"Future husband" red flag

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-07-13T13:00:24+00:00

Nope. This is never a red flag.

What could be a red flag, however, is if she says some shit like she wants to marry you if she isn't married by the time she's 30. Ask me how I know.

notmyusualreddit · 2016-07-13T11:24:00+00:00

If you are already sleeping with her.. no problem.. good girl. I like it even though I would slowly explain to her over weeks/months why marriage is a bad idea and Im not doing it. I always use the example of "What if you parents finally oneday left you all their life savings and homes upon dying.. and you found out I was sleeping with your best friend.. and you had to give me half of if all a month after they died?" Thats not even legally true in most states, but they dont know that, yet they understand a LITTLE more.

If you ARENT sleeping with her.. stop wasting your time. Youre just some good friend she will not sleep with until shes 31.

arethoudeadyet · 2016-07-13T11:58:40+00:00

Every single girl thinks about marriage, then you would red flag all of them. It's not what they think, it's what you give them.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-07-13T13:03:44+00:00

Out of sight, out of mind. Who cares what drivel she talks about, it changes nothing.

TheRedStoic · 2016-07-13T15:02:20+00:00

Nah. That's pretty normal. She's daydreaming and trying to lock out her friends by staking claim.

No big deal bro. Just don't let it effect your game. If other more desirable girls are being scared away, then you can drop her entirely.

Everything above is said presuming that you are 1, fucking her regular, and 2, want to keep doing so atm.

ItalianoVero · 2016-07-13T12:28:56+00:00

Tell her to get back in the kitchen then.

ecosci · 2016-07-13T14:57:11+00:00

BETA BUX, YOU ARE HARMLESS IN HER EYES NO OTHER GIRL WANTS YOU AND THATS WHY YOU ARE GOING TO BE AVAILIBLE FOR THE FUTURE prove her wrong go get more options and hobbies live for you be selfish and see what she says then i would soft next she doesnt respect you her friends knew exactly what she meant, it was to humiliate you man.

GreeneRed · 2016-07-13T12:55:21+00:00

Depends-could mean she sees you as her dream man.... or it could mean she sees you as her fallback beta bucks.

lionofthejungle · 2016-07-13T19:02:07+00:00

19 year old talking about who she's going to married. Probably not old enough to drink on some jurisdictions.

Not a red flag, but she obviously has no idea what she really wants in life just yet. Don't take it seriously.

Title	"Future husband" red flag
Author	Clapboom
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	July 13, 2016 11:20 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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