Anyone else have suicidal thoughts increase due to Redpill/Blackpill content?

Meat_Mockasin · 2022-04-24T06:06:33+00:00

You were born right, the standards of being your gender can be a bit ridiculous, don't you think? But that's how the manosphere grifters make their money by selling you things, they break you down and sell you their false solution.

sabiinvesting · 2022-04-24T05:57:33+00:00

Which “beta behaviours” are you speaking of? Could you give us some examples?

You will be happier with someone who values who you really are. Acting a certain way to get a woman isn’t going to make you happy. You have to realize people want different things. Let’s assume many women like aggressive extroverts. Does that mean all women like aggressive extroverts? I think that would be a rather stupid generalization to be making.

Spare-Bonus6456 · 2022-04-24T06:07:53+00:00

I didn't have suicidal thoughts exactly, but I reached a point of total discouragement and hopelessness in life, because I saw myself exactly as a beta, ugly and poor

capricorndyke · 2022-04-24T15:03:05+00:00

These communities are incredibly unhealthy and are not helpful to their target audiences. You can become a confident person who can assert themselves in a relationship without being a a jerk. Instead of looking at the 'pill communities' for advice, try looking for other sources of help. There are channels on youtube that can teach to give advice to people on how to be assertive. Therapy can also assist you in this process if that is an option for you. Please if you having suicidal ideation seek help. I can say with confidence you are not better off dead. You are just better off without taking the red or black pill.

Naus1987 · 2022-04-24T16:54:03+00:00

Could you imagine someone like Willy Wonka thinking his life was pointless because he wasn’t getting laid?

Just gotta enjoy life. Enjoy what you do. Have fun! And here’s the real golden ticket. If you’ve convinced yourself that nothing is worth living for. That means you can sacrifice everything to chase a dream.

If you thought dying was a good answer then you’re not worried about family, friends or anything else. So if you want to move or start a new life — ya got nothing holding you back!

It’s only when you’ve lost everything that you’re free to do anything.

So get out there and do the things you want to do!

Mari_Mari_Mariana · 2022-04-24T13:54:23+00:00

Every bad behavior that can be learned can be unlearned. There are many stories of people who manage to leave cults after being totally imersed.

The blackpill/redpill community is very extreme on the definitions of behavior that could get you laid. They are unanimously against just being a nice person to the women you are interested into, labeling it "beta behavior".

The reality is, many women actually like this; instead of unlearning the desire to be a nice person, just fine-tune your behavior to show your feelings without suffocating the other person. I am sure a similar logic can be applied to other "beta" behaviors.

These communities, specially the blackpill, know nothing about women at all. If there's any behavior you are worried about, feel free to answer this comment.

Carloverguy20 · 2022-04-24T23:26:04+00:00

Welp the content they produce is suppose to make you feel awful and down about yourself, when do you ever see anyone happy in those movements, it's a negativity circlejerk which is bad for your mental health.

Suripararoffa · 2022-04-25T00:38:20+00:00

First advice is get therapy and be dead honoust about this subject.

Secondly, too much of everything will hurt you ..no mattr what people say, you gotta (cherry) pick what you need and what's applicable. That's the journey of life!

tbh there is a truth to everything. Just dont forget that most redpill content is focused on a certain type of woman. My guess ( been there mentally myself ,at the point where I felt like the redpillcontent drained me) is that the content make you realize you're not the bad boy BAD GIRLS are looking for. Generally there are loads of great advices on the surface though: get your stuff together, work on yourself , dress nicely, be confident have your finances at a higher level ect. Simply put be the best you .

If you somehow lack these qualities there is obviously something deeper going on.,hence my first advice. Also, maybe you "like " a certain type of girl, while you lack some of these qualities.

If you want a lion as a pet you'll have to behave differently than when you have a rabbit. With this I am trying to say, a man gotta know his dating batch ( what type of woman do I NEED to date vs what do I WANT !) There are plenty of "beta women" out there. Maybe you should low your standards. Maybe you dont need the prettiest, slimmest girls in the world...for example.

Some things though will never change: a man must make moves ,regardless of his beta or alpha ness. Even as a introvert you can smile and say hi to people, and just feel good about yourself.

You shouldn't measure your inner feelings based on something as fickle as "love from girls". You cannot control other people ,its hard enough to control ourself!

Just get back to finding who you are and stop looking for tricks and shortcuts and magic spells to gain female attention. Take a the advices you got with a grain of salt. Yes there is some truth to it, but ultimately you decide what you believe in and what you need. There are plenty of pro's (therapists) who can help you shape the " real " you!!

bk9900 · 2022-04-24T23:31:18+00:00

My friend. Don’t feel that, how old are you? Believe me, things will change, what you believe now will be completely different in 5 years.

Pissleri · 2022-04-26T16:33:30+00:00

Yes, I want to off myself.

Title	Anyone else have suicidal thoughts increase due to Redpill/Blackpill content?
Author	Gaddammitkyle
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Date	April 24, 2022 5:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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