now they're creating blacklists of men

NoBrick444 · 2022-07-10T22:10:18+00:00

Sure, because jilted ex-lovers neeeeever make anything up.

rainbow_bro_bot · 2022-07-10T20:20:07+00:00

Does this database of personal details breach any data protection laws?

WhereProgressIsMade · 2022-07-10T17:40:56+00:00

May as well just put all men on the list since just doing something she doesn’t like counts as “abuse”. They even gave the example of just ghosting being grounds to qualify.

Reminds me of a situation I faced 20 years ago. A gal I was dating was nice enough but when I realized I would never marry her, I broke up with her. It had been about 6 weeks. Her friend left a nasty message on my machine cussing me out. Apparently in her world men aren’t allowed to break up. At least my fresh ex had better character and left a message apologizing about her friend.

CreamZebra · 2022-07-10T22:15:22+00:00

Blacklisting man has been happening in secret internet forums for years. Even before the internet, it was a trope in fiction. I'll never forget an episode of... New Twilight Zone?... Amazing Stories? ... Anyway a guy shows up for a date only to get rejected by his romantic interest as she's just reviewed an entire dossier on his dating history sent to her from a secret women's group by fax. Guessing that women's restroom walls contain all kinds of fun gossip, not to mention vitriol and lies.

Yoramus · 2022-07-10T17:11:28+00:00

People are terrorizing themselves in an increasingly isolated echo chamber.

But it's a product of our times.

Once when people were people sponsored a date for friends it was a nice courtesy to check on them and if they did something unpleasant: "did my friend behave well? Was he/she dressed well?". Friends then let their froend know if they accidentally did something wrong and tried to help them by collecting feedback.

But that's what friends do. In our alienated society lonely people just make those blacklist in panic probably without even giving any feedback to their date.

It's sad and harmful to everyone involved

TFME1 · 2022-07-10T22:17:49+00:00

Anybody want to start a list of problematic, misbehaving women?

If it's good for the goose, it must be good for the gander.

cyruszane · 2022-07-11T01:19:51+00:00

As someone who has been abused by this kind of thinking on the part of an abusive female. This is the worst thing one could think of. It has crossed my mind, many times, how I wished I had known that a girl I took out was clearly mentally ill or had ill intentions to me.

Sadly I have gotten pretty good at picking them out, the reason being.. the girl who when I was in high school did this very thing to me. Blacklisted me. To the point that friends of mine were harassed, anyone who spoke to me was harassed.

I recall being in one class, at the back of the class and this very sweet girl would talk to me every day. Toward the end of semester I could see her frustration, as time and time again she dropped giant clear hints she wanted to be asked out.. but I knew If I did she would be harassed due to this girls vendetta that never ended.

I would have this happen as an adult, but not to the extreme, when I would turn women down for dates, relationships or sex. Many women do not take it well when you shoot them down. In once case, a girl did her best to try to ruin my life, luckily for me many knew her to be a drama queen and didn't believe her lies, however most men are not this lucky.

A list like this could beg used to ruin someone's life for fun. Would I have liked a list to warn me about a few crazy, or bad women? Ones who might ghost after a dinner or blow me off after months and flake out.. maybe even be cheaters! yes I would love that, but the repercussions to the innocent are too great to have a list of that nature, for any gender or any reason.

The admins of this group, really need to see the inside of a jail cell for a little while.

rabel111 · 2022-07-10T23:18:18+00:00

Claims that this list protects women from violent and abusive men fail miserably when there is no right of reply, no due process and no fact checking by an impartial judge.

Just another twoxx rant site, where unhappy women can complain that their date for the night is not the man of their dreams. The entrenched gynocentric misandry of this group is typical of the #onlyme attitude of modern feminists.

Ferbuggity · 2022-07-10T14:29:15+00:00

I hope they enjoy many lawsuits.

gratis_eekhoorn · 2022-07-10T19:39:05+00:00

just look at those comments and their like to dislike ratios and then ask yourself, "is it really a good idea to be dating as a heterosexual male when people view you as a monster who does not deserve any privacy?"

KevW286 · 2022-07-11T11:18:23+00:00

The Star is not naming the women over concerns for their safety.

The irony

ReptilianRectangle · 2022-07-10T15:20:59+00:00

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NohoTwoPointOh · 2022-07-10T23:55:44+00:00

~~This week,~~ My name is Rafael D'Quan Rabinowitz-Fujimoto. Nice to meet you.

Ceruleanknight1 · 2022-07-11T08:00:27+00:00

This is so wrong and breach so many laws, on top of being "feeling related" instead of "factual" which is what it should be.

• Taking someone else's picture without their consent to post it publicaly along with defamatory accusation(s) should normaly be punished, this is why youtubers like BB blur the faces/names and locations before posting said dating profile picts, althought they judt read descriptions and nothing else.

• Naming someone online saying they did X without a proper investigation is also defamation.

On top, from my understanding any woman could go there to lie about X man because they don't like them or because they were rejected/what have you, but the medias sort of praises the behaviour, I just wish I could see the same being made by men for women and see what happen then with their "equality" talks.

I hope the men on that list will gather and sue these women because this goes against their basic rights.

CawlinAlcarz · 2022-07-11T14:06:18+00:00

I'm more than a little shocked that FB allows this. Yes I expect a certain level of hypocritical treatment of men, but I never expected that hypocrisy to be THIS blatant.

If someone made a FB page with a list of women like this, or some list like: "Mary Soandso fucks on the first date!" not only would it be instantly banned from the platform, there would likely be charges filed.

YaMamSucksMeToes · 2022-07-10T20:46:25+00:00

Blacklist? Sounds racist.

thejebusofsuburbia · 2022-07-10T19:56:37+00:00

It's a great idea on paper, but what it needs IMO is a list of criteria to add someone to the list

RandylVlarsh · 2022-07-10T20:45:05+00:00

I say fight fire with fire. If we can find solidarity, we can seriously show women(like this I'm totally fine with well adjusted average women) what's it's like to be TRULY alone. And alone based off of their character, and who they are

2022-07-11T02:35:57+00:00

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Title	now they're creating blacklists of men
Author	traveller1976
Upvotes	79
Comments	46
Date	July 10, 2022 2:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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