Anyways, no one said you should demand for sex. I for one want the girl to have sex whenever she sees fit. The rest of your comment is just blaming men for a rightful issue I called out. Respond to the points actually made in the post. Otherwise, this is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:30 AM
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It’s not about being clueless. It’s attraction and the hope of “I’ll change him” in my opinion. After a while, you just lose hope. Women aren’t as clueless as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:28 AM
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I’m glad you commented. Because other commenters think women like you don’t exist but they clearly do. Anyways, I think your reasoning is atrocious. You do you. You have every right to do what you want. But if you think more easily having sex with guy A but saving yourself for guy B will somehow make guy B respect you more, you’re living in a delusion. As guys, we want girls to be honest. If you’re trying to simply give off a perception of not being easy even if you genuinely want sex, you’re pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:26 AM
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Most people who have a “phase” of “fucking up” don’t just do this once. And it only takes one mistake to realize you’re being used. And yet most of them don’t just get used once. Many will get played twenty times before actually following through. Why is this? The answer is simple. Their attraction overpowered their fear. In the case of the new boyfriend, the attraction doesn’t overpower it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:05 AM
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Applying to all men is a different case. I’m talking about the case where there’s different rules for different men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:35 AM
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Take it from someone who does really well on dating apps and has friends better looking than me who regularly go to clubs. This rarely happens, and when it does, the girls are usually fugly. You don't know anything sorry. The only time I can see this more easily happening is if the guy's a major celebrity or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:49 PM
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At the end of the day, your "evidence" amounts to: "I don't like powerful men". Meanwhile actual evidence shows that women preferentially notice high status men, but men do not care about a woman's status but rather their attractiveness: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/147470490800600209
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:22 PM
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I'm just saying that I don't think it's a coincidence that when women do get the option of being around powerful men (and I mean truly powerful, not some local rich dude), they regularly choose to do so. And the women who don't are also the same ones who say they don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:50 PM
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I'm not actually disrespectful to women. You seem to likely think so simply because I point out truths about things that may feel uncomfortable to you. Point out where I'm wrong in an argument instead of playing the "omg you're disrespectful" card. I've made posts criticizing men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:48 PM
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Attractive women are more influenced by powerful men since they..you know..actually get them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:32 PM
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I learned it from experience and actually being around or with attractive women, few of which are on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:16 PM
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It’s easy to say you don’t want a powerful man unless he gives the option of being with you. Unless you’ve rejected presidents, actors, etc, you don’t actually “know” what you want. The evidence, on the other hand, suggests that powerful men have an extremely easy time getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:26 AM
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You called me incredibly dumb. The only reason I’m not insulting you back 10x worse is because it’s against the rules. I have no reason to continue a discussion with you. Your thoughts seem scrambled. As I already said, I don’t need to define words. The concept of power is well defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:07 AM
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What does “dumb” and “narcissist” mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:51 AM
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What does “dumb” and “incredibly” mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:47 AM
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I don’t need to define basic words here. You might as well ask me to define every word in my post. What is “understanding” to you? What is a “question”? What does “sense” mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:45 AM
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Status is social power. What’s hard to understand about that? It’s self explanatory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:41 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:33 AM
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Your examples are horrible since the presidents of the most powerful country on earth literally have the highest amount of status. Obama is probably one of the top 5 most famous men in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:46 AM
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Being with a high status man makes women feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:23 AM
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You'd be surprised at how many people would fuck someone like Trump or Biden if they actually entered their life. It's just easier to hate on them online because of their influence. They're extremely old so they're not the best examples. Just replace those examples with someone like Obama or Bill Clinton when he was younger and then you'll understand this better. They're quite literally the most powerful and famous people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:19 AM
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I give up. Stephen Hawking lived without moving a muscle. And again, I didn’t say the last statement. Show me where I did. If you show me, I have a million waiting for you. I’ll wait. And if you can’t find an exact quote, this argument is over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:49 PM
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No you’re (still, surprisingly) missing the point that need doesn’t mean survival but I’ll try to make it clear for you again. When someone says humans need sex, they don’t mean “I need it to survive.” They mean “I need it to live a happy life.” The arms example wasn’t an analogy. It was an example to point out your fallacious logic. You don’t need arms to live, and yet people use the word need for arms. Why? Because as you said, life would be much harder. You keep thinking I’m saying “losing ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:27 PM
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Those aren’t necessary for survival. All it means is that your life will be much harder. Again, you’re missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:22 PM
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Again you make no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:08 PM
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No, you again missed the point. The point was that need doesn’t mean survival. I technically don’t need arms to live. Yet it wouldn’t be wrong if I said “I need my arms”. The logic is the same. This doesn’t mean I’m equating sex to needing arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:05 PM
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What. You make no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:43 PM
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Yes and it agrees with the post. You’re not making the point you think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:11 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:03 PM
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We’re all animals, including you. This is just another example of women shaming men for having urges they were born with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:46 PM
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This is simply a strawman and a pedantic argument. When people use the word need for sex, they don’t mean it in a survival sense, although I myself don’t advocate for that term. Most humans “need” relationships with people to be happy but not to survive. It all depends on context. As such, the entire premise of your post is wrong and what’s truly fascinating is you missing this point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:43 PM
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You made a generalization and didn't defend it. The whole point of my post is to defend them. So no, me and you are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:57 PM
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"Women don't expect anythign in return" Chuckled loudly at this one tbh, but then I guess it wouldn't be a chuckle. Women expect things from relationships all the time. If anything, wanting sex is less shallow than wanting tons of money/etc. Atleast one is a biological desire. The other is a made up societal one. Secondly, just because women orgasm less compared to men, doesn't mean they don't get anything out of sex. If they were satisfied without being in a sexual relationship, they'd all be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:56 PM
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Men need to stop thinking of women as machines you put energy coins into and it’ll eventually reward you with sex You're generalizing here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:52 PM
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decent conversation Everyone has a different definition of this is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:52 PM
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without being a dick or totally inappropriate this is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:50 PM
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Let me know when you actually have a counter argument instead of insulting something you don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:01 AM
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That's what having a higher sex drive means...lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:00 AM
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It's an analogy. Telling me to fuck off won't last you long on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:54 PM
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Gold diggers don't have some biological incentive to only want money and hence should be shamed for it. Men were born with the desire to want sex. There is nothing creepy wanting it, even immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:51 PM
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Yeah he's using need to mean it in a survival sense when clearly you didn't mean it that way. You don't need legs or arms to live either, but that doesn't mean it would be great to live without them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:41 PM
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Women have preferred deeper connections for milennia. They also have lower sex drives. You've provided no evidence for the cultural argument
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:37 PM
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Didn't say all, nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:36 PM
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The reason why so many men lie is because they are either shamed for it or seen as shallow. That's the whole reason players exist in the first place lol. If they didn't have to lie, they wouldn't do it. The reality is that if no man lied, only an extremely insignificant percentage of the male population would prefer a deep connection over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:35 PM
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Yet, every single person hides their wants. Men hide them more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:29 PM
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It seems they are wired to want connection because we've told them that's what they want False. The reason is biological. Women universally prefer a connection over men. I would wager it's due to higher oxytocin levels and a whole bunch of other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:28 PM
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The argument wasn't that men fucking around is seen as a vice. The argument was that men being upfront about their sexual desires is seen as a vice or are shamed for it. Two different things. You simply misinterpreted/misread the post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:26 PM
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That’s why they get shamed and penalized. Most men having sex today hide their inner sexual desire and their lack of wanting a deep connection quickly to impress women That’s not true. Most men do not care about connections with other women. as much as sex. So it simply is true whether you like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:24 PM
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Possessiveness isn't always about a connection, it's often about ego. For example, a man may not want a woman he fucks to fuck other men, not because he necessarily cares about her more, but only because he wants to be the only one doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:21 PM
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Why are you using porn habits when we're obviously discussing dating? That seems extremely irrelevant. Anyways, tons of women consistently shame men for simply wanting sex and nothing else. Lastly, maybe the earlier pattern you suggested repetitively occurs because....it's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:19 PM
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Either way, the reality is that most men are conditioned to not care about a connection as much as sex. Thus, tons of men having sex are simply lying about caring about a connection in the first place. And liars destabilize society much more than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:56 AM
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If playing games and calculating strategies didn't work, people would never play them. If people pretending to be someone they're not didn't work, people would never do that. People are attracted to people who they like, not people who are themselves. It's just an unfortunate reality but it's true. The best friend stuff usually comes after. In the initial stages of attraction, in my experience, women are still more likely to gravitate towards someone they find interesting/unique/mysterious/high …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:23 PM
1

