You can increase your standards at any time. Try it with me.

ussr_ftw · 2021-09-04T04:26:44+00:00

Lol five comments, four hidden. Die mad scrotes! Thank you mods.

ArugulaIsAwesome · 2021-09-04T05:25:57+00:00

Them having a job they actually enjoy is so important to me.

I love what I do for a living and being around somebody who’s grumpy all day because they hate their job is no way to live.

Because I love what I do it can be very frustrating for a partner if they live in a world where they don’t have the strength to fight for a job that they enjoy.

It creates jealousy and resentment so the relationship crumbles anyway. 🤷🏻‍♀️

purasangria · 2021-09-04T01:04:40+00:00

Just because it's not a red flag doesn't mean it's a green flag. The bare minimum doesn't merit a green flag, it's just not a red flag.

fireforestfairy · 2021-09-04T12:43:43+00:00

The green flags are a bare minimum for me. I will not date any guy without these traits.

Practical_Appearance · 2021-09-04T09:22:10+00:00

Being employed, having good hygiene, being able to cook and clean, having a clean home, exercising and eating healthy, having friends, having hobbies are all bare minimum requirements, NOT green flags!

mothboon · 2021-09-04T13:04:24+00:00

Yes, those are a MUST. They also must be compassionate, empathetic and kind and open to looking into things and understanding... And listening. You know, a decent human being.

runesnroses · 2021-09-04T01:19:36+00:00

I guided my NVX from literal homelessness to a six figure income before he became physically abusive and drove me away claiming he was a “self-made man”. He loves his job, owns his own house, and you can bet he won’t say a word about how I supported him in attaining those goals to the next woman. ALWAYS BE VETTING.

CraftyOvaries · 2021-09-04T00:44:20+00:00

That's not green, that is baseline.

MariaSmithxx · 2021-09-04T00:35:14+00:00

None of those things however mean they are a good person and will be there for you when you need them

Title	You can increase your standards at any time. Try it with me.
Author	AfraidofFollowers2
Upvotes	225
Comments	11
Date	September 3, 2021 9:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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