Why do feminists call everyone “incel” and “pick me”?

BanMe5 · 2021-11-18T23:24:13+00:00

“Incel” is now a generic slur that just means “guy who did a thing I don’t like”

SpanishM · 2021-11-18T21:26:27+00:00

"Incel" is the new "gay". Tell them that.

With “pick me" they mean "I'm desperate for men". It's how they try to insult other women. Childish as hell, but that's what they are, angry little girls.

mcove97 · 2021-11-18T23:19:47+00:00

They're immature and get ego boosts from insulting people they disagree with. They also often don't have any better arguments to make. If you ask them to explain themselves, they'll probably throw in a clown emoji to try to feel superior. It's all about feeling superior.

What's interesting is that they're throwing out these insults to earn validation from other feminists to validate their own beliefs, which ironically is peak feminist pick-me behavior. They're projecting so hard it's not even funny.

The feminist subs are literally riddled with feminists seeking validation and approval from other fellow feminists. If you don't seek validation and approval from other feminists, but have your own beliefs and opinions, oh boy, you get kicked out of the feminist subs pretty fucking fast. I know I did cause I'm no pick-me lmao. I didn't need them to approve of or validate my beliefs or opinions so they banned me. I think all the downvotes I got showed that IDGAF about being liked or approved of, but these feminists didn't have the intelligence to realize that.

So to conclude, you actually have to be a pick-me-validation-seeking person to be in feminist subs, which is pretty damn ridiculous considering feminists are the ones who love to throw around the term, when truth is the majority of them seek validation from other feminists.

PurpleGothicAngel · 2021-11-19T00:24:30+00:00

Because they have no argument, they know they're wrong, but don't want to admit it, so they resort to playground taunts. They're providing many people's points that they are spoiled brats. The incel to them is an ugly guy who can't get laid, and hates women. Pick-me is what they call women who stand up for men and they think they do it for male attention. I have been called a pick-me, but I have all the male attention I need and I'm trying to help men have a voice.

MCAlleycat · 2021-11-18T21:33:18+00:00

Have you ever heard of a type of fallacy called an Ad Hominem? There are subcategories as well like a Poisoning the Well Fallacy, and an Appeal to Motive Fallacy.

Even if you have, I still have a point to make.

The more and more that speakers speak of characterizations, insults, and labels, the more that common women start to employ that language in dealing with men in their life. The idea is the speakers want to create an environment where they can win without evidence. They have to win without evidence because there is no logical consistency in feminism itself.

It’s a bit like trying to convince a bunch of people to get into a boat with a hole right in the centre. Because people aren’t stupid, generally, it means that you have to use irrational tricks to get them to do something irrational if that’s their goal. So to trick people into the boat, they could call the other members “chicken” if they were very proud or something like that. You probably get what I mean.

So, while it doesn’t make any sense upfront, it’s the only way that can yield a strategic outcome when what you are pushing isn’t adoptable through common sense and logic.

Iceman_Hottie · 2021-11-18T21:32:25+00:00

A way to disregard you, since they have no facts or logic to back up their claims. If you want to use a tactic on the same level call feminists pedophiles (de Beauvoir, Sartre, Foucault were instrumental to feminism and openly supported pedophilia),and you will also be more correct than they.

yellomachine · 2021-11-18T23:03:59+00:00

Go to my profile. Under Posts, check out 'Pick Me is as Vile as Incel.

manbro7 · 2021-11-19T01:01:35+00:00

They haven't developed manners or basic respect yet. They do everything they complain about: sexuality shaming like virgin/slut/incel shaming, victim blaming suicide or war victims with ideology bullshit, and they do the only actual whataboutism since men ask "what about men" when they're being deliberately discriminated against (misandry) but feminists always bring up a completely unrelated female issue.

