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Again, some women prove they suck at making responsible decisions. It’s all about those tingles but can’t husband up good men for shit. Thus, they become brealla...unless they’re planning a divorce!

ScribhneoirIldanach

May 31, 2022
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Title Again, some women prove they suck at making responsible decisions. It’s all about those tingles but can’t husband up good men for shit. Thus, they become brealla...unless they’re planning a divorce!
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ScribhneoirIldanach

Upvotes 110
Comments 50
Date May 31, 2022 10:58 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/v1nlgz/again_some_women_prove_they_suck_at_making/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/again-some-women-prove-they-suck-at-making.1117886
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Comments

[–]onlypinhead2000 82 points83 points84 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The irony of this post. I find it funny that more and more men are starting to catch onto this bullshit. It does get easier and easier with age to see shit like this.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Which part is irony ? I might just be being a bit dense

[–]onlypinhead2000 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's out in the open. Women want to know where have all the good men gone. Now men of means are turning women like these in this post away.

[–]DrDog09 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If a woman is just going thru the motions for months on end, make a cold hard break. She is getting it on the side.

[–]Paltry_Poetaster 45 points46 points47 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I love that this group gives the real 411 on what is going through women's minds. The source code, so to speak. Totally believable confession. Anyone here still pay for dates?

[–]dickle_doot29 points 4 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Right? Out there, just in the open for the public to read.

It’s a shame their sub went private. Having it up was the best educational tool there was for educating fellow men on what’s going on in modern dating.

[–]Paltry_Poetaster 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Much that I witnessed back when I was dating is now explained to me. The light has turned on, thanks to WAATGM. No more doubt, confusion, or ignorance.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought they just went private

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They did not get banned. They became private and moved off-reddit because of the report abuse issue we have been having as well.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the thing - I don’t find this post completely believable. There are surely some embellishments. It hits too many points on the FDS checklist but is also vague in certain areas

She has also forgotten to brag about the guy’s income (and her own). Probably the only points on the checklist she missed

She also clearly hasn’t figured dating out of based on the early part of the story she went on lots of dates where the guy paid and (seemingly, reading between the lines) they were all one and done dates.

[–]sleepyweaselisawakePlowing his way through muck 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Hell no! I haven't paid for a date in years.. We meet for a drink, that's it. Either she's interested or not, the date lasts for 1 drink or it goes on longer. It makes no difference to me.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't go on dates. I go on "adult outings" to "social clubs" and "house parties".

And If I bring a woman in tow. It's to get in for free, AND get more that evening because,

women pre-select.

Date?

You mean like, Prunes?

[–]PirateDocBrownJr. Hamster Analyst 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

She needs to let this J guy go. That's cruel as fuck.

[–]NutsLikeMelons 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

J needs to let himself go and have some self respect. Sadly though, the odds are he is a religious man who thinks she is on his page though. AWALT.

[–]PirateDocBrownJr. Hamster Analyst 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What's cruel is that she is not telling him the real truth. Withholding information denies him a choice.

[–]NutsLikeMelons 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Withholding sex gives him plenty of choice. He can choose to accept it, or not.

[–]high_sauceCaptain Save-A-304 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

J is a MGTOW in the making

[–]Cristoff13Sr. Hamster Analyst 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I assume this is from that so called "dating strategy" reddit. Both the men she references are fantasy. This is how that reddit works.

Mostly it's full of radical feminist whining about how terrible men are. That sub is in effect the last remaining radical feminist one on reddit.

But in between the complaining about men, the posters will boast about having found a boyfriend (or two) who is unbelievably perfect. But they'll downplay this. The game they play is that the standards they demand in men are perfectly reasonable. Its just that The Patriarchy has brainwashed women into regarding terrible men as acceptable and normal.

[–]p3ngwinStreet HoeTel Manager 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

"J is age appropriate, and established"

Translation = He is financially stable.

​

"A is extremely kind, and generous"

Translation = he's a giver and i'm a selfish bitch that's why "i don't return favours unless he makes me cum 3 times".

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

That last part is where her story falls apart in my opinion. Her embellishment of the truth / outright lies might have just got there until she wrote that

[–]p3ngwinStreet HoeTel Manager 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Her entire post explicitly describes her literal disdain for men, and how she feels entitled to have them spoil her, they must be "established", "generous", and "kind", etc while she gives little to nothing in return, not even the decency of honesty.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

By “got there” I should have clarified that I meant “made her story sound believable”. Not acceptable or reasonable. I didn’t mean that

I fully believe some women think of men like she does.