Who said men don't like confident women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:12 PM
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How does any of this prove what I said is wrong? And sure, some women fetishize certain kinds of men, but they're clearly not as powerful as you think. Black men have the most positive stereotypes when it comes to anything sexual, much more than white men, and yet white men still do the best on average. Lastly, "9/10" is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:11 PM
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I like interacting with people who have nice personalities, but it doesn't make them more or less fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:26 PM
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I think women take way more risks than people give them credit for. Sure they're not risky as men but tons are hooking up with random men all the time. I don't think it's fear as much as the ease at which women can be disgusted by even the smallest of things that prevents them from having sex. In other cases, there are women out there who force themselves to have sex with men they're not into for some other material benefit, but that in my opinion is just prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:00 PM
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You're misconstruing. We're clearly not talking about interactions during sex, interactions that can make sex hotter etc. But nevertheless, how hot someone is determines how badly I want to have sex with them. Literally nothing else matters to me when it comes to that to be honest. Of course, communication during sex is a plus when it comes to that, but otherwise, personality is irrelevant when it comes to that. Personality is only relevant to me when it comes to having conversations and spendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:53 PM
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Women prefer confident men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:29 PM
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But I think what's happening more often is women just taking what they get Women have more options and tons more men approaching them than vice versa so this line of reasoning makes no sense. I think it is a combination of a lack of self awareness and a lack of willingness to accept that they're attracted to certain traits that would destroy their cultivated image of being a morally upright angel of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:29 PM
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A person who trusts their instincts/emotions a lot is more likely to be influenced by the tonality of someone's speech than the content of the speech, since the tonality of someone's speech means nothing without emotional receptivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:26 PM
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If the men that most women end up being with contradict what they say they're into, what they say can't then be used as evidence, can it? But you can find evidence atleast indirectly indicating that women trust their instincts/gut feelings/emotions more than men, and we know from experience those change on a whim. We know from experience women can easily be turned on or off sexually the moment a bad vibe or a bad word or a good vibe or a good word is said. Most men when they find a woman attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:24 PM
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I didn't mean wrong in a moral sense, but yes, in a subjective sense, happiness to me is that fundamental inherent sense of being relaxed. If it is contingent on something, it is hard to have that sense be always there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:06 PM
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You're trying to smuggle in moral concepts (right/wrong) into a discussion that is already subjective, such as the concepts of happiness and pleasure. This is a loaded question, hence I have no need to answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:55 PM
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Bring me an honest challenge and I'll address it. So far, all I've seen are complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:53 PM
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despair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:51 PM
1

If you're referring to me, who said I believe in conspiracy theories? Second of all, there is no evidence indicated men are more likely to believe in conspiracy theories than women. Secondly, it is objectively still more fact based than ghosts/spirits since atleast some conspiracy theories are true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:47 PM
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Men are the leaders of most organizations of any kind. It doesn't change the fact that women are more religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:45 PM
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I think so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:42 PM
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Should is different, but yes, you can be happy regardless of your life situation, since happiness is a mental state that can be achieved by anyone. Certain life situations may make the average person more likely to be happy but the average person's happiness depends on things and activities, and that's where they go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:31 PM
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That's good, but happiness should be a default state in my eyes. If a certain activity makes you happy, then that can mean you're not happy without it, which means you're not actually happy. It's just another kind of pleasure in that case. But anyways, this isn't a discussion meant for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:28 PM
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Also, women are more likely to be religious than men, globally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:27 PM
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Not all conspiracy theories have no basis in logic. Some are made up, some are real. But again, even if most conspiracy theories had no basis in truth, it still remains true that atleast some of them have turned out to be true. Spirits/ghosts/etc have never been demonstrated, yet women are more likely to believe in them. I've to this date never met a man obsessed with thinking he can talk to people from the dead with a board or think a crystal will change their life LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:26 PM
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This is actually so true 😂 You should make a thread on this. It's always "but some men do this too", "I know one dude in grade 12 who did this!" "men and women both do X". No shit, sherlock. There's 3.5 billion men. There's some men doing the wildest and craziest of things. It doesn't mean everything they're doing is even remotely close to the rate at which women are doing them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:24 PM
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By realizing that there is nothing to fear since there is no evidence of life having any inherent meaning. There is also nothing to be depressed about since you can't change the past. A life without fear and depression = happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:21 PM
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Show a controlled study that clearly indicates women largely follow through with what they say when it comes to their preferences for men. If not, your "evidence" is not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:18 PM
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Happiness doesn't depend on anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:16 PM
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Believing in conspiracy theories is still nowhere near as dumb as believing in ghosts/spirits/talking to the dead/psychics/astrology. Guess which gender dominates believing in the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:13 PM
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Pleasure -> food and sex Happiness -> internal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:46 PM
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Get as much happiness and pleasure as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:41 PM
-1

I try not to be when it comes to evaluating truths, but when it comes to other things, it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:36 PM
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It's not an invention lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:52 AM
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Men care about how attractive a woman is primarily, everything else is a bonus tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:52 AM
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I don’t know any woman that likes any of the things you just mentioned You don't know of any woman who likes being dominated and taken in control? Okay bud
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:52 AM
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Noone said this is the case. Nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:30 AM
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Not a chance. Period cramps. Pregnancies. Lower sex drive. Fuck. Not a chance in hell. I used to be jealous of women but not anymore. Life as a woman must be horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:11 AM
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whatever helps you sleep at night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:16 AM
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like i said, i don't care about blogs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:58 AM
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- woman who linked an opinion piece
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:35 PM
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then why are you so hellbent in arguing against obvious facts lmfao. and you might not care now, but you may care later. Personally, I don't like relationships, since the more the merrier. But I might settle down one day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:59 PM
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No not amputees, but I'm not judgmental. If the face and rest of the body is good enough, I probably wouldn't care!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:46 PM
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20/25/30/35/40 year old women ALL prefer older men. Sure, not two decades older, but older. 20/25/30/35/40 year old men ALL prefer younger women. That's the difference. You either accept reality or cry about it. It's your choice at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:45 PM
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No, a physical figure like a mermaid's, but since you don't seem to understand analogies, perhaps I'll be more specific and just say they all have nice bodies and faces. Although I'm more of a face guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:35 PM
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A study focusing on OLD > an opinion piece by a feminist. All data and experience agrees on the fact that tons more women prefer older men than vice versa. Why are you having a hard time accepting this? Why do you even care? If you're seen as unattractive within a few years, it clearly shouldn't matter to you since you don't care about attention, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:33 PM
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I know you're referring to your partner. I was saying that the people I've been with don't look like bears, and more like mermaids, since they're not overweight. I don't have a partner since I'm in the sex addict stage right now. Us men have higher sex drives remember
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:31 PM
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I just couldn't think of a female equivalent of an animal. Would have said bear but they're not overweight in my case!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:16 PM
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I don't need to read your article. it's an opinion piece. Link a study or just move on and accept you're having trouble cohering to reality. I linked an actual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:11 PM
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Of course not, but there's tons more women going for older men than vice versa. The reason for that is because women mature quicker, and older men are often more knowledgeable about things. There are many things that make a man valuable. There is not much except how you look that society values for a woman attraction wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:10 PM
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I'm happy with my mermaids!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:09 PM
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And don't worry, men will leave you alone soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:50 AM
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https://medium.com/sharon-alger/women-should-never-fear-hitting-the-wall-d76049491aae I linked a study, you linked a medium article lmfao. Get off your high horse and just accept reality. Women reach their primes much, much, much, much, earlier than men. It doesn't matter what you feel or think. What's real is real. Women universally peak earlier. Your counterargument is a woman being popular. So? Kim Kardashian is in her 40s and she's one of the most popular women in the world. Does this mean m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:50 AM
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Attraction is different from attention. You're living under a rock if you think most women would love zero attention from men. Tons of women crave attention from men. Literally just ask your peers. Sure, many complain when there's too much attention, but this isn't the same as not liking attention. There's a reason dating apps are so popular. You think most are using it to meet men? LOL. Women are mostly using it to get attention from men, especially when they're single. This is separate from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:25 AM
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Even when asking for a clear question, you couldn't create a statement with a question mark. But anyways, I already did correct you. I told you. You just didn't read. My motivation for any comment or post on this sub is to make people realize things they might not otherwise realize. There's nothing to insist with the wall. It's a proven phenomenon. As women age, they are seen as less attractive. This is true of men too eventually but the window before this happens is significantly higher. Only w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:07 AM
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Your style of speech is so unclear and ambiguous that I can't even figure out the question you're asking. Maybe ask a clear question and then I can answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:32 AM
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Ngl it's extremely hard to understand what you say. It's like reading a jumbled up recipe. At this point there's nothing to discuss and I don't want to lose my luscious dark hair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:27 PM
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"That's a prediction which I think will come true. I don't claim to have absolute knowledge of your future though. You seem to think you know . And not just that, you seem to think you know my intentions too." Are you purposefully ignoring this comment I made or? If I say "You'll regret this later" it doesn't mean I know that you'll regret this later, it's a prediction. If you're failing to read comments and still harping about how I know what will happen to you in your life (something you seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:41 PM
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It's literally "trust me you'll change your mind, I a random person know." I said it's a prediction, not a claim of knowledge. Do you even read my comments? So no, I didn't say that. Stop quoting me on things I didn't say. Stop pretending to read my mind. And stop pretending like you're understanding what I'm saying. It's frustrating at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:31 PM
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You're really not one to knock anyone's logic. Glass houses and all. What does this even mean? LOL. I give up at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:14 PM
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Amy from Kentucky who's never ate pizza has no better understanding of whether she'll like pizza in the future than Wu from China. You don't actually have any experience of no attention. You keep missing this. And my intentions are, as already said and shouldn't have to repeat myself, making people aware of things they don't tend to realize. Or in the case of this thread, perhaps make people realize they're not as good at making arguments as they think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:13 PM
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That's a prediction which I think will come true. I don't claim to have absolute knowledge of your future though. You seem to think you know . And not just that, you seem to think you know my intentions too. News flash: you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:08 PM
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Just because I changed my mind on macaroni and cheese doesn't mean I'm going to change my mind on being puked on. And where did I say it will? The only reason I'm still harping back and forth at this point is to make you realize that the arguments you think you're making aren't valid. Nowhere did I make a false equivalence. I was using an analogy to show that your thoughts on a matter before you've experienced it don't imply you know what the experience would be like. My argument wasn't "These t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:02 PM
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"You think I'll miss it because it serves your way of thinking, but doesn't jive with my lived experience. You want women to value your attention. You want women to fear it going away." No this was your argument. You said it jives with your lived experience but you don't have any lived experience of getting no attention. The rest of your argument is just wrong. You're not as good of a mind reader as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:58 PM
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Just because you think you won't like something or think you'll like something before you've experienced it, doesn't mean you actually will once you experience it. Just because I think I won't like pizza before I've ate pizza, doesn't mean I actually won't like pizza. Also, I just realized you're the same person who said you were attracted to someone not your type in the other thread. In other words, you thought you wouldn't like something, but you did. Thanks for proving to me your feelings on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:55 PM
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The irony here is ridiculous. Your argument has literally been "You're trying to dictate how women should feel like" over and over. When I make it clear that this isn't the case, you change the subject. This is amusing at this point. My original argument stands: You can't know what no attention feels like. Thus, you can't say you'd like it. It's a simple argument. Address the actual argument instead of going on 20 different tangents and maybe then I'll have something to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:51 PM
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The irony is that you seem desperate for your opinion to matter, which is why you repetitively keep saying that I want to be in control of women's self worth when I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:40 PM
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You have this weird habit of constantly trying to read my mind and pretend like you know what my intentions are. You don't. I notice it since I have that habit as well. You're just simply wrong here and aren't actually addressing the argument I'm making and repetitively keep saying that I am trying to dictate women. No, I don't care about dictating what women should do. My only intention in this sub is to get women and men to realize things they might have otherwise not realized before. Lastly, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:37 PM
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If you don't know, then you haven't experienced it, and thus your lived experience isn't evidence which is what you said originally. It's really not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:32 PM
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I'm fully aware that women primarily and only care about the man they're with and they're extremely unempathetic to male strangers. In fact, i made a whole thread on this. So thanks for proving my point. It's one of the reasons I'm careful about putting a woman on a pedestal and thinking she's extremely sweet when she says she loves me. The reality is she's only sweet to me. I know that if the love stops, I can turn into one of the strangers you say you'd light on fire. I don't want affection fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:30 PM
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You also didn't address my point that you don't know what no attention feels like. As such, you can't say your lived experience contradicts my point. I'm not sure why you're having trouble understanding this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:24 PM
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Because you want your opinion on women's attractiveness to mean something. I'm not sure if you realize this but men's opinions on how attractive a woman is does mean something. It always has. You're acting like your attractiveness, whatever it may be, doesn't play a significant role in your partner being attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:22 PM
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You don't actually know what your lived experience is if the attention hasn't gone down. It doesn't matter if you work from home mostly. The very fact you know you can get attention right now when you are outside is enough. Thus, your experience doesn't say much until and unless you stop receiving that attention when you go outside. If you enjoy that experience of no attention consistently when you go out, then you can say that you love it. But I doubt that'll happen given what other women exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:16 PM
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Come back to me when the attention is gone in a few years and you'll miss it. There's another person on this thread who is literally suicidal because she thinks she's hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:52 PM
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You may be unattractive now that you're older, but your options are likely still 10x as high as the average man even in their 20s. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:10 AM

