Legit question about whinnying

maxlvb · 2021-12-28T22:04:27+00:00

How feminist of you to come here and whine about men not doing what you think they should be doing.

If you get offended by MRA's here in this sub talking about all that is wrong with feminism and women, then you are part of the problem that makes such talk necessary....

FYI:

"Feminism is for men too!"

Okay, well as men here's what we struggle with.

"Not everything needs to be about men, alright? Besides, solving women's issues will solve men's issues."

Okay, but what about all these men's issues that aren't linked to women's issues?

"Then make your own group and stop whining! God, men can be so fragile."

Okay, here's this group we made. We're gonna assemble and talk about men's issues.

"Misogynists! You just want to hate on women! If you really cared about equality you'd be feminists!"

Men need feminism like bicycles need fish.

TendieDinner777 · 2021-12-28T22:35:40+00:00

Here’s the thing, if you have a legitimate grievance, it’s not your responsibility to suppress your response beyond ensuring you obey the law.

Even if you have an annoying voice, or you are repetitive, it doesn’t matter. If you are right, you are right. Don’t allow anyone to poke holes in your style points in an attempt to discredit your legitimate grievances.

EmirikolWoker · 2021-12-28T13:37:11+00:00

Last night I almost left the group because honestly I felt and keep seeing posts and it was just whining after whining

How would you propose advocates for men's rights advocate without crossing into what you're calling "whining" and offending your sensibilities?

DavidByron2 · 2021-12-28T16:52:06+00:00

Yeah complaint is kinda part of the whole deal of demanding change.

tenchineuro · 2021-12-28T16:13:51+00:00

This sounds like the feminist talking point...

Feminists: World to end tomorrow, women most affected!
Men: Men have problems too and they need to be addressed.
Feminists: You're just starting an oppression Olympics, it's not a competition.

So basically, men are not allowed to talk or even have a say in things.

EDIT: And also, isn't "whinnying" something horses do?

g1455ofwater · 2021-12-28T20:25:08+00:00

Your post makes no sense. You ask why we don't back each other up more and then proceed to attack men or this sub.

I guess the beatings will continue until moral improves.

Algiz56 · 2021-12-28T13:13:44+00:00

Oh yes. Whining sucks.

And I agree with you, that with too much of that, any sub will turn into echo-chamber.

But I do not think it is much to be done about it.

Greg_W_Allan · 2021-12-28T20:49:01+00:00

You're just whining.

ZimbaZumba · 2021-12-31T15:15:38+00:00

Yet you decide to whine yourself. You lack an understanding of how grassroots groups form.

Title	Legit question about whinnying
Author	Wolffsrain
Upvotes	2
Comments	41
Date	December 28, 2021 12:44 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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