Dealing with a daddy fettish.

FrameWalker · 2016-08-29T21:31:42+00:00

To give you a little more background this kink is deeply embedded into the psyche of many women. Growing up men and women separate from their parents after a certain stage. Most sons around the ages of 8-12 naturally distance themselves from their mothers. They no longer want to be hugged or coddled and ask for more space and refuse kisses on the cheek. "Stop embarassing me mom" is a pretty typical line. The son leads the distancing when he's ready most of the time.

For girls it's different. At some point the girl matures and starts to look more and more like a woman. At this point, the father distances himself, because he starts to see his daughter as a young woman and less like a child. Since the daughter doesn't drive the split, often it can seem to the daughter like she's being rejected. While the father is still warm and nurturing he is less physically affectionate versus when she was a child. Combine that with long working hours and many girls up craving their father's attention.

Maybe that gives you a good idea of how to play it. A little hot/cold. Give and then pull it back to maintain the tension and bring her to full ecstacy. Have her dress up for you and then tell her daddy has to work late - and either postpone or wake her up late into the night when you finish up.

Toddbaker6 · 2016-08-29T18:41:59+00:00

r/bdsm

Just lurk, don't post. They hate anything that implies a man actually controls the bedroom, and will dox and ban you for posting in TRP.

They have lots of ideas for dynamics like this; like no panties allowed, permission to speak, cucking her, etc.

Make sure it's also things that you can enjoy, otherwise you're just entering her frame and she will probably pick up on any lack of desire if you try to fake it too much.

from_the_ashes_me · 2016-08-29T22:33:06+00:00

At 49, girls with daddy fetishes are my bread and butter. 2 of the last 3 women I've dated for 6+ months have been 18 years younger.

There's a lot of information on the internet about bdsm and daddy fetishes. Read some of the stuff that subs post (as opposed to the dom) because they're a wealth of knowledge if you're trying to understand what the sub wants from the relationship.

Have fun.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-08-29T23:07:18+00:00

Google "daddy" and "littles" and such until you find the right link for her kink.

Indulge her in it, make up rules, tell her how to dress, order for her in restaurants, etc. Feed her kink and the rewards should be ... explosive.

the_red_monk · 2016-08-31T04:49:09+00:00

like to be hurt a little or choked in the bedroom

You don't have to go all out with the choking. Just a light squeeze on the neck to let her know you're in control.

That said, younger pre-trp me had a hard time wrapping my brain around some of the rougher kinky shit due to my social programming even though I was pretty Dom in the bedroom. I have to say after having tried some pretty heavy shit I've grown more acclimated to it.

You might get there too, worth a try if she's asking for it. Just be safe about it.

spootsnoopy · 2016-08-29T23:08:27+00:00

I don't get what the issue is. My 18yo plate calls me daddy ( I'm 28). Embrace it . Just refer to yourself as daddy and her as brat/ daddy's girl. This is a clear sign that she loves me dominated. So dominate. Easy. Choke, pull hair, Spank, call her daddy's little slut. Throw her around. Whenever she does/says something wrong just say yeah daddy gonna punish you for that.

She will also love attention in anyway more so than the average girl. Dread game and ignoring her texts works wonders when she is acting up.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-08-29T20:03:12+00:00

I hate lg/DD relationships with a passion, I totally get the "Lolita" type fetish, but lg/DD is just too much.

Title	Dealing with a daddy fettish.
Author	dethsaber
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	August 29, 2016 6:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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