Inb4 being told I have oneitis and have only half-swallowed the red pill: I may have half-swallowed it, but my country is a bit different and so are the rules. But to quote rule zero "TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options, and improve their lives." I'm considering my options and wondering whether my goals can be aligned with RP reality.

Short background (skip if not interested)

I'm a 22 year old guy with some natural alpha characteristics - good looks, intelligent (like, top of the cohort academically, educated and opinionated in many fields outside my profession which chicks dig), charismatic (and improving it even more), have a good career with good pay (programming), hobbies (skydiving, watersports), thin/average build (swallowed the pill 3 months ago and were in the middle of moving to a different country, setting up and settling in, but signing up for a gym in the following few weeks).

Past women: I dig smart chicks that you can discuss literature, music, politics, science with, go out partying, dancing, doing sports with, but who are also naturally feminine and sexy. Have had 3 LTRs before, got dumped twice because of going too BP, white-knight, needy, pedestalling; which is hard with really awesome girls when you don't understand backwards women mentality.

Have just finished my degree and after having worked part-time + really hard on degree and getting an awesome grade I finally have lots of time for going out and women. Have recently been going out with a bunch of chicks, being more RP and alpha with great success with a variety of girls: some naturally more tomboyish and "strong", some fairly sexist, some smarter, some dumber.

Question Background

I want kids, okay? Because of shit like this. Ever since I was like 16 and had terrible family with golden uterus mother and alpha-gone-beta and divorced father, I just really wanted a decent family with kids and like, comfort, y'know. My country (Lithuania) isn't really fucked in terms of feminism being extremely prevalent and laws being divorce-fucky (although I still wouldn't get married).

And wanting kids and family warrants a thought-out strategy for picking women for a LTR. Although I get a massive thrill and rush from sexy, exciting, beautiful, intelligent women, they are those who require an insane frame, which means being lonely on bad days when you just CBA to lead, and still don't really guarantee anything long-term, because they naturally have high SMV and Briffault's law.

So I'm considering something different. I've been chatting with this girl from my school days, who is also academically brilliant and fun to talk to. But she's also always been a dirty duck and never received any alpha male attention (nor did she seek it out by trying to be sexy and seductive). After chatting online for a little while, I met up with her recently and she's fun, and has a lot of feminine potential, BUT, she's NOT sexy at all. She dresses like my grandma and her perfume is horribly sweet and yucky (contrary to my past girls who made me go crazy for their looks). But exactly that, I believe, makes her much more likely to appreciate an alpha guy who wants to focus on his career, but also be family oriented, want to raise children, etc.

Question

Can you lead a smart but not-sexy girl into becoming more sexy, without also her going super hypergamous? Like, gifting nice perfume, going shopping together and encouraging more stylish, sexy, clothes; encouraging her to be more feminine and sluty, etc.

Has anyone managed to make such a woman blossom? Or is it not worth and I should just carry on spinning plates, MGTOW and focus on awesome life, because SMP is a bitch and my desire to have kids is stupid?