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:58 PM

Women overrate other women. Secondly, stop calling things you disagree with misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:20 PM
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Nope none of them had one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:04 PM
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I'll give you this one actually. As of now, yes, most people who follow them are women. But I'm undecided on what catapulted it. If it's the sex tapes etc, I'm going to guess men were the ones watching that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:57 AM
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When men say they don't like them, it's often because they're just the most popular, and so it's easier to hate and more obviously realize they look fake. But most of the women they're going for in real life often look fake themselves. If you think most men wouldn't immediately take someone like Kim K if she knocked on their door though, you're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:53 AM
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You're too focused on roided men bro. Don't forget someone like justin bieber used to be the most sought after man in the world. Also, you're ignoring that someone like Hemsworth has a really good face anyhow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:50 AM
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We're all mortals. But if you're saying they live a completely different life, well yes, they do. Guess who catapulted them into fame though? Men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:42 AM
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Men love to go after women like that, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:42 AM
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Women go for natural looking guys much, much more than men the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:39 AM
1

Surgery can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:29 AM
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Yes that's what I meant. Should have been more explicit but hope the context makes that clear
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:26 AM
0

Almost every celebrity crush you've ever had was wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:23 AM
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Most of the time, when a woman goes out of her way to compliment you, it depends on how long she’s known you for. If she doesn’t, she almost always DOES mean you’re sexually attractive. If you know her for a while, that’s a different story. That’s really what it comes down to most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:16 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:08 AM
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I call out women as much as anyone on this sub when they're being shitty but you're being annoying here. You're almost certainly some local college basketball player who's mad he can't get the kind of pussy he always wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:38 AM
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Strawman since I specifically qualities not seen as attractive by most women don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:18 AM
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It's just reality. You can either accept or deny it. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4268901/ "There is clear evidence that women are more vulnerable to develop mood disorders compared to men. This sex difference seems to have a biological basis, as we have found sex differences in expression of mood-related genes in the brains of depressed subjects" Your standing is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:33 PM
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Common sense. Women are more emotional too and have more mood swings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:13 PM
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Literally just because of makeup and editing. Sex drive too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:45 PM
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This is facts. Men have ridiculously low standards and call any women wearing tons of makeup who isn’t fat hot Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:45 PM
1

Uglier nerds genuinely don’t care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:19 AM
1

He could get literally any woman. He almost certainly just doesn’t care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:28 AM
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You’re acting like he can’t do better. Maybe he doesn’t care about looks that much? Also he’s like 70 lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:19 AM
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It seems to me that you have more power than them if I’m understanding you correctly. That’s a big difference. And you have your own money. Power is relative. If you were asked out by men well, well above your power level (not just a bit) and regularly, I’d wager it would be a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:22 AM
2

Literally yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:09 AM
3

There’s levels to it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:01 AM
2

Both are tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:00 AM
10

You’re literally admitting to dating a rich dude and trying to say this post is bad? You’re literally proving my point lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:55 AM
0

It’s just an example. The point is power makes pussies wet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:52 AM
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In my experience, the women who deny this often don’t have the opportunity to be with very powerful men. It’s easy to deny something when you don’t have the option of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:50 AM
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There’s levels to it so being any kind of boss does bring an advantage tbh, just not as much as being some head of course
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:48 AM
1

Oh god you’re literally confirming what the post says lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:00 AM
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Or she had the opportunity idk fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:24 PM
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Then why did that work for that girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:28 AM
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I think women are more amenable to that than men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:27 AM
1

It's a 7 year old account and the attitude of your comment does suggest that it's coming from bitterness due to a lack of confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:26 PM
0

just live life and stop thinking then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:05 PM
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It's all in your head. I would argue that a guy who consistently gets rejected but accepted here and there yet has the balls to talk to people will overall become more confident than a guy who doesn't do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:57 PM
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facts tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:35 PM
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You know them already. When you know someone, you sort of think they look better than they are, because you're familiar with them. Try a dating app and meet women to get a better analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:34 PM
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I've seriously never met.a woman who looked better than her pictures unless she doesn't take social media that seriously. The more a woman takes social media seriously, the worse she often looks in real life in my experience. This seems obvious though since the seriously you take it, the more effort you'll put in to make yourself look good in a way that isn't realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:31 PM
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Many women do too, they're just better at hiding it with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:24 PM
1

“The reality is the issue is with the men”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:44 AM
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No one is really responsible. I don’t blame men or women. You seem to blame men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:09 AM
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Men wouldn’t be lying if women didn’t fall for it. It’s really as simple as that. Men are designed to pursue sex. You can’t somehow get rid of that design. It’s biological. The only way to stop lying is consequences not trying to convince a liar. Would you try convincing a cheater not to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:37 AM
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Maybe people should become smarter so they don’t reward shitty behavior. There’s tons of men that are very obviously looking for sex but lie, with a woman’s own friends warning her that he’s not the guy she thinks he is. But many still fall for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:34 AM
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You're reading what you want to see. You also missed the point of the post and don't seem to understand it. I explained myself three times and the post speaks for itself. We can discuss it further in dms at some later time if you want, but as of now, this is a waste of time sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:08 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:05 PM
1

Personal attacks are against the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:58 PM
2

Whatever the woman wants to hear. You can judge me all you want but that’s the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:56 PM
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Women want men who say what they want to hear and what turns them on and what makes them want to fuck or get into a relationship with the man. It doesn’t matter if the man is honest. Any other interpretations you take from that post is coming from you, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:41 PM
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I am just pointing out a truth in the dating market. People can do what they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:38 PM
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Where did I say you SHOULD be not truthful? Find it or stop this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:33 PM
1

No need to argue against a suggestion I didn’t make
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:12 PM
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I bet if you asked the men you consider emotionally mature if they would fuck you even if they don’t know you and even if they were looking for a serious relationship, they’d say yes Also I don’t do what you seem to accuse me of doing. I’m upfront about always wanting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:55 PM
1

Most guys do that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:49 PM
2

Nice straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:45 PM
1

Nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:44 PM
1

I don’t make posts just for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:47 PM
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Making a man wait for sex doesn’t make him sincere. It might make YOU sure he’s sincere but it has no bearing on him actually being so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:45 PM
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I don’t care about being indirect. You can be direct and fun. You’re assuming fun = uncertainty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:41 PM
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That’s the whole point of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:39 PM
2

Again, dating someone != not wanting sex quickly. I’ve dated people who I fucked pretty quickly and started casually. None of us were “looking for” a casual thing initially
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:37 PM
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I’m direct and wouldn’t say stuff like that. But I also don’t care much about leaving uncertainty. Life is short
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:35 PM
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You’re confusing the way you’re direct with being direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:34 PM
3

