Do some girls only like certain types or is it always AF/BB?

[deleted] · 2018-06-21T14:26:34+00:00

Answering to your question: they like certain types of men but they also classify those men as AF or BB. If she's a nerdy PhD student, her perceived AF is more likely to be a high-status lecturer/professor. If she's an actor, her AF would be a famous director/producer.

Moreover, you can at the same time be perceived as AF by a girl and as BB by another. Sure there are more or less universal criteria for being an AF or a BB, but every social circle has also its own standards.

acidbath6464 · 2018-06-21T13:47:04+00:00

Sounds like she wasnt feeling you.

But to answer the question in the title, woman will search out a BB from tine to time simply for security. Either to help raise there kid(s) or just to have somewhere there while they search for and alpha to fuck.

10211799107 · 2018-06-21T15:31:34+00:00

Try the "false time constraint" next time. If you're not feeling it, or she looks uptight, look at your phone and say you gotta go, you have somewhere to be. Don't hug her, don't kiss her goodbye. She'll expect it, so don't do it.

MattyAnon · 2018-06-21T20:14:01+00:00

Sometimes, are you just not her type or does it always depend on your behavior?

Type is a thing.... but also women have a whole load going on that you're not aware of. She might not be interested to start with, might have a boyfriend or someone else she's not telling you about. I doubt it's "lost my job today" or something like that because then you'd hear alllllllllllllllll about it.

And yes, they do have a type. It's not pure your SMV vs their SMV.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-06-21T20:30:33+00:00

Different strokes for different folks. There are generalities, not universalities.

Some women like Clooney or Sean Connery. Some like Lemmy.

Gene Simmons. He's been AF for a couple thousand women. But he's BB for Shannon Tweed

SirKolbath · 2018-06-21T14:23:49+00:00

From the post and follow up comment, I don't think she had a quick enough wit to follow you.

I did very well on Tinder when I bothered. I more or less stopped because women were interfering with my mission and I needed to get back on track. However, one date I didn't pull because the girl was fucking obtuse. Every joke I made, she just looked at me with her cowlike brown eyes while I chuckled to myself.

I finally said, "Okay. We're not clicking here and I have shit to do. Good night." She got slightly offended at that and started trying to qualify herself to me, but at that point I was bored. You find out when you teach classes or give lectures that if you have a decent audience you get energy feedback. This even happens in simple dialog with the right person. If it's not happening, you can get drained, particularly if you're an introvert (or a shell introvert, like I am).

I don't need much feedback, since I've mentioned before that most of the shit I say I let tumble out because I find it funny and I don't give a shit if anyone else does, but to have someone actively draining my energy isn't enjoyable and I won't really tolerate it.

There are such things as psychic vampires. I don't mean anything to do with magic or crystals or anything, but just people who suck the fun out of everything. If you find yourself on a date with one of them, excuse yourself and leave.

This can also happen if she's just not into you at all. Everyone has a type, and it's possible that you just weren't hers. Ask her if she likes 5'5" guys who are raging smart asses and fuck like a rabbit on a jackhammer on crack on a watered.

RaughKee · 2018-06-21T15:10:49+00:00

The AF/BB category is pretty broad, with the intention of helping us understand that subservient (beta) behaviours engage a woman's provider-seeking instinct while lowering her primal sexual instincts for that man. Women are people and they click with other people that interest them, you can be alpha and do well with a large cross-section of woman in general while still failing to attract many other women who are looking for different things. TRP helps you succeed with women statistically, not with a single woman.

Zanford · 2018-06-21T19:53:14+00:00

It's always AF/BB (or AF/AB if she can get it from a rich alpha) but what she perceives as alpha can be situational, and some girls place more emphasis on looks, or money, etc. than others.

Social status is the most important alpha trait, but that is very situational, it might be athletic ability in HS and college, but then the music scene in the place she moves to next etc.

But you're getting too philosophical in regard to a specific girl not letting you kiss her. As you yourself said, it was probably your rusty game an dlack of kino. Going for a kiss at the end of a date with no prior kino is usually not a great idea IMO, it's too forced and cheesy and such a classic beta trope (the doorstep kiss at the end of the date).

613WeTheGreatest · 2018-06-21T15:53:08+00:00

Lmao, sometimes you're not gonna be her type

Same way sometimes no matter how hot and even externally classy appearing a girl is, how good her background/roots are; if her personality is trash any man with standards wouldn't want to smash

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-06-21T16:14:22+00:00

Only a sith deals in absolutes.

However it’s 85-90% accurate. Just like most guys like fit girls but we all know a chubby chaser.

ectoplasmic1 · 2018-06-21T19:55:27+00:00

Sometimes you are just not her type. Same as for you.

HardPiano · 2018-06-21T19:48:26+00:00

AF/BB is bollocks. It's overly simplistic terminology which actually legitimizes losers to give up altogether because they believe they cant go from BB to AF.

The guy who cares and invests too much is going to lose because he's lost the power. Women can read this via the way you talk, or what your body language conveys.

The guy who doesn't give a fuck and invests more in himself and has a purpose is going to win because he has the power, and she is drawn to that. Women can read that this guy puts himself first and doesn't give a shit because his purpose and mission matters.

Every relationship is a power struggle. So, it all depends how far on the spectrum of giving a fuck you are, and this is governed by your ego, which in turn exists because of your underlying insecurities.

Want to manifest an attitude of not giving a fuck? Destroy your own ego. Face challenges. Embarrass yourself. Put yourself out there. Need no validation. You need to kill your own ego or it will kill you.

Women will try to drag you from one side of the spectrum to the other because they love the challenge and believe they can change you.

Once they change you, and you become a loser that's lost his purpose and mission, and you now give too much of a fuck, they get bored.

She probably thought you were trying too hard and closed up shop.

BluePillsAddict · 2018-06-21T19:50:08+00:00

You are just stuck in your pathetic emotions because you lack abundance. The answer is what she does DOESNT matter. There are always more women who would gladly get on their knees for you. That is, unless youre all mopey about not getting a kiss.

Title	Do some girls only like certain types or is it always AF/BB?
Author	redhotspicyjoe44
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Date	June 21, 2018 1:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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