Young woman in a blue pill house hold, interested in taking the red pill.

OmarNBradley · 2022-01-22T16:41:43+00:00

The Red Pill is a sexual strategy and in spite of the mighty efforts that a lot of manosphere guys have made to tie it to right wing/trad/RETVRN stuff, it is not and has never been associated with conservatism. The majority of original RPW mods were working women and breadwinners and a lot of them were childless.

Male RP strategy is incompatible with conservatism; there is no conservatism that I am aware of which endorses casual sex, avoiding marriage, avoiding children, treating women as disposable.

Female RP strategy is mainly about picking a good man and then getting out of his way in the ways that matter to him. It is possible to be a RPW and a breadwinner, it is possible to be a RPW and have a career, it is possible to be a RPW and be Prime Minister of Britain, I am looking at you, Margaret Thatcher.

If you want to explore right-wing stuff there is nobody stopping you.

Also, as a side question, why are conservatives hated so much?

I have lived in extremely conservative parts of the country and I have a lot of family still living in those places; if conservatives are "hated so much" that is news to me. Just because MSNBC exists doesn't mean you need to watch it.

alien_eater289 · 2022-01-22T17:13:34+00:00

This is not an explicitly conservative sub. I’m left leaning, but still subscribe to rpw - I usually say I’m traditional in my relationship values with my husband but that doesn’t make me conservative.

Please don’t bring politics here. I really love that this sub, even if it may be mostly right leaning, doesn’t feel the need to bring politics into it.

Haunted_Bog_Water · 2022-01-22T16:08:01+00:00

I (24f) also grew up in a blue-pilled household. Politics never interested me until I listened to some of Peterson's lectures (I was always intrigued by religious topics). As time passed, I realized how important it is to listen to your conscience and base your decisions on fact instead of emotions.

Listen to whoever you want to listen but always be aware of the facts. Blue-pilled people don't like facts because it forces them to confront their own imperfections. Do your best to pursue the truth: that has been my guiding principle for the last two years and it has brought me peace.

Haunted_Bog_Water · 2022-01-22T19:06:28+00:00

Traditions of marriage, family and adversion to vice is a difficult life to maintain. They see it as oppressive and unfun, evil even seeing it as slavery. A million other reasons too it's very abstract sometimes.

I often think about Candy shop owners being a much better salesman than dentists

It's relate able I am the only Christian in my native household! Your family probably won't hate you, but it can awkward

LuckyLittleStar · 2022-01-22T19:45:04+00:00

I'm removing this because you're confusing red pill with conservative. TRP is not a political subreddit, while many here subscribe to conservative values, it is not the only way to be red pill.

Please read the sidebar to understand more about what RPW is about, or maybe try /r/conservative if you are interested in more political topics.

sicrm · 2022-01-22T16:38:22+00:00

focus on the outcome you want and don’t try to change their minds.

if they reach out to you at some point and come in good faith, you can give it a shot then.

you also have to be prepared to go low or no contact with them if needed.

evenst5ven · 2022-01-22T15:58:38+00:00

First things first. This is actually a common struggle in modern society although it's usually in the opposite direction (A conservative family and the struggling person is liberal). So it's quite refreshing to see someone with coming from the other side.

If you're conservative/redpill/not blue pill, then you have to understand that you have to pick a side. Do you want to live life with your beliefs and accept that there are some/all people in your family who might not agree with you? Or do you want to please your family and therefore abandon/suppress your beliefs and live dissatisfied?

My advice would be to live according to your beliefs. The very fact you're asking this question means that not everyone is going to agree with you and your beliefs. So what? Stop trying to please everyone. You have to think independently and live life by your standards otherwise you are nothing but what your family and society made you. The individual becomes non-existent if you conform to the ideals your family has set. So if you're more leaning towards the red pill side, then don't feel bad about that and accept that it is better to live life by your own standards even if it means that you might lose certain other things.

Having said that, that doesn't mean you should look down on your family or treat them like ignorant idiots or be distant from them. Look, you only get one family in your life. And that is a valuable thing. So try to maintain a healthy relationship with them. Find commonalities and points where you agree. Love and affection transcends these pills and ideologies.

Rule of thumb: If they don't agree with you, but respect your beliefs, then it is worthwhile having a relationship with them. If your very beliefs make them think that you're an asshole and makes them lose all respect for you, then I would say it's better off that you distance yourself from them. I disagree with my family members on some things but they all respect me and love me even though I disagree. They love me because I'm their family and not because I think like them.

Title	Young woman in a blue pill house hold, interested in taking the red pill.
Author	Haunted_Bog_Water
Upvotes	13
Comments	32
Date	January 22, 2022 3:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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