Wanting sex != wanting sex from multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:29 PM
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That's literally what "most women aren't attracted to honest men" means. So thanks for confirming my post I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:29 PM
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So first you deny the problem but now say that it's a problem in the man's making? Secondly, you're ignoring that the men who want to date also would fuck pretty quickly. You're acting like there's a dichotomy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:28 PM
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Many will be fine with casual but just "don't know it yet" and will still fuck someone relatively quickly as long as the man doesn't reveal his sexual intentions too quickly. That's a huge percentage of the populace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:18 PM
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Exactly lmfao. Just go by actions, not people's words
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:13 PM
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When someone is lying, it's not like you'd know. So it doesn't matter if you would tolerate it or not. Most lying men aren't going out there and saying "Btw I was lying haha!" Also, nowhere did I talk about justifying it. I myself am very upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:10 PM
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This is all subjective since even the mention of sex quickly is seen as dehumanizing to some. This has a lot to do with the woman and how she looks etc. I've had sex with women who I was very straightforward with in terms of my sexual intentions who loved the forwardness and directness while others found it too much, even though it was the exact same phrasing. It's more about the woman/man than what you say, unless you're socially stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:06 PM
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Tons of women who just want casual sex would still rather know a person more and have him not be upfront about his sexual intentions. Although I've certainly met women like you to the point they're just down to have sex when you're honest about it, the number of women who will hook up with you as soon as you make it clear you want sex isn't as huge as you think. It's probably easier to do this at parties/etc though On another note, what's the point of making a guy wait if you're looking to date?…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:02 PM
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"We like honest men but because the truth hurts me, we'd rather just fuck men who lie" is usually what ends up happening in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:00 PM
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Almost all men, in some way, lie to get laid. Most women are just completely unaware of this. Most men would fuck women within the first few hours of meeting someone and wouldn't even bother knowing anything about the woman if they could. But would they admit this to the woman? No. The man can always get to know the woman more for dating purposes after having sex. You'll say and argue that that's not really being dishonest. But why not? It's only considered appropriate because it's a socially an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:56 PM
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The problem with these stories is noone can see the women you're talking to and noone can see the women I'm talking to, etc. A lot of this depends on the woman. I've not had much trouble having sex with women quickly either. But in general, the less you know someone, the more uncomfortable a lot of women are before having sex. Not always though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:47 PM
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The vast majority of men do assault and rape women… 90% of adult rape victims are women. Yeah you're delusional. Reread what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:19 AM
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Noone said that men are more rational than women. You completely missed the point. Women have more of an ingroup bias towards other women than men. That was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:59 AM
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I've been sexually assaulted by women but am not unnecessarily rude to most women. Many people have bad experiences. It is not to take away from your bad experience but as long as it is true that the vast majority of men do not assault or rape, it is unjustified to unnecessarily be rude to people when you don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:22 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:44 AM
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Generalization != all women or all men. It’s called a trend. You don’t know what trends are do you? When someone says men are attracted to feminine women it doesn’t mean all men are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:41 AM
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Men have it worse than women but it's nowhere near as bad lol. Relax Most men are still having sex, just not as often
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:02 AM
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No one said anything about all women. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:00 AM
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I don't have to provide evidence to the contrary if your claim has the same level of evidence as saying that pigs fly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:24 AM
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Saying "not really" isn't an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:14 AM
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Or maybe you're just falsely representing those opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:11 AM
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Are you asking me personally? I want men and women to be able to openly talk about their issues without harassment. As of right now, women can openly do so. I'm convinced that men can't do the same without often being called the equivalent of a "pitiful, sexless women hating manchild". I mean fuck, just from a personal standpoint, I do pretty well with women, and yet simply stating an opinion here against women will often result in a good amount saying things like "You're probably a virgin", "Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:04 AM
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Okay, but we weren't just talking about physical abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:02 AM
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Yeah yeah. The study literally shows that women ON AVERAGE and AT LARGE are more rude to other women than men are. No one cares about your personal anecdotes sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:05 AM
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That’s what most women say yet the studies show the opposite: women are more mean to women than men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:04 AM
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Oh man, I accidentally wrote "doesn't understand" instead of "don't understand". This suddenly means that you are now rationally competent and didn't just create multiple strawmen in an attempt to argue against me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:46 AM
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“doesn’t understand basic fallacies” creates strawmen and thinks anecdotes are evidence Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:24 AM
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Nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:16 AM
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Anecdotes aren’t evidence. No need to be acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:14 AM
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There’s no reason to respond to made up stats. “80% of them turned abusive.” No proof of this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:10 AM
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At the end of the day, you were in a dangerous situation. Stop sugarcoating it. Most men would never even think of doing that to you. Many people have similar bad experiences with people of certain races, backgrounds, ages, yet you'd call them bigoted for then being rude and generalizing all people of that class. You're doing the same with men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:56 PM
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Looking attractive != women wanna have sex with them. Attracted to in the sense of being with that man and having an established level of comfort with him. So, nice try but next.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:54 PM
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"Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way around" I said strangers, not unattractive strangers. Next. Also, take a reading lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:39 PM
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Not approaching a woman puts you in the no box better than talking to someone in the first place. This kind of logic is so facetious it makes me laugh. There's nothing wrong with talking to women on the street. The hottest girl I've ever done anything with happened because I approached her on the street. Looks like she put me in the no box!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:37 PM
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It is a dangerous situation since he literally smashed your car and came between you and the car door. You're using an obviously dangerous situation to discount the many, many times women can be rude when there is no real danger present.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:36 PM
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"99% of men I have encountered on dating apps over the years initiate a ‘conversation’ with some variant of ‘hey’ or ‘wow’" I can guarantee that there's tons more women who start a conversation using "hey" than men. In fact, this has been the experience of many, many, men on any dating app. So it's ironic that you complain about low effort when in most conversations, men lead them and are expected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:34 PM
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The study I linked contradicts your viewpoint. I’ve met tons of women who said women are horrible to them moreso than men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:43 PM
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It’s interesting how no one in the thread addresses women being more mean to women than men. If women can be mean to other women without having to worry about safety reasons, women can be mean to men even if they’re not worried about their safety. I specifically included examples where there’s not an obvious mode of danger yet almost every reply here is “but men are dangerous”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:41 PM
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Again, I specifically included examples of situations where there’s no immediate threat. Secondly, I also included the example of women being more rude to other women than men which clearly shows women aren’t always rude just for safety reasons. Notice how no one in the thread addressed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:40 PM
1

What a sad way to live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:10 PM
-1

Yeah I’m sure women are mean to other women for safety reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:09 PM
1

Posted that right after having sex but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:09 PM
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Imagine if every guy you were polite to wanted to have gay sex with you. You would stop being polite REAL fast. I wouldn't care if most gay men wanted to have sex with me, as long as they didn't all aggressively approach me when I'm busy. And guess what? Most men aren't aggressively approaching women. Stop believing this false stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:37 PM
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As I said in the other thread, I have a younger sister. All I need is to look at her phone if that’s considered proof. I also said that yes most men probably aren’t that way. Anecdotes aren't proof. I have female relatives too. Let me know when you have proof. Otherwise, nothing you say can be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:29 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:27 PM
-7

Most men are more empathetic to women than the other way around. It's as simple as that. Personally, I'm not more empathetic to women, since that would be sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:24 PM
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I gave clear examples of situations where it's not just the good old "male stranger approaches a woman in an alley way at night" type of situation. I linked proof that showed men are nicer to women than women are to other women. Do you think women are rude to women because of fear? You are purposefully ignoring those examples or simply didn't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:20 PM
-5

Men care more about female strangers than women do about male strangers. Also, in all honesty, yes, I do. In the sense I have no reason to be rude to them and if they haven't done anything wrong to me, why would I treat them any worse? You'd be a bigot if you do. Lastly, I treat people how they treat me, attractive or unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:18 PM
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You don't get it. If rude behavior is uncalled for, it doesn't matter why it makes sense. You could say it makes sense for a guy to have had more bad experiences with black people to now start being rude to black people as well. Yet I bet you don't try to figure out the underlying environmental roots of racists do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:15 PM
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That's why I used the dating app example. This is a case of women talking to guys they find physically attractive. So there should be less confusion there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:13 PM
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You provided zero evidence that most men that women interact with are brash/rude. Until then, your opinions are meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:12 PM
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if most of your experiences with men are unsolicited dick picks and low effort propositions for sex or nudes Any proof of this? Because most women seem to be spiteful of men when it comes to online conversations. Do you think that the majority of men women talk to online are being brash/rude/aggressive during conversation? It's obviously a false stereotype. Open an app, match with a bunch of men, and see how they talk. Most talk pleasantly. The bad apples are focused on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:05 PM
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You went from "If most of your experiences with men online is low effort propositions for sex, nudes, or unsolicited dick picks" to "Sure most men don’t talk like that" Maybe pick a side and then we can debate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:03 PM
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Your race comparison is actually bang on. "I know some men who gave me negative experiences. Therefore fuck all men" has the same logical structure as "I know some black men who gave me negative experiences. Therefore fuck them all." It's a generalization through and through and should unequivocally be called out and shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:01 PM
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Almost every bad thing any human being does on earth has some biological/environmental root to it. Even psychopaths do things because of underlying causes. It doesn't mean those actions are justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:59 PM
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Rude behavior that is uncalled for should be called out every single time with no exception regardless of what the ultimate cause for it is. Almost every single bad thing any human being does has an ultimate cause for it. It doesn't mean it's justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:58 PM
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Most men don't talk like that. It's just a false stereotype. Just try it yourself. Open up the worst dating app you think there is and look at the messages you get from guys. I've seen conversations from men on other girls' phones. Most of them are not as rude/brash as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:54 PM
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The study I linked shows that women's sexual desire is quite literally affected more by disgust than fear. The fear excuse is an overused one. Of course, women have every right to be more fearful of men than the other way around. Men are stronger. But in many, many situations where there is no clear danger, women are still often rude, and that would be explained more easily once you realize it comes from disgust, not fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:52 PM
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The vast majority of men aren't going to murder, rape, or traffick you, especially in conversations online where even then, women are known to be more standoffish. The rude behavior that does occur from women doesn't always come from a situation where there is an obvious threat where you're in a situation that you can't escape from. In that case, it's understandable. But often times, even in situations where there is no clear danger, such as in an online conversation, or a conversation in public…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:48 PM
1

