I'm not the most attractive or socially skilled man here (short skinny shy asian), mostly getting rejected by women but I do my best to improve. One thing what is making me feel anxious and frustrated is when I try to approach a women I like, there are always some men who are looking at you and try to observe what you're doing. I even had 1 incident where I was speaking with 2 girls and suddenly another stranger came in trying to label me as a creep while competing with me asking for her number. Such incidents make me feel insecure, that is making me feel nervous, dealing with the idea that there are so many hostile men around me who see me as a easy target.