Child Support RUINED my life... I lost. (as a millionaire)

InAJam_SoS · 2022-04-14T03:05:01+00:00

It's good to see the video has 65k plus views. Most videos I come across have only tens or maybe a hundred or so views and have been up for years.

Despite how widespread and egregious of an issue this is, it gets limited attention. There are so many fathers, so many father's groups, so many new spouses of father's who've lost their children, so many victims of the family court system that I'm always amazed how little outrage there is. Especially when the most important issue is the child's loss of a parent.

Angryasfk · 2022-04-14T05:41:50+00:00

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ijustdontcare74 · 2022-04-14T07:56:02+00:00

The saddest thing about all of this is how the lawyer behave. They're meant to help you, but they just are out to fleece you for as much money as they can, even to the point of you ending up on the street. No other business that i know of can they get away with charging you for 3rd party conversations you didn't authorise...that's crazy. The amount of "illegal billing" that must go on must be crazy. There is nothing to stop them lying about it and overstating their fee's. I know there are regulators, but proving over billing must be extremely hard.

Lawyers are nothing but parasites picking at the dead corpse of a marriage...I detest them.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-04-14T08:53:34+00:00

Simply don't get married in the west let alone have children with western women.

Traditional women, submissive and family oriented are a dying breed in the west.

Don't play a rigged game when she breaks the marriage contract and divorces you for cash and prizes.

Your failure chances are: - 67% of first marriages end in divorce in a 40 years span - 75% of divorces are initiated by women

It's not worth it, the financial ruin, parental alienation, false accusations and emotional trauma.

stats source

springy · 2022-04-14T11:10:17+00:00

I used to work with a guy who was a vice president at a pretty well know IT company, so had a great income, yet had to live very frugally because he took home only 12.5% of his salary. How? Well, taxes took a fair slice of his income, like for everybody. But nasty divorces filed by his gold-digging two ex-wives and child support for his five children meant he handed over almost everything he earned.

I had always assumed there were limits to how much could be taken, but I guess he was considered "rich" and so could be squeezed until he was left with hardly anything. It was pretty depressing to see how his lifestyle was, through necessity, far lower than any of the people reporting to him and even at levels below that in the hierarchy.

Mode1961 · 2022-04-14T13:45:43+00:00

I read an article the other day about famous sports stars, movie stars etc., who are broke despite making millions, and almost all of them lost a large portion of their money after a divorce.

Fit_Maintenance_2455 · 2023-06-25T00:03:40+00:00

I am in the same situation, I was paying close to 7k monthly and then my job sent me to Japan where there was a pay cut because of tax advantages. I asked my ex if you can take lump sum from retirement account and settle but she did not agree and my account got freezed . I had to go live with my parents in India where she has also filed a case against me resulting me being stuck there for 2.5 years. Now the situation is, I cannot get a job and even after contacting child support agency for modification things have been slow.Additionally, she was constantly filing protection orders when I was seeing the kids and now I have no contact with them

springy · 2022-04-14T13:51:50+00:00

this guy is a crypto scamster, lets not blindly support ALL men??? we are not feminists

Mysterious-Example85 · 2022-04-21T05:28:20+00:00

Most of us aren’t millionaires I find this hard to care about

Title	Child Support RUINED my life... I lost. (as a millionaire)
Author	Funny_Wolverine_9
Upvotes	67
Comments	31
Date	April 14, 2022 1:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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