Going out alone, weakness or strength?

itsfun2Bdumb · 2019-05-12T00:36:29+00:00

I find it’s tougher to approach when I’m with friends, I procrastinate from talking to girls and tell myself I’m having fun with my bros, and then get drunk with them and leave empty handed.

hydrolith · 2019-05-12T04:35:44+00:00

I think if you have friends who understand game then it's better to go out with them, unfortunately in my experience most don't, cockblock and make things harder, so I have to go out alone. I can still get things done alone, but it would be much better imo to have the support of people and friends who know what the fuck is going on. BTW, why is it so hard to find (friends who understand game)?

muff_marauder · 2019-05-12T00:52:27+00:00

I go out alone because my friends are idiots who cock block, shame me for not always going after the hottest girl in the room, or actively go after a girl I'm interested in as I'm talking to her because they know I have good taste.

So, weakness. It would be stronger to have a group of guy friends who are smart, fun, and work as a team to get each other laid.

Jugurthajones87 · 2019-05-12T01:54:42+00:00

I feel like a loser when I go out alone and assume all those other people who are there with friends and significant others feel the same way about me.

__TheDon__ · 2019-05-12T02:31:24+00:00

Strength

rickcollins2 · 2019-05-12T04:21:09+00:00

Strength for sure

SonofLelith · 2019-05-12T13:49:25+00:00

Strength, no doubt. Having fun, speaking to people and doing it alone speaks volumes of your character or it will build it....a lot.

sink_flower234 · 2019-05-12T14:14:36+00:00

In order of least effective to most effective:

Co-dependent
Independent
Interdependent

Co-dependent relationship is you and a wingman, or you and a friend, who need each other to get out of the house, who need each other for motivation or to get laid. This is unhealthy and ineffective. Neither of you will probably get laid and will probably drag each other down even if you have good intentions.

Independent relationship is you go out by yourself OR you go out with a wingman or friend/s but you seperate from them, and you don't need anyone to get laid or for motivation or for anything. You pickup on your own and get what you want.

Interdependent relationship is you go out with a friend/wingman not needing anything from them who also doesn't need you for anything, BUT you both work synergistically to get MORE results and MORE motivation and MORE sex than you could if you were by yourself. Most effective.

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Me personally, I am at the independent stage as I go out along and get occasional success and haven't found an excellent independent wingman to work with yet.

mrxdafresh · 2019-05-12T16:03:54+00:00

Strength, I go out alone all the time and the mindset I have is that if I go out alone and I'm enjoying myself then that means I could care less about what people think. When someone reaches that level of no fucks given, that's a dangerous person right there. I still do get anxious from time to time but I just hype myself up before I go out.

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-05-12T03:17:15+00:00

I found going out alone is very hit or miss and is entirely dependent on your mood. I go out alone all the time, I've had it go crazy well and I have had it go crazy bad.

Title	Going out alone, weakness or strength?
Author	sumimigaquatchi
Upvotes	20
Comments	17
Date	May 12, 2019 12:15 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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