It doesn't justify their behavior and the post doesn't imply that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:15 PM
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Men are more honest, aware, and more understanding of their own preferences than women are. So it's just not the same. Secondly, attractive women are often more shallow than unattractive women. Lastly, attractive women are very easy at putting on a front of being more caring or intellectual than others when it is often far from the case (although not always). Your case is a bit special since you knew this person for 20 years, but chances are, you've done things with guys, had less of an ego with…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:14 PM
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Men are simply more shallow than women. However, I do think men take the overall W in that they're much more honest about their shallowness. When women are shallow, they make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:04 PM
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There are many men who get as many opportunities for women as the average women does with men, and it's been consistently shown that they are more shallow. Now are they rare? Yes. But they do exist. It's not my fault you can't understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:02 PM
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Again, the discussion is about what men would do given the same opportunities. And there are plenty of men, although not the majority, who do have many opportunities. It's a real situation, not just a hypothetical. A higher IQ person would actually understand that, unlike you it looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:55 PM
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The post wasn't about men being women. The post was about men staying men but having the same opportunities as women Your comment is actually irrelevant and comes from a lack of understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:51 PM
2

> the star football player Another case of women craving and then getting validated by fucking popular people. A tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:35 PM
1

You likely fell for the halo effect when it comes to attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:19 PM
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I just got my dick wet today
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:18 PM
0

The post doesn't imply any of what you said. Almost all attacks to this post have been strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:17 PM
2

Tbf there’s more white people here on Reddit than everywhere else and no offence, white women tend to be men haters more often than others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:33 AM
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You’re overestimating mens standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:02 AM
0

No pics no care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:00 AM
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Link it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:57 AM
1

Fair enough but most people aren’t advertising that they use Reddit a lot lol so you don’t know unless you regularly talk about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:42 AM
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A lot more men use reddit than women so that's just..patently false. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:38 AM
0

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656609002177
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:37 AM
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More representative than women, believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:29 AM
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Noone really cares about what you consider bullshit tbh. It's just true whether you like it or not, sorry to break it to you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:29 AM
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this girl really said wowee lmfao and yeah, i don't know about dating strategies. Men take the lead in most conversations for example. The best strategy for a woman dating wise is to look hot. Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:19 AM
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It's been shown that the more attractive a woman is, the more narcissistic she tends to be. It's been studied. Keep calling science high school mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:19 AM
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I don't trust men's opinions of attractiveness when it comes to women. They always overrate them. So unless I have pics and proof, I'm not gonna take your comment seriously. In my experience, even when I hooked up with an attractive narcissist, they were still..narcissists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:18 AM
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I agree but for the most part, it doesn't make a difference. The reason why older women are mature is because they now have the freedom to be. They get less attention and now have the time to actually reflect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:10 AM
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Not sure who you're agreeing with here tbh. The point is women didn't actually think he was gay and liked him before any of that wearing a dress stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:04 AM
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The thought process of a mature, sometimes unattractive, woman is unfortunately remarkably different than a young extroverted attractive woman's. It's nowhere close in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:00 AM
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It's been shown that the most attractive women in the world are more narcissistic. In other words, you fell for it and got played the same way women get played by narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:59 PM
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First of all, he's never came out as gay or bi or fluid, and a lot of people in the gay community have called him out for gay fishing. Secondly, he was very popular, was seen as attractive, and all of that, BEFORE any of this cross dressing shit, so your example is an extremely shitty one tbh. Let's now take another example that dismantles your theory so hard you might actually give up: Lil Nas X. How many women were drooling over him before he came out as gay? Literally zero. Seriously. In fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:53 PM
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Unsurprisingly, the women talking about how they don’t care about attention the most on this post are 30+. I’m sure it’s just a coincidence though. The real reason is because you got your attention, eventually got over it, then settled into married life and now don’t care about it as much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:20 PM
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Do you get attention from men? If so, you don’t know that. Try meeting a woman who doesn’t. It’s all she’s thinking about. When you have a lot of something, you’re just used to it. That’s why women don’t really know what it feels like to not have attention until they’re older or get ugly/fat efc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:09 PM
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Ah men's attention is worthless? Let me guess, most women are posting skimpy outfits on instagram or on profiles with a 90+% male audience for themselves, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:03 PM
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I've already addressed this elsewhere so too lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:02 PM
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There have been cases where women didn't like my personality that much but wanted to stay because of how good I was at sex, so nice try but no Anyways, like I said, most women love attention more than men. It's as simple as that. Not rocket science lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:01 PM
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I'm not sure where the idea that men don't crave attention and validation came from, or for that matter where the concept of wanting attention being a bad thing came from Noone said any of those things. Anyways, it's a gendered issue in that women crave attention much, much more than men. Not always though, I like attention, but only if it's coming from hot women, and only if I fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:53 PM
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Because they don't NEED to go out of their way to get validation. Men just come to them LMFAO. If they didn't, then that would be a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:51 PM
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If you read it just fine, you wouldn't mention orgasms since that's just a physical experience. Learn the difference between those words first and maybe then we can actually have a debate. I am genuinely astonished at you calling me dumb given your lack of ability to read. The point of the post was to say that women crave attention more than sex in that the former makes them much more happier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:50 PM
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That's where you're wrong. Most of the time women are posting shit is not just to make themselves available. Which is why they often post sexy pics even when they're in a relationship. It's called attention seeking lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:48 PM
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It's called getting attention in real life? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:45 PM
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maybe if he's harry styles sure lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:45 PM
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You don't know what psychologically means do you? Noone said it physically feels better, I swear people don't read here. And I make them orgasm almost every single time, that's where the ego comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:44 PM
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I'm not sure about the first part of your paragraph, but that is atleast a solid argument, much better than the responses I've gotten here so far. I should research that a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:30 PM
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idc about proving things to other men, but i do like proving things to other men who think they're the shit and to remind them of their place (usually guys who get pussy because of money or are lowkey paying for it etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:27 PM
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If most women didn't crave attention, they wouldn't use dating apps (most don't take the apps seriously so the only benefit left is attention), use social media to post half naked pics, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:04 PM
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it's not reaching bro, women crave attention. It's obvious, It's like knowing that breathing exists. You're just taking it literally to think that wanting attention must mean not wanting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:00 PM
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some women do use casual sex for validation, but almost all women crave male validation and attention
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:55 PM
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uh no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:53 PM
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Because paying someone = losing money = doesn't feel good. It's not rocket science bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:46 PM
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Casual sex feels good with a (hot) woman because she looks good and the physical feeling also feels good. There's literally nothing more to it lmfao. You can keep pretending like men and women are the same but it won't get you anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:45 PM
1

okay just did, you're paying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:45 PM
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And sex workers isn't the same cause you gotta pay so fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:44 PM
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Oh my god i already addressed that, not addressing that again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:44 PM
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Because everyone wants both, noone said women don't want sex???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:41 PM
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No, it just feels good. Just because something feels good, it doesn't mean it's validating lmfao. When I eat chocolate, it's not validating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:40 PM
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So you're 37 and haven't used social media for 8 months and you expect to be representative of the common woman? Lmfao. Maybe if you were 24 I'd give your experiences a pass, but you're past the stage where attention doesn't mean much. You probably craved it, got it, and now don't care about it. It's as simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:40 PM
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No, it comes from knowing you're fucking a girl you're attracted to. There's literally not much more to it lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:36 PM
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because you can get attention from men in real life, at parties, events, from your boyfriend, social media, etc etc. Women use social media more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:35 PM
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> I haven't used social media in over 8 months There you go. You're an outlier. How old are you btw? You likely got the attention you wanted when you're younger or you're literally just an outlier. Women are social beings and are constantly using social media, much moreso than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:34 PM
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what you on about? the natural order is women pursuing men? LMFAO. yeah maybe if they're trying to get free goods from a man. Most women don't give a fuck about pursuing unless it's some celeb crush maybe? I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:27 PM
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Because tinder is only one way to get attention, and it's best suited for women who have been experiencing a lack of it. When you get enough, you don't need tinder. Either way, the craving for attention is always there. You'd fall into a depressive coma if male attention was zapped away from you for even a month
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:26 PM
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No it feels good because it physically and mentally feels good lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:21 PM
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Most women can go longer without sex than without attention. Also, I didn't mean it "physically" feels better, i said psychologically. Learn the difference lmfao. and many women say the things you say they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:21 PM
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It feels good mentally and physically to fuck a hot woman, but that’s not the same as seeking attention. Since a woman being interested in you is also attention but that’s not enough for most men. It is enough for most women though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:15 PM
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No, we want casual sex because it feels good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:11 PM
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ok homophobe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:16 AM
-2

i mean it's basically just sex drive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:58 AM
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Ah the classic “you must be gay” trick. Good job homophobe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:51 AM
-1

Sex drive difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:44 AM
0

I find the vast majority of women unattractive without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:34 AM
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Not the only reason, also mentioned makeup A) You're one person B) Most women wear makeup and thus the difference between men and women can be stark C) Possible low sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:24 AM
-3

