Women are more likely than men to engage in intimate partner cyberstalking, especially the passive and invasive forms.

BorderlineBarbieUwU · 2022-04-19T14:10:13+00:00

every man that's ever had a crazy ex that stalked him online suddenly feels very vindicated.

because we've been saying this FOREVER

CawlinAlcarz · 2022-04-19T16:02:34+00:00

If anyone is surprised by this, they haven't been paying attention at all.

Icy-Start5536 · 2022-04-19T17:20:51+00:00

And the news is?

Soft_Leather_Couch · 2022-04-20T02:54:52+00:00

I mean wasn’t there a female astronaut who committed the first crime in space by stalking her ex while on the international space station?

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SnooKiwis5976 · 2022-04-19T14:40:41+00:00

Lol just see some women's on online forums Either they freak out, cry or stalk and sexualize men but nah it's fine because men enjoy stalking right

LateralThinker13 · 2022-04-19T18:16:16+00:00

Men are more likely to be actively aggressive. Women are more likely to be passively aggressive. And dog bites man, news at 11.

Nothing surprising here to anybody who understands gender dimorphism.

Farseer_Uthiliesh · 2022-04-20T01:38:09+00:00

In the last four years I’ve had two absolute psychos cyberstalk me. Doing things like contacting me privately on different sites and talking about my looks then exploding when I don’t reply soon enough. I’ve had to shut down at least four social media accounts to escape them, then I’ll get contacted at work.

raclnp · 2022-04-20T04:31:12+00:00

The worst is that it makes you feel so guilty and scared, and it takes a long time even after a breakup to feel more free again.

Usually media suggests it's the other way round. It is really helpful to read that. It makes you remember instances where it happened that were mistaken as "liking you", when it really was about controlling you or making sure you conform or "obey".

Warder766312 · 2022-04-19T20:40:42+00:00

They had to do a study on this??? Shit, I could have told them this after seeing how every ex has acted and even how my own sister acts.

beckettman · 2022-04-19T21:06:04+00:00

My mom and aunt were getting weird messages on facebook for a year, we went out for 2 weeks.

raclnp · 2022-04-20T04:27:39+00:00

The weird thing is that during the relationship you feel scared to post anything publicly, feel surveilled all the time, then when it's finally over and you talk to her for closure, suddenly she lashes out as if you had been that type of person (and not her), just because she suddenly decided she is done, and you have no time to clarify anything that happened properly.

GivePuppiesBazookas · 2022-04-20T14:57:47+00:00

Oh, you men the thing men have been saying is abusive behavior has now leaked into the online space and been exacerbated? Shocking.. who would have seen this coming?

I swear, when it comes to women abusing and harassing men, society is always like 40 years behind in just the taking notice part.

Sailbad_the_Sinner30 · 2022-04-20T14:36:07+00:00

Whereas men are more likely to engage in actual physical stalking.

Title	Women are more likely than men to engage in intimate partner cyberstalking, especially the passive and invasive forms.
Author	NeoNotNeo
Upvotes	291
Comments	23
Date	April 19, 2022 2:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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