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| 1 | How to Actually Meet Attractive Local Girls When Traveling (No, Not Those Tourist Trap Apps)Which countries you’re talking about? As far I can remember, hooking up with fellow tourists are way easier than locals. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 11:08 AM |
| 1 | As a man, what does “bringing value” vs “taking value” actually mean in cold approaches?So instead of ASKING questions, telling stories and doing DHV, like following the LDM system. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 11:06 PM |
| 2 | As a man, what does “bringing value” vs “taking value” actually mean in cold approaches?How would you prevent that (defense mech), better to go indirect next time? My coaches always told me that direct is always better, that you look more manly/confident and stand out from the crowd. I listened to him but most of the time I got rejections. From 'too busy' 'I have a boyfriend'. About bringing value. Yeah, you need to get her stopped and win her trust first. But I think that is very hard, because the fact that you stopped her, is already a sign that you want/need something. I would l… | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Lithium Orotate for approach anxiety?Very salty for your kidneys | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Hard truth: Most of you will never change.Most is genetic. If your parents are smart intellectuals who are socially skilled and extrovert, you are more likely to become that too. Same for people who have a lot of mental disease or anxiety disorders, or autism in their family. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceI think you're the minority because most guys will start become agitated or even aggressive. If you struggling with women, never had any succes before and only got rejected by 99% percent of women, in that case you have the scarcity mindset. But for you she is easy replaceable because you have options. In that situation I can imagine you would do nothing because you know that there are more women who are into you. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceSimply because the fact that he (the guy who came in my set) wants to steal the girl I wanted to seduce. If you already know each other, or even having a relationship, you have nothing to fear from some random weirdo but if you just met, and he has good game, you have risk that you lose her. I hate it because I'm not having the best game so once I have some bit of luck I feel confident but hate it when other guys try to sabotage me. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceDefine? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceSo you would stay passive and do nothing? Can be a good tactic if this guy has 0 game but in my case most other men do better and thats why I'm so concerned when other men join my sets. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceImagine this guy is only focused on talking to her and ignores you? At this point you can't force someone to leave without using force. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Fear and panic when another guy tries his chanceMostly guys won't open a set where he/she is meeting someone they already know. But if a women got approached by a daygamer, she replies with fun and positivity it broadcasts to other bystander men to approach too. I can imagine they are thinking, 'might be worth it that I can become a danger, No? so they will join the set and try to kick me out'. In that position it is hard for me to stand ground because I don't know how to get rid of those men. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 03:20 PM |
| 75 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneAlways go for bigger (min 1 million) cities. For game you need volume. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 11:26 AM |
| 6 | Oblivious cock-blockerAre you sure he was gay? Why he would cockblock then? | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I just make peace with it?It really depends WHERE in EU. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Check Eurostat. More than 1 million Ukrainians now in Germany. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid while travelling?Find a good hotel first in the party area city center. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid while travelling?How are you gonna smash in Hostels? | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 32 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Doesn't even matter because all cities are full with tourists. I;m from Netherlands and in Amsterdam I see more tourists than locals nowadays | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?You'll see more foreigners aka tourists than locals in those cities. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Never been there, but hotels are super expensive | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:55 PM |
| 15 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?All Ukrainians moved to western Europe now. Esp Germany | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Krakow and Budapest nr 1 | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | 2 guys hitting on 1 girl dilemmaWhat would you do then? | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 09:05 PM |
| 4 | 2 guys hitting on 1 girl dilemmaEasy. He was just sitting on the other side, came to us and told me something about the topic I was talking about, basic question asked where I was from before he started to talk with her. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | 2 guys hitting on 1 girl dilemmaIt happened quite often to me while i heard friends say that it never happened to them | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | The blind should not lead the blindIt’s like in the aviation sub where guys give advice who only had sim experience | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | When other dudes blow you awaySuch situations make me angry. How would you deal with that? | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 05:24 PM |
| -6 | When other dudes blow you awayWhat else would you offer? Because women looking for men with value to offer. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 11:53 PM |
