A guy (27m) I’ve been speaking with for a couple months invited me to his house tomorrow. He’s very sweet, reserved and always makes me feel safe. I want to be a good guest and bring cake and a drink (he told me we’ll have wine etc). I don’t really drink, just sip once and leave it alone.

Already asked him if he has any allergies so that I know what cake to bring. For the drink, would it be too harsh to bring hard liquor? It’s a wine based aperitif. He asked me to bring an overnight bag but I don’t know about that yet.

Any suggestions for what to wear? If you have any etiquette tips let me know.