We call em ideology droids, they can't think for themselves and are easy to offend. They collapse when faced with logic and lash out like crazy, and they are manipulative as fuck. Your biggest weapon is trusting yourself because they'll try to gaslight your reality when your logic was correct in the first place. They are sad and bitter all the time, enjoy your life and trust your judgement.

manicraccoon · 2021-11-19T03:42:35+00:00

Silencing dissenting opinions is easier than refuting them. Especially if yours' don't have a leg to stand on.

anon517 · 2021-11-19T00:22:54+00:00

Women are geared towards verbal bullying. Men are geared towards physical bullying.

Both are reprehensible.

Rolaid-Tommassi · 2021-11-18T22:42:01+00:00

I've often wondered whether a lot of feminism is based on hatred. When feminists spout rubbish as you've described, it clearly marks them as hateful people. The best strategy is, as our parents told us, ignore them. All the best to you.

maxlvb · 2021-11-19T02:42:30+00:00

Inside most feminists is a misandrist totalitarian screaming to get out. They don't like having another point of view in the room and they try to squash it by character assassination and name calling.

The biggest example of sexism in the world today is the ridiculous assertion that only one sex has ever been the victim of it.

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-11-19T01:41:32+00:00

Because they're really original and think for themselves, obviously. That's what strong independent women do.

KnickkNaxx · 2021-11-19T02:25:30+00:00

Because they have no arguments

stephenkodampuly666 · 2021-11-19T02:34:53+00:00

Why are you arguing with them?

There is no point in that, it's just a waste of time and energy.

They will use these words when they have nothing else to say based on evidence and logic.

Reply for these are very simple & short.

Right_Pepe · 2021-11-19T04:46:34+00:00

This feels like a prefect parody for us to mock om FDSpro

just_some_dude_blah · 2021-11-19T03:39:10+00:00

U cant rly argue or reason with them. The best u can do to hurt them is to call them ugly. It works. And lets face it they are angry bitter women because….well they are ugly. Its quite simple.

Futureman999 · 2021-11-19T06:04:37+00:00

"incel" = any male who disagrees with a woman or criticizes her behavior

"pick me" = any woman whose behavior is less horrible than an obese Tumblr feminist

StevieRaveOn63 · 2021-11-19T05:42:22+00:00

Oh, I'd love to go comment under this video myself, then if/when they tell me I have "internalized" misogyny, I can correct them and tell them that this 58 year old woman's misogyny is absolutely external due to/because of decades of experience with how utterly disgsting some women are.

Waylon Jennings has a song called "I've Always Been Crazy" and I love the whole song, but there's one line... "Been busted for things I did and I didn't do..."

Yeah.

I have spent way too much of my life paying for shit other "women" did to the men I've known and, oftentimes tried to love.

Between that and my mom being a total piece of emotionally and mentally abusive shit who, when I was in high school had sex with a few of my guy friends and an actual bf or three, I learned early not to trust women.

And, I've since had it proven to me time and again that, as a whole, they're mind-game playing, lying, manipulating socio- or psychopaths (whichever are the ones who feel nothing inside and only mimic 'normal' human behavior). I've watched them do it to men I love (my Dad, friends, exes, etc) and endured them doing it to me.

I used to trust eeeverybody until they gave me usually numerous reasons not to. These days, especially with women, I don't trust or want anything to do with them and they never prove me wrong on that count- meaning none have ever turned me around the way the ones I did used to trust did.

I know lots of women suck and I'm sick of paying for it.

But... it is what it is and at least I'm used to it by now. :)

AndyBrown65 · 2021-11-19T08:04:46+00:00

"You're an Incel"

Translation - My pussy is my only value, so getting it has to be your highest accomplishment because I am the centre of the world, and since you can't get the thing that is only really valuable to me, you don’t have value. "I will insult your sexual ability because the ability to perform sex is the only store of value I understand and/or possess"

functionalsociopathy · 2021-11-19T00:25:39+00:00

They have no logic behind their argument, it's just raw emotion, so when they try to argue they do it like grade schoolers and rely almost solely on name calling.

