So my ex repeatedly goes through waves of not functioning /taking care of herself.. Not intentionally that I know of... Ie not being able to sleep/eat regularly... Either getting sick from it.. Or just not able. To sleep.

Which I don't give two shits about.. Other then. She'll call/text at God knows what time.. Confused and thinking me and the kids were supposed to meet her.. Most of the time I don't answer the phone it goes to vm.. This happens every few months for a week or two.. And here I am with three kids, whom she has sometimes and being like wtf how is this safe.. I've been told By lawyers that unless something happens, ie accident, cops involved. Ideally nobody hurt, their ain't shit I can do.. And in the past I have 302d her several times when she was really a mess. As she has other mental issues too..