Dealing with age differences

Big_Red_suppository · 2018-07-07T12:15:34+00:00

I'm 33 one girl I'm seeing is 20. No one is going to call you a creep for slinging dick, they are impressed by it. I compare it to the old thing where people still make a point about getting shit for interracial relationships as if they're in 1930s georgia. You know when I've gotten weird looks walking around with a black girl in public? It's not because I'm white and shes black. It's because she looked a little too hot to be hanging out with me. If you notice any hate besides jelly you need to recalibrate your radar.

wobbleelbbow · 2018-07-07T12:08:38+00:00

They're legal. Nobody gives a fuck. Those who do are jealous. End of story.

BusterVadge · 2018-07-07T14:13:35+00:00

I'm 44 and usually plate 24-30 year olds. My last LTR was 28.

My reputation is good. Most acquaintances think I'm 10 years younger and the people who I work with just see it as part of my lifestyle. I'm in sales and always around people in this age range anyway so it's seen as pretty normal.

My buddies think I've got some sort of secret information that I keep but the truth is that I simply stay fit, dress well, talk to everyone and got out of my miserable marriage while they are still stuck in theirs.

My advice is that If you stay away from negative people the age difference will literally never come up.

abudun79 · 2018-07-07T14:35:50+00:00

Tips and ideas?

Reading your post and answers to comments: Don't hook up with them.

Everything you fear can happen with someone your age, too. There's no magic trick to make those things, that you're afraid of, disappear.

The only trick is: DGAF. Doesn't work for YOU? Stop dreaming and date someone with an age appropriate for YOU.

WretchedGhost · 2018-07-07T12:52:52+00:00

I feel this will be seen as socially inappropriate.

One of my girls just came and kissed me before heading to work. She's recently 23, we've been together 5-6 years, and I'm a good bit older than you.

Know who loves the fuck out of me? Her family.

Nobody fucking cares if you're fucking chicks a good bit younger than you. They think you're the man for it. You're just acting like a pussy and coming up with boogeymen in your head to talk yourself out of what you want. Self-sabotage at its finest.

3d_truth · 2018-07-07T14:29:27+00:00

Your friends etc don't think you are a creep. You think you are a creep. If you didnt, you wouldn't be worried. I'm 29 dating a 20 y/o, but had girls.as.young as 17. Noone cares.

-Mavs · 2018-07-07T16:51:48+00:00

If you've done your homework (workout, dress/smell nice, and are genuinely attractive), you'll be seen as a playboy bachelor instead "creepy old man".

NexusReflexX · 2018-07-07T20:24:15+00:00

Dont look at it in age of society, look at it in a redpill instictual way.

Its a safe opinion to have that men hit their prime wgen they are 30-35 years old. Women are in their prime when they are 18-24 yrs old physically.

Doesnt it make sense to have men and women in their prime get together?

You think leaders of men back in the day when they are 30 35 didnt fuck the hot 20 yr old?

Age hardly matters, as long as theyre legal.

AnotherDisposableMan · 2018-07-07T13:35:39+00:00

CARDINAL RULE: You've gotta be buff/ripped; think BMI>24.5 and body fat%<15.

And the rest is on the sidebar, I presume.

Title	Dealing with age differences
Author	WretchedGhost
Upvotes	4
Comments	22
Date	July 7, 2018 12:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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