You can’t have any negative opinions on men watching porn if you’ve never been a man trying to get dates/sex ,PERIOD

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-08-07T12:17:20+00:00

No rants

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-08-07T11:47:57+00:00

Nah porn is downright awful.

I say this as a virgin man.

So what should men do? Improve their lives, porn is a hindrance, and the frustration goes away pretty fast anyway so that's not really a thing.

Go on a dopamine break and let your mind handle the present instead of always being distracted.

First major reason porn is bad is because religion.

Other reasons porn is bad is that usually the regular stuff stops getting the guy off and he has to search more taboo stuff to keep getting back that high.

And when porn stops giving the high, it's just a pacifier chore keeping the guy passive in his life instead of effecting change to his lifestyle.

Also I don't know how true your claim is of porn viewing going down when a man gets sex, there's lots of stories that indicate otherwise.

These are negatives off the top of my head I'm pretty sure there have been studies with regards to the effects of porn.

goatismycopilot · 2022-08-07T12:03:51+00:00

I am confused. Why do women need to " support " men who watch porn?

Women can feel any way they like about porn. Like it don't like it, it does not matter.

People can have any negative opinions they want on a topic.

I think porn is mostly gross but that is not going to stop men from watching it.

Why men would seek out or desire mommy approval for doing so is beyond me.

throwaway264757 · 2022-08-07T12:11:53+00:00

33f here.

I assume women have these opinions on porn because they have trouble with the guys they are seeing with who view porn.

Like he can't get hard for her because she looks average and he's used to getting hard only for the giga stacys in porn. Erectile dysfunction.

Or he wants her to do degrading acts because of what he saw in porn.

These things have never happened to me though so I have no problem with it.

avoiding_a_stalker · 2022-08-07T12:02:31+00:00

You can have negative opinions on whatever you want as long as you're not a dick about it. You can dislike whatever you want, especially in a romantic or sexual partner.

On that note, most porn is absolutely disgusting. It's unrealistic, violent, degrading, and generally a poor portrayal of human sexuality. No issues with men watching porn if it's good porn (and yes, some amateur or indie studio or kink porn is decent) but most men watch absolute trash.

Radiant_Specific6542 · 2022-08-07T11:56:03+00:00

People have strong opinions on porn. For me, it's genuinely helpful because my sex drive is insatiable. I have sex on average once a day but I watch porn like 3 times a week well because sex 1 time a day isn't enough to satiate me but I can't realistically expect my fiancee to have sex more than once a day consistently. Women are built different and it's a good idea to lwt their body rest.

When I was single, I was having sex with waaaaaaay too many people at a time and porn helped me level out a bit, so I wasn't constantly exposing myself to soany different bodies and the risk that comes with that like unwanted pregnancies and diseases. I always wore protection but condoms aren't 100%. Masturbating to porn is.

Porn is fine. The people in the industry are consenting adults and they provide a service. If someone doesn't like porn, they don't have to partake.

Truth is there's a laundry list of things that makes modern women complain/unhappy. I don't care to hear it. I'm going to live my life as I see fit. If someone doesn't like it, that's genuinely not my problem.

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tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-07T12:17:35+00:00

Porn is terrible. I don’t judge men for watching it, it’s so normal that boys are watching it from age 11. It’s all they know. But porn changes your brain, it can cause isolation, aggression, insecurity etc. Nevermind how it warps your views on women and sex. Makes you enjoy actual sex less. It doesn’t stop when they get into a relationship and can ruin the relationship. It’s no different to a food addiction to me. I don’t judge men but for your own sake please watch less of it. Masturbation is great. Erotica is a good tool.

RocinanteCoffee · 2022-08-14T08:25:01+00:00

More than 70% of women and more than 90% of men watch porn and have watched it within the last few months (United States).

Title	You can’t have any negative opinions on men watching porn if you’ve never been a man trying to get dates/sex ,PERIOD
Author	EveryNizastar
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Comments	27
Date	August 7, 2022 11:31 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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