Yes, you have no tinder matches and feel unloved. We get it.

Yes, you got almost raped 10 times and the male gaze is haunting you constantly making you feel unloved. Ok.

Has it been always a woe is me whine fest like is PPD for the past few years?

It's fine to whine, but how hard it is to keep distance so as to guard your own bias? Yes, some of the stuff is personally touching on you, obviously, but nobody really gives a fuck about your personal circumstances, widely applicable arguments should stand on their own merit.

Women are especially prone to regress to personal experience while arguing. Guys are sometimes trying to generalize their woe is me a lil bit more, but the bias is often still palpable as the generality tends to be just thin layer on a fairly readable personal woe underneath it.

Personal stuff means jack shit, it's not an argument as there's no way to get a good bearing how you stand in a generality. Opposite direction too, really bad idea to apply generality to individuals (bigotry). It's fine to discuss merit of AWALT or whatever, but it's a stretch to label AWALT someone in particular unless they volunteer their woe is me that fits the stereotype.