So what happened a couple of times was, that we had an argument and she started posting stuff where she looks good on social media. I asked her why she only posts stuff like that, after arguments and if it has something to do with compensation and feeling more important in the attraction hierarchy. She said yes. And idk if it’s a red flag.

She also told me that when she lived in nature, that she never cared about such things.

It’s just strange. She actually blocked me from watching her stories because she told me she doesn’t want me to think that she does it for me. So I think, that it’s just compensation.

I want to ask her later what she tries to compensate in these situations.

But what y’all think?

Edit: and I want to clarify, she can post whatever she wants, she’s beautiful. It’s just strange that she only posts stuff when we had an argument. And she presents herself in a way she usually doesn’t.

Edit 2: she told me that she likes to show other people who treated her horribly, how good she looks and they actually start to Simp. She showed me a screenshot of guys who treated her very bad. And after she posted stuff, they complimented her, even though they treated her badly before.

Idk I like her and it doesn’t destroy the relationship because idk it isn’t so important I guess. I just want to understand that in some way to help her. Do you know similar stories?