| -5 | When other dudes blow you awayI see guys doing that all the time (sharing food or giving a ticket), and it looks that it works to gain trust. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 08:37 PM |
| 7 | When other dudes blow you awayI spend quite a long time in that hotel and I know that all the male guests are flirting with her all the time. So on the other hand I'm not surprised. But it is annoying when you want to do good, giving her a present leaving ending up giving me a bad mood. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 07:48 PM |
| -1 | When other dudes blow you awayIt is hurting my ego because she was appreciating his present more. But I'm more mad/angry at him that he wanted to show that he was better than me. This is the idea behind DHV and peacocking, to market yourself. In the past I had situations where I most did the same ending up that the other guy told me to f-off because I was a competitor towards him. So I learned from this to not to compete so directly but now I face again that when I try to make some move, there is directly another guy who wan… | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?No haha 30s | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?Yeah but if I would respond in the same way when I’m with my friends they would call me out for being rude. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Clothes, dress or style to gain more trust and comfort to women?It’s not about me it’s how other people perceive me based what I wear | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Clothes, dress or style to gain more trust and comfort to women?I used to dress more simple like a cheap polyester Hawaiian shirt in summer until I heard ppl told me I should wear cotton short or with gingham patterns. I followed their advice but I have the impression I perform even poorer. That’s why I want to ask some feedback here | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The fear of rejection and social embarrassment is killing all my opportunitiesIf your rejection ratio is high, like you got rejected all your 100 approaches you did that day. In that case there must be something more going on. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?So in the end its double standards. How can you be good at game if there is no room for practise? | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?They say it is 'disturbing' people. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?No, we are in our 30s | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:21 PM |
| 0 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?Yeah but in that case there would be very few other options left to potentially get laid. Dating apps mostly have a huge male ratio gap. Dating at work or gym is risky because it can go wrong and you'll be in trouble. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?First sorry for the typo but you understood my question. Thanks! I noticed hypocrisy among those kind of people. The guys who are telling me this shit approach women as well! It is naive to wait till a women (who might like me) takes the first step to approach me or only relay on dating apps. I still think that guys who have the most succes with women are those who are taking initative. Unless you're super attractive or have a lot of social status women won't approach the average dude. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?Most men have or got AA because they got rejected. Most cold approaches and up with rejections. What you see on youtube are mostly coaches with above average social skills or looks. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts about pulling girls to the toilet?Lol, sounds questionable | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 12:28 PM |
| 68 | The Exact Process to Master Flirting (in 5 Steps)Hello ChatGPT | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their Attractiveness'Go lifting and girls will come' I think people put too much weight in this, since in winters most people wear jackets. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Mystery method was wrongIn other words you did the DIRECT approach. Usually this only works better when you are good looking and know how to seduce. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.Is it just a stereotype that women are not allowed to date? I mean, in the Netherlands, we only hear about honour killings and death threads to Geert Wilders when it comes to Pakistan. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.Look, a approach still means nothing. I mean, you can approach 100 girls but if you get rejected 100 times I can imagine it affects you mentally. Approach is just the first step. I would say a minor part of the seduction process. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about 'Girl's Chase' website?Keep in mind that it isn't written by academics, so what works for them might not work for you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Today's approach reportDid you went direct or indirect? | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 02:26 AM |
| 2 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?Why is it so much harder? | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl gave number.Look, most women are rude towards men because they fear that men see their kindness as a misconception that 'she wants more'. So mostly when a girl is overly kind to you, she wants more. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl gave number.Mostly women are only being friendly towards men she is attracted to. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Only getting rejection when going directI always avoid individual stores because of staff and security | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Only getting rejection when going directThe problem with social venues when girls go out they mostly do it with their friends, and it will be much harder as solo guy to approach. You need have at least a wing for that. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Only getting rejection when going directStreet and mall. Bars is way harder since they are with their friends, without a wing it would be impossible. