I wonder. On the other subreddit, they often post on their own values as men, I wonder what are values a woman can take pride on on this mindset? Is there any sort of metric? I try to look over the internet, and it's always cosmo or buzzfeed just blabbering buzzwords here and there that are empty.

For example, I'm 18 going 19 this spring, i love programming, drawing, reading, sewing, cooking, my family considers me as caring and my friends often find me really kind despite my overly edginess on the internet, i plan to pursue uni in computer sciences (even if i do consider architecture studies..). However I do suffer from anxiety disorders and I'm on the spectrum, so I can't really trust myself, and I don't know how to objectively calculate my value as a woman, how would you take this sort of question if applied on yourself and on a general matter?

What is the ideal woman? What is a model one should strive to become (I assume so because if you want to define value you'd need to put it on a scale on a high value woman and low value woman)? Thank you!

Edit : I ask those questions because I did read some part of the wiki, however I think it is still great to get user's opinions and such rather than sort of impersonal books and articles. I like to hear individual opinions too!