Girlfriend keeps going on this guy' boat

lanky32 · 2016-07-23T19:53:29+00:00

She is fucking him. Dump her.

Camelopardalis_ · 2016-07-23T19:53:49+00:00

She must be doing the deed, you know, because of the implication.

crescent2612 · 2016-07-23T20:00:12+00:00

She's all alone with this guy on his boat in the endless blue. That's romantic as fuck.

Your girlfriend is lying to you about there past, and she's fucking him while your alone waiting on her.

Get the fuck out of there dude. You are man, you have better things to do than hope she's treating you with respect.

Apexk9 · 2016-07-23T19:51:44+00:00

You dump her.

GayLubeOil · 2016-07-23T22:18:34+00:00

When you say this guy's boat, do you mean this guy's penis?

detachedbymarriage · 2016-07-23T23:43:36+00:00

Most of us have seen this a million times. Sayings I've heard women say:

"We are only friends. I'm allowed guy friends."

"His kids were home, nothing happened."

"It was his birthday so a few of us took him out."

"That post on fb was a joke."

Know what these all have in common? The girl was fucking the guy behind her b/f's back.

Whis_ · 2016-07-24T01:25:07+00:00

Are you aware of the sub you're asking this on? If you've read a single article in the sidebar you would know what to do here. We're not /r/relationships or /r/askmen or /r/askreddit - you can't come here without applying any of the RP principles and expect us to answer you seriously.

Go read the sidebar.

Glennus626 · 2016-07-23T23:45:45+00:00

hard next. lift weights.

M1s4n7hr0p3 · 2016-07-24T00:27:22+00:00

Dump her. It doesn't matter if anything has happened or not (it has). She's making you look like a fool by behaving this way and you look like a pussy for allowing it. Don't discuss it with her, dump the bitch cold.

raisins3142 · 2016-07-23T20:07:29+00:00

A little background is needed. Is she going on this boat with him alone or with friends that you know and that you know are there? If she is going alone it is a done deal, she is cheating or looking to. Why are you never invited? That is the other thing there to ponder.

At your age, I wouldn't bother being serious with a girl to the point where your heart will be broken up by it. All good looking girls cheat when they are younger so that they can try to get the best guy possible while avoiding being alone.

DarkisKnight · 2016-07-23T20:22:34+00:00

Where there's smoke, there's usually fire. My question is, why aren't you invited? Is she going out of her way to not have you along when she hangs out on this guys boat?

Seems fishy (pun intended).

MattyAnon · 2016-07-23T21:50:23+00:00

How do I get her to stop going on this guys boat without sounding beta?

You can't. Tell her it's fine that she's sleeping with him, because you're sleeping with other girls too. Everything will work itself out from there if you hold frame.

deci-mator · 2016-07-23T21:57:46+00:00

She's right, trust her, they barely talk. Best believe she is sucking and fucking him as soon as she steps onto that boat. Don't even stress, just soft next and start spinning you some plates.

50pluspiller · 2016-07-23T19:58:13+00:00

Start with a soft next, withdrawing attention, stop text, calling etc. If she gets in contact with you tell her you're busy. Start flirting with other girls and start seeing other girls.

Personally, I would hard next her.

Eilonar · 2016-07-23T23:10:37+00:00

If she's on this guy's boat with other people, I assume this is some sort of party thing this guy often does. If so, there is no reason why she wouldn't ask you to join in, other than she is fucking him. I'd say dump her and be done with it, but if you want to go the extra mile, just ask her to join her next time and listen to the excuse she'll give you to hide her 'no'.

supremesamurai · 2016-07-23T23:33:09+00:00

Dump her. You know what's going. Don't pay attention to her words. Pay attention to her actions.

The-Ban-Hammer · 2016-07-23T23:36:06+00:00

She's sucking him off on that boat regularly.

MagmaiKH · 2016-07-24T07:09:25+00:00

They're fucking.
I actually would not recommended dump her - yet.
Get yourself a new girlfriend lined up first.

GC0W30 · 2016-07-24T22:50:19+00:00

She is cheating.

If she hadn't fucked or sucked him the FIRST time on the boat, she would not have gotten invited the second time.

She lied about them having a past.

Your relationship opened, now you know. She knew first.

She doesn't respect you, she won't even give you good sex because women give bad sex if any to men they do not respect.

She is of no value to you. Get anything she borrowed from you back and then stop spending time on or with her.

White_Phillip · 2016-07-23T22:22:15+00:00

Being alpha is not about controlling a woman's behavior, but having the balls to not put up with shitty behavior when it happens and having the confidence to know there are plenty more women out there. If she really saw you as an alpha she would have never done this because she'd know you wouldn't hesitate to next her over it.

docmongre · 2016-07-23T22:15:03+00:00

Hard next. No woman worth your time shows disrespect like that. If she's casually doing it now, you better believe she'll do it to a much worse degree later.

ecosci · 2016-07-23T22:32:23+00:00

Come on man, shes going to get the d from him and she wants you to break up with her thats why she keeps mentioning it i know its hard, been there done that but listen to the guys they are right she doesnt have the balls to tell ya man, hard next she doesnt respect you.

RedAsBlood · 2016-07-24T13:21:13+00:00

If she has a history with the guy and is lieing about it, you should dump her, immediately.

Do not give her a reason why. Just say you are ending it and move on. Don't feed into her drama or need for closure.

Even if shes not sleeping with him, the fact that she would do this is a huge sign of disrespect towards you.

Leave.

throwatay309 · 2016-07-24T13:41:30+00:00

She's taking it up the pooper from this guy. Time to REROOOLLLLL (aka move on).

TheDisillusionist · 2016-07-24T14:59:51+00:00

You're right, she barely talks. Hard to when she's blowinf him.

DarthPauly · 2016-07-24T01:34:23+00:00

Dude it's so easy to fuck girls in relationships like that

Title	Girlfriend keeps going on this guy' boat
Author	Maverick14
Upvotes	4
Comments	57
Date	July 23, 2016 7:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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