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Only getting rejection when going directI hired a coach and while I told him my approaches in the past were mostly indirect due anxiety, he told me that the best method is to go direct because it is more masculine and there is higher chance to close. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Only getting rejection when going directIs this common? I mean, some guys have a very low fail rate while it is the opposite for other guys. That's why I always say that there is no golden rule or opener because it works different on every guy. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Only getting rejection when going directMost of the women I approached during daytime ignored me and kept walking straight. The few who stopped were okay but thanked me for the compliment and moved on. The very few girls I got a contact blocked me after the first "Hi". | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | High rejection ratio on daygamethree contacts out of ~ 30 approaches. I had about 10 good interactions with good conversation Not a bad ratio compared to mine. I thought that I had exceptionally high rejection ratio but apparently it is common to rejected that much? | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysThat is confusing me. Why going indirect for nightgame? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 01:04 AM |
| 1 | High approach anxiety Chinese guy gets a date with a beautiful blondeJust getting over approach anxiety doesn’t solve the higher rejection rate | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 11:39 AM |
| 0 | An annoying thing other guys do in clubs/bars with regards to competitionCan you give an example OP? | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Joker movie - ValueDon't you think that is typical American? In Asia I see plenty of couples with a more 'boring' dude. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 06:44 PM |
| -7 | It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantifiedWhat is your definition of being creepy? For some women it is just your existance. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Pulling with 0 practiceI don't agree because if you start now and gonna approach without any sticking points it will be a recipe for disaster. Like sending a soldier to war without proper training. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 05:24 PM |
| 5 | It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantifiedMake her feel safe? Okay, what about the women who already judge you being a threat without any word spoken? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is not a big dealNo one wants to get rejected in front of others. For a man it lowers your value once others see you fail. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook.I don't think cold approach on IG works because most women already get tons of messages from dudes around the world | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 03:09 AM |
| 7 | I approached a beautiful woman at the bar, here’s how it went.She already gave IOIs before the convo started | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 03:07 AM |
| 0 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”No, I’m serious because apparently I have a insecure vibe causing that some people treating me like a doormat | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 02:18 PM |
| 3 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”Yeah, I don’t want to be a keyboard warrior and sitting at home only complaining “that girls don’t want me”. I take action. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”Russians generally speaking are quite okay but Georgians are kinda grumpy. I spend in Tbilisi for a while. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”I know, saw many many guys being so invasive (high energy). In this specific case I was just standing and chilling around. I didn’t even approach. It was just a coincidence because they are sitting together and I wanted to buy a drink for myself. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:58 PM |
| 3 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”I think that they are both Georgian but they are even more territorial | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”I’m in Prague now. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 09:20 AM |
| 16 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”I don’t understand why you’re going out to a nightclub and that ppl are getting angry that you’re talking to his siter | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:38 AM |
| 0 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”I don’t know if night game is the right option as a beginner. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:37 AM |
| -14 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”I know but that is my first time so I’m stil inexperienced | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:31 AM |
| 0 | When a guy tell you to “fuck off”For me this is the first time going out | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 01:30 AM |
| 8 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?I agree with you. Getting a girl, since most ladies are already being chasen by couple of guys it is mostly first powerplay between males before you can even make a move to seduce her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:22 PM |
| 20 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?But what if she is okay with it (since he knew from her that we're getting dinner)? He would not care about me, he doesn't need my approval. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:38 PM |
| 4 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?I agree with you. Most girls just want to be friendly and tolerate if he is inviting himself. But can you imagine that flirting will be much harder if there is a third wheel sitting with you try to compete for her attention. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:37 PM |
| -1 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?Look, if you already know the girl it is way easier to ditch the 'intruder', but won't work if you just met her couple of hours earlier. In the end she is deciding, he isn't interested in me, as long she is okay with it, he keeps following us. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:35 PM |
