We’ve been married for 39 years in March, I was 18 she was 21 our son was born in 1985… I want her out of my life but don’t want her to lose my benefits if I die before her, crazy right…we’ll even with all the bullshit for know we’re still friends at least but that’s coming to end unless I can get her out… What are my option and if I’m crazy think about it we started very young in the early 80’s after I’d been kicked out of my house at 15…long story… I just need her to live somewhere else, she’s an alcoholic and recently snorting the crap again at fuck 61, she’s been in bar industry for 30+ years… HELP PLEASE