I really don’t understand where comments like this come from

If a man or a woman is going through it due to their unfortunate romantic circumstances, then these circumstances are indeed the root cause of the depression, it’s very twisted to try to gaslight them by telling them, it won’t fix their problem/life etc .

Will it fix the problems that didn’t stem from this root cause ? No it won’t, but the ones that did WILL

People were not meant to lonely, romantically or amicably. It is perfectly natural to be unhappy if one aspect is not fulfilled. If you are hungry, you eat. If you are thirsty , you drink. If you are lonely, you mate. But according to people, you need to hobbies, spirituality, therapy etc lol

Edit: most comments will talk about how you shouldn’t make other responsible for your happiness, it is NOT about that, it’s about having a balanced life, just like you need a balanced diet. If succeeding romantically ( not necessarily with one specific individual but in general ) gets rid of your depression, then you need to continue doing whatever it was that made you succeed to continue succeeding and thus continue your new found positive mindset, just like if you stop eating, you WILL go hungry again

He gets it lmao