Tales of a sexually liberated woman: hypergamy, affairs, broken marriages, divorce, suicide, and kid in the psych ward. This story's got it all!

2011-08-13T16:49:42+00:00

Frankly, I don't think even the worst excesses of 60's feminism are sufficient to explain such behavior as described in this story. Necessary, maybe, but not sufficient.

chocoboat · 2011-08-13T18:55:29+00:00

Well, to blame this all on the woman implies that men are unthinking beasts who will have sex with any woman who offers, and that the woman is at fault for tempting him. No doubt some Middle Eastern cultures would agree but that's not how reality works.

This is just a story about bad people and some of the things you can expect to run into when everyone involved lacks things like morals and commitment.

Sarstan · 2011-08-13T17:25:09+00:00

Reminds me of a post last night on Reddit.
Some young woman was mentioning she was having great sex with her boyfriend, but occasionally wanted a more passionate, non-aggressive sex. Many insisted she needed to break up with him since he wasn't making her happy, unable to fulfill his role in doing whatever he could for her.

It seems for most, it never occurred to them that she probably never once mentioned any of this to her boyfriend and continued to exhibit deep enjoyment from the deviant sex they were having.
A link to this topic for you guys to check out.

2011-08-13T21:00:34+00:00

I felt sick reading that. I feel for the poor wife who was so devastated by her husband's tawdry affair that she committed suicide. And for her two children.

This woman clearly has no shame and got what was coming to her. It just sucks that the adopted daughter got so horribly caught up in it.

omegaflux · 2011-08-13T20:51:32+00:00

You forgot big government loving, tax dollar wasting:

When I was 22, right out of college, I worked at the New York City Welfare Department, in a cavernous room filled with rows of wooden desks with linoleum tops. Michael, a charismatic poet, sat at the next desk....I hated the job and spent my days flirting with Michael.

girlwriteswhat · 2011-08-13T17:26:26+00:00

HOLY SHIT.

I've been the other woman three times. I made if very clear that I was not interested in them leaving their gfs/wives for me, and if they thought I was some bridge they could walk across to do it (cheat until they got caught, so she'd do the leaving), they could find some other NSA booty call.

One of them did leave his wife--but he'd been sleeping on the couch for a year before he started knocking on my window, and he left her after I'd moved out of province. Thank god. The guy was miserable.

Breaking up a relationship? That's not something I've ever been interested in. And to have done it and not feel guilty over the wife committing suicide??!! What kind of sociopath is this woman?

Fuck, be a slut if you want, but be an honorable and compassionate one, ffs. Running roughshod over other people's lives is a hideously selfish thing to do.

Splitshadow · 2011-08-13T19:29:19+00:00

Reminds me of Kate Chopin's The Awakening

poopmachinery · 2011-08-13T18:46:13+00:00

I notice hypergamy in the list, and I'm glad it's there. A lot of people are moving toward what they call "sex postivism," and would claim that hypergamy is nothing to be ashamed of.

Now I am not saying that we should go back to the 15th century, but it is important to remember that hypergamy is a tool of the matriarchy used to manipulate men. It could potentially have grave ramifications if the "price of sex" becomes too low, and men no longer have to work at intellectually cutting-edge jobs in order to be worthy of sex.

A_Nihilist · 2011-08-13T23:38:17+00:00

In college my boyfriend was married and an alcoholic. Why would I pick such a loser?

Hah, she's cheating with a married man and has the audacity to call him a loser.

Title	Tales of a sexually liberated woman: hypergamy, affairs, broken marriages, divorce, suicide, and kid in the psych ward. This story's got it all!
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Upvotes	14
Comments	19
Date	August 13, 2011 12:37 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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