"Dropped" relative to what lol. Have you lived a life where a lot of men did ask you out and then suddenly stop? If not, then you can't say they "dropped"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:17 AM
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How do you know that? You can't test your current self against yourself but with less men finding you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:14 AM
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Without makeup, average women are equal to average men Doubt this. Women have worse skin on average by far
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:11 AM
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Maybe it's just me but I legitimately find 90-95+% of women unattractive without makeup. Their skin is just usually ghastly looking (depending on race though). Would I fuck some of them if they have a nice body? Sure. But this idea that men look worse is just wrong. What is correct though is that women take more care of themselves. I'm just talking about facial structures
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:10 AM
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This is simply and plainly not true. Some women just won't fuck too quickly, many others will. It depends, but yes, it does depend on the man too of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:06 AM
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They do. Also, most != all. Ask most married man for example whether they prefer their women wearing makeup or none
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:03 PM
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Most do, you’re just focusing on the ones that don’t. Again, stop generalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:49 PM
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No most women just don’t look attractive without makeup. Most straight men agree with this. But too many men have no better options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:40 PM
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It’s easier for me since I’m not white and suburban areas are more white hence you stand out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:39 PM
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Ah the classic “but others do it too”. Like I said, tons of men including myself do not approach women we don’t find attractive. On a more personal level, I don’t think I’ve ever approached a woman who wasn’t wearing makeup, and to be frank, most women without it do not look good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:36 PM
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Nice generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:32 PM
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It’s easier to get women in suburban areas because there’s less competition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:30 PM
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Doubt it unless you barely wore makeup. Most women would be approached less without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:27 PM
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It’s like they keep coming up with strawmen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:08 PM
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It’s all subjective. They likely weren’t ugly in the first place. If you lived in a world where men had the same sex drives as women, that same men would have likely been attractive even at the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:05 PM
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I’m not supporting him, defend, or care about him. I was responding to a comment. Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:27 PM
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Have you heard about the concept of a face?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:13 AM
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Where in the post title does it say power = casual sex for both men and women? You read what you want to see
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:42 AM
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I will and you won’t, which is why you “settled” as per your earlier comments. I do well already with women, just need to get to the top few %
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:41 AM
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I didn't say that. You're seeing what you want to see. The last statement in the post clearly refers to men, not to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:37 AM
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If Hasan Piker and Bryce Hall thought like you did, they wouldn't be in the position that they are in. There are two types of men in the world: ones who give up and others who don't. You're the former
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:34 AM
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I'm aguywiththoughts, not everything has to be a complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:18 AM
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Your comment makes zero sense. Also, I already get pussy. Secondly, you can try to become the top 5% and get the hottest women all at once. Lastly, happiness is largely mental in my opinion and thus anyone can be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:54 AM
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He has more power but outside of their social circle, that "power" would be irrelevant. There is no better social proof than being in that top few %
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:53 AM
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I would say for men yes but for women no simply because there's too many men who would casually fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:52 AM
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Those extremely ugly dudes likely knew the women for a long time. If they tried getting another hot girl just like that again, it would be 10x as hard. A guy in the top of the ladder can move on to a new hot girl at the snap of a finger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:38 AM
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This is a very good point too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:49 AM
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I do well with women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:52 PM
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P.S. I'm far from unwanted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:51 PM
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Complains about writing paragraphs yet is writing paragraphs repeating the same false thing You're funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:49 PM
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You're being very emotional and just repeating yourself. I did not agree with you lol. I said most women do not approach men in general, even when they find the men attractive. It's partially because men are hornier so women have more options and.women wear makeup. It doesn't actually mean women are "inherently" more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:42 PM
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there's nothing wrong with me ignoring anyone who says hi for some other intention either, but it is still often considered rude. You're assuming that the intention to have sex is fundamentally bad when you're literally born with it. Also, most men aren't thinking "Oh I wanna fuck her. going up to her right now". They're thinking "wow she's attractive. I wanna talk to her"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:37 PM
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Finding tons of men attractive doesn't mean you find the majority of men attractive lol. I find the majority of women unattractive. It doesn't mean I haven't found a good amount attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:35 PM
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No, you quite literally didn't understand or read what I said. I literally said that most women do NOT take initiative even when they find the man attractive, unless he's way way hotter than her (i.e. usually uglier women)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:34 PM
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No you're just assuming that men mean that because you want to believe it so. What men mean when they say they want women to take initiative is that they want women who are interested in men to take initiative. So obviously that doesn't include ugly men. Take the case of dating apps. Women obviously find their matches somewhat attractive. Women find tons of men on the street attractive. Women find tons of men in their workplace or social circle attractive. And in many of those cases, they DO wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:18 PM
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Almost every man who approaches a woman in any context at any place unless not single or not interested in the woman and simply wanted to start a convo is talking for the intention of wanting sex. And guess what? There’s NOTHING wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:08 PM
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Most attractive women are not approaching men sorry. If an attractive woman regularly is, she’s usually not that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:05 PM
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😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:00 PM
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You think creepy men are creepy? No way. I think stupid women are stupid btw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:58 PM
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Good thing most of the world doesn’t care about being in funlightmandarin’s social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:49 PM
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You’re acting like it was 50/50 lmao. Literally all the relevant measures that are relevant to how young you look, men fared better in. Also, if you have two eyes, you would know that men in general have better skin compared to women without makeup since skin thinness is the BIGGEST predictor behind how good your skin looks. Which is the same reason why white women start looking pretty dog shit earlier than Asian women for example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:47 PM
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Also where did risking having a baby with her come from lol? Do you not use condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:44 PM
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Like I said, good thing the world largely doesn’t care about funlightmandarin’s view
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:44 PM
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Good thing “funlightmandarin” doesn’t get to decide who a better person is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:31 PM
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Complimenting someone is not creepy or not being able to control it lol. And why should we control it? Is it illegal to compliment someone? If you don’t like it, or if we sense that someone’s uncomfortable, if you’re a good man you should leave, which is what all decent men do. But complimenting someone does NOT make you a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:28 PM
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You don’t make a conclusion saying that men have “better” skin in a scientific paper when the term better is subjective. With respect to the objective measures, men fared better. How you gonna read a 38 page article and not understand that lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:27 PM
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Then you shouldn’t have missed the obvious conclusion I just pointed out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:09 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting to “just fuck” women. Personally, I’ve never wanted to do that. I usually always wanna get to know the person too. But stop calling men creepy for being born with something. The men who like talking to you without wanting to fuck you arent “better” people. They just don’t wanna fuck you lol. Also, you don’t actually know how many of your single male friends deep down inside wanna fuck you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:08 PM
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You’re assuming that the men who get to know you first don’t just wanna fuck. Also, how many of the men you know in your life would want to get to know you if they didn’t atleast have a hope of fucking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:53 PM
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Say you were in an elevator or something and said hi to the person next to you. And they didn’t acknowledge you. Would you not find it rude? Also, why did you add the word “strange” to man? Is it strange to go up to someone and say hi? You see how you perpetuate stereotypes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:50 PM
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Most men are quite literally born to be horn dogs. The sooner you understand this and stop blaming them for something you can’t control the better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:46 PM
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No, it was just an example to state that just because you find something creepy doesn’t mean the feeling itself is rational. I could for example be specifically creeped out by balding men talking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:40 PM
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I agree it can be an unpleasant experience but many things can be unpleasant even if you technically did no wrong. You also can’t predict things. If I saw a woman on a bus, and I wanted to talk to her, I will try. If she’s not interested, I don’t talk. If she is, I’ll talk. I would rather take the risk than no risk. Life is short. I’m doing nothing illegal or immoral by talking to someone I’m attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:36 PM
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Complimenting someone doesn’t imply they only wanna fuck you. It’s the first thing you notice about someone. Secondly, knowing someone for a while doesn’t imply the man DOESN’T just wanna fuck you. A lot of men fake it which is why so many women get played.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:32 PM
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I agree man. Men need to seriously start standing up for themselves. Shit’s insane. And you can stand up for yourself without being a women hater
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:28 PM
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What you find weird is subjective. I guess if it’s something like “nice ass” or something dumb like that, yeah that’s creepy. But if it’s something like “you got nice eyes”, some women would still find that weird, others won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:22 PM
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There is no rule of thumb. The fact of the matter is unless you’re doing something aggressive or pushy, you have nothing to lose. Just don’t do anything illegal and don’t be a dickwad. I’ve met people who dated girls they met in all the places you mentioned, including work. Personally, I’m careful with workplaces though, because I don’t want to jeopardize anything. But otherwise I think as long as it’s in public and not coerced, it’s fine. We’re human, we’re men, and we’re designed to find women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:20 PM
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Proof or larp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:18 PM
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I simply doubt this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:15 PM
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I agree with this but I do think a lot of this stuff simply depends on how attractive you are and also how attractive she is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:14 PM
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I don’t like many people doing many things but I don’t consider them all creepy. If someone approached me and called me beautiful, I’d be flattered. If someone kept persistently doing it, I’d be creeped out sure, but again, the vast majority of men don’t do this. Technically, you can be creeped out by anything of course. Some people are creeped out by certain races of people. This doesn’t mean that those feelings are “rational”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:12 PM
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Men are designed to like the way you look if you look good. It’s called biology and they shouldn’t be shamed for it at all. As for the reaction that follows, of course that’s bad. But the question is what percentage of men will get aggressive in that response? You don’t know that, but I’m pretty sure it can’t be high otherwise no one be dating any man if the majority of them were aggressive creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:09 PM
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That’s great bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:06 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not but I’d appreciate it if you stopped insulting me. Also this wasn’t about me. Secondly, most people find me attractive and do well on apps. I’d give myself a 7.5/10 though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:05 PM
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That’s great for you. I’m a do everything kind of guy, but if I had to pick one, it would be to do something great and meaningful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:59 AM
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Why is it wrong to talk to a woman even if your intention is to try to get laid? That’s the reason most men talk to many women. It’s literally called biology and is uncontrollable. I don’t know why society has brainwashed us into thinking pursuing motives that we are born with in a legal manner is somehow considered creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:58 AM
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:s I’m talking about you saying the majority of cold approaches are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:55 AM
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The best way is to create and do something great to improve your life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:55 AM
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That’s not true. Plenty of decent men approach women simply saying hi and to start a convo. You just made that up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:54 AM
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I agree with all that but again, I seriously think how “common” that is is exaggerated. Men are more likely to do riskier things than women hence be more inappropriate. But the vast majority of men are not doing it, living their lives, and getting on with their day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:48 AM
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There's nothing weird/creepy about "hey miss" or a compliment. And again, as I already mentioned, noone is "entitled" to do anything, but that doesn't change the fact that some things are simply rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:27 AM
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Did you even read the article? "The studies show that the skin parameters of hydration, transepidermal water loss, sebum, microcirculation, pigmentation, and thickness are generally higher in men but skin pH is higher in women". All of those skin parameters (specifically hydration/sebum/thickness/microcirculation) except TWL are known to make you look younger. Also, I'm not even sure if water loss is higher in men since this study shows that men have signficantly less of that: https://pubmed.ncb…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:20 AM
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I agree with the last statement of it being rude approaching while you’re clearly trying to do something or are intensely focused on some activity, but overall, there is absolutely nothing wrong with saying hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:28 AM
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It is irrational to insult someone if they ignore you. Getting aggressive doesn’t change anything you’re right. And it happens because their ego is hurt. However, it is also rude to completely ignore someone if a stranger says hi. You can simply say “hey, sorry, kinda busy rn” or something along the effects of that. With that being said, you don’t “owe” someone that response. But we don’t owe people many things. We don’t “owe” a courteous response to anyone, but that doesn’t mean completely not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:18 AM
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I like that you put in a lot of natural effort, that’s great. I do the same. Although using makeup still makes a better difference than purely skincare. Most women in my experience use both to their advantage, but again, their bare skin is usually worse than men’s because of biological reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:42 AM
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You say their features aren’t changed as if contouring doesn’t exist. But let’s assume this to be the case. A 30 year old woman’s features haven’t really changed from when they’re 20 as well. Yet almost no one would prefer the 30 year old woman in terms of raw attractiveness. You’re severely underestimating the role of plump looking skin, especially for women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:25 AM
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This is just patently false. Women with even a bit of makeup look completely different from having a blank face. The strongest evidence for this is men preferring the “no makeup” look which is really just light makeup but rarely preferring a blank face I can almost guarantee you that if all women suddenly stopped wearing makeup tomorrow, the desperation for women would decrease. Would the male sex drive still be higher? Of course. But would they be as desperate? Likely not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:51 AM
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I’m just not sure if this is true. Most men I know find it flattering regardless of what kind of woman is interested in them since we receive less compliments. On the other hand, there’s countless stories every day of women having their day ruined because an unattractive man approached them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:44 AM
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get help
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:15 AM
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u/ppd_FrameEnforcer u/PPDMods So stating an opinion is now a rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:46 AM
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???? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:39 AM
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So you had sex with the guy above your league. Next. And I bet he almost certainly gave atleast a slight inkling of a sign of being crazy before. Every time I see posts like these, it literally astounds me that it’s been possible for people to have as little self awareness as you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:06 AM
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Bro it’s a joke lmfaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:22 AM
1

