General attractiveness

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-08-22T10:56:19+00:00

No rants

techr0nin · 2022-08-22T07:39:26+00:00

Attractive people don’t need to prove they are attractive. Their life experience will give them plenty of automatic feedback to confirm their attractiveness.

Likewise unattractive people cannot somehow jedi mind trick other people into thinking they are attractive. At least not consistently and not over the long term. The proof is in the results you get, not the other way around. The only thing you can do is to identify your shortcomings and improve it, or learn to be content with your current results.

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RonnieBarter · 2022-08-22T06:09:31+00:00

I think the best pill to take is what some could call a blackpill but some would call a whitepill, and it's that no one will come and fix the problem.

It's a matter of manning up and improving one's self. Fairness is not something to care about because it will not change for one person. So the individual must sacrifice to conform.

Drwfyytrre · 2022-08-22T06:48:00+00:00

I agree, labelling is redundant and largely pointless in all convos, let alone ones of these topics. Communication requires nuance, but the net sort of encourages reactionary stuff and simplifications. Mostly ignore the conversations that rely too much on edgy pills

upalse · 2022-08-22T07:04:52+00:00

The number #1 problem that people have is trying to prove their worth.

Depends if you wear the label as a fashionable identity statement (hello, Tumblr and TikTok!), or just drop it casually as a summary of your opinion, but otherwise don't flash it.

I agree that anyone who says IRL that they're "red pilled" is peak cringe, but what's wrong with doing it here in this sub precisely? In here, it is generally useful to know what ideology your debater subscribes to, so they don't have to explain it over and over again?

carlenvirgo · 2022-08-22T09:40:25+00:00

It has to do with needing to belong to something. If people use labels they are creating an identity for themselves. It makes them feel like they are taking a stand. The problem with a stand against the opposite gender, is that the very thing that’s being taken a stand against, is just keeping away the very thing that the stand is against in the first place, lol. They may not realize it but women aren’t attracted to guys that are resentful of them. Since there are plenty of other guys that aren’t. The guys that are the most resentful of women, aren’t the guys that will get women. If they make a decision to never commit or use women for sex, quality women that have a higher self worth, aren’t going to want them. They will be stuck in a bad place, never truly finding what they desire because they’ve just pushed it away.

Title	General attractiveness
Author	Broad_Consequence_43
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	August 22, 2022 5:56 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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