After her divorce, Carol climbs back upon the cock carousel in an attempt to capture commitment comparable to what she'd discarded. - by u/typo-magashiv

ihavesex69 · 2022-07-11T15:51:07+00:00

smart, witty, beautiful, blah blah blah

Lol ok. And I’m sure your “wittiness” is just sarcasm, which really isn’t that witty.

independent

Sure, but at some point you need to be able to give up some independence to commit to another person.

I’m in a really good place in my life

Then why are you making this post?

”don’t see us together long term”

Well after insisting how beautiful and smart you are, why would this be? Have you done any actual self reflection of your personality? Perhaps there’s something about you that puts these guys off? Nah. You’re a powerful independent woman.

…after we have sex

Hmm, so how many guys are we talking about here? Certainly you’ve kept your body count low since your divorce, correct? Of course, there are guys out there who pump and dump, generally known as Chad. Chad won’t commit. But he gives you the tingles, and you just know you can change him. Meanwhile there’s probably a legion of average joes in your friendzone that would be your knight in shining armor, but you’d never stoop that low.

What advice would….determine if it’s me?

Reread everything you just wrote here, and really, truly ask yourself if it’s true - if you really are as “empathetic” as you claim. Chances are you’re not. But, back to the beginning….

I’ve spent the better part of 3 years convincing myself I’m not the problem

And you still believe this. You don’t want honest feedback - you want a bunch of females and loser men to say “yaaaas kweeen! You go girrrrl! You’re beautiful and those guys are shitheads. Keep being you!!”. You will be forever single, surrounded by your cats and empty boxes of wine. Enjoy it!

Traksimuss · 2022-07-11T15:48:19+00:00

Oh sweaty, you have another 49 syndrome. 4 imagining being 9, and rejecting anybody who is not top Chad. Some top Chads might bust a nut in you on down low, but they obviously will bail when 5 minutes after sex Carol asks "Where are we, when can plan our wedding and child"?

"Not attractive men" are all others, a lot of good men in this category, but Carol cannot accept less than perfection while years and cocks go by.

Good for honest good men too, as she will never change and even if snatches a man, she will still have sex on side and none in marriage.

LIGHTaLATE · 2022-07-11T18:42:34+00:00

Leading on men she's not attracted to just to friendzone them... Does that not make her just as much of a liar as the Chads who pump and dump her?

NBA_MSG · 2022-07-11T22:34:03+00:00

I wish there was a prompt on OLD sites that says "If you're looking for more than sex what do you have to offer that a man would want besides sex."

Heads would explode

Intelligent-Bet-8507 · 2022-07-11T17:52:52+00:00

Yes, you are indeed the problem.

PirateDocBrown · 2022-07-12T00:35:09+00:00

She wants kids at 38, after divorcing a guy she had no kids with. This says a lot about her judgment.

gentle_lemon · 2022-07-12T00:01:30+00:00

So, just reading between the lines she seems relatively insufferable.

Joaquino7997 · 2022-07-11T23:37:14+00:00

I've spent so much time working on myself (mentally and physically)...sick and kinda foggy brained

She's 'sick' all right - in the head.

PoliticallyHated · 2022-07-12T05:01:23+00:00

That’s a big problem with modern culture telling women that having promiscuous sex and a high body count is ok and they should have fun. They end up sleeping with men on the first date which immediately cuts them off from a long term relationship because she’s easy then keeps doing it, gets a high body count, then is even more undesirable.

Second to this she said she worked on herself and independent which men don’t typically like because we have a primal desire to help our partner and provide for them. She probably has a good job and won’t date anyone who makes less. Also, assuming she got married when she was 18, shes gotta been late 20’s. Unless her marriage lasted literally a year she’s almost 30 and that’s hitting the end of when it’s safe to have kids. She is the problem and it’s our culture that did this to her. Reject leftism and feminism, this is what it’s doing. A bunch of single 35 year old women are in our future.

Old_snowboarder · 2022-07-14T19:51:49+00:00

"I'd love for you guys to level with me" - I don't think she'd really want honesty.

TatersMog · 2022-07-15T17:01:44+00:00

Talkative, translate gobby bitch.

MastermindX · 2022-07-26T10:18:07+00:00

I've spent the better part of 3 years convincing myself I'm not the problem

Instead of trying to find what her problems are and fixing them, she spent time and energy convincing herself it's everyone else's fault and there's nothing she can do about it. And deep down she knows it's not true, or it wouldn't have taken literally years to "convince herself".

PabloEscoba · 2022-07-27T01:30:37+00:00

Shes not looking for any real advisce. Shes looking for feel-good cool aid.

Title	After her divorce, Carol climbs back upon the cock carousel in an attempt to capture commitment comparable to what she'd discarded. - by u/typo-magashiv
Author	moorekom
Upvotes	196
Comments	34
Date	July 11, 2022 3:01 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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