| -39 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?That only works when you and the girl knows each other earlier but doesn't work when you all just met. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:31 PM |
| 7 | 'Daygame only works in capital tourist places'In capital tourist cities, women come from far and travel solo. I can imagine that they are way more open to meet new people versus being in a college town, already having their own group of friends. The definition of a creep is quite subjective but I noticed that with tourists you have way more room for beginner approached. (imo the definition of a creep is a beginner who is still being nervous and learning how to speak with women. Not those who are predators) | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl?I can imagine it is frustrating when other guys try to sabotage you. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach 3xBe careful at the gym. There are guys who might report you to the management for creepy behavior | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 02:04 PM |
| 6 | My first cold approach was interrupting her being cold approached lolImagine being the creepy guy | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I followed a course 'cold approach', it all looks very promising on social media but hewn I tried it, of my 20 approached I got 0 numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Direct vs indirect daygame?Weird to go indirect during street game? I mean, direct might me too overwhelming for most women or only works when you are attractive. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Direct vs indirect daygame?The major difference is that with indirect, you won't show intent. That's the big difference. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 5 years ago, it was easier IMOAll the women I approached during this week (in total only 5 or 6) all refused to share contacts or even IG. Any clue what the hell is going on? | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Current state of the seduction industry?Since there was a major crackdown from Big Tech I feel that the community is nothing compared with 10y ago | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 11:21 AM |
| 8 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?I don't know if you can call this a shit test but I know a guy, when he tries to hook up with a girl, he also decides to talk to other women in front of her. I always found this a bit strange but there might be a reason behind this? | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I have aspergers, am I screwed for life when it comes to day game?There are so much differences with people suffering from ASD but I'm sure that Elon Musk is the 0.1% exception. Most ASD men cannot flirt with women, simply missing the skills. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | I have aspergers, am I screwed for life when it comes to day game?The only reason why they stare is that they are jealous and try to find a way to steal the girl away from you. I mean, they wait till you make a error so they can join in. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Ranting, I hate myselfYou are holding yourself back. But you also have to understand that most of those guys talk BS and make themselves bigger to brag towards their friends. Same like a girl will never say that she was having sex yesterday night with some random dude. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent STDs & Stay Safe?You still can catch HSV bro | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask this tall woman out? She is like 6’3 or more and I am 5’5Where is she from? Never saw women of this height in US. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Toxic wingman?I won’t call it active cockblocking. He is simply more cool and handsome. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Toxic wingman?I have mild autism so I don’t always know when a friend is disrespecting me to get better with women. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Toxic wingman?I called him out once but then jokes about it and the girls were laughing with him. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:34 AM |
| -4 | Toxic wingman?The relation is quite weird. He is benefitting from me by having a friend to game with, so he can show to women that he is not alone and is better than me. I benefit from him because he is able to attract groups of hot women what would be much harder if I would game solo. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:29 AM |
| -11 | Toxic wingman?But if he is good with women you lose when you take distance | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:18 AM |
| -7 | Toxic wingman?Yeah but playing for devils advocate I could also imagine that for this guy it was a dilemma to see that all women felt attracted to you while he was just a bystander. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Always losing from other menYes. This is where I struggle and what me makes feel insecure. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | My game is literally nonexistent, how would you start from zero?Start with daygame or night game? | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 10:56 PM |
| 3 | First night out in JapanDid you speak in Japanese or English? | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 12:20 PM |
| 6 | It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalitiesBecause tech companies like Reddit en YouTube suppress men who want to teach manlyness. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | MY solo night game guideAs solo dude talking to a mixed group might trigger jealousy from the guys who see you as a potential intruder. Isolate a girl only works when you gain their trust and respect, especially from the men who are mostly the cockblockers. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | “Excuse me, we are in a conversation right now. Can you leave us alone please?”But if they are just strangers you are on the same level. In the end it is powerplay between you and the other dude. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 12:02 PM |