How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:45 AM
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Idk man in all honesty any girl who was at or below my league shit was easy. It doesn’t matter what I say. Girls above my league it’s harder. Starting to think this shit doesn’t even matter and you just gotta be famous or have high status or some shit. Unless you wanna play the long game of “getting to know” someone but fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:29 AM
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Pretty sure that’s a guy doofus if not that’s still weird he/she is cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:27 AM
-1

Yo this girl really wrote a paragraph lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:18 AM
0

Maybe you should learn to not take things seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:13 AM
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All I care about is having sex. I’m too horny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:10 AM
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Women aren’t the best at reading male intentions no offence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:06 AM
1

🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:05 AM
1

How would you know if he thinks he’s better than you is the question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:56 AM
1

You must be a neck beard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:54 AM
1

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:54 AM
1

How would you know if he thinks that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:54 AM
1

Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:49 AM
1

Ah cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:49 AM
0

The college student isn’t 5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:49 AM
1

Like I said you’re really judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:49 AM
1

Oh okay wanna date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:49 AM
1

Nice term man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:27 AM
1

Marrying someone is different. Also I’m guessing you’re older and when you were younger guys who were kinda rude sometimes playfully got you in their grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:26 AM
1

Yo why everyone so rude here 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:24 AM
1

You must be fun at parties man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:18 AM
1

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:18 AM
0

I mean still
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:18 AM
0

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:18 AM
-1

A lot of scammers come from struggling families too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:55 AM
1

I was just making a joke are you okay? If so I can link you a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:54 AM
-1

Damn do you need a therapist? I can get you some links if needed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:44 AM
1

I’m just kidding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:43 AM
0

Oh okay I like sprite btw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:31 AM
2

You’re a green flag
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:31 AM
-1

Whatever’s on my mind love and right now that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:29 AM
-2

Trad wife 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:29 AM
0

I think emotional tension is more important once you’re in a relationship to solidify things. At the beginning, I think sexual tension and establishing some sort of connection I think is important so they don’t see you as a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:02 AM
1

I usually do something in the middle of your examples lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:00 AM
-1

I mean those are examples of deeper insults imo. Anyways, like I said, it works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:58 AM
-2

I don’t think that’s negging. Whatever it is, it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:55 AM
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Hm I don’t necessarily mean negging. I mean roasting someone but in a way where it doesn’t sound extremely rude, just playfully rude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:44 AM
1

Humans aren’t chimps Next
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:23 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:50 AM
1

Made that name years ago bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:48 AM
4

Hustlers university subscribers. Good point though could be fake numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:47 AM
1

It’s a scam in the sense you don’t need to pay for a course to know what you gotta do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:06 AM
1

Nah I mean like no human being would use that term…unless they had followers on ig…so I’m gonna guess that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:05 AM
0

You paid for hustlers university didn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:04 AM
1

You’re sad ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:54 AM
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There’s literally 100k of them lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:47 AM
-1

Holy shit, that was incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:41 AM
-1

Most people are just dumb as fuck tbh and don’t realize it. No wonder they so easily worship. The difference is these red pill dudes easily shell out money on scams. They’re the biggest suckers of them all. Even blue pill dudes don’t do this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:38 AM
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It’s not even about living large. It’s literally not even about him. It’s about how people very easily worship anyone who they revere without questioning what they’re saying. People simply don’t question anything anymore. You can say something with enough bravado and people will believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:18 AM
3

upper class IG girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:33 PM
1

I did not say that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:32 PM
-2

That’s just not true. It works if you’re just trying to get laid with A chick, but not necessarily or always
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:18 AM
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Oh you’re a woman. I’m confused as to how he sent a message first?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:18 AM
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“Look through the studies of women being attracted to psychopathic traits” You: “link them then” Me: links them You: instead of admitting I was wrong, link something else. Those are direct quotes by the way. Learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:05 AM
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I literally linked an article right after saying women are attracted to psychopathic traits and you saying “link it then”. And once I link it, you switch goalposts. You want a link about how women are sexual selectors? Lmao. That’s how evolution works. Women SELECT men. All kinds of men that are seen as attractive are seen as attractive to who? Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:32 AM
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Even 3% of all women would be a lot of women. Do you know what those terms mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:28 AM
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That’s how evolution works. Women are the selectors. If psychopathy was a trait heavily selected against by women, they wouldn’t be considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:26 AM
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Elliott Rodgers was literally a socially awkward incel lmfao. Also stop misreading what I’m saying. I didn’t say women are into evil things. SOME women are into men doing evil things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:24 AM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-019-00213-0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:01 AM
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It was an example. If you don’t want to rely on personal anecdotes, look through the studies of women being attracted to psychopathic traits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:54 AM
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You’re ignoring that tons of women are literally unironically attracted to violence and evil as the source of it. You’re trying to sugarcoat this. I’ve met women who said their biggest turn on was a man having no empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:53 AM
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You’re assuming that confidence is the only reason they’re seen as attractive. If confidence was the only reason, serial killers wouldn’t be getting sent love letters from women who barely know the dude. Doing evil things is INSTINCTIVELY attractive to a lot of women. Stop sugarcoating it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:43 AM
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Didn’t know women had the same level of agency and choice as dogs bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:13 AM
1

To each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:21 AM
1

Also if you’re gonna have that much sex, it’s impossible to not do it without lowering your standards. What’s the point of that? Unless you’re some major celeb which you aren’t. Just never found that fulfilling, my own count is in like the 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:53 AM
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It’s harder to get the women you really want over OLD but perhaps I’m saying that in hindsight. I do very well on OLD but I wonder if I would do better in real life given the same hot girl might not see me amongst tons of other hot guys, you feel me? Like it’s easy to rack up numbers for me too but I have very very specific types and so I end up waiting for the right people all the time. Quality over quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:51 AM
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I’m sure it has nothing to do with his hair, super wide shoulders, beard, height, and good face bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:18 PM
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Yes but personally, I’ve never cared about the way someone says things. And when I did, I preferred the blunt way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:37 PM
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I honestly feel like it shouldn’t be. As a man, I’ve always appreciated actions and the truth of what you say more than how you say things. I value truth over demeanor But with women, I’ve learned how you say things is just as important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:34 PM
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Do only black and white people exist in your head and no one else?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:30 PM
1

If women’s tastes “might as well” came from a vacuum, a good portion of them would have tastes in men that haven’t already been covered in some respect by popular media. Yet this isn’t very commonly the case. The same can’t be said for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:03 PM
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Women rarely have a taste that isn’t already covered in the media. This isn’t the same case for men. There are men out there who are into the wildest possible types of women ever, types of women rarely seen in popular culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:02 PM
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Incorrect. I really don’t like human beings in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:00 PM
1

Fair enough. Porn does influence men for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:50 AM
1

