It's confusing and annoying af because they're grown men >25 y.o. and they say shit like "hang out". Turns out "hanging out" ranges from shooting hoops and grabbing Chipotle to a steak and wine dinner at a candlelit restaurant... tf??? Both of these ended up being dates (i.e. guy expresses romantic/sexual interest, pays for everything). How tf am I supposed to gauge what you're about if you're vague as shit from the outset. Like, obviously I can tell it's a date if you tell me you made reservations at an intimate restaurant... but why would you still call that "hanging out". And you can't just lure me into a date by asking to "hang out" and we end up doing bro shit except you pay for everything and come onto me at the end. Tf?

I'm just ranting.