okay, so we're not demonizing male horniness as it's a serious issue. anyone who wakes up with morning wood on a day off knows the feeling of wanting/longing to have consensual intercourse. a lot off men like 60% of tinder profiles (while women like 5%) send horny pickup lines on tinder because there is a horny urge. women have less of a horny urge that's why when they are looking for partners they are more selective. however, "emotional vulnerable women" really need comfort + support and will have sex more often as a tool to get emotional comfort. a lot of women say men suck in bed + don't cum whereas with men it's like 90%+ chance to cum with a random stranger on a date. women prob cum like 50% with a new partner during a hookup. so from this i think what fuels a lot of sex drive for women is emotional support whereas with men it's the need to ejaculate in consensual sex.

just woke up and thought of this due to waking up with morning wood and "missing my ex". i took me a second but i don't actually miss her as a person, but miss the consistent sex + no effort in getting to meeting new women/socialising. prob going to vape cbd to chill/think a bit. this is a crude take, but i'm def understanding/considering what my needs are + moving forward. (this is a discussion despite the mods probably changing this in a bit to cmv)