I’ve noticed that a lot of women are way too comfortable with just walking up to any random man and touching him or putting themselves on top of him and try to have sex with him. Whether the man enjoys it or not doesn’t matter, she still isn’t asking consent and the fact that she doesn’t even think about asking for consent says a lot. These women don’t respect men or their consent - they don’t think men’s consent matters. They get away with not having to ask for consent while men are accused of sexual harassment for complimenting a woman. People say “women sleep with whoever they want, men sleep with whoever they can” as if men will always want to have sex with anyone that lets them and that women can just go up to any man and have sex with him, not considering the fact that men can choose whether or not they consent.

I also see a lot of women seducing men to try and get things, just assuming he’s ok with it. I really hate this. And I hate how people say “educate your sons” when there are women doing this not knowing how disgusting it is and getting away with it.

I feel like a lot of this is because sex is seen as a competition between men and a man who has more sex is seen as more manly whereas a man who doesn’t have much sex is less of a man (this could also be a reason why incels exist) . Women think they’re catching onto this and so they think any man they have sex with is lucky and they’re doing him a favour and he should be grateful. This causes them to just assume men want it. But that isn’t the case most of the time.

Us men need to start having more self respect and setting clear boundaries. Women know they can control men using their bodies and they’re making use of it. Realise that women and their bodies are not all that amazing and don’t need to be worshiped. We also need to start calling out women like this even if it’s just in movies.