Red pill and projection

heytheredelilah91 · 2022-07-16T00:20:55+00:00

"Women want the hottest guys only" Meanwhile they just want the hottest women.

Slight_Fig5187 · 2022-07-16T00:27:02+00:00

Most of what I read in the red pill forums about women sounds totally like a man's fantasy, including this idea of the c-carousel which sounds totally gay.

Big-Bonkin-Head · 2022-07-16T00:52:14+00:00

Most people end up with 3-8 sexual partners by the time they’re settled down. Men tend to have more partners than women as well which isn’t shocking. I’ve heard or seen from women in my circle that they tend to have a few one night stands until they realize one night stands suck ass and pace themselves with said sex.

They shame women for the cock carousel but guarantee if they had the options and confidence, they’d ride the Pussy Carousel till they’re 70

ChezW · 2022-07-16T00:39:04+00:00

Women only use men but use women.

Technusgirl · 2022-07-16T03:01:28+00:00

Oh, most definitely

wasted_basshead · 2022-07-16T03:26:20+00:00

I think so because women care about emotional connection. There have been studies done where women are more hurt when men emotionally cheat and less with having sex that means nothing. While men are more hurt by women cheating via sex than having an emotional connection.

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-07-16T14:48:47+00:00

Insecure people project their insecurities onto other people, so yes.

MelissaOfTroy · 2022-07-16T21:58:27+00:00

Like imagine if we women actually had access to the cock carousel lol

Big-Bonkin-Head · 2022-07-16T00:55:36+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/c0qg49/is_the_cock_carousel_real/er9eoda/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

Here’s a pretty good comment I saw from Purple Pill about projections. I’d say this is pretty true for a lot of women around big cities at least

vcreativ · 2022-07-16T09:54:26+00:00

I like defining things, because specific definitions allow understanding, so let's define neurotic behaviour:

Neurotic means you’re afflicted by neurosis, a word that has been in use since the 1700s to describe mental, emotional, or physical reactions that are drastic and irrational. At its root, a neurotic behavior is an automatic, unconscious effort to manage deep anxiety.

From here: https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/neurotic-behavior-overview

That's RP, though this being certainly not exclusive to it. It's not about he beliefs, or about women, it's about the objects of given a given set of insecurities and suggestibility in regards to them of those that it attracts.

This is a lose definition of any movement that believes to distinguish right from wrong. In the case of RP, its population is basically made up of sexually and/or emotionally frustrated (young?) men.

They're cognitively stuck in a loop busy justifying their own neuroticisms to each other and the world. The integrity of their character depends on it, with this loop itself a subconscious effort to manage their deep rooted insecurities in regards to self-worth they project on something they feel they really want to be close to, but seem unable to, namely women.

Though it should be noted that their interest in women isn't real. At least not in the way they think. It's a symbolic hint given to the neurotic by their subconscious highlighting what they're missing most. Likely intimacy from their mother, basically the most significant woman well encounter or their parents in general.

Though if this wasn't given to the child, this is forever lost. It is then up to the adult to begin bonding with the self on their own. This is perfectly possible, but it must be understood for what it is so as to be undertaken successfully.

What is however tragic, is that in an effort to be masculine many "men" basically aim to kill their emotional sensitivity, which is akin to blinding themselves to their own needs.

It's equivalent to deciding to remove your eyes because bright lights hurt you. Emotional sensitivity isn't a weakness. It's a property that allows navigation of a non-physical and therefore much less comprehensible realm fundamental to the pursuit of joy.

vcreativ · 2022-07-18T12:56:50+00:00

Let's define psychological project real quick, I feel this holds value.

From wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection):

Psychological projection is the process of misinterpreting what is "inside" as coming from "outside". [...] In its malignant forms, it is a defense mechanism in which the ego defends itself against disowned and highly negative parts of the self by denying their existence in themselves and attributing them to others, [...] A bully may project their own feelings of vulnerability onto the target, or a person who is confused may project feelings of confusion and inadequacy onto other people. Projection incorporates blame shifting and can manifest as shame dumping. [...]

So in your example yes and no. I think a lot of RP wants to be able to be promiscuous (without knowing what that is), but ultimately fail at it. They expect that everyone wishes to be promiscuous given the opportunity, and they're projecting will to pleasure over joy onto women, regardless of their actual behaviour.

Yes, there'll be plenty other projections. I'd go as far as to say that the entire movement is projection based. Mostly, this will be caused by pain projected onto women leading to them being dehumanised in the mind of the RPer. That's why they often say such heinous things.

Astelia99 · 2022-07-21T02:48:11+00:00

If you dig deep enough you’ll discover you’re always projecting in every single situation to some degree or another, because that’s how we as people/egos actually truthfully function, from our own little reality bubbles, we like to think everyone else shares, when actually, they don’t.

doratattie · 2022-07-22T09:27:44+00:00

I definitely think this is the case at least to some extent. They project their own sexual desires and way of quantifying the world onto all women. I also wonder if there is an element of neurodiversity at play here as well. That some people struggle to thrive socially due to brain differences and as a result need to endlessly quantify and create a (bogus) theoretical roadmap they feel will help them understand and engage with others? In other words it’s a maladaptive coping strategy?

Title	Red pill and projection
Author	ZealousidealFig5
Upvotes	18
Comments	15
Date	July 15, 2022 11:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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