How is it possible to get a relationship when I've never even been friends with a woman before?

UnitedIntroduction48 · 2022-01-09T03:34:19+00:00

You can use social media platforms to find people that relate and like you and even dating apps too. There's someone out there for everybody!

Inareskai · 2022-01-08T20:26:45+00:00

Well... You start by forming friendships. You don't just jump from nothing to a relationship.

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2022-01-08T22:26:18+00:00

Well, I had never been friends with women when I got married. So, it's possible and quite common. This was South Asia though. Your culture might be different.

Cute-Investigator286 · 2022-01-09T01:51:33+00:00

Relationships typically come shortly after friendship. Maybe try too make female friends first then go from there.. Not all females are assholes.. not denying that alot of us can be tho..

MeadWithTheBros · 2022-01-09T09:51:11+00:00

First forget about taking advice from women, unless they have actually dated other woman they have literally no idea what it is like. Second, build a social life for yourself and start working towards goals if you aren’t. Once you have a functional social life if you meet a woman you are interested in and seem to get along well with then ask her out. If she says no don’t take it harshly just go about your life per usual and if you meet another woman you are interested in then ask her. You can just repeat this process and eventually you will find someone who is also interested in you, and after dating for a bit you can ask her to be your girlfriend. It is really that simple, but you need to have your own life together and not to try to build your life around some woman you believe you will meet. All my close friends are men, but you will meet women if your social circle is not totally self isolated. Basically, do things you want to do that also give you a chance to meet new people. Also, grow or cultivate group(s) of friends so you meet new people if you haven’t. The advice below to pursue friendship with potential gfs first is honestly horrible, none of my relationships nor my current have come from me ending up with a female friend. Women can easily pick from a bunch of guys in their friendzones, or they can simply put one of their numerous pursuers into the friendzone until they are ready to let him out. You, as the man, have to shoot your shot at some point. If you were good looking enough or famous enough to have a bunch of women to choose from you wouldn’t be here. Thus, unfortunately if you aren’t male model tier or above if you want a decent gf you will need to put in effort and generally make the first moves. Women know if they are attracted to you within the first five minutes of you talking to them. Thus, pursuing friendship before shooting your shot is setting yourself up for a ton of rejection and wasted time. Anyway, that’s my two cents, if you want to listen to people who have literally no idea what you are dealing with then try the “make friends approach” lol. But if you try that approach make sure to constantly ask yourself: “would I put up with x or do y for her if she was one of my guy friends?”. If the answer is no, then don’t do it otherwise you are going to be partaking in a lopsided friendship because you are listening to the wrong head and thus simping.

thegoodguy30 · 2022-01-08T21:13:56+00:00

It's none of her business who you're friends with.

Title	How is it possible to get a relationship when I've never even been friends with a woman before?
Author	FriedRice25055
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	January 8, 2022 7:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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