I utterly don’t believe that she orgasms 3 times EVERY time with this FWB guy and doesn’t reciprocate until that happens. It’s just tough to believe that she could be that orgasmic but have never had one with her previous ex (who you’d assume she must have been attracted to at the start). And also that any guy , no matter how desperate will go through all the effort before getting anything back

Unless she simply means she doesn’t blow him. But it sounds like she is claiming that she has to orgasm 3 times before he gets anything at all. So three orgasms from non penetrative sex before he gets anything. Hell if such a guy exists who will do that then I’d expect most women would try to lock him down instantly unless he was pretty much destitute

There are other parts that I think she is embellishing or outright lying about that might have just passed the plausibility test - until that last section. Then the whole thing just becomes “how can I spin my situation in a way that will get me the most kudos on Reddit”

[–][deleted] 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Goldmansachs3030 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"J" Simp

J is not a simp, just your everyday man thinking he got someone good.Honestly, its sad.Many of us have been in that position, not necessarily the man/woman dynamic, where you realise all the fuckery going around you.

I realised this when a so-called group of friends thought i was sad about a girl getting a bf when i was just plain sick.Looked at me like i am some torn-down lover, not one of them came then to ask something.Like hell i am going to give drama to you dipshits.Made me realise you can spend time, have a laugh with someone and still at an opportune moment, not be considered a part of the group.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Made me realise you can spend time, have a laugh with someone and still at an opportune moment, not be considered a part of the group.

This is why I don't have work friends. I have friends, I have co-workers.

If my co-workers would have made the cut, we'd be "over each other's house watching the game" friends.

They are just pleasant co-workers.

even though I associate with them MORE (by force and payment) I can't let them past my security without THEM passing the 10 point inspection to be even considered to be trusted by me.

Let alone know some secret shit about me.

No, you can't trust many people. I wish it was ALL maliciousness, but the culprit is CELEBRATED IGNORANCE. Not giving A FUCK about what happens to you because of something THEY did because, well, they don't have to.

And anybody who wants your trust should be the first person you say no to.

[–]Goldmansachs3030 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LPT had this post, with plenty saying that they got good friends out of this.OK, but the elephant in the room is, if a bad group is there and you cannot leave right away, or some betrayal happens, what are you going to do?I got 5 upvotes, a "username checks out" reply(Idk why) and still no explanation.

I just said that in your position, it is very hard to believe that.Similarly, in OP's position, there are plenty of examples, like someone amongst their colleagues got promoted and the person got the lowest raise despite hard-work, so he suffered the torture there for a year.This one was in tech where they cautioned against telling people you are interviewing for other companies.

[–]p3ngwinStreet HoeTel Manager 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Perhaps i should clarify that it's "simp" from her perspective, the same way it's "Chad" as far as she's concerned :)

"J" is who she would "settle" with once the wall hits and she can no longer have fun with the "A's" in her life.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And you can tell it is “settle” as she doesn’t believe she will be losing anything if her behaviour causes J to either walk away early or walk away when he finds out

That type of guy just isn’t a priority for her - now. But when he is it could well be too late

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Rule 1.

[–]p3ngwinStreet HoeTel Manager 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I thought Rule 1 was if the commenter shames the man, whereas my comment is referring to the woman perceiving the man as a Simp.

Or does that still count ??

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I understand the distinction, but most people will use this to justify the usage of the word. We don't want people to devolve to the level of shaming men instead of holding an adult woman accountable for her choices.

[–]p3ngwinStreet HoeTel Manager 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough, can i ask, for the benefit of future use, in the context of my comment describing a woman that see's one man as her "chad", and another man as her xxx.

What would be an acceptable descriptor for xxx ?

Maybe her "provider", or the one she will "settle" for ?

Just asking so i can both comply with the rules without restricting language too much to still be able to hold the adult conversations we desire here :)

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Just use beta. We just don't want to popularize terms like incel or simp.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So three orgasms from non penetrative sex before he gets anything. Hell if such a guy exists who will do that then I’d expect most women would try to lock him down instantly unless he was pretty much destitute

Actually, him being destitute IS THE selling point for most women.

What better man(in a crap woman's mind) is there than who can please you,

and who can't get away?

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

it's not a lie. it's me living [sic] information out

Also known as "lying by omission," which is when you suppress important facts to create misconceptions. For example: you ain't exactly innocent by not mentioning that you are aware that you have a transmissible STD just before you're about to have unprotected sex, or that the jewels you're selling at the pawn shop have been stolen.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women have 9,234,233 ways to dance around the word LIE.

A woman can, using omission, tell you the complete truth AND it will also be a horrible, life ruining, lie.

The WORD WE NEED TO START USING IS DECEPTION.

It's not a lie. However it IS Deception.

A woman's LIFE is DECEPTION. From her first breath till her last.

I have a theory that whenever a woman is UNABLE to decieve successfully,

she relocates/gets born again.

When a woman would be unable to deceive others for the rest of her life,

she'd rather die.

Just like some of the female suicide cases that ACTUALLY are successful and NOT more deception.

