Where should a man be at in his life at 29 years of age?

linkster396 · 2018-07-07T15:28:59+00:00

He should be better than he was at 28.

FutureHokage10 · 2018-07-07T14:53:40+00:00

I don't think there is one fits all answer. Everybody has different life paths and different things come up. Just focus on bettering yourself and becoming a success by your standards

eccentricrealist · 2018-07-07T15:59:33+00:00

Preferably alive

TheRedPillMonkey · 2018-07-07T15:31:02+00:00

He should be on mission. Know what he wants out of life and has the discipline to actively go after it. Lots of men don't find and get on a mission in their early 20s. But by 29, you should be on it.

resnine · 2018-07-07T15:38:29+00:00

You're not always going to be where you want to be in life.

I played sports competitively up until I couldn't anymore due to injuries and was left with nothing after, no degree or experience, during a time in life when most people my age have already graduated and started working.

Sure, it bothered me a little but now I'm a little over halfway to my degree in a field where I should be making 6 figures a few years after graduating. We're all gunna make it, brah.

red_matrix · 2018-07-07T18:35:15+00:00

Some guys are billionaires. Some guys are in jail. Others are committing suicide. The only thing you can do is learn from your mistakes and get better a little bit more everyday. Death is coming, use your time wisely.

abudun79 · 2018-07-07T15:31:20+00:00

Since there's not a definitive answer to such a personal thing, I tell you where you should not be: Sitting in your mom's basement, fapping 1/2 of the day, playing console 1/4 of the day and eating junkfood watching netflix 1/4 of the day and in between asking internet strangers what to do with your life.

EDIT: And drop this "Title." bullshit. Show some respect for the people you ask to fix you life.

IncognitoMaster91 · 2018-07-07T15:29:59+00:00

Follow your path. Your life is a story being written by you and for you. Where you should be right now is where ever you dictate.

You are the writer.

Write a story you will be proud of.

light-----------dark · 2018-07-07T16:02:46+00:00

You should read The Defining Decade by Meg Jay.

She explains everything that should be experienced in one’s 20s to be prepared for the following decades.

[deleted] · 2018-07-07T20:25:13+00:00

Self-sufficient and taking responsibility for themselves and their future, whatever that may entail.

319Skew · 2018-07-07T20:48:42+00:00

Don't worry about where you should be but strive to be where you want to be.

I'm 32 and was set back by divorce rape. If I look at where I should be I'd be depressed but when I think about where I want to be, I see nothing but potential and can action steps to get there.

At 50 I'll still be doing this.

[deleted] · 2018-07-07T21:45:08+00:00

Better theb you were yesterday

LunarTears0 · 2018-07-07T23:26:11+00:00

Never too late to turn your life around. I just turned 30. I've been divorce raped and current situation means I'll make more money faster by going back to college (I live in an area that requires me to only pay back a small portion of the loan). I haven't aged a day since I turned 18 and plan on making this the best time of my life.

Go crazy bud. It's never too late to start, and it's never too late to start over. I've amassed and lost 2 fortunes so far in my life. One to myself and one to my crazy ex wife who red pilled me. I look forward to rebuilding and crushing my empire a few more times before I go.

We are MEN. We create AND destroy. Life is a game, treat it as such.

Merwebb · 2018-07-08T00:19:19+00:00

Wherever he wants to be, not where someone else tells him to be

enderbeannn · 2018-07-08T00:32:28+00:00

You should stop worrying about comparing yourself to others and only work on being better than you were last year or even yesterday.

hbPUA · 2018-07-09T20:15:54+00:00

A millionaire, deadlifting 3x his body weigth and having his own business and island to fly away your average temp reporter chick. who is just helping her friend do this assignment because reasons. Or that is the narrative the media and society tells us.

Life happens. We have different upbringings. Different opportunities. Some have great parents. Some have no parents. Some have drug abuse. Some have autism. Some have done stupid shit in thier teens. Some are 50 and just now unplugged.

If you are here reading this, be thankful for how far you’ve come from where you started. And now look ahead on your map where your going.

Title	Where should a man be at in his life at 29 years of age?
Author	resnine
Upvotes	14
Comments	44
Date	July 7, 2018 2:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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