| -23 | “Excuse me, we are in a conversation right now. Can you leave us alone please?”Other guy who tries to AMOG me | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 10:57 PM |
| 5 | “Excuse me, we are in a conversation right now. Can you leave us alone please?”No, I mean that other men are interrupting me. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?No. Why would it be creepy? Lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Women never show iois to meIod would be if she is avoiding eye contact with being super serious. | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | which book to "read" to get into conversation in train, planes or similar.I think he is right because it inflates their ego while a lot of men getting always rejected. | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone.Why? | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone.Why would you care? Others might be just envious. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 03:07 AM |
| 5 | When other guys (try) to steal the showI’ve gone out to bars religiously for 15 years and I’ve rarely seen situations like this happen to anyone Because you know how to deal with it, or people think twice before messing with you. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | When other guys (try) to steal the showBut if it happens, how would you deal with it making that he will respect you and back off? | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | When other guys (try) to steal the showDo you think women want such men? Guys who are that jealous and start fight when someone tries to talk to 'his' girl? IMO it is hypocrite but that means we are still an uncivilized society in that sense. I mean, I would never to this before but since I had to deal with these situations too much times I consider to do it too. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | When other guys (try) to steal the showWhat can happen if I would behave like those guys who did it to me? Would you start a fight? | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | When other guys (try) to steal the showWhat about:"excuse me, I'm having a conversation and you are disturbing us. Can you leave us alone please?!'. The risk is that she might interfere and start talking with him too. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | When other guys (try) to steal the showUnfortunately that's the reality. I'm half asian and yeah, when I discuss this with my friends they almost never had such experiences while I had multiple and I'm not approaching that much. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | When other guys (try) to steal the showNoticed how they don’t care about a amoging you whereas you care amoging them? You are right, only the strongest win. That would mean I should do the same what those guys did. That game is tricky because you never know how they wel react. I can imagine the boundary before a fight will starts becomes very thin and require a very calibrated approach. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessHow old are you? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:23 AM |
| 5 | "Why are you talking to my girlfriend?!"At some point I can understand him. If I knew that she had a boyfriend I would end immediately. Yes, he is jealous. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 10:08 AM |
| – | First date fundamentals (for beginners)?Too late? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with hostile competitors?I agree with you. Here many dudes carry a knife so I tend to be careful but ofc is lowers the chance to get her number. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Almost 30 and still virgin. Starting to get desperate, want to get laid asap.Sure, but only lost money and no replies back | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 02:45 AM |
| – | Almost 30 and still virgin. Starting to get desperate, want to get laid asap.Both. At bars for curbing my approach anxiety and at home against my sexual frustration. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 01:27 AM |
| – | Ever experienced violence or death threats when you do cold approach?What is btw the definition of 'harassment'? Note that I'm bit socially timid, still a virgin and did not have any experience with women. I'm not aggressive, want to make comfort and friends first... don't understand why some men become so aggressive. | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 06:27 PM |
| – | daygame in summer! field report from malls and green parks.Good report! One thing I wonder, how do you stay positive, having the guts to approach after you got rejected? | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:00 PM |
| – | Police: "you harass girls!", got a fine of €100 and criminal recordThat is why I have to divert abroad now. The problem is that if 1 girl complains to the bouncer, all bar in the street working together and I was barred from all bars in my hometown. Second is that I don't really like the nightlife here, since it is small you everytime see the same group of people. But all these shit caused much more approach anxiety for me. Of course I need to approach to improve and learn but if they reject you and call the police you dont have a second chance. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 02:56 PM |
| – | What is a creep?But the definition is so vague. It looks like almost every women use this why they reject someone. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 01:17 PM |
| – | Best PUA books for absolute beginners?Of course. If I had the chance to go out partying in my own area I would do it immediately. Some problems: - High prices for alcohol here. I'm dependent on government benefits. I want to save up for my travel abroad. - Poor logistics and I have no car, limited public transit. - Not allowed to get into bars in nearest city because the bouncer says that I'm ''too old'' or have ''need a student card''. I don't want to risk to travel and then face shitty discrimination from the bouncers in this co… | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 04:47 AM |
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