WorldController · 2021-11-19T01:46:32+00:00

Contemporary feminist culture not only routinely employs peurile, sexist aspersions like "incel" and "pick-me girl" against its critics in place of actual, good-faith rebuttals, but it's now degenerated to the point that it endorses literal murder.

Hopefully this eliminates any doubts among you that feminism is not genuinely progressive but instead thoroughly right-wing in its essence.

weebupurplecat · 2021-11-19T02:03:29+00:00

why did the wife murder her husband though?

PHUCK_THE_HIVE · 2021-11-19T02:20:19+00:00

that husband needs to be informed and she needs to be arrested if this is true.

dain978 · 2021-11-19T06:56:29+00:00

It's a way to invalidate anything you say against women.

Juilyn · 2021-11-19T07:09:13+00:00

cuz it doesnt require brain usage

JayTheFordMan · 2021-11-19T07:14:02+00:00

Its an Ad Hominem attack in order to both dismiss the person and avoid the argument they know they don't have

SageBus · 2021-11-19T07:45:40+00:00

Why do feminists call everyone “incel” and “pick me”?

To silence people when they say something they don't like. They also bodyshame (short dick, you can't please a woman further cementing the misconception that women regularly come from intercourse), and pick me is an euphemism for "you are a desperate slut".

Feminists forte isn't logic , and aren't interested in a dialogue, because they hold a very illogical twosided position where they want special treatment and have no interest in equality.

Pola_Lita · 2021-11-19T07:53:53+00:00

Not being able to view the video or read the comments, I don't see how anyone could answer your questions. Except about the definition of "pick me".

Unfair-Ad4652 · 2021-11-19T12:33:27+00:00

Easy to insult after losing an argument. Just like kids “my dad is better than yours” “my dad is a police” “uh… well… you are stupid!!!!”

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-11-19T15:27:30+00:00

"Incel" is a generic insult for men they don't like. There's an entire world of psychology behind this that this sub's rules prohibit me from getting into. But take note of who is most likely to call a man an incel.

As for "pickme", it's a slur the Freakishly Deranged Spinsters use against women who think that men shorter than 6'2" are still human. The FDS crowd holds these women in special contempt.

SunshineMoonLit · 2021-11-19T17:19:19+00:00

Same reason a bully calls other kids a dick head or some other name

JudeccasSupremacy · 2021-11-19T17:22:07+00:00

"Oooo look at her trying to get than man's attention. So desperate, unlike me who NEVER seeks the validation of men." Only bitter and ugly girls do this.

OwlBeBack88 · 2021-11-19T20:06:52+00:00

I'm guessing it's because calling someone names helps you distance yourself from them, and if you can distance yourself, it makes it easier to dehumanise that person and to view them as a bad person and therefore justify hating them.

Side question, what is "pickme" and what does it even mean?

OmnicBread · 2021-11-19T03:35:24+00:00

As a feminist, i dont. Honestly the amount of this dumb shit thats in our community is saddening, but i still find it weird that you guys are sorta saying we’re all like this. Women’s rights, INCLUDING TRANSWOMEN, are super important! So are mens rights and NB rights!!

Brae_Andrews · 2021-11-19T06:40:32+00:00

They know we are Incels because we do not want to have sex with a blob with legs and arms! Imma not call them land whales because that is insulting to whales in general besides whales are beautiful creatures and these um women are not! simple as that!

Dean_Clean · 2021-11-19T15:55:30+00:00

It's pretty much the lowest form of arguing to dusmiss a person with an ad hominem attack and insult them personally by saying they don't have sex.

A "pick me" are women that try too hard to get men to notice them. Also aversion feminists attack for not being empowered enough.

Feminists also use the term "scrote" to slander men, but it's a lame term they wish would catch on but hasn't.

Title	Why do feminists call everyone “incel” and “pick me”?
Author	Ok-Operator573
Upvotes	257
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Date	November 18, 2021 9:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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