Sooooo…

With it looming on the horizon, I’m on a VA loan and the only person that’s name is on the house. I could afford to keep it and pay child support/ spousal maintenance. She couldn’t afford it with those and her income. I want the kids to stay as stable as possible by staying in their familiar environment. We plan on the time being split 50/50 and this entire development began because she had a 6 month affair that was pretty heinous sparing the details. I tried to get us to work it out, therapy you name it. Well latest thing she wants to try is separation but her moving out for a month.

With just that info what’s the odds of keepin the house?

Edit: not to mention IF she wanted the house she’d have to refinance it in her name after giving me part of the equity and she’s not a vet so she’d need a conventional loan and rates are through the roof.