So I've been seeing this girl for 3+ months and I think I made everything right, we had sex on the first date and I applied some red pill principles during our "relationship".
I've always kept frame, took all the decisions, built anticipation, never chase or write first, some dread here and there and kept her in her feminine for the whole time. We had crazy sex all the time.
Last week for example I asked her if she was free for the coming Saturday. She replied with "I don't know, I have to update my resume this week". Me: "Ok figure out your schedule and let me know" On Friday she says: "we should do something tomorrow". I reply with: "I asked you and you told me you were busy, I already made my plans for the weekend". She was upset and I write "We can meet the next week, let me know when you are free and we can arrange something". She calls me on Sunday night testing me, I stand my ground and asked her when she was free. Her schedule was completely free for the coming week.
She will be leaving to abroad to study in 2 months (for 1+ years), that's why she never talked about relationship but I've always told her that I don't like her meeting other men for dates and such, quite obvious I think. I didn't do it myself because this is what I am and what I want.
She went for dinner once with a male friend, she assured me it was not a date, that she was happy with me and didn't have any intention to date anyone else. This is when I stated what I want, not before. We both agreed.
Tuesday night she came over to my place, we had dinner, good sex and watched a movie. She was all over me during the movie and looked happy and comfortable. She told me she was going to have dinner with her boss on the next day because she's quitting her job this week. Her boss basically invited her with the intentions to drink and get drunk (she said). I said, ok have fun. She told me before that her boss is attractive, she works in a bank.
Yesterday she writes me asking for suggestions about a nice restaurant for the night, not crazy expensive but nice enough. She made the choice.
She calls me during the dinner, we talk a little bit, she asks me how I'm doing, I told her I was going out to meet some friends. I asked about her, she said: "I'm having a good time, He went to the bathroom now, we had a bottle of wine already and I'm a bit drunk. We just ordered another bottle of wine, I'm afraid I'll be a little crazy tonight." I reply "Oh you're having fun huh?", with a playful tone, she says yes and I tell her to have a good time and say goodbye.
She writes me around 10.30 pm saying she's home and that she's drunk, the message had spelling errors (never happened before, she was very drunk). I don't reply. She never got that drunk with me.
I'm pissed and I'm gonna dump her ass because I can't accept this. I don't trust her anymore. She will be leaving soon so it makes no difference to see her for 2 months more or not.
Any thoughts? Am I wrong?
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