Or maybe you’re just too trusting of men. Your flair does say post wall so I’m assuming you interact with much older men who might be more mature. But older men are also likely to play the long game, except that game can last years, so the consequences can take years to be felt by women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:49 AM
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How many womens’ types are men that aren’t popular in some respect? How many times have you heard a woman say “Gee I’m seriously into men who wear overalls” Gothic/skater boys for example are popular. There’s no such thing as “interests” that come out of a vacuum. They come from trends, and women’s interests are ESPECIALLY more likely to come from what’s fed to you than men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:46 AM
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A woman’s preference for goth dudes or skater dudes didn’t come out of an independent interest. It came from others having already liked those kinds of dudes and then you harping on to it. The idea of an independent preference is a lie and needs to stop. EVERY single preference you have is influenced by factors you didn’t control, often social if not biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:38 AM
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Unless I have the worst social circle ever, most men are just liars. If a man just wants to have sex with you, he will wait and do whatever it takes to do that. Men don’t work like women as you know. Women can take time to truly like a man but I don’t think time makes a big difference for a man. That is where woman are simply wrong in my eyes and the fundamental reason why they get played by the same types of men who “play the long game” just to find out they cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:35 AM
1

I’m overestimating how often what is experienced? Not talking about sex just to get played?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:18 AM
1

I understand why you do it. I’m just saying a man talking about sex doesn’t necessarily care more about it than one who doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:16 AM
1

The fact that their tastes are so different is further evidence they’re more socially influenced than biological which is essentially the argument of this post? Or do you think those “preferences of their own” are somehow generated from a vacuum? There’s no such thing as a “preference of your own”. Each preference is either biologically or socially influenced, and the best form of social influence is a trend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:11 AM
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You’re ignoring the point I’m making. How do you decide between a man only looking for casual sex and one who isn’t? If a man is looking to just get in your pants but has a great liking to you purely sexually he could simply be manipulating you by never talking about anything sexual and talking about dreams of a long lasting relationship with you. The truth is time spent before sex has NO bearing on a man’s true intentions. It’s the reason why a lot of women get “played” in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:58 AM
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BBL girls is a recent trend that was created digitally and not manufactured by media companies like they did with VS. Thus it’s more a reflection of what men are into than what the media forces down our throats Don’t get me wrong though. Personally, the fake look is too much nowadays and a lot of men do complain about it. Yet most will still take the fake looking “thicc” woman over the anorexic one every time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:49 AM
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Less dates as in a good amount of women often have filtering mechanisms to go on more dates with men to see if they actually care more about them than “just sex”. This is less common though atleast in my experience since a good amount of women will have sex as long they’re into you instead of having some “rule” and have vetted that you’re not a murderer or whatever. I suppose this depends country to country though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:46 AM
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Many, but not all, women (especially online) assume that if you talk about sex, you must only want to get laid. This is just simply not true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:38 AM
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The implication of the VS model thing is that trends play a very minor role if any in determining what men are attracted to vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:35 AM
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The implication of the VS model thing is that trends play a very minor role in determining what men are attracted to vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:34 AM
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The point has nothing to do with that. The point is that a person who’s honest about being sexually attracted to someone isn’t any less likely to “just want sex” than one who isn’t. Also, in all honesty, what you look for in a relationship depends on the person. At the beginning stages, there isn’t much to go by except a woman’s looks. A smart woman would recognize that any man indulging in lovey dovey comments too quickly is more likely to be lying than a man talking about sex. Yet women tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:33 AM
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Most men have always liked bigger butts and in regards to your breasts, I agree. Still, you’re confusing what is or what was in fashion for what men like. Most men don’t like the VS model body types
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:19 AM
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I’m 100% convinced men will still prefer big breasts and big asses, as they always have by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:57 AM
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Literally yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:54 AM
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It’s been shown in every study ever, and just from real life experience, that women are much, much more amenable to what the media says is attractive than what you “personally” claim to find attractive compared to men. You yourself are likely an example of someone who simply claims to not care about what the media portrays but then go ahead and use the term “conventionally attractive”. What you likely don’t realize is you are more likely to find someone “conventionally attractive” if they fit yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:51 AM
5

Your mother was born in the wrong time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:10 AM
0

According to what I’ve seen. I’m sorry I don’t have a scientific study for it but if you know anything about how women work, you’ll know that even the hottest guy on a dating app isn’t even liked by the MAJORITY of women. There was an experiment done on this as far as I remember. Women are by and large influenced by types. Fitting into that type is more advantageous than simply being more attractive. Being more attractive gets you more women initially interested overall. But being someone’s type…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:09 AM
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Actually it’s the opposite. You are automatically perceived as much more attractive if you fit a woman’s type. If men spent more time focusing on this instead of making sure their gonial angle is the correct value, they’d be doing much better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:54 AM
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Maybe to white people. My ancestors have been worshipping booty for centuries tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:53 AM
1

Confront her and tell her you’re gonna look for someone else. Tell him to fuck off as well. No other option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:34 AM
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How do you know that? Justin bieber and Harry styles can possibly be classed as these types yet you’d switch for their lives in a heartbeat. The truth of the matter is darker than you think: your personality ultimately just doesn’t matter that much as much as your looks and status
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:19 PM
0

If you understand that, explain my point. Summarize it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:18 AM
1

I read all of it. It doesn’t address it. You simply don’t understand what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:18 AM
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Their “humor” was judged independently by raters before the date. Not the women. Kapeesh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:14 AM
1

Oh god you didn’t address what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:13 AM
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No you didn’t read what I wrote lmfao. I’m saying women found men who were funny in a date MORE attractive than the beginning of the date REGARDLESS of how they looked. And they found them less attractive than the beginning of the date REGARDLESS of how they looked if they weren’t funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:05 AM
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??? The study showed that men who were attractive who weren’t funny in the date were seen as less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:00 AM
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The study literally tested whether people found others more or less attractive depending on how humorous they were. Their humor level was judged independently. Overall, the less humorous they were, the bigger the drop in attractiveness after the date and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:57 AM
0

Speed dating experiments. I mean what else can you go by? That’s the best we have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:08 AM
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Funny blog but the science speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:02 AM
3

Water boils at 100 degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:47 AM
2

It’s not that serious bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:18 AM
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You guys are both right. Humor is independently seen as attractive but better looking people are also seen as funnier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:03 AM
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Or you’re just not that funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:02 AM
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Cope. Never seen a man who most people find funny have a hard time getting laid unless really ugly/fat (even then, better options than having any other useful personality trait)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:45 AM
6

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:26 PM
1

I just stole it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:29 PM
1

It doesn’t matter at the end of the day, just enjoy your life tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:16 PM
1

Well no shit, we were talking about men who’ve displayed interest and you keep talking to them. I stated that literally three times lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:09 PM
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Oh god, you’re definitely one of them. Stop leading men on buttercup. I know it’s hard to live without the attention sometimes but just try
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:37 PM
1

If you don’t know the percentage how can you say the fear is rational. And you don’t have to know the true percentage to know that the vast majority of men will not assault you if you reject them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:16 PM
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If you know someone is interested in you, and you continue to talk to them while they repetitively show interest, you’re a shitty person. It’s the opposite of being polite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:12 PM
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What matters is what % of men assault which is minuscule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:02 PM
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Uh no, it is. If the man is clearly interested in a woman and the woman knows this, and she decides to lead him on for months without expressly saying she’s not interested and will not date him, it means they’re a terrible human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:00 PM
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Anger leads to not being able to respond after I dealt with your argument. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:58 PM
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You seem very angry. Again, look at your argument just now. “Men have harmed women”. Okay. “Black men have harmed women. Therefore it’s okay to be fearful of black men”. “Muslims have committed X form of attack more than others. Therefore it’s okay to be fearful of Muslims”. Your argument is literally irrational and suffers from the same logical flaw I talked about. I didn’t say that you can CONTROL your fear. I said that you should acknowledge that it’s not rational which you clearly haven’t. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:57 PM
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Emotions run faster than reason. You can blame nature for that. Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:54 PM
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women have bad experiences Again, that’s not an argument to show that even more than 1-2% of men can’t accept rejection. There’s billions of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:52 PM
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No, leading someone on is literally not a rejection. A polite rejection means you stop talking to them and letting them know you’re not interested without being rude. Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:49 PM
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Emotional response that doesn’t address anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:48 PM
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Yes, but how many people tackle the fear of being unnecessarily scared of men instead of acknowledging its irrationality? You would tell someone who’s scared of black men to seek therapy, wouldn’t you? And before you say some fears are inherent and others are learned, that’s true, but the end result and feeling is the same. All fears regardless of source can be reduced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:47 PM
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“Men still can’t accept it” Where’s your evidence of this? Again, just because a man is less likely to accept rejection than women, doesn’t mean the vast majority of men don’t. You’re making shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:45 PM
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Strawman. No one’s talking about polite rejection here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:44 PM
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If a fat woman came up to someone, and they called her fat and told her to get away from them, would the “I don’t actually owe being nice to you, I don’t know you” excuse fly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:39 PM
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It’s quite literally the same. First of all, there are many people who are fearful of black men. Most fears are uncontrollable but they can be tackled. Why can’t the fear of men be acknowledged and tackled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:38 PM
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You can be direct without being rude. “Sorry I’m not interested in talking to you, appreciate the compliment though”. Tons of women do this. But tons of women also don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:34 PM
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Except some fears are considered okay (spiders, men) and others aren’t (races for example). You’re missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:33 PM
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I didn’t say that fear is controllable. I’m asking if you would apply the same reasoning to fears of things that people can’t control. What if someone was scared of women? Or scared of black men? Or scared of any group based on characteristics they can’t control? Would you tell them to accept the fear or would you try to tackle that fear? If the latter, then people should also tackle the fear of being unnecessarily scared of men. You can go to therapy if you have to. The problem is no one acknow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:31 PM
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The problem is you can be scared of anything. If I was consistently and repetitively scared of a certain race, would you be fine with it? Or would you try to get me to get over that fear because you think it’s wrong? If a small percentage of any group do something bad, but you’re scared every time, who’s at fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:28 PM
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