When a woman's jig is up and the WHOLE WORLD knows and she's cut off from deception for her forseeable life,

she checks out.

[–]Winter_Lie_4994 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You might be onto something!

[–]RumRogerz 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

J. If you ever read this - run for the hills. Run for your life

[–]Bob_and_Virginiabeware of Shawskank Redemption 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"keep rotating men"

Keep imagining that female biology works like male biology. Idiot.

[–]Aronacus 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

she will convince herself that she settled for 'J'

meanwhile 'J' has a 6 figure salary and is taking her out to nice places.

She'll always miss 'A' and may even keep him on the side. Where she'll bring Dominos Pizza or some other shitty pizza and fuck like rabbits

[–]Goldmansachs3030 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, that's the thing.Knowing that i wasted my time dating some tinderella.

Anyways fella, seems like even South Asian newspaper are getting fed money to defend Amber Heard, read, Amber Turd.

What victims silencing when none of her proofs stand in court.

[–]DrDog09 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Have some class, at least let the pizza be PaPa Johns. :)

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing like a good racist pizza to make me hard for de' white womenz.

LOL, ok I need to stop.

[–]Gxl4 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Every date I've been on, the man paid.

I go on date twice a week with different men for fun, it's my activity now

Ladies, never put all your eggs in one basket , keep rotating men.

She’s a proper garden tool, giving bad advice and pretty much guaranteed she will find herself post-wall, alone in a big empty bed or with some cats to amuse her, angry at the world for not being able to lock down a quality guy.

I just have no sympathy for these Karens, i can only imagine the miles of dick they had ran through them while driving my car and watching the counter go.

[–]ScribhneoirIldanachThot Shaming Gaeilgeoir[S] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gaelige-Béarla Translations:

  • brealla = “stupid sluts/clits/dicks”

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Dual mating strategy also known as Alpha Fucks/ Beta Bucks. This is how most modern women date so men need to be prepared and understand this. They have sex with good looking men while making average looking wait.

If a woman is making you wait for sex past the third date and she is not a virgin, she is having sex with someone else. No matter what she says or tells you, she is having sex with someone else. Don't question it, just accept it.

Also, women see men who wait for sex and want committment as low value. When you agree to wait for sex, women believe you are only doing this because you have no other options. They understand that high value men don't wait for sex because they have numerous sexual options. So when you as a guy agree to wait, in hee mind you are agreeing that you are low value.

[–]Yggdrasill4 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How could the sex be bad? Sex is pretty damn simple once you are into it, you want to please and get pleased. What made it terrible was that she was not sexually attracted to him, it is really all in the head. The same can even be applied to men. For myself, some porn can get me off in 1 to 2 minutes, but some girls can take me a whopping 15 minutes.

[–]Goldmansachs3030 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What is this, I am single and i can lead on a good man until i tell him that i am now ready for a relationship, reeking of cum.

Morals match, may this girl be pumped and dumped and then left to rot.Nobody should play with someone's heart, man or woman.

The guy in advantage is the person fucking her, not J.LOL, see how the hamster mind works.

[–]V_MKilodick Converter 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"It's me living(sic) information out."

Yeah that'll turn out real good when he finds out (ultra-sarcasm).

I dated a chick like that once, got totally fed up with her lying behavior, I did not merely burn bridges I nuked them from orbit just to be sure. God only knows what else she didn't tell me. Didn't get any STIs, at least, thats about all I know for sure...

Why would "relationship material" want a relationship with a liar, whom apparently also is unable to spel wirds?

Its worth pointing out that like many other things, adulthood is unevenly distributed. I nuked my relationship from orbit when I was 16 so this chick is apparently an early-teenage girl brain trapped in a (at minimum) 25 year old body, which sounds like a nightmare. Again, why would "relationship material" want to date a (mentally) little girl?

I would suspect "J" is perfectly happy not having sex with the girl because he's getting anal from this chick's best friend or little sister or mom or a similar situation.

Plenty of real life situations from my past where I was platonic friends with some female for years, in some cases, and I didn't mind not having sex with her because I was having sex with some other woman. Women can gatekeep sex but men gatekeep relationships and she's clearly not getting one, he doesn't even seem to mind?

"And no I do not feel guilty. Plenty of fish around."

She's not another fish in the pond, her attitude shows she's more like a turd from the sewage treatment plant. A turd is still a turd regardless if it self identifies as "relationship material".

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

o this chick is apparently an early-teenage girl brain trapped in a (at minimum) 25 year old body, which sounds like a nightmare.

It doesn't get any better with age.

I have a 50 year old, THRICE divorced friend who is fucking mentally 12.

And is totally convinced she is the queen of something or somewhere.

I asked her "what kingdom are you queen of and where are your servants? Cause I don't see nobody doing shit for you."

Crickets.

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