Hi guys I have a question. I’ve been talking to this man (7 years older than me) for a while. I needed a break two months ago but we rekindled after a month of not speaking. He was meant to fly overseas one weekend but wanted to go to an exhibition on Friday. He wasn’t able to make it because of the meetings he was cramming. He insisted that I go to the exhibition and take photos for him, which I did because it was fun.

He was expecting me to join the trip overseas but I didn’t feel like it, because I was tired. Last week, he asked if he could speak to my dad for mentorship. I remember he mentioned the importance of dads screening dating partners so I found the timing odd. He insisted and I told him that I’ll bring that up to my dad when he’s free.

A couple days later, he asked if he could stay with me because there’s a convention happening in dc - and that I should come with him. I accepted (he visited me during winter, I normally live in his city). He called me today to say that he’s worn out from travelling snd doesn’t feel like coming, but asked me to go to the convention and take photos for him. He said that he’ll pay for all the expenses, which I didn’t ask for because I said that I wanted to see him.

I told him that I’m on standby for a modeling gig in his city snd might be there this weekend (which would make me miss the sneaker convention). He kept on asking me if I’ll be available to see him if I do go there. I honestly don’t know what’s going on does anyone have any opinions or insights on this?