Hello, this is my first post on TRP and I looking for some guidance with my LTR. I have been dating my Gf for around 3 years now and I say around last year she revealed she has had +50 fucks in her life. All in Europe when she was living abroad. At first I didn't care but my ego got involved especially when I started to compare my number (10) to hers.
She is incredibly loyal, helped me out financially, medically (helped me immensely after knee surgery), and really dove herself into my hobbies and activities that I was involved with. I established very early on that I was not in a rush for commitment, kept her at arms length for a while and kept playing with the commitment yarn for a while.
She discovered I was talking to other women while we've been together but in all honesty I never slept or saw any of the women. I just kept contact just in case my relationship went south but eventually just recently I stopped talking and contacting the other females as I saw definite loyalty and care for me from her.
I think over time she has realized that I am a catch and she has noticed other women talk and look at me when we have been out and in public. I am in great shape, good looking, have fought in professional and amateur combat sports matches, have a self depreciating sense of humor (which is great to relax women), and have two good jobs.
So my question is based on what I've just said, should I bring up to her my concern about her partners? If she gives me the whole I'm tired bit, should I somehow bring up how she had not problem being on the CC in the past? Should I continue on with the relationship? Was it wrong to talk to other women as a way to establish my worth to her and show her I can go anytime?
Thanks for your time boys.
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